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After two years, Lin Chiling made a public appearance and officially announced her comeback.
She was wearing a white dress, with long soft hair, a pretty figure, and her mouth was still the baby sound in her memory, and she was still so gentle and elegant~
But after looking carefully at the scene pictures, I found that Sister Zhiling's face was a little wrong. The eye socket is concave, and it looks like , Elva Hsiao, . There is indeed a certain gap between
and the peak period when it is brilliant.
Although Lin Chiling is not good in appearance, she is very fierce in eating.
regained lost ground with all its energy, quickly revitalized business resources, and arranged the work full:
New book launch conference on October 9, brand endorsement event on the 12th, Kurosawa Ryohei relay watch new product launch conference on the 14th, and Longines' 190th anniversary celebration for 16 years of endorsement on the 20th.
(Hublot HUBLOT, which is collaborated with by my brother-in-law, is said to be several times the cost in Japan)
I gave birth to a baby at the end of January this year. Including lactation and body recovery period only 8 months, is it necessary to carry out work so hard, does Lin Chiling want to do this?
Impression, the last person who had a sunken eye socket and had a tired look after giving birth is still Zhao Liying .
Regarding the return to Taiwan, Lin Chiling's explanation was to accompany her mother who was unwell. After settling in Taiwan for a long time, her husband started working mode of flying between the two places, just like the Wang Xiaofei of that year. That's right, this sounds even more unsettling...
Kurosawa Ryohei , known as Japan's "national veteran artist". It is logically incomparable to Wang Xiaofei. He doesn't have to rely on his wife's fame to make money from milk powder, and he also has a stable income after marriage.
After marriage, Lin Chi-ling was not completely inseparable from the Japanese entertainment industry.
She had a Japanese variety show announcement, and her image of a sexy housewife was flattering, which made domestic netizens who liked Sister Zhiling.
(How can the elegant and decent sister Zhiling do this? It hurts)
You should know that since marriage, Lin Chiling has followed the countryside and settled in Japan with her husband. The marriage model disclosed previously also tends to be Japanese-style division of labor: the woman takes care of the family inside and the man takes the money outside to support the family.
Nowadays, it is inevitable that people will doubt what happened that made her comeback to make money and become the pillar of her family?
There are rumors that Lin Chiling has a disagreement with her husband's family and lives a humble life, and will not be ignored for the time being. It is said that women are happy or not, and they are written directly on their faces. Seeing that Sister Zhiling's face was obviously "informed", she couldn't help but think:
, the former "Taiwan No. 1 Model" was on the decline after marriage?
Before Lin Chi-ling debuted as a model at the age of 26, she took a dual degree course in Western art history and economics at the University of Toronto . Unlike the mainland "Nine Leak Fish" idols, she has read enough books and has relatively mature views. The love scandal between
and Jerry Yan has increased her popularity.
But she also understands that the prince charming in fairy tales has a good appearance but is unreliable.
Jerry Yan, who came from a poor family, has been inferior since childhood, does not like to communicate with others, and is not good at expressing love. She is completely different from Sister Zhiling, who can talk.
The direct reason for the two people to break up was the sensational horse fall incident that year. When Lin Chi-ling shared the content of the new book, she revealed a lot of thrilling details.
Everyone knows dangerous action scenes, and usually there are substitutes to help, but in order to make the picture more realistic, the actors also need to cooperate in shooting some close-up materials. When Lin Chiling appeared, the progress was smooth at the beginning. After a while, the horse suddenly lost control and led Lin Chiling to the forest.
At that time, Lin Chi-ling was just a small model who had a scandal with Jerry Yan, and she didn't even have basic insurance for advertising.A horse that rushes around will be more dangerous to run into the forest. The person on his back is scratched by branches, and in serious cases, it may be disfigured.
Lin Chiling immediately decided to vault , but unexpectedly, she was kicked by the horse's hooves the moment she jumped down. Not to mention the broken 6 ribs, what is even more dangerous is that 1cm higher is the heart. After Lin Chi-ling woke up, it hurt so much that she twitched when she cried, so she could only grit her teeth and endure it.
