A sentence "My life is not worth it." An Lingrong died and left this world forever with regret.
The life cannot be controlled by oneself, the body cannot be controlled by the heart, and the humbleness is the true portrayal of An Lingrong.
I always thought that the reason why An Lingrong failed was because she was standing in the wrong team.
At the beginning, she asked Xiao Xiazi to strangle Yu to death for Zhen Huan , but Mei Zhuang and Zhen Huan did not agree with her approach, so they began to become centrifugal.
An Lingrong's favor was not rewarded, so An Lingrong turned evil.
But when I revisited " The Legend of Zhen Huan " again, I realized that the matter of sending Fu Guangjin alone was doomed to An Lingrong's failure, and Zhen Huan could never be able to communicate with her.
1 An Lingrong sent Fu Guangjin to Zhen Huan, which was the biggest mistake she made
Sister Mei was sent to the cold palace by the Fat Orange Emperor because of the fake pregnancy incident. Although Zhen Huan, who is in love with Meizhuang, was not involved, she was walking on thin ice alone in this palace.
So Sister Mei also thought of this, so she asked Zhen Huan to support An Lingrong.
An Lingrong finally succeeded in serving the bed with a singing voice (he tried to be flipped before, but because he was too nervous, he was back intact).
Then An Lingrong came to Shuyuxuan to thank him, and she sent two pieces of floating light brocade.
This floating light brocade is a good thing, only a few pieces in total, and the emperor gave them all to An Lingrong.
An Lingrong gave one to the queen, one to Hua Fei , and wore one by herself, and the remaining two were given to Zhen Huan.
Because Zhen Huan is her great benefactor, if it weren't for Zhen Huan, An Lingrong knew that it would be impossible for him to be favored by himself alone.
She just wanted to give Zhen Huan something good to show her gratitude.
Perhaps many people will feel that An Lingrong really knows how to be a human being, at least knows how to repay kindness and repay kindness.
On the contrary, Zhen Huan did something wrong, so she turned around and gave one of the floating light brocade to Huanbi .
Is this true?
If everyone here only uses the thinking of "Zhen Huan looks down on An Lingrong from a humble background, so she will give An Lingrong the most precious things at will" and "Zhen Huan feels that An Lingrong is here to show off" to understand this plot, then it would be too superficial.
Why did Zhen Huan let An Lingrong share his favor? That's because Sister Mei has been inscribed into the cold palace, and Zhen Huan urgently needs help to help her stabilize her position in the palace.
But has An Lingrong understood Zhen Huan’s intentions?
does not!
is good, it is indeed rare, and it is rewarded by the emperor, which is unique in appearance.
So in addition to giving it to the queen and Concubine Hua, I also left two pieces for Zhen Huan. At first glance, I felt that An Lingrong was pretty good and thought about Zhen Huan.
But let’s analyze it from the following two aspects:
First of all, the gifts are given by the emperor, in other words, these gifts are zero-cost. This kind of "borrowing flowers to offer Buddha" is insufficient sincerity.
Secondly, at that time, Zhen Huan and the emperor were unable to part with each other, but they also endured the sadness and sent An Lingrong to the emperor and gave the emperor's favor to An Lingrong.
An Lingrong handed over the gift given to her by the emperor to Zhen Huan the next day.
Does Zhen Huan owe these gifts? If you really want these gifts, then Zhen Huan can get them herself. Why do you need to recommend An Lingrong in one fell swoop?
Moreover, An Lingrong was eager to return the gift the next day, hoping to say that what I owe Zhen Huan has paid off.
Let’s make an analogy.
In the workplace, you are the department manager and Xiao Huang is the department manager.
Originally, the boss likes to take you to meet customers the most.
At this time, Xiao Huang also hopes to have the opportunity to go out to meet customers, so I beg you to see if you can find a solution.
Thinking about it, it’s good to have a right-hand assistant around you.
Then I recommended Xiao Huang to the boss and said that this supervisor is OK.
The boss looked at it and it seemed okay, so let's take it out to discuss business. Then Xiao Huang also performed well. The boss promoted Xiao Huang to a senior manager the next day, and his status was almost as high as yours.
The boss also gave Xiao Huang a few lipsticks. Xiao Huang took them to you the next day and said, "Sister, thank you, this is the lipstick that the boss gave me, I'll give you two."
What will you feel at this time?
I originally had these, but I only recommended Xiao Huang's ones to help, but Xiao Huang only gave me two lipsticks? Am I missing this lipstick?
I helped Xiao Huang not only get promoted, but also gained the trust of the boss, but in the end, Xiao Huang used two lipsticks to pay off this great favor?
