First love died on the battlefield
China's first transgender person Zhang Kesha , the rich husband did not know that she was a man until she died, and she was spoiled by five men in her life. Her life experience is even more legendary than Venus.
Zhang Kesha’s original name is “ Zhang Kesha ”. The difference of just one word is of great significance to him.
Zhang Kesha
His father Zhang Shuxiang was awarded the rank of major general in the country. It is logical that he was born in such a high-ranking military family. His father would definitely be extremely strict with his discipline, but he did not be a good child, as if he had a rebellious personality in his bones.
Zhang Kesha realized since she was a child that her psychological gender was different from other boys, so she also tended to be feminine in dressing.
Zhang Kesha's family
It is surprising that in that era when he was not very open, when he had such an "abnormal" behavior, his family did not stop him, but instead called him "Seven Girls".
KA family's tolerance and understanding do not represent the students' thoughts. At that time, Zhang Kesha was often ridiculed by her classmates at school.
Zhang Kesha When he was a child, he was
The most difficult thing for him was the toilet. In order to comply with his inner wishes, he generally did not go to the men's toilet in school, and often he would hold back and go home to solve the problem.
Finally survived until he was 16 years old, Zhang Kesha gave up high school and dropped out of school and went home. When he was accompanying his father in the sanatorium, he ushered in the first hazy love in his life.
Zhang Kesha
A man named Xiao Qiang met him in the corridor of the sanatorium. It was precisely because of this man that Zhang Kesha knew the word " sex change surgery " for the first time, and also received warm encouragement and support from his family for the first time. After getting along with
for several times, Xiao Qiang was moved. He gave Zhang Kesha a lipstick and promised to undergo a sex change operation. When he became a real woman, he would marry him as his wife.
Zhang Kesha talks about Xiao Qiang
This promise is beautiful and also strengthens Zhang Kesha's determination to change himself. But what this relationship brought him was not the perfect ending in the fairy tale, but the separation from Xiao Qiang.
Because Xiao Qiang went to join the army shortly after he made a promise, the war was ruthless, and later he died on the battlefield, which brought a painful blow to Zhang Kesha. In grief, he chose to join the army with revenge and decided to complete the sex change operation in the military hospital.
Zhang Kesha interviewed
but the plan was not implemented smoothly. The military personnel made Zhang Kesha’s hard life. The hospital did not perform surgery on him, but secretly injected him with a lot of androgens, which was undoubtedly a discrimination for Zhang Kesha.
After his rebellious heart came up again, he openly put on lipstick in the army and wore women's clothing, relieved his hatred for a while, but it also meant that he could not stay in the army.
Zhang Kesha interviewed
After leaving the army, Zhang Kesha, who was dressed as a woman, stepped on the train to Dongguan , and found a suitable job in the local area. "I want to make money desperately, save hard, save the money saved and take it for surgery."
with such a firm idea, Zhang Kesha was full of energy on the way to work, and in this factory, his second suitor was also online. This person is Mr. Xiao, the boss who is 30 years older than him.
Boss Xiao and Zhang Kesha
Zhang Kesha chose to get married to escape reality
China's first transgender Zhang Kesha died on the battlefield. After his first love died, he went to Dongguan to work and make money, wanting to save money for surgery to become a real woman.
Unexpectedly, at this moment, the boss Mr. Xiao, who is 30 years older than him, developed a love for him as a man dressed in a woman.
Zhang Kesha and Boss Xiao
But facing Mr. Xiao's proposal, Zhang Kesha politely declined because he had no feelings for the man in front of him. However, it was Mr. Xiao's move that made him realize that it was time to take the step to be himself bravely.
Later, by chance, Zhang Kesha met an author who had written a homosexual article online. With the help of the other party, Zhang Kesha quickly went to a hospital in Beijing for a sex change operation.
Zhang Kesha
surgery was very successful, which also gave Zhang Kesha great comfort. Then she was "reborn" as a woman and changed her name to Zhang Kesha. She also found a job as a salesperson in Changsha, but this work experience was not that pleasant.
Because Zhang Kesha is a transgender person After the news spread in the local area, everyone wanted to go to the store to see her true face. This behavior put a lot of psychological pressure on her.
Zhang Kesha
At this moment, a man named Chen Ping appeared, sending Zhang Kesha the warmest sunshine in the "cold winter".
The two met at a party. Chen Ping didn't mind that Zhang Kesha was a transgender person. She just wanted to win her heart. In addition to riding a motorcycle to pick her up and dropping her off work every day, she also often asked her about her well-being.
Zhang Kesha talks about Chen Ping
Chen Ping's actions moved Zhang Kesha, but the two were in love and had reached the time to talk about marriage, but the other party's mother stood up and beat the pair of miserable mandarin ducks.
