Watch "Goodbye Love 2", there was always a voice in my heart saying, "I hope someone can cure Zhang Wanting."
As the program progresses, Zhang Wanting's strong posture is fully exposed, and she has become the most eye-catching focus of the entire program.
When the two were at their most intense quarrel, Zhang Wanting said directly: "If you don't listen, I will cut off your resources!"
She was also angry and would pinch Song Ningfeng's neck with her hands.
Her strength, domineering and unreasonable make people have to vote for all sympathy for her lover Song Ningfeng.
Netizens said, "You can't stand it anymore, so get a divorce soon."
Some people also hope that someone can compete with Zhang Wanting. At this time, Yilijing appeared.
As the host, Yi Lijing is famous for "sharp-headed" and "no blinking".
In the past, everyone hoped that she could show mercy, but now everyone hopes that she can play to her strengths and have a good time with Zhang Wanting.
Please see the scene of Yi Lijing and Zhang Wanting confrontation head-on:
Yi Lijing: "Have you changed in the past two days?"
Zhang Wanting: "I would rather "dead" than surrender"
Yi Lijing: "Are you the one who talks about divorce?"
Zhang Wanting: "It's to heart."
Yi Lijing: "But don't you think he's good too?"
Zhang Wanting: "I can't stand it the most, that everyone thinks Xiao Song is good, so they must tear off his mask in public."
Yi Lijing: "But don't you think he's good too?"
Zhang Wanting: "I can't stand it the most, that everyone thinks Xiao Song is good, so they have to tear off his mask in public."
Yi Lijing: "There are really such people, right?"
Zhang Wanting: "I am your child's mother."
Yi Lijing: "You are kidnapping him with your child, and you have never thought about this before."
Zhang Wanting: "You are so poor, you are not popular, and you are incompetent."
Have this, Zhang Wanting is obviously avoiding Yi Lijing's problem. She first played the emotional card with her children, highlighting that she was a woman who sacrificed her life for him and was kind to him.
Then she belittled Song Ningfeng again, saying that he is poor and not popular, and he is not capable yet, further showing that he is superior.
The reason why Zhang Wanting makes people feel suffocated is that she can always find reasons to suppress the other party, and then show her superiority and incompetence, so the other party must surrender to herself.
This is Zhang Wanting's logic.
Yi Lijing pointed out incisively that Zhang Wanting was "kidnapping" Song Ningfeng. Perhaps she was poked into the pain, but she did not respond positively.
In fact, in this relationship, Zhang Wanting is an absolute "kidnapper".
She used her strength to kidnap Song Ningfeng's weakness. The ring she proposed was the money she paid back, and the family expenses depended on her, and Song Ningfeng's resources for filming also depended on her. What reason does he have to be unwilling to be my "hostage"?
Long-lasting love must be equal, but Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng are one in the sky and the other in the ground.
High marriage, the relationship between two people must be equal. This kind of reciprocity does not mean that the status of both parties is unchanged, but that the alternation of strength and weakness will eventually achieve balance.
, Zhang Wanting has always been strong, Song Ningfeng has been showing weakness, which will lead to the strong being stronger and the weak being weaker, and the two will become more inequality.
There are cycles of reincarnations in all seasons, and there are changes every day, and so is the relationship between husband and wife. If you realize that you have always been in the upper hand, you must lower your attitude appropriately. The weak must also learn to show their bottom line and cannot blindly be weak and give in.
Zhang Wanting's strength is certainly suffocating, but Song Ningfeng's weakness is just as anxious. Why are you willing to be controlled by her?
If Zhang Wanting is a kidnapper, then Song Ningfeng is the hostage who is willing to be tied up by her. He has not left for a long time. It is not that he has no chance to escape, but that he doesn't want to escape at all.
Zhang Wanting's desire to control is outrageous, but Song Ningfeng is willing to be "captured" by her. She can only say that one is willing to beat and the other is willing to be beaten.
If you want to continue this relationship, in addition to Zhang Wanting who needs to realize her arrogant attitude, Song Ningfeng also needs to learn to be stronger and clarify where his boundaries are.The repair of
relationship is the process of reshaping the boundaries. Only when both of them feel comfortable can a good intimate relationship be reawakened.
