In 1989, after my daughter was sent to kindergarten, Du Xian told her husband Chen Daoming: "I will be a full-time housewife at home in the future and take care of you and your daughter wholeheartedly."
After hearing this, Chen Daoming opposed his wife's statement. He told his wife: "You should have your own career, and your family cannot drag you down." The husband’s understanding has brought Du Xian into the workplace again.
In 2000, Du Xian worked at Phoenix TV , and since then she became the host and program planner. When she was successful and famous, Du Xian wanted to be grateful to someone, that is, she had always silently supported her and never let her husband Chen Daoming down.
The two have been married for 40 years, and Chen Daoming has grown from a young actor to an "old actor" in the industry. His identity is changing, but the only thing that remains unchanged is his love for his wife.
In the play, Chen Daoming is a playboy and he is very focused on acting. But outside the play, he is just a good man who "possesses his wife like life". He will give his wife a bouquet of flowers when he comes home from filming to express his deep love for her.
The romantic story between the two has never stopped...
1. Marrying her colleague's niece
1971. Chen Daoming, who was in class well, was suddenly pulled into the Tianjin People's Art Theater Propaganda Team by a group of good friends.
"Chen Daoming, you accompany us for an interview, we want to be an actor." Chen Daoming saw his friend begging, but he was not moved at all.
"I don't want to be an actor, you guys go for it yourself." My friend put his hands together and told him not to leave. He had come and went to take the exam together.
What surprised a group of good buddies was that those who wanted to be actors were not selected. Chen Daoming, a student who does not want to become an actor, was favored by Tianjin People's Art Theater.
Chen Daoming went home and told his parents about this matter. When his parents heard that, they did not object and asked him to make his own decision. Chen Daoming was a little confused. The family all studied medicine and went to learn art by themselves. The contrast is too big.
Finally, a group of good buddies celebrated that he was selected, and he made up his mind to give it a try. Chen Daoming has never been involved in performances and does not know how to perform after he goes on stage.
When the leader saw that he was too unfamiliar with performance, he would let him learn more and not think about becoming famous. In Tianjin People's Art Theater, Chen Daoming has been working on the background board for 7 consecutive years.
He has been on the stage many times, but he always stands at the end and doesn’t have a single line. When the leader saw that he was dissatisfied, he would tell him earnestly: "This line is achieved through slaughtering."
Chen Daoming nodded. He thought he would endure hard in the Art Theater for the rest of his life, but he did not expect to meet Du Xian.
At that time, in the People's Art Theater, Chen Daoming had a friend who was over teenager. He was a very capable leader. Once, while Chen Daoming was performing on stage, his colleague brought a girl to watch his performance together.
The two have a good relationship, and after getting off the stage, Chen Daoming went over to say hello. colleague smiled and held Chen Daoming's hand, looking sincere: "Your acting skills are getting better and better, I'll give you a gift."
As soon as the chapter was finished, his colleague pushed Du Xian to him. Chen Daoming felt a little moved when he saw a delicate girl. He looked down at Du Xian and found that the other party was too delicate, with fair skin and a pair of clear big eyes.
Chen Daoming looked at her and said generously: "I accepted it, can I?" colleague laughed and said to the two of them, "You said yes, then absolutely."
Facing the handsome and handsome Chen Daoming, Du Xian's ears were blushing. Her heart was like a deer bumping around. She was usually clever and could not say a word of objection.
After the two were together, they had been separated from each other. Du Xian lives in Beijing and studies in Beijing, so he cannot come to where Chen Daoming works.
However, Du Xian is very powerful and she is very independent about future plans. She told Chen Daoming that if he wanted to get out of his current predicament, he could be admitted to an art school. After further studies, no one said that his acting skills were poor.
Chen Daoming, with the encouragement of Du Xian, was admitted to Beijing Film Academy to study. Both of them are in Beijing, and they have more opportunities to meet and their relationship is becoming deeper.
Du Xian has a tough personality. The two often quarrel. If they are a little dissatisfied, Du Xian will immediately say that they will break up. However, after Chen Daoming knew his girlfriend's temper, he also had countermeasures.
My girlfriend proposed to break up today, and he will buy a bouquet of flowers to pursue her again tomorrow. Perhaps it was because Chen Daoming's way of pursuing love was too romantic, but Du Xian still fell into the love network and became accustomed to breaking up and getting together.
In 1982, Du Xian had become the host of "News Broadcast", and Chen Daoming still had no decent work. However, this does not prevent the two from entering the marriage.
2. He and his wife achieved each other. Chen Daoming became popular. In 1985, Du Xian gave birth to a daughter, and Chen Daoming was very happy. He pushed for a month's show and focused on accompanying Du Xian in confinement.
As soon as her daughter turned two years old, Chen Daoming received an invitation from the director of "The Last Emperor" to play the male lead.
"You go to the crew, don't worry about your home." Du Xian was very happy. She knew that her husband had been struggling for many years and felt so uncomfortable when she saw that she had not become famous.
Now she finally got the role of a male lead. No matter how hard she worked, she would support her husband to go to the crew.
During the filming of "The Last Emperor", Chen Daoming and his wife could only contact each other by phone. How busy they were, they would chat at night. After the filming of the
, Chen Daoming passed by the door of a flower shop when he returned home. He saw a bouquet of delicately wrapped roses inside, so he bought a bouquet and went home.
Du Xian opened the door and greeted him with a large bouquet of bright roses . "Wife, I'm back, this is a gift for you." Roses bloom with their own romance, and Chen Daoming's romance is all in the fragrance of roses.
