In 2019, when the veteran actor Lu Zhong was attending the event, she saw the manuscript that the actor Sarina was reading while speaking, and was blown back by the wind. She directly helped to support her without hesitation.
Perhaps this small move is nothing to outsiders, but it shows Lu Zhong’s good character.
Just like what she often says: "People should engrave morality in their bones. If you want to play a good show, you must first learn to be a human being."
For a long time, Lu Zhong has always been the case with his career and family.
She and her younger classmates have been married for 53 years and have always been as sweet as a passionate love, and have also cultivated their son and daughter into the pride of the Chinese people.
What trick did Lu Zhong use to make his family so happy?
Lu Zhong is now 81 years old, how is her life like?
1.
Lu Zhong was born in a wealthy family in Shaanxi.
She has had strong learning and imitation skills since she was a child.
At that time, Lu Zhong often saw his parents helping some poor farmers on the roadside.
So she also learned to help these people.
She will distribute the flour and food from her home to beggars outside, and then tell them heartily: "It doesn't matter, hard days will always pass."
She is so kind at a young age. Logically speaking, many people will like Lu Zhong very much.
But people in that era had too many hard days. They felt that this little guy in front of them was just standing and talking without a pain in their backs, so they refused her help.
This thankless feeling made Lu Zhong very sad, but she did not hold a grudge against them, but secretly put the food next to them while these people were not paying attention.
This move touched many people.
So when Lu Zhong was 9 years old, when he was about to live with his parents in Beijing, many people were reluctant to leave her.
After coming to Beijing, Lu Zhong's life changed a lot.
She began to like performance and traditional culture, so she participated in many literary and artistic activities on campus.
Therefore, Lu Zhong still had the opportunity to go to the Central People's Radio Station to participate in the program.
may be destined. Just when Lu Zhong participated in the program, he was taken by the dean of Hebei Provincial Theater .
Dean feels that Lu Zhong is full of righteousness, and his voice and acting talent are good, so he can be trained to be an actor. The news of
was very timely for Lu Zhong, and she had long wanted to become an actor.
In 1958, 18-year-old Lu Zhong entered the Hebei Drama Theater and became a formal drama actor.
18 is in adolescence.
All children of this age who enter the drama troupe basically hope that the role they play is beautiful, preferably a daughter.
, but I never expected that this theatre is famous for its "rural drama", so most of the characters are farmers.
At that moment, many new actors were very resistant and said they were unwilling to act.
However, Lu Zhong is different. Not only does she not resist, she likes this type of character very much.
Because only by interpreting these roles can we realize the difficulties in them and let more people know their hard work and sincerity.
After all, she had seen those difficulties in living at the bottom of the people when she was a child.
She is willing to play a role that no one else wants to play.
So many people in the theater think that Lu Zhong is a very strange girl.
Perhaps it is this strange and unique that makes a man notice her.
2.
1959, Hebei Provincial Drama Troupe came to Beijing for performance. At that time, the drama troupe was performing "Red Flag Score".
As one of the actors, Lu Zhong is walking towards the front desk of the dressing room.
There is a man named Wu Guiling just walked downstairs and went to the backstage. The moment they passed by, the two looked at each other for a moment.
At that moment, Lu Zhong suddenly stopped and looked back at the man in front of him. A faint voice in his heart told her: "It seems that this man has seen somewhere."
Wu Guiling on the other side also felt so familiar.
Wu Guiling felt that the girl in front of her had a unique temperament, very much like one of his elementary school classmates, but she couldn't remember the specific name.
So the two did not say hello.
originally thought fate was missed.
But unexpectedly, they met again two years later, when Hebei Provincial Theater wanted to rehearse "Thunderstorm".
Because some information is missing, the dean sent Lu Zhong to Beijing People's Art Theater to find some information.
But Lu Zhong didn't know where to find information, and just when he was dizzy, someone told her to go find Wu Guiling.
Wu Guiling was the stage supervisor of the drama "Thunderstorm" at that time.
When the two met, both sides were shocked.
Wu Guiling remembered that this is the familiar girl I met two years ago?
He subconsciously said, "I see you look familiar, and I always feel like you have seen it somewhere."
When he heard this, Lu Zhong also frowned: "I think you look familiar too."
Both sides looked familiar with each other, so they got the message right.
It turns out that they were in the same elementary school and in the same class, but the two didn't meet for a long time and didn't contact each other, so they didn't recognize each other very much. The recognition of
can make each other very excited.
Wu Guiling excitedly took Lu Zhong to the dormitory to collect information.
At that time, Wu Guiling had four roommates in her dormitory. When the roommate saw Wu Guiling bringing a girl over, everyone looked at her, and they all thought that Lu Zhong was Wu Guiling's object.
Maybe it was because of the feeling of love at first sight, or maybe it was because of the atmosphere of the roommates. When Lu Zhong returned to Hebei, Wu Guiling began to write letters to her wildly.
I have to say that Wu Guiling is quite elegant. Every letter he wrote to Lu Zhong and almost no sentence repeated.
