Speaking of sisterly love in the harem, Hua Fei has never believed it. She once said this: There is no sisterly love in the harem, it is just that the strong depend on the weak.
The queen didn't believe in sisterly love, so her own sister once snatched the position of her legitimate concubine who originally belonged to her.
sisterly love does not exist for her.
So, is there really no sisterly relationship in the harem? There is naturally
. As we all know, the sisterly relationship between Zhen Huan and Mei Zhuang has praised many people.
In the harem, the world of fame and fortune, most of the pursuit of personal interests is personal interests. Therefore, the sisterly relationship between Zhen Huan and Mei Zhuang is particularly precious in everyone's eyes.
This feeling is still enviable even if it is placed in a modern background.
When I was watching " The Legend of Zhen Huan ", I actually had a question. After all, the harem is a Shura field where women fight, and there is such a strong sisterly relationship. How did they maintain such a good relationship?
With this question, I fell into thinking for a long time, and finally, I finally found the answer.
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3know each other and treat each other honestly, with a high degree of consistency in thinking
I always think that the reason why two people can become real friends is that they must be equal in all aspects, not very different.
This equality includes background and ideas.
This means that they are all in the same class circle, and whether they are thinking or values, they are actually extremely similar.
And this is consistent with Zhen Huan and Mei Zhuang. They are all noble girls from the same class, and they have been together since childhood and have a certain emotional foundation.
The ability of two people to continue their friendship in the harem certainly has factors of emotional accumulation, but it is actually difficult to maintain this relationship with just the support of past friendship.
I think the friendship between the two is strong, in addition to the past accumulation of relationships, the reason why they are going further is the understanding and honesty between them.
Meizhuang was very favored when she first entered the palace. Zhen Huan did not have a trace of jealousy, but was happy for the other party from the bottom of her heart.
In her opinion, Meizhuang is so beautiful and excellent, it is a matter of time before she can get favor. She is not jealous of Meizhuang because she knows that it is not difficult for her to win the holy favor.
And Meizhuang has been favored, and she also benefits herself.
Mei Zhuang is also the same for Zhen Huan to be favored. Even if the other party favors her better than her, she is still sincerely happy for Zhen Huan.
Although she had been jealous at first, she finally defeated the jealousy in human nature and was sincerely happy for Zhen Huan. She did not hide from Zhen Huan for this change of thought, but honestly expressed her inner feelings.
Suspicion and jealousy are the easiest to make friendships distorted, while being honest with each other can last for friendships to last.
Meizhuang and Zhen Huan obviously understand this very well. Therefore, when facing the sow discord from the outside world, they will ask each other about their feelings.
And both of them will tell each other their thoughts.
Because they understand that no matter who is favored between them, the other one will benefit.
Moreover, they understand more that they can only go further by hudding together in the harem, and mutual suspicion will only make themselves die faster.
The ability of two people to have such awareness and the same thoughts has a lot to do with the concepts they have been instilled since childhood.
So, even if they have some small thoughts in their minds, they will definitely not change these thinking that they have developed since childhood: win-win interests.
Because of this consensus, when Meizhuang was framed by Concubine Hua, Meizhuang believed that Zhen Huan would save her and told her not to rescue her in a hurry and to protect herself first if necessary.
I have to say that Meizhuang really knows Zhen Huan too much, and Zhen Huan is indeed very anxious about Meizhuang's affairs. If it weren't for Mei Zhuang's advice, Zhen Huan would probably be disgusted by the emperor because she was too aggressive.
In fact, the fact that Mei Zhuang fake pregnancy tests friendship very much.
You see An Lingrong keeps saying that it is their sister, but when Meizhuang encounters something and involves her, she feels that she is at a disadvantage. She has not enjoyed the benefits, and she is actually injured by others.
This is exactly the reason why An Lingrong cannot go far with Zhen Huan and the others' sisterly relationship. His thoughts are not in the same dimension, and the foundation of friendship is not so deep, let alone understanding and being honest with each other.
Their trust is easily broken by external factors, thus moving towards breaking. Something happened to Meizhuang in
has become the touchstone of friendship between three people.
Fortunately, the relationship between Zhen Huan and Mei Zhuang has completed a good test in this matter.
understand each other, do not suspicious, and support each other.
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eacher3m4eacher and Zhen Huan have a solid friendship, in addition to the first point, they can provide emotional value to each other.
I have always believed that one person can provide emotional value to another person, and it requires conditions.
Both parties will not be jealous, but will get along with each other with understanding and respect for each other, and at the same time, they can better deal with each other's emotions. Both have the ability to wake up or comfort each other.
Zhen Huan and Mei Zhuang are equivalent in this regard.
Zhen Huan couldn't get enough of it for a long time after her miscarriage. It was Meizhuang who took her to the cold palace to let her see how terrible it was without the emperor's favor, and the child would lose his life in vain because of her fall from favor.
plus the humiliation of the long street, Zhen Huan finally woke up.
I think if Meizhuang didn’t wake up in time, Zhen Huan would probably stay in her grief for a long time and couldn’t extricate herself.
Meizhuang was framed by Concubine Hua. It was Zhen Huan who was beside her to comfort her, asking her to temporarily put down her hatred and wait for the opportunity to move.
They will be able to give each other good comfort and help each other analyze various pros and cons when they are bothered and cannot figure out, so that the other party can avoid detours.
They will not have any other little thoughts because of these communications, nor will they distort the other party's intentions.
They can truly get nutrients from each other's thoughts. The emotional link of
is extremely rare, and it is even more precious than gaining actual benefits.
Emotional resonance is always priceless.
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They all have pride in their bones
A proud person must be a person who believes that he has something unique in his bones. Such people are actually not so easy to covet and be jealous of what others have.
Because she is confident that what she has is already the best in the world.
Meizhuang is a proud person recognized by everyone.
A fake pregnancy incident, the emperor wronged her and imprisoned her.
Later the truth was revealed and the emperor restored her position, but she would rather become a marginal concubine than lower her noble head and ask the emperor for favor.
originally had her character, appearance and talent, so it was certainly no problem to be favored again.
Because of her pride, she is unwilling to be the woman who loses her self-esteem for material fame and fortune. She is a proud woman after all.
And Zhen Huan is also proud, even the emperor loves and hates her when she talks about it.
Because of his consecration, he mistakenly wore the old clothes of Empress Chunyuan . Zhen Huan discovered that her years of favor were just someone else's substitute.
Zhen Huan later gave birth to Longyue and insisted on leaving the palace. The sentence with Jun Changjue expressed her inner thoughts. She would rather leave than repair her relationship with the emperor again.
Of course, there is a factor in resentment from the emperor to suppress and severely punish her mother's family, but more because of Zhen Huan's arrogance in her bones, she was unwilling to become a substitute for others from beginning to end.
Even if she understands that as long as she wants, she can still be the emperor's favorite concubine.
But Zhen Huan is Zhen Huan, she is never someone else, and she is even more unwilling to be someone else.
Like Meizhuang, she is a person who is unwilling to bow his head to gain the favor that others want to have.
and the others are people full of pride from the inside out.
Proud people will only appreciate and cherish the same proud people.
Therefore, Meizhuang and Zhen Huan can still become sisters in the harem, the world of fame and fortune.
to the end:
It can be seen that the harem is not without sisterly relationship, but few two people can be so compatible and willing to cherish each other's feelings.
People need some fate after all.
Concubine Hua did not meet the right person, the queen did not meet the right person, and the concubines in the harem did not meet the right person they thought they were right.
Therefore, the sisterly relationship between Meizhuang and Zhen Huan has become an out of reach in the eyes of many people.
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