In this case, Jerry Yan was very worried. He cried with pain in front of the hospital bed, but what he blurted out was scolding. Although
was not intentional, Lin Chiling, who had just saved her life, was so sad after hearing it.
After the incident of falling off the horse, a few years have passed, and the "century reunion" of the golden boy and jade girl has not been expected, but fate has come to an end.
Lin Chi-ling and Jerry Yan, one is active, brave and good at expressing; the other is introverted and avoiding and not good at speaking. You take a step, he retreats, Lin Chi-ling wants a dull life, but the other party is pushing and pulling to jump waltz . The pace that is always irreconcilable is a destined ending.
And Kurosawa Ryohei is the right person to appear in the right time.
In everyone's eyes, Jerry Yan and Lin Chi-ling are a pair of "golden boys and jade girls", with the most matching appearance. But as Huang Bo said in , , life is not an idol drama, simple and ordinary companionship is love.
In "Brother Who Overcomes Thorns", Jerry Yan broke his defenses and shed tears on the scene. The social fear, depression and sensitivity in personality have exposed a thorough understanding. He needs other people's care and understanding too much.
. Lin Chiling, who is good at providing emotional value to others, has a tired heart in her heart. She longs for someone to understand her and comfort her. Jerry Yan couldn't do this. Kurosawa Ryohei, but she can relax.
Lin Chiling's wedding scene, Little S took the lead in "making trouble" in order to stir up the atmosphere. Afterwards, Xiao S was afraid that his brother-in-law would misunderstand, and Kurosawa Ryoyu comforted Xiao S and said, "You don't need to do such hard things in life."
Ryohei Kurosawa has a good reputation in the Japanese entertainment industry and is also very popular. In terms of personality, they are all gentle people who pay attention to each other's emotions.
(a partner with many common points can give the other person the feeling of "another me in the world")
For Lin Chiling, for people who are in line with the same pace, the cost of trial and error is relatively small and the risk is low.
Her soberness is so heartbreaking.
Xu Zhiyuan : There is basically no good marriage in the world.
Lin Chiling shook her head and disagreed: The fundamental reason for unhappy marriage is that the expectations for marriage are too high.
high expectations will hit people hard. The more you expect, the more you will get.
TV series " Knows or Not Knows or Not Should Be Green, Fat, Red, Thin, ", the screenwriter uses the mouth of Minglan to express the essence of getting along with each other:
There is no one in the world who is the backer, so it is best not to rely too much on others.
To put it bluntly, whether it is love or friendship, in any relationship, too high expectations for others is a tragedy of .
, Lin Chiling's emotions are stable and well-behaved, and the background is sad because the fundamental reason is: low expectations.
Cai Kangyong once said that Lin Chiling is the one with the highest emotional intelligence in the traditional definition, always smiling and always having a good temper. But he didn't think this was a high emotional intelligence because he was too tired to live.
When elegance is too much, it gives people the feeling that it is: humble.
Lin Chiling's new book "Just Elegance - Sister Zhiling's Way of Cultivating Self", there is a description like this:
After getting married, family affairs become daily life.Once, my brother-in-law (typical name of Kurosawa Ryohei) helped me wash dishes very considerately. At that time, I was busy with other things and didn't react. My brother-in-law looked at me with a cute expression and said, "Did you forget what you said?" Then, I immediately said, in the most standard doll voice, "Aligado!Aligado!" Dear sisters, let me tell you, my brother-in-law often helped me wash dishes, and I would often say, Aligado...
I understand that Lin Chiling wanted to say, don't take the help between husband and wife for granted, and create more opportunities for mutual gratitude.
However, can’t a celebrity couple standing at the top of the pyramid hire a nanny to do housework? Is it worthy of a wife who takes care of her children and washes her hands and makes soup for you? Is the life of a lonely housewife? Is it the pursuit of Sister Zhiling’s life?
