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Gao Yuanyuan As a national goddess in the entertainment industry, the road of love has always attracted much attention. In the eyes of many people, there are naturally no shortage of boys around her, but many people don’t know that Gao Yuanyuan’s relationship has been very bumpy all the way.
First, he fell in love with rock young man Zhang Yadong and was abandoned. Then, he fell in love with Xia Yu and was scolded for "get out of the entertainment industry".
Finally, the national goddess married the second generation star Zhao Youting . There has been a joke in the entertainment industry: The hatred of taking over your wife is irreconcilable!
She and Zhao Youting have been married for 8 years, and the changes are very obvious. In addition to being sweet and loving, she also found the life she really wants.
abandoned by Zhang Yadong
1997's popularity in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", the audience met an actor named Gao Yuanyuan.
The character "Zhou Zhiruo" was not likable at first, but she interpreted the character's inner entanglement and the later blackening in a very reasonable way. The audience not only did not feel annoyed after watching it, but instead felt very sorry for Zhou Zhiruo in the play.
With her outstanding appearance and superb acting skills, she became a household name. She was the most popular actress at that time, and the directors rushed to work with her.
At the invitation of director Wang Xiaoshuai , Gao Yuanyuan played the heroine of the movie " Qinghong ".
movie tells the youth story of two generations, using natural descriptions to highlight the background of sadness. Because of her outstanding performance in the movie, she was nominated for the best actress of the Cannes Film Festival .
As an actor, she is very recognizing her work, and this is also the best time for her career to develop.
During the interview, the reporter asked her when her career was developing so well and if there were any new trends in her relationship, she smiled shyly.
did not hesitate, but instead admitted generously that he was in love with Zhang Yadong, a talented man in the rock circle at that time.
At this time, Gao Yuanyuan was in her early twenties and was an absolute literary young woman. Zhang Yadong had all the characteristics that literary young woman liked, and was talented and romantic.
The two met at the MV production site of Faye Wong . She looked at Zhang Yadong who helped Faye Wong shoot MV from afar, wondering who this person was. Suddenly a beam of light hit Zhang Yadong's side face, and she felt that the person in front of her seemed to be shining.
Every adolescent girl will fantasize about being a princess. One day, the true emperor will come to pick him up on a white horse, and Gao Yuanyuan thinks that Zhang Yadong is the one who wants to pick him up on a white horse.
The acquaintance between the two is very similar to the romantic scenes in the TV series. They got together not long after they met.
But Gao Yuanyuan's self-revealment involved another problem, that is, Zhang Yadong had not divorced his ex-wife Dou Ying at this time.
The news of two people dating quickly fermenting on the Internet. Not long after, a reporter photographed Zhang Yadong and Dou Ying going to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle the divorce together.
Zhang Yadong
In this relationship, Gao Yuanyuan was actually not happy. She loved Zhang Yadong more than she loved herself. She took good care of him day after day, and even turned down her work to accompany him, but she still couldn't get a warm response from the other party.
When attending the event, when the reporter asked about their relationship, she expressed more than once that she hoped for a good result and was looking forward to getting married.
But Zhang Yadong ignored all this and was even photographed dating Xu Jinglei . Isn’t this obviously slapping Gao Yuanyuan’s face?
In a fit of anger, she proposed to break up to Zhang Yadong. She thought Zhang Yadong would try to keep him, but she didn't expect that the other party would leave without any nostalgia, which made Gao Yuanyuan very hurt.
New love aroused right and wrong
For a long time since then, Gao Yuanyuan fell into suspicion of herself. In order not to keep herself in the pain, she began to work constantly, busy every day.
In 2007, Gao Yuanyuan and actor Xia Yu collaborated on the drama "Accomplice" which tells the story of an office romance, and the two fell in love because of the drama.
Gao Yuanyuan was photographed several times in succession and went to Xia Yu's home. When the photos were exposed, netizens couldn't sit still.
Everyone is puzzled, isn’t Xia Yu’s girlfriend Yuan Quan ? The two have been in love since they were in college. Why did Xia Yu suddenly be with Gao Yuanyuan?
Everyone thought it was Gao Yuanyuan who was immoral. He knew that the other party had a girlfriend, but he still went up. Everyone scolded her for destroying other people's feelings, without morality and no bottom line.
was originally well received in the circle for her superb acting skills and outstanding appearance, but because of a relationship, many brands are reluctant to cooperate because of her negative news.