This work is Chen Daoming's famous work. When he held the grand prize in both hands, what he was most grateful for was his wife's support and dedication over the years.
After Chen Daoming became popular, he had constant drama appointments, and he was often busy until late at night before going home. Seeing that her husband was so busy, Du Xian decided not to go to work and concentrate on taking care of his children at home.
Initially, Chen Daoming also agreed to his wife do so. But after a while, he always saw Du Xian alone and was depressed. Chen Daoming asked his wife what was wrong? The wife shook her head and said, "I'm fine, I just feel a little bored."
My daughter went to kindergarten and she was very lonely at home alone. After a long time, she will feel very depressed. She feels like a person who has been trashed.
Chen Daoming saw his wife's expression and said calmly: "Wife, I don't want the things at home to drag you down, you go to work." Du Xian looked at Chen Daoming with tears in his eyes: "Husband, I really want to take good care of my family."
Du Xian really wants to take good care of her family, but after giving up her career, she feels empty inside.
With the support of her husband, Du Xian returned to the workplace. Although she did not work on CCTV, she also began to strive for her own career.
It is reported that Du Xian asked Chen Daoming to invest part of the money, and she founded a film and television company. Chen Daoming has always been very busy at work, but when he is busy, he will take time to pick up his daughter to and from school.
When filming " Kangxi Dynasty ", my daughter was already in high school and would return to China during the holidays.
Chen Daoming was afraid that his daughter would not be used to living alone at home, so he told the director that I would take the script back and get familiar with it. When my scene started filming, I would come to the crew again.
Although this will trouble the crew, no one will care about these. As everyone knows, Chen Daoming is famous for loving his wife and family.
After getting older, Chen Daoming had some requirements for filming. He only filmed scenes around his residence, trying to go home every night.
When filming, Chen Daoming would be very attentive, but after filming, no one could be found in the crew.After filming, a director invited him to a meal, and he said: "I'm sorry, I really can't go, there are still people waiting for me to have a meal at home."
When his wife cooked, he had dinner with his wife. And his wife hasn't gotten off work yet, so he will call his wife and ask him what he wants to eat and make it himself.
After her daughter went out to school, Chen Daoming and his wife lived a happy world of two. The two often make an appointment to go out for a trip and get together with friends. Every time Chen Daoming and his wife go out hand in hand.
3. She is still in love for 40 years after marriage. Her daughter is his pride
In 2008, her daughter returned from abroad and plans to enter the entertainment industry to develop. Chen Daoming was very dissatisfied. He felt that his daughter could not endure hardships and would not last long.
Regarding this, the daughter swears: "I won't rely on you, I am me, you are you" . Chen Daoming told his daughter that if she wants to enter the circle, she should rely on her own ability and not think that he would pave the way for her.
My daughter sent resumes to countless crews, and she was rejected again and again, which made Du Xian very anxious. She asked her husband, can’t she pave a way for her daughter? Make her feel more relaxed.
Chen Daoming shook his head and said: "If she wants to do this, she must go through this."
My daughter has been working hard for several years and has only won some small roles. She gradually lost interest in this and instead invested in the film and television industry to learn management from her mother.
After the work is stable, my daughter Chen Ge fell in love. When Chen Daoming saw his daughter's boyfriend Wang Liwei for the first time, he felt that the other party was a very well-educated young man.
He did not object to the relationship between the two. Less than a year after they met, his daughter married Wang Liwei.
Less than a year, the daughter gave birth to a granddaughter. When Chen Daoming held her granddaughter, he looked at her daughter and sighed: "When I was holding you, it was only so old. In the blink of an eye, your daughter was all born."
"Dad, don't worry, I will be very filial to you in the future." Chen Daoming felt very pleased when his daughter said that.
After a year, the daughter gave birth to another son. The birth of a pair of children made the daughter busy, and Chen Daoming also loved her two grandchildren.
When there was no filming, he took his wife to take care of his daughter and two young grandchildren.
"Little baby, come and see how my grandfather did this?" Chen Daoming is skillful and likes to make toys with wood. When the little grandson saw it, his little hands crawled very quickly, and sat beside him and started playing with a small toy.
The younger grandson is less than one year old and is not very good at speaking, but every time he gets a new toy, his grandfather will keep shouting. Chen Daoming felt as happy as eating honey.
Du Xian sometimes jokes with him: "You didn't care so much after your daughter was born. You are really a relative of different generations."
"Daughter is jealous"? Chen Daoming looked at his daughter and asked his wife in a low voice, and his wife nodded. The two looked at each other and laughed loudly, with their daughter holding her mouth aside.
Time flies, Chen Daoming and Du Xian have been loving for 40 years, but their relationship has never changed.
In recent years, Chen Daoming has rarely had scandals. The only time he has had a scandal with Zuo Xiaoqing and was due to the script problem. However, for Du Xian, she will always trust her husband.
Because, bouquets of roses have proved that the husband loves her wholeheartedly.
Conclusion:
Chen Daoming once said on the show: "When I was young, I quarreled with my wife many times. Maybe it was the time when I was arguing, but I didn't quarrel after getting married."
The two of them after marriage understand each other, whether it is their education of their daughter or their respective careers. Chen Daoming understands Du Xian, who is also willing to give up his career for love.
However, the two of them found a balance point in their progress. In the end, Du Xian and Chen Daoming made considerable achievements in their respective fields.
The evenly matched love allows them to walk hand in hand through one spring and autumn after another, and welcome the years of old age.
