In the 2013 Spring Festival Gala, the 6-year-old Deng Minghe and his 4-year-old sister performed on stage together, which made people across the country remember this cute and playful "Spring Festival Gala doll".

The old saying goes, three years old, look at the age of seven.

means whether the future of a child is promising, and childhood is actually already visible. The cultivation of a child's childhood personality determines his life's destiny.

013 Spring Festival Gala, 6-year-old Deng Minghe and his 4-year-old sister performed on stage together, making people across the country remember this cute and playful " Spring Festival Gala dolls".

Deng Minghe

After the Spring Festival Gala became famous, Deng Minghe became a household name child star and a prodigy. Merchants who liked his huge potential came to him for endorsement. However, Deng Minghe, who was in glory for a while, suddenly suffered from leukemia . After fighting against the disease for two years, he passed away with unfulfilled wishes and the pain of his relatives.

After Deng Minghe passed away, many netizens who like him felt sorry for him and could not help but question:

Is his death related to his parents' exploitation? The original cure rate was 50%, so why did he endorse the filming as soon as his condition stabilized?

Did your parents regard him as an ATM and a money tree?

Faced with overwhelming doubts, the Deng family could not hide their debts and huge longing for their son.

The younger sister who has been inseparable from her brother since childhood Deng MingluCrying all day after her brother passed away.

With the company of his family, Deng Minghe passed away, his sister also appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala again.

An ordinary family has two opera prodigy, one has broken down early, and the other has a promising future. What kind of joys and sorrows have happened to this family?

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1, a 4-year-old little genius who can perform on stage and perform in the opera

Liu Zhaoyan and her husband Deng Zhiwei are both farmers in Daming County, Handan City, Hebei Province. After getting married, they lived with their parents-in-law.

In June 2006, she gave birth to her son Deng Minghe, and in 2008 she gave birth to her daughter Deng Minglu. Although the whole family is not rich, they are both strong and healthy, and are surrounded by warm and happy all day long.

After Liu Yanzhao gave birth to her son and daughter, she entrusted the child to her parents-in-law for taking care of her. She and her husband embarked on a life of working outside.

Deng Minghe's grandfather was a pipa hand of Daming County Henan Opera Troupe when he was young, and he played the pipa well. Later, he opened an agricultural supplies store with his wife.

He usually likes to listen to opera, especially Henan Henan opera , and sometimes he also plays and sings and hums the previous song.

When Deng Minghe was only a little over one year old, his grandfather discovered his talent in drama and guided him to develop in this regard.

Grandpa likes to watch drama TV programs. Xiao Minghe acts more obsessed than grandpa. He always stares at the TV screen intently until the show is over. He is still unsatisfied.

Grandpa’s photos when he was young

Under the careful cultivation of his grandfather, Xiao Minghe began to follow his grandfather to perform on stages of all sizes in the county or villages. Grandpa was instructing the audience, and Deng Minghe sang along on stage.

The little guy sang loudly and well-likely, which attracted cheers from the audience below, and they called him a little prodigy.

When Deng Ming congratulated him for three years, his grandfather felt that his guidance could no longer allow his grandson to absorb more nourishment.

At the same time, he also believed that his grandson's potential was more than that. He should go to a more professional and broader stage, so he began to plan to send him to school.

After some inquiries and comparisons, in early 2010, my grandfather brought his grandson to an art school in Huaiyang County, Henan Province and began to receive formal opera education.

Half a year later, Deng Minghe became a dazzling little star. The following spring, Deng Minghe's grandfather asked his wife to close the agricultural supplies store and bring her granddaughter Deng Minglu to Huaiyang to learn opera.

Just like that, the four grandparents and grandchildren stayed away from their hometowns to learn opera and rented a living near the school. The brother and sister get up early and go to bed late every day to learn opera and practice.

Grandpa and grandson

Both brothers and sisters were reunited again, and they were very happy. Deng Minghe also became a teacher for his sister, with his eyes, walking posture and movements in a decent manner.

