Of course, this would be a very common thing if it were in ancient times, but if it was in modern times, it would not only be illegal, but also be placed on the moral high ground, subject to the stigma of thousands of people and abandoned by thousands of people.

As the saying goes: The red flags at home do not fall, but the colorful flags are flying outside!

Although this seems to be a very destructive idea, it is a dream in the minds of countless men.

Of course, this would be a very common thing if it were in ancient times, but if it was in modern times, it would not only be illegal, but also be placed on the moral high ground, subject to the criticism of thousands of people and abandoned by thousands of people.

And in the entertainment industry, it is said that there is a couple doing this.

They are Xu Zheng and Tao Hong .

Tao Hong once said: Xu Zheng and I have an open marriage, and physical cheating is nothing. If a woman pounces on him, it means that I have a good vision...

In order to prove what she said, Xu Zheng has been spreading gossip since she got married, either lingering with this girl for eight hours, or going to nightclubs to dance with hot girls, and doing it.

completely seemed to be afraid of embarrassing his wife and strive to be the best man in physical cheating.

So, why did the former proud daughter have such a concept of marriage? What is the reason for

that causes her to have such shocking thoughts? Below

, let’s go into their world together and see what the two of them have experienced over the years?

To be honest, I'm so curious!

1.

972, Tao Hong was born in an intellectual family in Wuxi City, Jiangsu Province.

Her father is an engineer and her mother is a library staff member.

When she was a child, Tao Hong was a beauty. Under the influence of her profound literary atmosphere, she grew up like this.

However, at that time she had no interest in being an actor, nor did she plan her future with art as her goal.

The big reason why Tao Hong embarked on the path of art was because of her mother's temporary decision.

At that time, the new round of enrollment for Beijing Dance Academy officially began. Looking at her daughter's graceful appearance, Tao Hong's mother felt it was necessary to let her child give it a try.

So, after a brief thought, she signed up Tao Hong.

Coincidentally, just as my mother took Tao Hong to Dance Academy , and when she participated in the registration, the newly established Beijing Swimming Team coach also met them here.

eyes were facing each other, and the coach took a look at Xiao Tao Hong at first sight, thinking that she was very suitable for going to the swimming team.

So, after reporting to his home, the coach extended an olive branch to him and repeatedly affirmed that Tao Hong was a good seedling.

Perhaps the coach's sincerity touched his mother, so after a conversation, Tao Hong went into the Beijing swimming team.

soon, the little Tao Hong started training and became the first group of synchronized swimming athletes in China.

Originally, she planned to devote her entire youth to sports. From that moment on, only the gold medal in the Olympics remained in her eyes.

Unfortunately, things are impermanent. Tao Hong, who is determined to add icing on the cake for the motherland, never thought that she would be led to go astray soon.

not only left the swimming team and could not realize the dream of a championship, but also stepped into the entertainment industry that he had never thought of and became an actress who made his parents feel that he was an unreasonable career.

Of course, this is all a story. At this time, Tao Hong only had swimming in her heart, and her goal was still extremely firm.

In order to adapt to the environment quickly, she trains hard every day. When others are lazy when they sleep, she soaks in the swimming pool for a whole day.

is just like this, but in the eyes of the coach, he has become a talentless player.

in the end, it was because she couldn't bear it. The coach advised her to give up if she didn't.

But how could Tao Hong give up so easily, who was so stubborn?

has been practicing for so long. If you don’t get a decent score, what’s the point of your persistence?

Then, she extended the training time to 12 hours, and did not even go home during the Spring Festival holiday, but chose to stay for training.

It is precisely because of this ruthless spirit that the ordinary Tao Hong finally stood out later and became the only player in the team who could suffocate himself to death underwater for nearly four minutes.

With this ability, she shined in the subsequent competitions and truly achieved what it means that as long as she has a deep skill, iron rod can also be ground into a needle.

In 1987, Tao Hong, who went out for the competition, won the title of second-place in synchronized swimming.

In the next few years, she has repeatedly achieved glory and is unstoppable.

In 1992, she won the fifth place in the collective synchronous swimming competition in the world, the second place in the collective synchronous swimming championship in the China National Championship and the second place in the two-person synchronous swimming competition.

993, it won the championship of collective synchronized swimming at the 7th China National Games.

for a while, the limelight was in full swing.

Because of its outstanding figure and outstanding appearance, Tao Hong has become a big star in the sports world.

If she keeps following this line, she will definitely stand on the Olympic champion podium in the future.

This is not only the expectation of the swimming team, but also the wish in the hearts of countless Chinese people.

However, when the damage of time leaves an indelible mark on Tao Hong's body, it means that this wise star has gradually become a trend of falling.

The pain over the years has made Tao Hong increasingly unconscious, and the secret illness in her body finally made her want to withdraw.

But I have been persisting for so many years, and it’s a pity to give up now.

Just as she was hesitant and confused, a middle-aged man in his thirties but with a face in his forties found her. This search for

changed Tao Hong's life.

This search has turned the stars in the sports world into actresses in the entertainment industry.