Chen's mother could not accept that her son's other half was a transgender person, nor could she accept that her future daughter-in-law could not have children, so she refused to force her to stop the loss in time.
Zhang Kesha interviewed
. The more Chen’s mother interfered, the more Chen Ping was eager to have Zhang Kesha. But even though the flames of their love had already reached the clouds, they still could not resist the public opinion in society. In desperation, Zhang Kesha had to let Chen Ping go to nothing.
The time she broke up was in great pain, but she knew very well that she could not change the environment, she could only change her situation.
Zhang Kesha
At this time, she suddenly thought of Mr. Xiao who proposed to her, so she immediately contacted Mr. Xiao and said she was willing to marry him, provided that the other party must take her to Hong Kong early and leave this sad place as soon as possible.
In this way, Zhang Kesha and Mr. Xiao, who is not short of money, became legitimate couples.
Zhang Kesha and Mr. Xiao
But Zhang Kesha was not happy after marriage because she didn't like Mr. Xiao at all. In addition, the opposition from her family made her physically and mentally exhausted, and the idea of escaping once again occupied Zhang Kesha's mind.
Then she left home and started a journey that lasted for several months. During the journey, Zhang Kesha had seen many beautiful scenery and figured out the way to go later.
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It is worth mentioning that Mr. Xiao maintained a rare silence about Zhang Kesha's identity as a transgender person. He never asked her questions about transgender until her death, giving her endless tolerance and freedom.
With the support of Mr. Xiao, Zhang Kesha seriously experienced every moment of becoming a true woman.
Zhang Kesha
She has changed many jobs, especially in the position of insurance salesperson, and has made amazing achievements, adding a lot of confidence and sense of identity to herself.
The light brought to her by a successful career can never shine in the dark place of her heart, because she herself is also snatching the word "transgender person" and never letting go, which leads to outsiders having an opportunity to take advantage of, affecting most of her life.
Zhang Kesha
"I think people like me should not have love"
The first transgender person in China, Zhang Kesha, the moment he entered the operating room, he never thought that he would be entangled with so many men.
After marrying the wealthy businessman Mr. Xiao to live in Hong Kong, Zhang Kesha finally sat in the position of insurance salesman manager, but the appearance of a woman broke her peaceful life.
Zhang Kesha
This woman had met Zhang Kesha in Changsha before, so she naturally knew that she was a transgender person. Seeing that Zhang Kesha deliberately concealed her identity, she began to threaten and extort.
Zhang Kesha felt extremely flustered after she grabbed the handle. She was afraid that her identity would affect her career after it was exposed, so she gave her a lot of money as she wanted.
Ashan
But this did not calm her life. Later, Zhang Kesha met a man named "Ashan". The two fell in love at first sight, and Ashan took her to meet her parents.
But in the face of Ashan’s parents’ urging her to get married, Zhang Kesha hesitated because at that time she was still in a marriage relationship with Mr. Xiao, and she always remembered what her parents told her, that was to tell her true identity.
Zhang Kesha
But this time she chose to cheat. Zhang Kesha spent the happiest time of her life without hiding Ashan.
However, the good times did not last long. The woman who threatened her came to the door again. Zhang Kesha could only try every means to raise money to block the other party's mouth. It was not until her money was squeezed completely by the woman that Zhang Kesha realized the seriousness of the matter.
Zhang Kesha
In order to avoid being entangled by the woman again, she wanted to escape again. Later, she broke up and got along several times with Ashan, and Ashan's heart was hurt by Zhang Kesha, and she couldn't understand her difficulties. So the two could no longer get back together, and Zhang Kesha finally felt discouraged:
"I think people like me should not have love. It would be great to be able to live well."
Zhang Kesha interviewed
, and she was completely disappointed. She ran away again and fled to Wanwan.
When he was in Wanwan, Zhang Kesha and a society man who was 10 years younger than her and who was selling arms were gradually falling in love with her, and the other party trusted her very much. Later, while committing a crime and fleeing, Ah Hao turned himself in after hearing Zhang Kesha's words and was eventually sentenced to jail.
At this time, Zhang Kesha was very confused and a little homesick. Until 2002, her mother and husband Mr. Xiao passed away one after another.
Zhang Kesha
On the one hand, he felt guilty for his mother's filial piety, and on the other hand, Mr. Xiao gave him the tolerance and understanding over the years. These emotions and emotions were mixed together, and Zhang Kesha's heart was broken.
"I once longed for a home, a home that belongs to me, a husband who loves me and gives me a strong feeling. I have all this, but I once had it, and what I hope most is forever."
Zhang Kesha tells himself
Later, when she mentions the past, Zhang Kesha's words are full of loneliness.
She has lived a hard life. Since she wanted to be a real woman as a child, she has already destined to have a bumpy future. Fortunately, she still has many precious and happy experiences in her life that can accompany her for the rest of her life.