Now we see the answer, not.
Some people say that marriage is a watershed in women's life. If the partner chooses the wrong choice, he will experience all the sufferings in the world for the rest of his life and fall into a dilemma of making choices. In fact, it is not the case. As long as you don’t bet on all your life, it’s fine. In this way, you won’t be able to lose all the game if you make a move. As long as you hold the card in your hand tightly, everything can be started over.
And this card that can make people turn the tables against the wind is a job to settle down for women.
A reporter once asked Lin Chiling: What should I do if Kurosawa Ryohei cheats?
Lin Chiling is neither shy nor annoyed, and said lightly that if her husband cheats on her, she will respect the other party’s choice and do not want to suffer. She has the courage to face her lover's betrayal, and by giving up some things, she can let herself go and continue to move forward.
The newlyweds were so nasty by reporters, and they could still maintain their decentness and not furiousness. On the one hand, Lin Chi-ling's expectations for marriage are low.
She manages marriage with goals, falls in love, gets married, and has children, and experiences a multi-level life. If you accompany her to see the prosperity of life, just follow the circumstances, no one must.
(Sister Zhiling's Mystery: Face-like Zhao Yazhi )
On the other hand, it is her ability to independently resolve the crisis. No matter how malicious the attack was, when she encountered her "Bone-Creating Palm", the enemy was removed from her strength at the moment of receiving the move.
Whether to choose to forgive life or to divorce directly? It seems that I have said nothing, but the reporter is almost confused.
Many people are curious about whether Sister Zhiling’s character is portrayed? She gave the answer indirectly.
In " Thirteen Invitations ", Xu Zhiyuan asked her, "So many jobs, models, hosts, and actresses, which character do you think is the best one to do?"
Lin Chiling thought for a while and said, "My best is the role, sister Zhiling."
Did you see it? She hopes that "Sister Zhiling" will become a symbol and a mark. When everyone thinks of her, it’s good to have a smile, kindness and positive energy.
So, the role of Sister Zhiling may continue to be played in her lifetime because she enjoys this process from the bottom of her heart.
Steel straight female representative Na Ying once said that the person who can pretend is the most annoying. However, everyone admires the person who can "pretend" for the rest of his life.
Back to the previous topic, Lin Chiling's new book recommendation will be criticized by netizens for posting a stubborn face, a 40-year-old pouting cute, and a girl with a baby voice.
But in the comment section, netizens fell to the ground to speak for Sister Zhiling.
Indeed, Sister Zhiling, who will be 48 years old in another month, is as elegant and cute as ever. Her current state is also a "age-freezing goddess".
Sister Zhiling also said at politely:
Although the appearance and skin may not be able to maintain that good forever, the cheerful and warmth of the mood has always been there.
(Photo of Sister Zhiling was encountered by chance, compared to her peers, her condition is not like this)
26 debuted at the age of 44, and gave birth to a baby at the age of 47. Lin Chiling took every step later than others, but she actively enjoyed every stage of her life.
All kinds of criticism caused by love, appearance, and age. She has always disdained:
There will be different sounds in any corner, anywhere. Do you want these sounds to affect your judgment? Should we block our progress due to doubts? Do you want other people’s words to lead your emotions?
So, let's see it. Lin Chi-ling's gentleness and obedience are not a way to cater to the compromise of patriarchal power, but a means of responding to external risks. It seems soft and cute, but in fact it has been firmly self-reliant.
She was not as perfect as she imagined, and it was definitely not as unbearable as mentioned in the negative comments. Such Lin Chi-ling is a special existence in the female group:
She can be the shield for older young women to urge marriage, the driving force for self-discipline and the role model for emotional stability.
Gentle and powerful, humble but not humble, and a slight smile is like bathing in the spring breeze.
Sober and hardworking women have the ability to live well.
The happiness they get is never because of whom they marry, but because of themselves, they are cruel characters themselves.