When you wake up every morning, both children have to practice their throats. The brother is in front and Xiao Minglu is in the back. The brother demonstrates to her. Minglu is like her brother's "follower". She is wherever her brother is.

With the careful care and company of grandparents, and the admiration and trust of sisters, Deng Minghe's learning has made rapid progress.

Teacher also found that this child is not only diligent and studious, but also very talented. He often knows how to teach only two or three times. So, after only three months of studying at school, the teacher signed him up for " Liyuan Chun ". Deng Minghe appeared on the "Liyuan Spring" program, which is well-known to Henan people, and won the champion of this episode.

This program was once a must-see for each episode of Grandpa and Deng Minghe, but now it has become the champion standing on the field. From then on, Deng Minghe started his acting career. Not long after

was on "Liyuan Spring", Deng Minghe actually received an invitation from the Beijing CPPCC Auditorium. In this state banquet-level performance, he became the youngest inheritor of Henan Opera.

Go on stage to sing the opera

One minute on stage, ten years of hard work off the stage. The performance on

seems to be a quiet performance on the stage, but in fact, I have experienced countless tortures and sweating in the audience.

Deng Minghe is like this. He is not afraid of hardships at a young age. He always strives to do his best in every move and song and never be lazy. His sensibility and diligence sometimes make his grandparents feel sad.

In 2012, Minghe participated in the CCTV Year of the Dragon Spring Festival Gala as a "doll opening".

His outstanding performance attracted the attention of the leaders and teachers of the Beijing Opera and Art Vocational College. They rushed to the Deng family and agreed with their parents to accept Minghe as the school's targeted training students, and arranged Minghe and Minglu to study at the Fifth Primary School of Xiluoyuan in Fengtai District and Fengtai District Aerospace Kindergarten.

siblings

Just like that, the siblings came to Beijing with their grandparents.

When children of the same age were still acting coquettishly in their parents' arms and crying for a toy, Deng Minghe had received countless flowers and applause.

But he was not proud and studied harder under the strict requirements of his grandfather.

Hard work pays off.

In July 2012, the brother and sister received an invitation letter from director Ha Wen at the CCTV "I want to go to the Spring Festival Gala" selection competition, and then participated in the 2013 Spring Festival Gala. "Cutting Flowers" performed by the brother and sister became the most cheerful program that night, known as the "New Year's Painting Doll" and became popular all over the country overnight.

Deng Minghe was less than six years old at this time, but he had the reputation of others for the rest of his life. Of course, this is also achieved through his hard work.

Deng Minghe, whose value has soared, is highly favored by major merchants. Because his grandparents were in such a difficult time running around the country, his parents stopped working and accompanied his son to participate in commercial performances everywhere. The economic situation of the household has also been greatly improved.

Maybe even God is jealous of the great happiness of this family! A bad luck suddenly fell from the sky, causing the happiness of this family to fall from the sky to the ground.

Deng Minghe

2. Brother, come back

013 Spring Festival, the Deng family and the whole family gathered together to spend the Spring Festival.

But Deng Minghe, the total feels that I am getting tired more and more often, and I have low fever , and I have no appetite.

In fact, he felt uncomfortable before participating in the Spring Festival Gala. At that time, his family thought he was catching a cold, so they prescribed some medicine and it would be better as soon as they took it, but they had a fever again after stopping the medicine.

It was not until the evening of the fourth day of the Chinese New Year that my grandfather found that his face was as pale as paper and he panicked.

The next day, his family quickly took him to Daming County Hospital to do a regular blood. The results showed that all indicators were abnormal, and the doctor suggested that they transfer to the hospital immediately.

The family was very anxious. The family of six rushed to Beijing Children's Hospital that afternoon. The result was like a bolt from the blue: acute myeloid leukemia, and needs to be hospitalized immediately!

