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He is the "Huazi" who moves forward bravely in "Struggle" and also the "Chu Mu" who dares to love and hate in "'s N-power ".
He was once very popular and was known as the "four-sized and small-sized " with Hu Ge, and Lin Yushen . is a recognized powerful male actor in the circle.
However, such a person with a bright future can only be revolved in supporting roles, and there is no progress in the relationship.
. The reason why this situation is actually closely related to Zhu Yuchen 's mother.
And the oppression of his mother also made Zhu Yuchen want to commit suicide for a time.
01
1988, the sun shone on the gate of Central Academy of Drama .
Another year starts the school season, and there are crowds of freshmen gathered inside and outside the door, including Zhu Yuchen and his son.
Looking at the bustling students, Zhu Yuchen felt happy because he could finally "get rid of home" and be alone outside.
However, it was not long before he was happy, and his mother's actions made him feel ashamed.
As the last person to enter the dormitory, Zhu Yuchen took the initiative to greet his roommate out of courtesy.
, while Zhu's mother looked around the dormitory for a week with a patrol look, then opened the window and said:
"There are too many creepers, it must be very insect-catching. It will be bad if you bite you. I want to burn them all to death with boiling water."
As soon as the words fell, there were a few more sighs in the dormitory.
Perhaps because he heard the roommate's surprise voice, Zhu Yuchen's mother instantly pointed the finger at the roommate.
"Class, do you snore at night?"
Such an embarrassing and straightforward behavior made Zhu Yuchen quickly stop him and sigh.
In fact, this is not the first time he has felt suffocated.
As a child born in Shanghai, Zhu Yuchen's personality looks like an "old Beijing".
When he was very young, he was very interested in Wang Shuo 's novels.
, especially the fluent , Beijing movie in the book, which made him feel refreshed and praised repeatedly.
Beijing dialect makes him feel more excited than soft and glutinous Shanghai dialect.
In addition to Beijing accent , Zhu Yuchen's temper is also as carefree and unconventional as the children in the alley.
However, no matter how long a family pigeon yearns for freedom, it can never escape the "cage" of love.
In order to train the child to be a full-scale gentleman, Zhu Yuchen's mother has been very strict with him since she was a child.
In addition to passing the cultural class, the piano must also be played.
As a person with a heart, Zhu Yuchen collapsed several times and secretly skipped class.
However, every time my mother was caught back and educated him hard.
Although my mother is very strict, fortunately, the rigorous effect has been achieved, and Zhu Yuchen's piano reached level 10.
Although Zhu's mother was very excited about this news, she was not as happy as she imagined.
Because this result is not important to him at all.
Days flicker, and the college entrance examination is coming soon.
As a person who has been influenced by Wang Shuo's books since childhood, Zhu Yuchen looked at Beijing without hesitation when thinking about college entrance examination application, and the Central Academy of Drama was his only choice.
In order to get into the school you like, Zhu Yuchen signed up for a study performance class during the summer vacation, where he met his first love Tang Wei.
As the two of them who are also sprinting to the Central Academy of Drama, they have endless dreams of talking.
Just as they talked about it all over the place, the two of them developed feelings for each other.
always gets more tired than practice, and it is no surprise that the two failed the exam one after another.
The second year, the two of them sprinted again, but this time Zhu Yuchen was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama as he wished, but Tang Wei failed the exam again.
Although the relationship between first love is sincere and beautiful, it can't resist the distance between the two places.
The two who were unable to meet for a long time ended up breaking up.
At that time, Zhu Yuchen would never have thought that his first love was one of the few independent love experiences he chose in the past 43 years.
2000, Tang Wei, who had lost three times in succession, finally stepped into the gate of the Central Academy of Drama and became Zhu Yuchen's junior sister.
Although the two got rid of the other place, they still didn't meet at the right time.
02
After graduating from the Central Academy of Drama, Zhu Yuchen did not reach the top in one step, but started his life as a supporting role like the ordinary majority.
Although he has been in multiple crews, his most popular works in the early days were " Hui Niang Wanxin ".
It was not until 2007 that his career officially improved.
In 2006, Zhu Yuchen, who was playing a supporting role, was accidentally discovered by Zhao Baogang .
As a director who guides countless classic films and makes many actors famous, Zhao Baogang is simply the "star-making myth" in the entertainment industry.
Therefore, when such a great director sent an invitation to Zhu Yuchen, Zhu Yuchen was so excited that he almost knelt on the ground. He accepted the invitation without hesitation.
As a youth inspirational modern drama, "Struggle" has caused quite a lot of heated discussions across the country as soon as it was aired.
, and the Tong Dawei , Wang Luodan , Ma Yili and others who starred in this drama also became popular one by one.
Of course, Zhu Yuchen is no exception.
In 2009, Zhu Yuchen, who had just become popular, once again collaborated with Wang Luodan and Zhao Baogang "My Youth I Make the Lord". As soon as
was released, it became popular again without surprise.
