In the most popular years of sitcoms, Ge You , Liang Tian and Xie Yuan were called the "Three Musketeers of Comedy".
In life, several people are also very good friends.
Ge You is an unswerving Dink family in the circle. Xie Yuan was once depressed because his wife didn't want children.
or Ge You moved Xie Yuan with emotion and reason, which made him dispel the idea of having a child and gradually opened up.
The two of them made an appointment to keep DINK.
Once asked by the host on a variety show: "Have you ever thought about retirement?"
Xie Yuan also said with ease: "I think that people live are alive, and die if they die." is that simple, without so many concerns.
Result When he was 61 years old, Xie Yuan unfortunately died of a heart attack. Except for relatives and friends, he had no children to send him off, and even a mourning hall was not set up.
In the more than two years since he left, I wonder what kind of living conditions his wife Qiu Yue, who is 17 years younger than him, is like?
Do you regret the decision you made at the beginning?
The low-key big shot
Xie Yuan is a low-key person and is very modest in the entertainment industry, so he is a well-known good relationship.
Chen Kaige once said: "There is nothing that I don't like when I know Xie Yuan."
Ge You also said nostalgically in an interview: "There is no one who is happy to be together."
Xie Yuan, who is already in his sixties, has entered the ranks of the elderly with one foot, but he is not convinced at all, and is even more dedicated than many young people.
According to the staff of the same crew, Xie Yuan was still working on the set the day before his death and was filmed until two o'clock in the morning.
He was born in a family of Manchu intellectuals in Beijing. Under the influence of the environment, Xie Yuan has always had high requirements for himself.
Xie Yuan's biological father's surname is Song, and his name should have been Song Yuan.
But when he was two years old, his father died unexpectedly. Later, his mother took Xie Yuan to remarry and married an honest man. He treated Xie Yuan as his own, so he changed his surname to "Xie" with his stepfather.
19 years old, Xie Yuan graduated from high school. Because no one at home is engaged in the art industry, he did not consider this at all.
is still his teacher who thinks he has a strong desire to perform and is very suitable for learning performance. He personally took him to Beijing Film Academy .
That year, Xie Yuan and Zhang Tielin and Zhang Fengyi became classmates.
During his time at school, he has always been a sensational figure in the school and a pistachio in the class.
In an interview program, Xie Yuan's former classmates recalled:
"When we went to school, Xie Yuan's imitation ability was obvious to all. He often imitated teachers when he was over, and sometimes he didn't even need to say a word. Just walking from the door of the class to the podium, we can know who he was imitating."
1983, as graduation approached, the school gave their class a place to stay in school to teach. Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Tielin wanted to get this place, and the competition was fierce.
When the interview session was reached, the two of them failed because they were too introverted. Instead, Xie Yuan, who had always been low-key, made the interviewer laugh and kept it with the score of eleven teachers who passed the votes.
Anyone who knows Xie Yuan knows that he is quite comedic and everything in life is told as a joke by him.
Ge You once said to him: "Telling jokes is a special master. Because of his humor and high-end, he can laugh at me when he is savored. I have never seen the second one yet."
However, although he is humorous and speaks carelessly, after becoming a teacher, the students were afraid and respectful of Xie Yuan and named "Spicy Teacher".
Because his teaching style has always been strict, he can be seen standing in front of the teaching building every day. As soon as the class bell rings at 8:1, no one can go in again.
rigorous teaching style has allowed him to teach many powerful people, such as Yu Nan , Zuo Xiaoqing , Sun Li , etc. Many people are particularly nervous even when they see Xie Yuan again after becoming famous.
Once a host asked him why this was, Xie Yuan smiled and replied:
"The audience treated them as male gods and goddesses, but for me, they made mistakes and jokes, wearing slippers and bare-faced sloppy looks!"
After work gradually stabilized, Xie Yuan also made progress in his relationship.
The child's heart knot
The teacher who personally took Xie Yuan to college suddenly contacted him one day and said that his friend's daughter was preparing to apply for the Beijing Film Academy and hoped that Xie Yuan could help with tutoring.
Xie Yuan dared not respond to the entrustment of his mentor, but he did not expect that he would have made a marriage by helping him.
This girl is Xie Yuan’s first wife.
When he first met Xiaolin, he was deeply attracted by the beautiful and tall girl in front of him.
Xie Yuan spent a lot of effort on tutoring, but perhaps he was secretly promising that he was unwilling to put down his burden in front of his sweetheart.
Xiaolin couldn't let go of her performance, and she failed to get into Beijing Film Academy . Finally, she went to the hospital to work as a midwife nurse.
However, during frequent contact, the two people who had just started to fall in love with each other.
entered the palace of marriage in 1984.
Speaking of which, Xie Yuan’s resistance to his children is probably the cause and effect laid by his first wife Xiaolin.
The two people are still loving in the early stages of marriage, and they will consider each other for each other.
At that time, Xie Yuan was not assigned to the house, so he lived with his wife at the house of his father-in-law and mother-in-law. The old couple were kind and kind, treating him as their biological son.
A neighbors said bad things about him, and my mother-in-law shouted to the neighbors at the door of her house: "Whoever dares to talk about my son-in-law again in the future, I will fight with anyone else!"
Xie Yuan had no worries, so she worked hard all her heart and took on filming and TV series while teaching.
Since 1981, Xie Yuan's fame has gradually become popular in the film and television industry, and has participated in many film and television dramas such as "One and Eight", " Children's King ", "Breathing", and won the " Golden Rooster Award " Best Actor Award.