The family had no time to be sad, so they immediately arranged for Deng Minghe to be hospitalized for treatment.

Deng Minghe, who was hospitalized for treatment,

, but the huge medical expenses made the whole family frown. Fortunately, fans of the drama who like Deng Minghe learned that he was suffering from such a serious illness at a young age, and they all extended a helping hand to donate money and materials. Two companies in Beijing donated 2 million directly to him.

Everyone prays that Xiao Minghe can pass this level and defeat the disease.

After less than half a year of treatment, Deng Minghe's condition was finally under control. The doctor said that as long as the recurrence does not occur within three years, it will be completely cured. The whole family finally breathed a sigh of relief.

August 13, 2013 is the day when Deng Minghe was discharged from the hospital. The doctor told Deng’s mother:

Never work hard, let the child rest more. Restoration is the first priority for the first time of recovery from a serious illness. You should not take it lightly. It will be considered that you will not recur within 3 years.

With the doctor's advice, Deng's mother and her son returned to their hometown together.

My sister Minglu curiously touched her brother's bald head, hugged her brother tightly, and cried:

Brother, Dad said you have suffered a lot after being hospitalized for half a year. I miss you every day, and we will never be separated again. We will learn opera together and sing opera together!

Deng Ming pulled his sister and said:

We will never separate again...

However, just when the family thought that their son would recover smoothly and the brother and sister would be as bright as before, bad luck once again came.

Grandparents and grandchildren

After Deng Minghe was discharged from the hospital, the outside world thought that he had recovered. Because his popularity was too high, he was deeply loved by many viewers, and some programs extended olive branches to him.

But his parents might have taken it lightly, thinking that their son might have recovered from his life, and forgot the doctor's advice that he must rest, so he took on these programs for his son.

So later, many netizens criticized Deng Minghe's parents for treating their son as a money tree just to make money.

Deng Minghe was discharged from the hospital on August 13 and participated in the rehearsal of a satellite TV station's Mid-Autumn Festival Gala in September.

He had not recovered from his serious illness and performed the Henan opera "Send the Moon from afar" with his sister Deng Minglu at the Mid-Autumn Festival Gala.

On stage to perform

Soon after, Deng Minghe developed weakness and pain all over his body.

Some viewers saw that Deng Minghe was abnormal and kindly asked him to pay attention to rest.But his mother said it was okay, his illness was cured...

After Deng Minghe participated in the filming of the movie "The Adventures of the Little Dragon Man".

Performance photos

Maybe it is the physical weakness caused by the continuous struggle, so that the disease will take advantage of the situation again.

After filming the movie and participating in some commercial performances, Deng Minghe again developed symptoms of high fever, pale face, weakness and pain all over . His parents panicked and quickly took their son to the hospital for examination. They suddenly burst into thunder: leukemia has relapsed!

The doctor said that the recurrence of the disease was fierce, and the only treatment method was bone marrow transplantation.

After matching type check, Deng Minghe's father and he bone marrow matching successfully. Immediately afterwards, the doctor successfully performed a bone marrow transplant on the father and son.

However, things are unpredictable. Three months later, Deng Minghe developed a severe rejection reaction and was soon critically ill.

On April 28, 2015, Deng Minghe passed away with infinite nostalgia for this beautiful world.

This little life, which once shined on the stage, regretfully freezes at the age of 8. After the news came out, it caused extreme shock to netizens.

He is so young and strong. He follows his grandparents to study opera in another place at a young age. He never complains about being tired or tired. I always practice boring opera day after day, and being sensible makes people feel distressed.

When he was hospitalized for chemotherapy, he endured the unbearable waist piercing of adults every time, but never cried, giving his parents confidence and sunshine.

He had just recovered from a serious illness, but obediently obeyed the arrangements of his parents and continued to show his light and heat on the stage, bringing hope to his family...