Xia Yufang took a cold treatment of the matter and did not make any statement. Seeing that the situation was getting worse and worse, Gao Yuanyuan had to come forward to clarify. She said that she was not a third party and would never be a third party.
But netizens did not buy it, thinking that she was a bad woman who destroyed other people's feelings. Not long after, Yuan Quan took the initiative to come forward to clarify that he had already broken up with Xia Yu because of disagreement of feelings.
As the male protagonist of this incident, Xia Yu did not say a word for Gao Yuanyuan. She experienced a serious confrontation, and some people even asked her to get out of the entertainment industry.
Just as the public opinion was slowly calming down, Gao Yuanyuan and Xia Yu had broken up at some point. After the breakup, Xia Yu returned to Yuanquan and made Gao Yuanyuan who came out to clarify it like a joke.
Many people say that Gao Yuanyuan looks, who would not like it after seeing it?
Xia Yu and Yuan Quan are separated because of their work and are full of conflicts. It is normal to meet the beautiful Gao Yuanyuan. However, after a short time of getting along, he saw his heart clearly and finally returned to Yuan Quan.
There is always one of the three people’s feelings that is redundant. Gao Yuanyuan is the one who was abandoned and the one who was the most hurt in this relationship.
In fact, this is not the first time Gao Yuanyuan has been scolded for interfering in other people's feelings. In 1998, director Teng Huatao has been choosing the female lead for his new drama "Can't Find North", but after choosing it, I have never chosen the right one.
The so-called "unintentional planting willows" became a shade. That day, he was watching TV at home, and Gao Yuanyuan suddenly appeared on the TV. He was extremely surprised and thought to himself: Isn't this the actress I want to find!
At this time, Gao Yuanyuan was still a fledgling newbie. She only filmed a few advertisements and was not very interested in acting. She decisively refused Teng Huatao's invitation.
Teng Huatao did not give up because Gao Yuanyuan was completely in line with all his imagination of the characters, so he started the stubborn mode and finally successfully invited Gao Yuanyuan to play.
But the show became popular before it was finished, because Teng Huatao and Gao Yuanyuan were in love on the crew.
You should know that director Teng Huatao has a girlfriend, the entertainment industry is true and fake, and the whistleblower has no evidence to prove that the two are really ambiguous. This scandal can only be left alone. Both of them are not well-known, so naturally not many people care about it.
Go around and find true love
Time flies quickly, and 2011 is coming in a blink of an eye. This year has brought great changes to Gao Yuanyuan's life.
Gao Yuanyuan heard that Chen Kaige director was looking for an actress for her new movie " Search for ". This was a rare opportunity, so she decided to give it a try. Finally, the audition results came out, and she and Zhao Youting became the male and female protagonists of the movie.
Sometimes fate is so wonderful. When the two leading actors met for the first time, Zhao Youting could not move his eyes away from Gao Yuanyuan. He once said that he was a person who did not believe in love at first sight, but at this time he believed it.
In the process of getting along, Zhao Youting became more determined to pursue Gao Yuanyuan's idea and immediately launched an action. The crew members often helped and helped.
Chen Kaige said: When I saw him looking at Gao Yuanyuan, I knew something was wrong. There were hundreds of people around him, and only Gao Yuanyuan was in his eyes.
Although Gao Yuanyuan is the goddess in the hearts of countless people, the relationship has not been very smooth. Zhao Youting's pursuit did not put a lot of pressure on her and he has been silently treating her.
When it rains, he will silently hand over an umbrella. When Gao Yuanyuan is feeling uncomfortable, he will go to buy her medicine in the middle of the night. No matter how big or small, the little warmth day after day finally touched Gao Yuanyuan, and the two of them were together smoothly.
The two announced their relationship before the movie was filmed, but netizens were not optimistic about it.
is mainly because Gao Yuanyuan is five years older than Zhao Youting. Everyone thinks that the sister-brother relationship will definitely not last long, but the two were not influenced by the voices of the outside world and are still sweet. After the movie was released, Zhao Youting was asked about his current relationship when interviewing, and he said: "We are very good now. Yuanyuan is a very good woman. I am very lucky to meet her. I will cherish her."