2.

That year, seeing the neighbors who were also walking out of the compound became famous directors, which made Jiang Wen who lived next to him anxious.

So, on a dark and windy night, he made a decision, that is, to be a director and also to make a good movie.

But he was worried about not having a script, which made him very worried.

Fortunately, Wang Shuo, the next door, couldn't stand it anymore, so he gave Jiang Wen the "masterpiece" animal he had treasured for many years, and told him to take a good shot and he would definitely make a big splash.

Without further ado, Jiang Wen took the "Animal Fierce" back to the house and spent a night watching this masterpiece.

The next day, he walked out of the room and felt refreshed and full of energy.

In his words, this novel is really well written, and it is wonderful.

Later, he adapted this "Animal Fierce" and named it "Sunny Days". After the script of

is written, it is almost time to find an actor.

Because the heroine is a swimming person, she came to the swimming team, hoping to find the right person.

It's a coincidence that he met Tao Hong who was confused and entangled.

so she invited her to play the leading role.

When Jiang Wen saw Tao Hong for the first time, she felt that she was very suitable for this role.

Unfortunately, when the role was finally confirmed, Tao Hong did not play the heroine, but played the second female lead Yu Beibei.

But that's enough.

After all, she has never learned to perform, and all her expressions and movements are performed by instinct. Fortunately, she is very spiritual and smart enough, so she doesn't make too ugly.

However, although that is the case, I must know my shortcomings.

At the same time, she also has a strong interest in performance and thinks that if she is not an athlete, being an actor may be a good choice.

Just like that, Tao Hong resolutely withdrew from the sports world and turned to take the art school.

But unexpectedly, Tao Hong, who originally planned to act in a low-key manner, was admitted to all three campuses at the same time.

After thinking about it for a while, she still walked into the gate of Central Academy of Drama and became Jiang Wen's junior sister. After

entered the school, Tao Hong quickly became a sensational figure.

has no choice. I am too excellent and cannot stop the light.

It is said that during his time at school, Tao Hong not only became a top student in the eyes of teachers, but also a worries relief bag in the hearts of students.

is wandering around in eight graduation works, and has to help students design them constantly. It’s so busy.

And just when Tao Hong was so busy that she couldn't even eat, a young man named Xu Zheng graduated from Shanghai Theater Academy , and then plunged into the ocean of drama.

To be honest, Xu Zheng was very handsome at that time, with thick black hair on his head and not getting fat.

At this time, he could not have thought that he would marry a beautiful woman in the future. The two people who could not have been able to fight were together by chance under the arrangement of fate.

I have to say that this is fate!

3.

In 1998, Xu Zheng shined on the stage of the drama and received a high honor, the Magnolia Drama Best Actor Award.

At the same time, Tao Hong also won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress for "Black Eyes".

That year, Tao Hong was only half a step away from being thirty years old.

That year, Xu Zheng also came out of the drama circle and stepped into the entertainment circle in the form of comedians and clowns.

Facing the worried faces of their parents, Tao Hong knew that she was at the age to get married.

But she just doesn't want to settle down. If she wants to get married, she must find a talented man.

And this man was swimming towards her step by step with sexy steps.

In the same year, a costume mythological drama " Spring Glory Zhu Bajie " brought the two destined to meet together.

On the crew, when they met for the first time, Xu Zheng fell in love with her.

Later, after getting along day after day, Tao Hong felt that Xu Zheng was very talented and a man who was late to become a man.

And this kind of man is exactly what she has been looking for.

So, Ganchai and Liehuo and their talented mutual appreciation made the two keep getting closer and finally got together.

At first, many people didn’t understand why Tao Hong chose Xu Zheng?

Although Xu Zheng is a bit famous, compared with Tao Hong, he is really in the sky and in the ground.

However, Tao Hong didn't care about the outside world's views at all. She thought Xu Zheng was very talented, which was enough.

As for the rest, let's leave it to time to prove it.

In 2003, Xu Zheng and Tao Hong entered the marriage hall, and changed from a lover who had a very happy conversation to a loving couple.

After marriage, they were very sweet and settled their homes in Shanghai and Beijing respectively.

In order to take care of Tao Hong's emotions, Xu Zheng did everything a good man should do. He not only had to go out to film, but also had to run between Shanghai and Beijing. Even if he couldn't stand the climate in Beijing, he didn't say anything, but just complained.

And his efforts moved Tao Hong very much, and he even firmly believed that he had not read the wrong person, and that this was a man worthy of entrusting.

But what she didn't expect was that men are good men when they have no money or power, but once they have power, they want to become bad, which is a matter of minutes. What she unexpectedly thought was that the rich Xu Zheng would make their marriage more and more subtle, and even completely changed her mind and created a new way of love.

006, Tao Hong, who saw Xu Zhengkong's talent but aimless approach, finally decided to take action to pull her husband.

At this moment, the new director Ning Hao took his script and found Tao Hong and hoped to invite her to star in.

Tao Hong thought this movie was very interesting after reading the script, but because she already had a play, she couldn't take it.