Cute child

After Deng Minghe passed away, the whole family was even more heartbroken, especially his sister Deng Minglu, who was waiting for his brother to come back day and night, but lost his brother forever...

Sister Minglu

3. Is the death of the child the responsibility of the parents?

The sudden death of a dazzling star made countless viewers and netizens who like him feel sad and regretful, and also began to speculate and question:

His death may be caused by the squeeze of his parents!

Deng family was immersed in the pain of losing Deng Minghe for a long time and could not extricate themselves.

Grandpa, who is over 70 years old, cried heartbroken every night. After all, this is a child he raised. When his parents gave birth to him, they went out to work. He became famous and talented, and their parents came back and took him to perform everywhere. But now, the grandson who depend on each other is always separated from him.

Grandpa

Deng Minghe's parents also griefed in front of media interviews and admitted that it was indeed their own problem and did not care about their children well.

The parents' sad tears cannot overwhelm the accusations of netizens who like Deng Minghe across the country. Everyone said that the couple was too profitable. They knew that their child was weak after recovering from a serious illness, but they forced him to perform everywhere.

Some netizens even pointed out in grief that their husband and wife are vampires, gnawing tribes, etc.

Some people say that he is "boy's life", and he left after repaying his parents' kindness.

Whether the child died of overwork or was he unable to recover from his old illness.

The little protagonist

In fact, whether it is the fate of the child or the artificial factors, his parents have an unshirkable responsibility.

Some people may say that this child is too sensible and he is willing to perform.But let me ask, what age does a child know how to use his cell phone? If his parents were not his agents to take on the commercial performance for him, would he perform by himself?

Now, no matter how much tears you have, you can't get back that smart, cute and sensible child. All your debts turn into regret and accompany you for your whole life.

After Deng Minghe's death, her sister Deng Minglu cried all day long. For the six-year-old, she didn't understand what death was. She only knew that she would never see her brother again...

In front of her brother's grave, it was dark and she refused to leave. She kept crying and kept saying:

Brother, you have made a promise that we will definitely play in every Spring Festival Gala together! But why do you never wake up again after sleeping?

Maybe you already understand that the day when that beautiful vow will never be realized.

brother and sister

Deng Minglu began to reject opera after her brother passed away. As soon as she listened, she burst into tears, let alone rap.

And my grandfather was extremely sad, and he didn't even have the heart to live, and he didn't have the heart to take his granddaughter to learn opera.

Looking at the innocent and promising little girl who was immersed in the grief of losing her brother all day long, she was sad. Her parents tried their best to comfort and accompany her, but there was no improvement at all.

The school teacher also felt sorry for her and wanted to help her get out of the shadow as soon as possible. But she couldn't sing a word, and she choked up as soon as she practiced her voice...

A friend of Grandpa Deng Minglu said:

Your granddaughter's emotions are too sad. It will definitely not work if this continues. The child's future is still long. You must help her get out, otherwise how can she go in the future?

Grandpa agreed, but he himself could not get out of his sadness. He cried when he mentioned his grandson. The whole family's life was in a mess. How could he comfort Minglu?

After repeated consideration, my grandfather decided to wipe away his tears and must be strong first. He cannot cry when he thinks of his grandson. This will play a leading role and prevent the whole family from falling into sadness.

Grandpa

Finally, under the care of grandparents, parents, school teachers and classmates, Deng Minglu finally gradually got out of her sadness and expressed her willingness to continue learning dramas.

She took a picture she gave to her before her brother first appeared on the Spring Festival Gala. The picture shows two children dancing hand in hand.

Brother tells her: These two children are brother and you. Look, brother always holds your hand. With your brother here, you don’t have to be afraid of anything!

She held the painting given to her by her brother, and she burst into tears again:

Brother, I am no longer afraid, I will continue to learn, because I know that you like singing Henan opera, and I will sing with your wishes!

Brother and sister

4, another shining star is bright

With the help of the teacher, Deng Minglu's condition is getting better and better day by day.