At that time, Zhu Yuchen was successful in his career, full of energy, and independent in his work. He thought he could get rid of his mother's "control", but who knew that his mother had been silently watching him behind his back.
As a literary youth, Zhu Yuchen often shares updates on his social platforms.
Later, there was a period of time, because I was too busy with work, so I didn’t update the content.
But who knows that his mother suddenly called and asked him why he didn't update the updates?
It was not until this time that he realized that his mother had been paying attention to the content on his social platform.
even bought a thick notebook to copy every update of it.
Such behaviors made Zhu Yuchen unable to bear it anymore and had a big fight with his mother. It was also from this time that he no longer shared his life as frequently as before.
Although there are endless episodes in ordinary days, life still has to continue moving forward.
After his career stabilized, Zhu Yuchen fell in love with the heroine Huo Siyan while filming "Love must be perfect".
However, this relationship did not last long and ended with a breakup.
The reason is what Huo Siyan told in the show.
Zhu Yuchen's approach of choosing a "mother" for his son was unable to accept the independent Huo Siyan.
I thought that after breaking up, my life would return to the same as before.
But unexpectedly, his mother came to Beijing alone, preparing to take full-time care of his daily life.
03
Zhu Yuchen was very surprised by his mother's arrival.
In order to let the mother know that he could take good care of himself, on the first day of Zhu's mother coming, he cooked a meal himself.
Unexpectedly, it was this meal that made Zhu Yuchen's mother cry.
She didn't understand. What did her son, who had learned to cook after clothes and food?
It was also from this day that Zhu Yuchen's mother started a life of inseparable from her son.
At four o'clock every morning, Zhu's mother gets up and prepares breakfast for her son.
She will complete all the housework before 8 o'clock because she has to ensure the lunch arrangement.
Before ten o'clock in the evening, she will finish everything to make it easier to leave time to wash clothes.
As for why you wash this time, it is half price to use electricity after 10 o'clock.
In order to allow her son to eat the food she cooks, even if Zhu Yuchen was filming in another place, she would carry an induction cooker with her to cook for her son.
It can be said that over the years, Zhu's mother has been like Zhu Yuchen's mobile kitchen, taking whatever she goes.
In 2012, a girl like light accidentally broke into Zhu Yuchen's life.
This girl is not only cheerful and beautiful, but also diligent and capable, very close to the candidate for Zhu's daughter-in-law in her heart.
But even so, the two of them still succeed and fail.
Back then, Zhu Yuchen filmed "The Story of Time" and met the considerate and gentle Jiang Yan.
Looking at the girl who was nearly perfect in front of him, Zhu Yuchen had no idea at first because he thought she must have a boyfriend.
Later, once, Jiang Yan made a plate of straw raincoat cucumber for friends in the crew, and asked Zhu Yuchen to bring it to his colleagues.
happened to be seen by Zhu's mother. Looking at the exquisite straw raincoat cucumber in front of her, Zhu's mother felt that this girl's cooking skills must be very good, so she encouraged Zhu Yuchen to pursue it.
Later, when he learned that Jiang Yan had no boyfriend, Zhu Yuchen launched an active attack and successfully hugged the beauty.
After falling in love with Zhu Yuchen, Jiang Yan, who has always been confident and generous, began to constantly doubt herself.
Is it because I am liked by Zhu Yuchen or because I can take care of others and are suitable for being a wife?
Zhu Yuchen changed the topic after he was silent every time when Jiang Yan's question was asked.
For Zhu's mother, although her daughter-in-law is her own adviser, she also meets her own requirements.
But what she was dissatisfied with was that as a star, Jiang Yan did not look like a lady from a family at all.
Therefore, if such a person is really a daughter-in-law, it is still not reliable.
Finally, with the intervention of Zhu's mother, the two broke up.
Just as Zhu Yuchen once said, he felt that if he wanted to get married in the future, his wishes would not matter at all. Half of the reason he could become was for his mother.
, and Zhu's mother never thought that her actions would affect her children's lives.
04
Zhu Yuchen has a sister named Zhu Beibei. She is a few years older than Zhu Yuchen and is still unmarried.
For so many years, she saw her mother caring about her younger brother meticulously and felt that she could not bear such a responsibility.
So I became afraid of marriage.
and Zhu Yuchen is the same.
In the past few decades of resistance, all the big and small, you have to compromise on yourself in the end. It would be better to give up resistance from the beginning and listen to your mother.
It was with this idea that Zhu Yuchen spent decades peacefully with his mother.
Although Zhu Yuchen, who is 43 years old, is still alone, fortunately his career has improved.
What will happen in the future we don’t know, but what we need to know is.
Everyone is an independent individual. Instead of confining the child in a greenhouse, it is better to let go of his hands and let him find his own sky.
Sometimes, letting go is actually a kind of protection.