After becoming famous, Xie Yuan often went out to film and left for three or four months.
It was the period when his career was rising, but his wife was pregnant.
At that time, Xie Yuan had not returned home for more than four months when he went to Guilin to film.
Xiaolin feels it is too difficult to raise a child by herself. In addition, she works in the midwifery room every day, and watching the pain mothers experience during giving birth, she is really a little afraid of having a child.
So Xiaolin went to undergo induced labor without discussing with Xie Yuan.
I thought about this and went through secretly, but when I returned home from the hospital, Xie Yuan happened to come back.
He asked his wife in disbelief: "What a big deal, why don't you discuss it with me?"
But now that things have come to this point, it's useless for Xie Yuan to get angry, but there is a gap between the two people because of this matter.
When there is the first crack in a mirror, there will be a second and third one soon...
Xie Yuan has been filming for a long time, and there are fewer people together and fewer people are separated and there are fewer conflicts, and there are more and more conflicts.
In 1992, Xie Yuan and his wife divorced peacefully.
He moved out of his father-in-law's house and returned to the employee dormitory of Nortel .
The "frustration" of marriage made Xie Yuan extremely depressed, but this made him usher in the peak of his career. After the "Golden Rooster Award",
won three awards, "Hundred Flowers", "Flying Sky" and "Golden Eagle" and became the "Four-master Award".
Looking at the entire entertainment industry, among the male actors, there is only , Li Xuejian, , among them, among them, who can win the Grand Slam actors.
Later, domestic TV series suddenly turned against the wind and began to usher in a golden period.
Xie Yuan also began to fight among them. It was during this period that he formed a deep friendship with Ge You and Liang Tian.
Even though he has achieved extraordinary achievements, Xie Yuan never acts arrogantly during class, takes students step by step to rehearse homework and study scripts, and often invites big friends to teach.
Therefore, people often find ways to come to Zeng Xieyuan's class.
says that talent can be used as a food. Xie Yuan's talent can not only be used as a food, but also found two wives for himself.
decides DINK , and his beautiful wife regrets
Xie Yuan and his second wife Qiu Yue met in 1996. During the filming of the movie "Love Fool", he was attracted by the other party.
However, Qiu Yue didn't know him since then.
Qiu Yue was 17 years old and was admitted to the director of Beijing Film Academy, but she was eager for actors, so she always took Xie Yuan's performance class in her spare time.
It was not until three years later that the two had the opportunity to cooperate, and Qiu Yuecai finally spoke to Xie Yuan.
The young Qiu Yue is cheerful and generous, and often takes the initiative to ask Xie Yuan for questions.
After a long time, she discovered that in addition to being funny, Xie Yuan was also a person with rich knowledge and noble heart. He inevitably felt some admiration and a little admiration in his heart.
How could Xie Yuan, who had already experienced a marriage, not feel Qiu Yue's deep love, but because of the last marriage, he always chose to escape.
Such an ambiguous relationship lasted for a year, and Xie Yuan finally couldn't help but face it. After all, Qiu Yue was still young and could not delay others.
"I am 17 years older than you and have divorced. Don't you care?"
Qiu Yue didn't hide it and said directly: "I like you now. Age is not a problem, and things in the past are not important."
In this way, the two finally confirmed their relationship and got married in 1998.
After marriage, the couple not only sings in their lives, but also progresses in their careers.
With the help of Xie Yuan, Qiu Yue has appeared in many TV series such as " Prime Minister Liu Luoguo ", "Swallow Li San", " Journey to the West ".
At the beginning, they agreed to work hard first and not have children.
But after Qiu Yue had time to prepare for pregnancy, she found that she could not get pregnant no matter how much, and she was hit hard by this.
Xie Yuan also understood this, but he couldn't help feeling a little disappointed.
But for the sake of his wife, he still convinced himself and slowly let go of his obsession.
Xie Yuan also joked with his friend Ge You that he is now DINK and goes to the nursing home together when he is old.
Even though they have no children, the two of them have been lovingly for more than 20 years and have become "model couples" in the entertainment industry.
Many people envy the free and easy things of the two, and of course there will be some gossip.
In response to this, Xie Yuan also responded specifically in a program: "It's not that I can't have children, and my partner is fine, and there are no physiological defects."
Then, for why he didn't have children, Xie Yuan gave a very macro answer:
"Today's world, there is already a population of 7 billion, and China has a population of 1.5 billion. Each person will consume about 50 tons of other things after birth. The population problem is very serious. Teacher Xie saves a place to give to those in need."
Finally, he bluntly said that he is not worried that no one will take care of him when he is old.
As a result, he became a prophecy. Before he could reach the point of retirement in his old age, he died suddenly and left the world early.
Xie Yuan's life was frozen in that summer. Before leaving, he told his wife to keep everything simple, not to set up a mourning hall or hold a memorial service.
Now, two years have passed, I wonder how Qiu Yue is alone?
The sudden death of her husband was undoubtedly a huge blow to Qiu Yue.
For a long time, Qiu Yue would always wake up from her dream. After waking up, she could only look at the empty room and sit until dawn.
With the encouragement and support of her family and friends, she slowly got out of the pain and found the direction of her life in her beloved career.
Now, she is only 46 years old and there is still a long way to go in life.
Perhaps in one long and quiet night after another, she regretted not being able to have a child with Xie Yuan.
But there are some things that you miss, if you miss it, you miss it.