He would tell Lu Zhong about his daily experience and wrote all the fun and happy things in his letter.
Lu Zhong originally liked new things. Looking at Wu Guiling's letter, her mood couldn't help but get better.
At first, the two still wrote a letter every three or five days, and then they directly wrote one letter a day.
This is like being addicted to writing, and the more you write, the more you get, the more you get.
So Wu Guiling fell in love with Lu Zhong without surprise.
can like it no matter how much you like it, but you can't always put your like in your letter, which is not realistic.
Wu Guiling thought about it all night and decided to take the initiative.
He asked for leave from his unit the next day, bought a bunch of gifts, and took the car to Lu Zhong's house.
Then he bowed deeply to Lu Zhong’s parents and said: "Uncle, I like Lu Zhong, I hope you agree to let her marry me."
This operation directly scared Lu Zhong’s parents, and they quickly called Lu Zhong back.
Lu Zhong was not at home at that time, and he didn't know that Wu Guiling had gone to his home.
So when she heard that Wu Guiling came to her house, she was shocked and hurriedly ran home.
After getting home, Lu Zhong was also stunned. She explained everything truthfully to her mother. The two of them had been in communication for a year and were considered "pen pals".
Later, my mother asked Lu Zhong again: "I think this young man is pretty good. If you like it, just agree to others. If you don't like it, don't hang on the other person."
Lu Zhong is a smart person. If she doesn't like Wu Guiling, she wouldn't communicate with him for a year.
So she agreed, and not long after the two got the marriage certificate . Lu Zhong was 23 years old that year.
In theory, sweet newlyweds are the most fucked moments, and it is not enough to stay together every day.
, Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling started separation mode shortly after they got married.
3.
At that time, due to work reasons, one was in Beijing and the other was in Hebei.
So Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling have been separated.
Although it hurts feelings in other places, it has become a sweet catalyst in their eyes.
Every month, as long as there is a rest day, Lu Zhong will take the train to Beijing, stay with her husband for two days, and then take the train back when she is at work.
is like this every month, almost no stop. Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling persisted for 10 years in days like
.
At that time, someone asked Lu Zhong if he was tired from running back and forth like this?
She said happily, "Why are you tired when you meet someone you like?"
Happy people will eventually meet.
Later, Lu Zhong returned to Beijing People's Art Theater and finally got together with her husband.
They gave birth to two children, son Wu Bing and daughter Wu Qing.
She used to think that work is very important, so in addition to filming dramas, she also filmed many TV series.
, such as "Plack Clothes Police", " Romance of the Three Kingdoms ", "Mother", " Detective Di Renjie ", etc.
She also won the title of Best Actress.
At that time, Lu Zhong felt that work was the whole of life, and he felt that as long as he worked hard, he would be fine as long as he became a good actor.
Until the appearance of his son and daughter, Lu Zhong suddenly added a sense of responsibility.
But this sense of responsibility is not to have high expectations for children, but to adjust how to be a good mother.
Lu Zhong was not very comfortable with the role of single to mother in the early stage.
She can’t take care of the child, and she will be helpless when the child cries and is very panicked.
When she paniced, Lu Zhong's temper became up, and she felt that everyone around her was not happy with everything.
Sometimes when you see your husband, you will find him annoying and even want to drive him away.
Once, my son who had just learned to walk accidentally knocked over the bowl of eating. Lu Zhong endured the anger for a long time and suddenly came up.
But she didn't want to lose her temper with the child. When she had no choice, her husband Wu Guiling came into her sight.
At that moment, it was like a cat seeing a mouse.
Lu Zhong pointed at Wu Guiling and was about to criticize her.
At this moment, the smart Wu Guiling used a plan.
He showed Lu Zhong a cartoon, which was made by Wu Guiling's collection of all the film and television stills of Lu Zhong.
The moment she looked at this scene, Lu Zhong was stunned for a moment.
The next second, she was moved and tears flowed.
Since becoming a mother, Lu Zhong has reduced his filming time.
used to be so busy with work, but now she suddenly has no job. There is a gap in Lu Center and a strong sense of uncertainty. She began to not believe in herself.
Later I saw this cartoon made by my husband for myself.
At that moment, she felt that she was affirmed, which was a feeling stronger than encouragement and comfort.
Watching his wife's mood gradually calm down, Wu Guiling took her hand and told her: "We will talk carefully if you have something to do in the future. I will listen carefully to whatever you say. Don't be angry. Being angry is not good for your own health."
Lu Zhong nodded and regained his rationality.
Since then, as long as something unpleasant happened between Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling, they will sit together and have a good talk.
Once, Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling had a conflict. They talked directly from the evening to four o'clock in the morning the next day.
Lu Zhong understands that if only sees other people's mistakes, always thinks about fixing others, and does not look at their own problems, then the contradiction in this problem will never be solved.
Moreover, the most taboo thing between husband and wife is not to communicate and let the other party guess their thoughts, which is the most hurtful thing about relationships.
Lu Zhong and Wu Guiling cherish this relationship very much, so they will not do so.
When facing his father's feelings, Lu Zhong chose the most comfortable path: look for it in his own way.