Among Gao Yuanyuan's several relationships, only Zhao Youting stood up and firmly chose her. This is not difficult to explain why Gao Yuanyuan likes him.
Two years after falling in love, Zhao Youting proposed in a high-profile manner. Soon the two met each other's parents, and both parties were very satisfied.
Gao Yuanyuan confessed affectionately at the wedding: "Where you are is home, I am very lucky to meet you and marry you."
Zhao Youting was very moved after hearing this and said, "You will always be my most important person, and I will be nice to you all my life." Netizens also sent blessings.
After getting married, Gao Yuanyuan rarely came out to work, and she shifted her focus from work to family.
Zhao Youting's father Zhao Shuhai When attending the event, the reporter asked his daughter-in-law what kind of person he was. He said without any hesitation: "Yuanyuan is a very sensible and filial child. He does everything well. It is his blessing to marry Youting."
The ancients said: "You can't have both fish and bear's paws." Since ancient times, it has been a very difficult thing to balance a good career and family. A big factor in Zhao Youting's success is that there is a capable woman behind him.
In 2017, " Three Lives Three Worlds Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms " starring Zhao Youting received extremely high attention as soon as it was broadcast, and the topics were discussed continuously every day.
At the beginning, everyone said that the male lead was not good enough, but after the show was broadcast, netizens said: It turns out that a person’s acting skills can ignore his appearance!
The broadcast of this drama has made countless people know an actor with acting skills and strength, and Zhao Youting directly became a first-line star.
The career is developing at its peak, and there is good news at home. Gao Yuanyuan successfully gave birth to a daughter, and the two have added more identities since then.
After the birth of her daughter, it is even more difficult to see Gao Yuanyuan in the entertainment industry. She has become the "missed population" in the circle.
fans could not find Gao Yuanyuan, so they could only call Zhao Youting and quickly let Gao Yuanyuan come out to film.
Zhao Youting couldn't say anything about his hardship. He said in the interview:
"It's not that I didn't let her come out to film. I often told her that if she had a good notebook, she could understand it, but she felt that her daughter was still young and needed a mother."
Now netizens have nothing to say. Gao Yuanyuan has already made her own choice. Now she is no longer the Gao Yuanyuan who is dedicated to her career. With another identity, she focuses on her family. But fans are not dissatisfied with this, after all, everyone has their own choice.
In fact, Gao Yuanyuan, who just started shooting advertisements, entered the entertainment industry, and shooting advertisements was also an accident.
Once she went shopping, she was asked to shoot an advertisement by someone on the road. She felt that she was not safe and subconsciously refused, but she couldn't resist the other party's repeated persuasion, so she could only leave her father's phone number.
Unexpectedly, the other party did not give up and actually called. She thought her father would refuse when he received the call, but she didn't expect that her father agreed to her go and see the outside world.
so she went to shoot the first advertisement in her life. Unexpectedly, the response was very good. Then there were advertisements to find her one after another. Without affecting her study, she chose some advertisements she liked to shoot.
997 She happened to be eighteen years old. Director Zhang Yang saw the advertisement she shot on TV and thought she was very awesome and wanted to find her to make a movie.
She thought that making a movie was like shooting an advertisement, but she agreed. Unexpectedly, it was much more difficult. Fortunately, the effect was good in the end, so she stepped into the entertainment industry.
She just entered the entertainment industry and was still a little girl, full of yearning for love, but the failed emotional experience made her worry about gains and losses, lack confidence, and even spent every day in anxiety. During that period, her condition became visible to the naked eye.
After meeting Zhao Youting, he gave Gao Yuanyuan enough space and respect. Even if he became a first-line star, he did not forget the promise he had made to Gao Yuanyuan.
In recent years, she has participated in one of the few activities, and her condition is better and better every time. Netizens say, "The goddess has become more beautiful."
8 years old, and the two still imagined that they were on their honeymoon. Where Gao Yuanyuan is there, Zhao Youting's eyes will follow. Facts have proved that a good relationship will make people radiant!
In this marriage, Gao Yuanyuan seems to be the one who sacrifices a lot, but from another perspective, isn’t this what she wants?
Now she is 43 years old, she still looks like a girl in her early twenties. Time has not left any traces on her. It can be seen that her marriage life did not worry her. Zhao Youting fulfilled his promise and took good care of her.
