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"I filmed a comedy at the saddest time in my life."
This is a sentence that Yan Ni said after the divorce.
In 2005, Yan Ni was filming "Wulin Waizhi". She is humorous and carefree on the screen of
, but when she turns off the camera, she looks like she has lost her soul.
Because she was having a divorce with her husband at that time.
One is a career-oriented woman who is willing to give everything to art, and the other is a traditional man who is a military man.
This seemingly harmonious marriage is actually not so smooth from the beginning because of the different views of the three aspects.
Now, the ex-husband, who has been divorced for 18 years, has long found her own happiness, but Yan Ni has not been married yet. What has she experienced?
01
As the most favored youngest daughter in the family, Yan Ni has developed a carefree, lively and smiling personality.
Although he was born into a working family, Yan Ni fell in love with the performance "rebelliously".
Especially when she was 15 years old, she was deeply influenced by Xi'an Film Studio , which made her more determined to be an actor.
Yan Ni's parents also don't know what her daughter thinks.
Compared with her ups and downs in acting career, Yan Ni's parents want her to engage in a stable job.
Although parents are selfish, they do not block their daughter too much.
Looking at Yan Ni with a longing look on her face, the old couple said to Yan Ni with great sincerity: "Mom and Dad support your decision, but if you don't succeed, you must listen to us."
With the support of their parents, Yan Ni took the art exam as she wished, hoping to get into Beijing Film Academy through her own efforts.
Although Yan Ni is successful in her career, her figure and appearance are excellent in the entertainment industry.
But when Yan Ni was young, she looked very ordinary.
is a public face that is completely integrated into the crowd.
Therefore, after she tried the third time, the cultural course was not taken yet, and the teacher who led the team asked her to give up this path.
In the end, Yan Ni failed the art exam, followed her parents' decision and went to the financial school.
Although he stands on the campus of the Finance and Economics School, Yan Ni always has fantasies about the path of acting.
1990, Yan Ni, who was in her sophomore year, learned that a drama troupe was going to Xi'an to recruit students. The news of
made her overjoyed. After repeated ideological struggles, she signed up without telling her parents.
After layers of selection, she was finally selected successfully.
Yan Ni, who was passionate, suffered a blow as soon as she entered the drama troupe.
Because she found out that she was the rustic and ugliest one in the drama troupe.
Compared with Yin Tao , Niu Li and others, whether it is temperament, appearance, or Mandarin , it is just in the sky and the ground.
Because of this, Yan Ni has been in the drama troupe for a full six years.
During that time, he watched Yin Tao, Niu Li and others around him play the leading role almost again and again. It was fake that she didn't envy her.
While holding on to his envy for his colleagues, Yan Ni, who was unwilling to accept it, went to the Performance Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts and began to systematically learn performance.
Later, I went to the Air Political Department Art Troupe and became colleagues with Sketch King Guo Da .
But despite this, her career as a supporting role is not over.
1996, Yan Ni had long transformed from a young student to a mature woman.
5 years old, this age is an older single woman in Yan Ni's hometown.
If you are not married at this age, you will be gossiped by the villagers.
Therefore, looking at her acting career that she achieved nothing, Yan Ni accepted the blind date arranged by her family.
During that time, Yan Ni kept meeting with her blind dates, and her husband Zou Wei met during blind dates.
02
Looking at the blind dates coming and going, Yan Ni's mood has long changed from expectation to indifferent.
It was not until she met Zou Wei that she became interested in it.
Zou Wei is two years younger than her. He used to be a soldier. After retiring, he became a glorious people's policeman.
Compared with other "spoken melons and jujubes", Zou Wei's conditions are good, with stable work and healthy parents.
The first time he met, Yan Ni actually didn't have much interest, but she just felt that this person was upright and energetic.
plus when chatting with him, Yan Ni was not disgusted, so she decided to try getting along.
People in that era have simple and old-fashioned ideas. They can get married as long as they fall in love.
Therefore, two people who have never lived together and have not thoroughly understood each other's habits have received their certificates naturally.
This "sloppy" decision has also laid the groundwork for the future divorce between the two.
Marriage events have been settled, and Yan Ni has devoted all her attention to her career.
At that time, every performance was very precious to Yan Ni.
Therefore, as long as she has the opportunity to perform, she will not miss it even if it is windy or rainy, and she even takes the initiative to let the people in the group help her to take care of her.
Perhaps in the entertainment industry, Yan Ni is not a talented actor or a good-looking actor, but she must be the most diligent and hardest actor.
Even if it is a small character, she will use all her life to complete it well.
Later, a "harlemn" was missing in one of Guo Da's sketches, so he called Yan Ni.
For a young female artist whose career is on the rise, playing ugly roles will greatly limit her acting career.
But despite this, Yan Ni agreed without saying a word.
Later, the performance was a great success. Looking at the clever and studious little girl in front of him, Guo Da asked Yan Ni to follow her and go to the performances from all over the world with her.