The same is true for the way in educating and treating children.
4.
At first, like most parents, Lu Zhong also had high hopes for his children, hoping that his daughter and son could become doctors and teachers.
Because she feels that doctors and teachers have stable jobs in this industry, good income, and can help others.
At that time, Lu Zhong had already planned the children's lives, and she had a clear idea from elementary school to university, including the major she studied.
Until one time, when Lu Zhong participated in the selection of young literary and artistic talents as a judge, he met a little girl.
The little boy is not good at dancing or singing, and it is not very good at acting.
At that time, Lu Zhong could tell at a glance that this child was not the material to learn to perform.
So she asked the little girl: "Do you like literature and art?"
the little girl shook her head with a look of reluctance.
Lu Zhong felt very strange and asked her why she didn’t like literature and art.
The little girl curled her lips and said: "My parents asked me to come. They insisted on sending me here, saying that this place would become a talent."
Hearing this sentence, Lu Zhong was stunned.
At that time, she felt that the girl seemed to be talking about her.
An inexplicable sadness stuck in my heart.
Later, Lu Zhong asked the little girl again: "What do you like to do?"
The little girl said she likes football.
At that moment, Lu Zhong found a sentence in his mind: "If she develops according to her preferences, she may not be able to do sports in the future, but she can be a good physical education teacher."
If this little girl really entered the entertainment industry according to her parents' ideas, she might not be able to develop.
Because the reason why her parents sent her in was just because of the superficial scenery, not because of the connotation.
Taking advantage of this little girl's affairs, Lu Zhong reflected on himself deeply.
She feels that it is not just herself, but also many parents from families nowadays. These parents have always had dreams in their hearts, but they have not realized it, so they want to give this idea to their children and let them realize it.
The world is so big, everyone is unique and has their own personality and future.
So there is no need to learn from others. In the industry where others make money, it may not be possible to change individuals. so children should not follow the trend, just be yourself.
After thinking about this, Lu Zhong no longer imposes his ideas on his children.
She allows her son and daughter to grow up freely. As long as it is right and does not violate the law and discipline, Lu Zhong will support them.
As the saying goes, once your thinking changes, your life will also begin to change.
As time goes by, gradually, Lu Zhong's daughter and son have also grown up.
Lu Zhong's daughter Wu Qing likes aerospace knowledge very much, so she later entered the aviation part of her work. has now become an officer, a pillar of the country and a pride of the people.
Lu Zhong's son Wu Bing entered the entertainment industry and became a big director. movies such as "The Fragrance of Bitter Tea", "The Siege of October", "The Mountain Song is Like Spring River Water", etc. are all made by him.
Therefore, Wu Bing also won the 8th China Film Huabiao Award for New Director Award and the Golden Rooster Award for Best Director Virgo nomination.
Later, Wu Bing won the right to screen at the Columbia International Film Festival one after another and the Taipei Golden Horse National Film Festival.
is so outstanding that Wu Bing also married an equally excellent wife.
She is the actress He Lin.
Since He Lin came to their house, Lu Zhong has always loved this daughter-in-law very much.
Especially after Wu Guiling passed away in 2016, He Lin's actions deeply touched Lu Zhong.
Since her husband passed away, Lu Zhong has never accepted this matter in his heart.
After all, I have been married for 53 years and have always been very loving, so when my wife left, Lu Zhong was completely unacceptable.
During that time, she no longer took on roles, and she sat alone in the room every day in a daze, neither eating nor talking.
The son and daughter-in-law want to take her out for a walk, but she doesn't go either.
is in such a state of depression for a long time and will sooner or later become ill.
Daughter-in-law He Lin felt sorry for her mother-in-law, so she reduced her work a lot and took her children to live at Lu Zhong's home.
Not only that, He Lin teaches her daughter to say nice things, tell some stories, and make her grandma happy every day.
I have to say that the little guy is also very smart. When she saw her grandmother, she smiled like a flower and asked for a hug.
Who doesn’t love such a cute child?
Lu Zhong was naturally moved by his little granddaughter. He couldn't let go of his love every day when he held his granddaughter. Over time, she also walked out of the shadow of losing her husband.
At that time, Lu Zhong always held his son and daughter-in-law and said: "You are all good children, and they are all my pride. I am old now and my health is not convenient. It is my blessing to have you by my side."
Hearing this, He Lin hurriedly hugged her mother-in-law and told her warmly: "If you can marry in, isn't it a blessing to have a mother-in-law like you!"
5.
Times have passed, and now Lu Zhong is 81 years old. As she entered her old age, she has faded out of the entertainment industry. She is living a very happy life now.
2022, she also participated in the party of " Hundred Flowers Welcome Spring ".
People are not easy to meet true love in their lives, so they should cherish it after meeting it.
Recalling Lu Zhong’s experience, I have to say that she is really a sober, moral and good actor.
Whether it is about career, husband or children, Lu Zhong is always adjusting himself to make himself better.
As she said, no matter what you do, the premise is to do the people well first.
Be a good person and cherish the present.
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