What is this "fairy love" 10 years ago?
In the play, Wang Baochuan is the daughter of the Prime Minister’s Mansion.
She fell in love with the poor guy Xue Pinggui and wanted to marry him.
But her father disagreed. In order to marry Xue Pinggui, she did not hesitate to cut off the relationship between father and daughter.
and said classic quotes: "If Pinggui's fate cannot be changed and he wants to be a beggar for the rest of his life, I, Wang Baochuan, are willing to follow him and be a beggar woman for the rest of his life."
Finally, they got married, but not long after, Xue Pinggui went to the army.
Wang Baochuan was pregnant and stayed alone in the Han Kiln. Then, news came that Xue Pinggui died in the battlefield, and the child finally had a miscarriage.
She has been in the Han Kiln for 18 years and has made a living by digging wild vegetables.
How many 18 years are there in your life?
In contrast, Xue Pinggui did not die in the battlefield, but married Princess Xiliang when Wang Baochuan became pregnant, had a miscarriage, digging wild vegetables, and eating wild vegetables.
also gave birth to two children, and they rose to prominence all the way, and later became king.
8 years later, he finally remembered Wang Baochuan.
I don’t know if it’s up to me. After seeing Wang Baochuan, the first thing he did was to test whether she was “unfaithful” first.
He pretended to be a rich man to seduce Wang Baochuan and tried many times.
asked her, "You love him so much. Why didn't you die with him when the news of Xue Pinggui's death came?"
Wang Baochuan explained one by one.
"If I were a person who was greedy for glory and wealth, I would not have cut off the relationship between father and daughter at the beginning."
"I wanted to go with Pinggui, but when I wanted to commit suicide, I found that I was pregnant with his child."
Finally, Xue Pinggui finally accepted her.
8 past smiled.
The princess of Xiliang has never known that Xue Pinggui has a first wife, and Wang Baochuan also impressed her with her virtuousness and lived a harmonious life together.
This drama was aired in 2012, and the three of them ended with a "reunion".
In the original opera, Wang Baochuan died after only 18 days of being the queen.
Writer Zhang Ailing has long complained about these plots in the opera "Red Mane Fierce Horse".
" "Red Mane Horse" meticulously describes the selfishness of men. Xue Pinggui has been committed to his career for eighteen years, calmly putting his wife in a cold kiln like a fish in a refrigerator. One day, he suddenly felt uneasy and rushed home at night.
The best years of her life have been put to death by poverty and a social traitor, but he thought that the joy of reunion was enough to compensate for everything in the past. He did not put her in her shoes-I entrust her as a queen, and fought against the princess in . Be the queen in the territory of 5! Make a living in the hands of a young, powerful concubine!
No wonder she died eighteen days after she was named the queen - she didn't have such a blessing.
But although Xue Pinggui was not very considerate of women, he was still written as a good person. "
Some people say that in the original opera "Red Mane Horse", the character is not such a love brain, and the characters' motives are also different.
But in this TV series, many plots have been adapted and even more collapsed. They have been criticized by netizens for ten years ago, and finally won a score of 4.5.
A few days ago, there was a hot search "My love brain cannot be separated from you", which included many characters named classic "love brain".
For example, Seven Fairies , she came down to earth to meet the male protagonist Dong Yong, and the two were found in love by Jade Emperor .
Jade Emperor gave them two choices:
. When Dong Yong practiced, his merits were fulfilled, the Jade Emperor saved him to become an immortal
. The Seven Fairies removed the fairy bones, abolished their magic power, and became a mortal
Faced with these two options, Dong Yong chose the second one without hesitation.
Work harder than yourself, and the two of them become immortals together. Compared to giving up the short time before us for the long-term future.
Dong Yong chose to let his lover sacrifice everything.
seems to be very loving: "My relationship with my wife is difficult to separate for a day."
But the actual efforts are not done at all.
Finally, the Seven Fairies were removed from the fairy bones and left their family.
From this perspective, many of the previous characters, Qin Xianglian, the Three Holy Mother, the Weaver Girl, etc., seem to have given their entire lives because of scumbags of all sizes.
More and more people are worthless for them.
has gradually given birth to many "love brains to persuade people to withdraw from the literature".
"I have watched this kind of drama since I was a child with my breasts and my nose and tears. No wonder I love brain!"
"Love brain needs to eat wild vegetables for 18 years."
"The neck is so itchy, and I'm going to grow a love brain. Watch Wang Baochuan digs wild vegetables for two hours"
There are many people who use "love brain" to tease themselves.
What should I do if I encounter a love brain?
——Teach her to distinguish wild vegetables.
Before these loves were called immortal love.
They seem to symbolize part of free will, symbolizing rebellion against tradition, and symbolizing breaking through the shackles of the world.
The shackles at that time were "the order of parents and the words of the matchmaker", "the matchmaking", "the prejudice of the world"...
But where did it start to be wrong?
Has the warrior who killed the dragon turned into an evil dragon?
Will the pursuit of love become a new shackle?
Things seem to have become a cycle of reincarnation, and "pursuing love" has become a kind of tradition, facing a new round of rebellion.
all talk about emotions, just like a person who drinks water, knows the cold and warmth.
Some people say that giving for love and pursuing the courage to love should not be a mistake.
After Wang Baochuan was on the hot search, Liang Yongan, a professor at the Chinese Department of Fudan University, also discussed the topic of "love brain".
He said, "Love Brain" is actually very beautiful. In the pursuit of various life values, they put feelings first. Although it seems innocent and naive, people can live immaturely and do not value gains and losses so much.
There is also a saying that has been widely circulated in the animated movie "The Little Prince".
"If you want to create bondage with others, you have to bear the risk of crying."
It was a normal thing to give for your relationship, but there was nothing wrong with this.
Everyone has their own value ranking. Some people are willing to rank love first, and this is just a personal choice.
is just when a value pursuit is amplified in our culture to become mainstream. When
was finally praised as the only highest pursuit, it was a bit dangerous.
The real shackle is that in a society, there is only a single value.
This time, the "dissuading love brain" that has been flooded with the screen is more like a kind of bottoming out of the sound after it amplifies to the extreme, and other sounds rebound.
On the other hand, behind the overwhelming anti-love brain literature, what is really against is not love.
What they object to is to lose themselves because of love.
Liang Yongan also emphasized this aspect later: cherish yourself and cherish your "love brain".
Love brain In the definition of Baidu , it is "a thinking pattern that love first. Those who put all their energy and minds on love and lovers as soon as they fall in love, we can describe him as having a "love brain."
In the entry, there is another summary, "Love brains lack a sense of security in the growth environment."
And in life, we also have a common phenomenon.
Some time ago, a "little cabbage group" specializing in seducing minors was exposed. The people in it summarized which types of people are more likely to be deceived - are those who lack love and feel insecure.
Many times, "love brain" is just a manifestation.
What they are wary of is the relationship between emotions and power that is not equal, and the strength is hugely different behind the "love brain".
After all, for some people, "love" is just their fig leaf. In the name of love, it seems that the exploitation and plunder behind it can be rationalized.
But love is the pursuit of happiness, it should be a nourishment to life, not being constantly consumed.
I hope we can all have a strong self and pursue the value we want.
Finally, I wish those who pursue love and believe in love can meet the right person, digest it internally, and cherish each other.
May we all gain healthier feelings.