But if she can’t act, it doesn’t mean others can’t act, so Tao Hong recommended Xu Zheng to Ning Hao.

Ning Hao, who had no money to hire an actor, had no choice but to do so, so he just took Xu Zheng over and was pulled in. There was also a young man named Huang Bo , who was Qingdao .

is like this, and the Iron Triangle, the three musketeers who became famous in the entertainment industry in the future, were born at this moment.

Then, the movie became popular overnight and sold well at the box office.

Ning Hao made a lot of money, and Xu Zheng and the other two also became famous with this.

, especially Xu Zheng, is not only famous, but also makes a lot of money.

You should know that when Ning Hao found Tao Hong, she gave Xu Zheng a sum of money and asked him to invest.

In this way, the biggest winner of this movie is not Ning Hao at all, but Xu Zheng who is unfamous.

4,

Xu Zheng became popular, and he jumped from an actor to a director.

Those who looked down on him and satirized him quickly came to congratulate him just to have a cooperation in the future and find a future for themselves.

And on Tao Hong's side, many people congratulate her, saying that her vision is really good, and when Xu Zheng was not famous, he could see that he must have a future.

But they seemed to have forgotten. Those who said she had a bad attitude and said Xu Zheng was not good seemed to be them.

Sure enough, the entertainment industry, the world of fame and fortune!

, the popular Xu Zheng also said that his success cannot be separated from Tao Hong's support. Without her, there would be no Xu Zheng today.

Since then, the two have made their careers in unison and have become a good story in the entertainment industry.

I thought this was the most beautiful love, and there was no ending that could be compared with it.

But I didn’t think that this kind of beauty is only temporary, and the next story is the most ruining people’s views!

In 2012, the rich and famous Xu Zheng was unwilling to be lonely and was exposed to have close contact with Tao Hong's schoolgirl "Little Tao Hong", and the two spent several hours together in the hotel.

015, Xu Zheng and Wang Xiaofei were exposed in the late-night club, and the variety of hot girls were accompanied by, which was simply too eye-catching.

Since then, Xu Zheng’s scandal has never stopped, and the most lively time was the time when it was exposed by Zhuo Wei .

It is said that Xu Zheng, Huang Bo and Liu Yiwei and other friends were hunting for beauty in Chengdu. There were more than ten beautiful women at the scene...

At the same time, Tao Hong was also exposed by the media that a secret meeting with director Yang Lei went to Sanya . Although

finally made clarifications, many netizens were still not satisfied.

After all, both of them have scandals, but their marriage relationship is still as solid as a rock. Interesting things will show their love on social media from time to time.

What's the point of saying this? Is it the most basic quality of an actor?

In 2018, a paparazzi took a video of Xu Zheng meeting a beautiful girl at night.

The two met and chatted to the hotel together, and then did not leave all night.

Xu Zheng himself and the studio did not respond to this matter, only the official said it was fabricated by paparazzi.

However, judging by the exposed photos and videos at that time, it is difficult for people to believe that it is fabricated.

As for whether it is true, only I know the most.

For Xu Zheng like this, many people are waiting for Tao Hong's reaction, and want to see what kind of actions she will do?

It’s a pity that many people are disappointed.

Tao Hong not only did not respond, but also praised her husband online.

When interviewed, he then asked about Xu Zheng. Tao Hong said without hesitation: A woman pounced on him means that I have a good vision.

Then, in another program, Tao Hong also said shocking words.

She said: No physical betrayal is a matter!

also has this sentence: The prevalence of girl culture is not a good thing, it can only show the immaturity and naivety of men. To sum up these words,

, she no longer cares so much about her marriage. Even if Xu Zheng plays with flowers outside, she treats them as if she can't see them.

She once said: Marriage itself is a conspiracy, that is, you two are willing to move forward, rather than living in other people's standards.

She even said bluntly that her marriage with Xu Zheng is an open marriage.

I have to say, maybe it is because I have experienced too little. This view of marriage has really caused my three views to collapse.

Isn’t marriage a loyalty from the beginning?

plays with each other and live a life together. Is marriage really necessary?

To be honest, I don’t understand and can’t accept this method.

But it is undeniable that if Xu Zheng and Tao Hong's marriage were not agreed upon, it would not have caused such an open relationship today!

One is flirting with the flowers, the other one is not concerned!

Is this what is called love?

Is this what is called marriage?

Conclusion!

Although the concept is shocking, this is Tao Hong's standard for marriage.

Whether you agree or not, this is how she protects her marriage.

Of course, although I do not agree with this concept, Tao Hong's open marriage is indeed in real life, and there are many people facing this state.

clearly has a husband and a family, but I feel that I am always alone.

This is the sorrow of most women nowadays, and it is also a common problem for rich families in this society!

Despite this, I still believe in love!

I believe that in a dark world, there is always a beam of light illuminating.

You can say that an open marriage is the best way to the family.

But I want to say that love is still the hottest warmth in the world!

At this point, salute!

to those who still believe in love!

Respect those who would rather ruin it than give in...

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