Since her brother passed away, she has never spoken and sang on the show. She listened to her granddaughter sang a few excerpts of " Chaoyanggou ". Although she hadn't sang for a long time, her every move was still quite charming. Grandpa listened and burst into tears.

At the beginning of 2016, Grandpa Deng Minglu and Henan Opera master Ma Jinfeng , the apprentice of Mr. Liu Bing , jointly established the Beijing Lanfeng Children's Star Art Troupe, and Liu Bing became Deng Minglu's Henan Opera teacher.

At the same time, Beijing Peking Opera Theater famous artists Zhang Ping teacher is also willing to teach Deng Minglu.

Under the careful guidance of the two teachers, Deng Minglu made rapid progress.

This time, Deng Minglu's parents learned from their son's lessons and did not let their sister take on more commercial performances like their brother, but instead learned Henan opera steadily.

In 2017, Deng Minglu participated in "I want to go to the Spring Festival Gala" and got tickets to the Spring Festival Gala. Deng Minglu sang a heroic and grand song "Mu Guiying Takes the Commander" on the Spring Festival Gala, and everyone applauded and applauded thunderously. At that moment, she fulfilled her promise to "go to the Spring Festival Gala again" with her brother.

Deng Minglu wrote on the Internet:

: Grandpa said, you can hear every play I sing in the sky, brother, have you heard my voice?

021, Deng Minglu appeared on the Anhui Satellite TV Spring Festival Gala and performed the sketch "One Door Separation".

One day, Deng Minglu, who became more cheerful day by day, said to his grandfather one day:

Grandpa, when my brother was sick, many kind-hearted people helped our family, and I will help more people like them in the future.

Grandpa said with deep relief after hearing this: Okay, let’s do more good things in the future and help more people.

After that, Deng Minglu will participate in some charity activities as long as she has the chance.

At the same time, she also worked very hard and was admitted to the Affiliated High School of the Chinese Academy of Drama with excellent results, fulfilling her and her brother's wishes.

At the same time, she was honored to be named the public welfare image ambassador of Beijing Starlight Fund;

China caring for the next generation of public welfare propaganda ambassador;

"China Children's Songs List·Chinese Role Model Child Star" Best Inspirational Child Star Award ⋯

My sister has grown up

022, Deng Minglu has grown up to be a 14-year-old graceful girl. She wrote online:

The longer my brother has been gone, the longer I miss him. In the past, I was always like my brother's follower, and I couldn't do anything without my brother. It was my brother who took me to learn opera, record programs together, and always took care of me.

Since my brother left, I have to rely on myself for everything I do without my brother’s company. From then on, I have no support from my brother. Whenever I dream of my brother when I sleep at night, my brother pats my shoulder and says to me: Don’t be afraid of anything, I have my brother here. My brother has always been a good role model and a good partner in my mind. It was with the help of my brother that I achieved what I am today. Brother, have you seen everything today in heaven?

Grandpa and granddaughter

at the end:

The great writer Su ShiWritten a poem "Washing the Son":

Everyone adopts sons and hopes to be smart,

I was ruined by intelligence for the rest of my life.

I hope my child will be foolish and rude, and

will be free from disasters and difficulties.

means that everyone wants their children to be smart when giving birth to children. But what are the benefits of being smart? It was because of my intelligence that I was ruined by my whole life. I just hope that my son will be stupid and slow, and will be a minister without disaster or disaster.

Su Shi's sentence "I hope my child will be foolish and rude, and will be at the ministers without any disasters or difficulties." The earnest love for his son comes from the heart, which is really touching.

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I wish Minglu can fly higher and farther under the care of her grandparents and parents, and may she soar in the free blue sky with her brother's wishes.

At the same time, I also wish all children to live a happy and worry-free life of " grass is spread across the wilderness and the flute is playing with three or four evening breezes. After returning home, you will not take off your straw raincoat and lie on the bright moon ."