For Yan Ni, who loves work so much, Zou Wei was still very supportive and distressed when he first got married.
At that time, whenever Yan Ni came home for a performance, he would pick her up at the station in advance.
Not only that, during the performance, he would call Yan Ni from time to time to greet him.
After the relationship heats up, Yan Ni becomes pregnant.
After she became pregnant, she had to suspend her career and take care of her baby at home.
From pregnancy to having a child, Yan Ni spent the most "boozy" time in her life.
And this period of time was Zou Wei's most dreamy and happiest time.
After Zou Qingyuan was born, Yan Ni started to go out for notice just after the full moon.
Almost all year round, except on holidays, she almost always works outside.
, and Zou Wei is almost alone in charge of all the affairs of all sizes in the family.
The time is OK, but it still makes Zou Wei feel a little uncomfortable after ignoring his family for a long time.
The two of them often quarreled over this matter.
The relationship between the two has gradually become embarrassing during repeated quarrels.
In 2004, Zou Wei, who was going home, saw Yan Ni, who was cooking in the kitchen.
He stood silently behind Yan Ni and watched her busy. After looking at her for a long time, he calmly filed for divorce to Yan Ni.
Before Yan Ni could react, he said again: "The house, car, and children are all for you, I will leave the house with nothing."
Such smooth words seemed to have been rehearsed countless times in my heart.
After listening to Zou Wei's words, Yan Ni instantly stiffened to the spot. She seemed to know the reason, but she didn't seem to know it.
Looking at her husband's firm eyes, Yan Ni knew that Zou Wei was serious this time.
She began to reflect on her marriage life in recent years. It was indeed because she had not done well enough. If Zou Wei gave her another chance, she would definitely change.
It’s a pity that in Zou Wei’s heart, she had long been sentenced to “death penalty”.
03
As the saying goes, frustrated in love and proud in the workplace.
The year of divorce, Yan Ni received the script of "Wulin Waizhi", and she refused when she gave it to her for the first time.
Later, at the invitation of director Shang Jing of , she played the role of Tong Xiangyu in "Wulin Waijie".
Tong Xiangyu in the TV series is full of joy, which makes everyone unable to stop talking.
But in reality, Yan Ni was worried and couldn't sleep all night.
Later, as soon as "Wulin Wai Chuan" was broadcast, it gained unprecedented popularity.
Yan Ni also became famous with " Tong Zhanggui ".
The booming career made her unable to take into account both things at the same time. She had no choice but to send her daughter to Zou Wei's parents.
Fortunately, my daughter is willing to live with her grandparents.
Later, whenever Yan Ni had time, she would go to her mother-in-law's house with a large bag and a small bag to visit her. During
, Zou Wei's parents also tried to get her back with Zou Wei, but it was difficult to reunite her relationship. If you miss it, you will miss it.
Yan Ni's career is developing at its peak, and Zou Wei has also set up a new family and lived the life he wants.
As the saying goes, red spirit nourishes people.
Yan Ni, who has been among the top tier, has a much higher temperament and appearance than before, and naturally there are many suitors around her.
Since the divorce from Zou Wei, Yan Ni has been exposed to three relationships, and three are siblings and brothers.
The first place is Wang Wei.
Wang Wei is 9 years younger than Yan Ni and is a student of the Shanghai Theater Academy. The two met on the crew of "Going Home".
In this relationship, although Yan Ni is older than Wang Wei, she has always regarded Wang Wei as her "spiritual leader" and admires him very much.
Although the two got along well, the relationship lasted only four years and ended without success.
The second Wang Qiming.
Wang Qiming is 11 years younger than Yan Ni. Although he is also an actor, he is outside the 18th line.
Since climbing Yan Ni, Wang Qiming has waved his hand and no longer has the intention to work, and he is surrounded by Yan Ni every day.
Looking at Wang Qiming who was eating softly, Yan Ni couldn't bear to drive him out of the house.
I thought this relationship would stop there.
But who would have thought that Wang Qiming, who was broken up, actually threatened Yan Ni with intimate photos, and even ran to her house to cause trouble.
In the end, the two broke up in an unhappy way.
Zhang Duo .
Zhang Duo is eleven years younger than Yan Ni, just like Wang Qiming, and is also an actor.
Although in this relationship, both of them like each other very much and their relationship is very stable.
But Yan Ni's attitude towards Zou Wei always made Zhang Duo feel resentful.
Although the two have divorced, Yan Ni has long regarded Zou Wei as her family over the years.
Plus the scene of their family of three living together harmoniously always makes Zhang Duo feel like an outsider.
Therefore, this relationship ended with a breakup.
Conclusion
Nowadays, Yan Ni, who is over 50 years old, has a successful career and her daughter has grown up.
Although she has experienced several failed relationships, Yan Ni always maintains a longing attitude towards love.
She just doesn't yearn for marriage.
Just like she said: "No matter what is ahead, I just want to move forward."
In Yan Ni, she may have seen the traces of life, but her character of moving forward bravely and pursuing her desire without fear has never changed.
