When a person suddenly feels that "being settled" is also a state of life, you will not take the initiative to seek change, and you are not even too lazy to think about it. Because you are powerless to change the people and things around you, and you can’t change them. All that remains is you who are trapped in "appropriate".
And when you hear an old song, read an old article, and watch an old movie, an unexpected point will hit your heart like a "lightning bolt", and in a trance, you will think of the unique self that was once again. The movie "When Happiness Comes Knocks" starring Will Smith and his son may become the "lightning bolt" that hits your heart.
In the movie, the male protagonist Chris has a decent job, a wife who dreams of a better life and a cute child. What a wonderful life, and how many people want to live such a life, suddenly you messed up. The contradiction in the problem is the job you choose: you cannot be discarded, because that is the only hope that you have invested all your savings.
The days ahead became extremely difficult, and you didn't even think about it. Your wife’s complaints, various problems in survival and your own annoyances will always surround you, and even the night will not bring peace. In desperation, you decided to find another way. You will see that the gentlest face once became cold and pale now. The most difficult thing is not the bowl of jade belt soup, but the time that seems to have stopped.
Those who turn around and leave you are not all changed their hearts, maybe they can’t see the place of happiness you call. Just when you think you have lost everything and decided to make a fuss for the rest of your life, someone whispered: Dad, I believe in you. At this moment, you know, it may not be a good idea to put on the rest of your life. The darkest moment is not the darkest moment, the part before sunrise is. And it’s this part of the way, only you, and your young child: you can’t afford the rent, and stay with you in a cheap hotel; you can’t eat delicious food, so let’s try the love bento together.
When you use your last bit of strength to walk out of the jungle, you trip over again by a pool of "mud pit". This time, you put aside your elegance, gentlemanship, and dignity, and waved your hands desperately, pedaled your feet, and grabbed anything you could touch, because you just want to live! Just like in the film: the protagonist and his children live in a dirty toilet, and fight with the homeless people for free beds, and are penniless and forced to go to the black market to sell blood...
Until the night gradually disappears, the dim light of dawn tear opens the silent night sky; you climb out of that mud pit, although you are already in a mess. Only then did you realize that there were gradually some people in the distance. If you look carefully, those people turned out to be like you, and they were covered in filth. However, everyone's face was filled with a happy smile!