Similarly, An Lingrong was favored, Zhen Huan sacrificed her love, and An Lingrong received great benefits.
This is a very obvious exchange of interests.
This is not something that ordinary best friends give each other a gift. Give me an apple and I give you a pear.
But An Lingrong only gave away two pieces of floating light brocade in the end, and also used the words "If my sister mind, I will not see the emperor in the future" to "threate" Zhen Huan.
What would Zhen Huan think at this time?
I have worked hard to win you favor, and now I have only got two floating brocades, and you still want to threaten me with the emperor? If the emperor doesn’t see him, the emperor will definitely think that I am trying to get discord behind his back. Then isn’t everything I did before in vain?
Later Zhen Huan gave Huanbi one of the floating light brocades. In addition to using it to block Huanbi's mouth and prevent An Lingrong from being so embarrassed, she also vented her dissatisfaction.
so the precious gift An Lingrong sent was simply a wrong gift.
She didn't give the gift to Zhen Huan's heart at all, which also became a fuse for Zhen Huan's resilience with her.
Gift gifts are just a means, and conveying information is the key.
Sometimes, you can succeed not because of how much ability you have, but because of your thinking and pattern of things.
Just like An Lingrong, her ability is also outstanding. The embroiderer is better than the embroiderer in the palace and knows how to make incense. Logically speaking, she should be able to succeed, but in the end she is slapped every day.
actually has a small structure, so after leaving Zhen Huan, the queen kicked her away after using it.
In fact, the pattern of giving gifts is often the pattern of being a human being.
2 What exactly is the right way to do An Lingrong?
I think we need to do it from the following aspects to make Zhen Huan feel comfortable, and think that An Lingrong is worth it, and will work harder to help An Lingrong compete for favor in the future.
After all, Zhen Huan's talent is really there. One Zhen Huan is better than a thousand queens.
first, show loyalty.
Sister, don’t worry, my An Lingrong’s kindness to you will always be remembered in my heart.
Without a sister, there would be no Lingrong today. In the future, I went up to the mountain of swords and seas for my sister, and did not hesitate to do anything.
I will always be loyal to my sister.
The emperor is always the sister.
Second, don’t send Fuguang Brocade, but give items you made by yourself.
In Zhen Huan's eyes, Fuguangjin is the emperor's betrayal of himself.
Even if Zhen Huan really gave other women to the emperor, Zhen Huan still hopes that the emperor will not favor other women in her heart. This contradictory and complex psychology is a true portrayal of Zhen Huan's inner heart at this time.
An Lingrong had nothing before, but suddenly taking such a valuable thing out would give people a feeling of showing off.
is like a poor man suddenly becomes a rich man, and then he wears gold and silver to show off. Others will definitely feel uncomfortable when they see it.
After all, before being favored, even the clothes were lent to An Lingrong by Zhen Huan.
So if An Lingrong gives the items he made by himself, it will not only show sincerity, but also make Zhen Huan feel caring, but also restrain her favored edge.
The signal to Zhen Huan is that Ling Rong is safe and will never compete with him for the emperor.
. After learning that Zhen Huan gave Huan a piece of floating light brocade to Huanbi, An Lingrong should first think deeply.
A person is so generous to the servants around him, let alone to himself as a sister, Zhen Huan will never treat herself badly.
In addition, Fu Guangjin has proved that I have become the emperor's favorite concubine, but Huanbi wants to affirm her value and existence through the master's rewards.
It is just based on this point that Huanbi and herself are no longer on the same level.
Since we are not on the same level, why bother to worry about why this dress is given to Huanbi? Isn’t this asking for trouble?
A British writer once said: "Some people live in the gutter and still look up at the starry sky, while others live in the sun, but they always seek troubles."
3 Summary
Yuji Sakamoto once said this in " Quartet ", "People have the same values or have a large belly, otherwise they will not get along with each other."
Many things can be worked on, but the size of the pattern is difficult to change.
An Lingrong is in the deep palace, but she always only thinks about her own "one acre and three-point land".
, but Zhen Huan is a person with a pattern. When Concubine Duan helped her, she helped Concubine Duan get custody of Wen Yi;
Concubine Jing joined her team, and she put Longyue next to Concubine Jing and let Concubine Jing raise it;
Jinxi has been by her side to help her. When Jinxi was in prison, Zhen Huan ignored her big belly and tried her best to save Jinxi.
Zhen Huan has always used the same value to repay the people who are good to her.
So there is a saying that makes sense. can go to the end together, but in fact, they are the same passers-by at the beginning.There is a reason for meeting
, either a gift or a lesson.
Finally, An Lingrong was unable to walk with Zhen Huan, it was not a pity at all!
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