"Mom, I'm very scared. I feel that I'm getting farther and farther away from you."
"How are you, Mom loves you."
85-year-old mother hugged her sick daughter tightly with her withered arms.
Just like 65 years ago, my daughter was just born and was babbling.
This is the recently popular domestic movie "Mom! 》.
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Because her 65-year-old daughter suffers from Alzheimer's disease, her mother once again protects her "cup". As soon as the movie was released, even many people who claimed to be insensational to sensationality were in tears.
Some people even sighed: "This movie is a warm hug for the tired middle-aged people."
In a flash, we have entered middle age, and we have become other people's parents and the pillars of our family.
It is like a kite being released. When we are tired and we always want to follow the thread and return to our mother's arms.
Mom is not exclusive to childhood. Even when people reach middle age and old age, they still can’t help but yearn for this love.
That painful "mom" is an indispensable comfort and thought for everyone in their life.
In an old house, mother Jiang Yuzhi and daughter Feng Jizhen depend on each other for their own lives.
My daughter has never been married for life, she has a weak personality, but takes care of her mother in every detail.
Mom is playful and rebellious, like an "old naughty boy", but she is very dependent on her daughter:
She will act coquettishly before going to bed: "Do you want to sleep together? Aren't you afraid that I will be cold?"
She will play tricks and "pretend to death" and laugh after seeing her daughter's anxiety and panic.
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But life obviously doesn't want to give up. The invasion of the disease has pushed everything into the "retrograde" track:
Daughter was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease : Memory loss , bad temper, unconsciousness, incontinence... until the ability to live is completely lost.
Seeing the horns of fate approaching, the mother with silver hair stood up again and met the fierce battle alone:
She trembled forward, hugged her daughter who was wet with her pants, and comforted her, "I'm not afraid, my mother is here";
She leaned over again and again, picked up the things her daughter messed up, and sorted the house in an orderly manner;
The heat-relieving patch on her head, got up from the bed with difficulty, and put on shoes and socks for her daughter with trembling hands.
Faced with the child tortured by the disease, the 85-year-old changed her mentality of "living enough", ate big sluts, and worked hard to exercise just to last longer.
Even when her daughter was "fraudulent", she no longer had her former sickness, stretched out her dry but powerful fist, and faced the strong and strong young man.
Faced with her daughter's concerns, the mother was determined: "Every mother is a mother wolf, and it is their nature to protect the cubs."
Her love for her children has been integrated into her bones and blood.
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But after all, isn't it the same for each of our mothers?
When she was young, she taught us to learn language; when she was studying, she accompanied us to work at night; after getting married, she helped us take care of our children...
She may not recognize the new brand, and when she couldn't understand the new words, it seemed to be too barren.
But when the child needs it, she can always wear armor and give us everything she can.
I have read two reports:
07-year-old mother attended a wedding banquet and saw that there was sugar on the table, but she was reluctant to eat it.
Because she wanted to keep it, she put it in her pocket and took it home for her 84-year-old daughter.
In the early morning of winter, my mother in her 60s pushed a cart and picked up scraps on the street. After two trips, she could earn 20 yuan.
Faced with the confusion of passers-by, she replied: "Life is not easy for my son, I have to help him."
Korean drama "Please answer 1988", there is a sentence: "I heard that God cannot be everywhere, so I created my mother."
Mom is not a god, but is greater than God.
They will rush forward as long as they have a breath, preventing the cold wind and rain in this world from falling on their children.
, without any regrets, do your best to stop until death.
After getting his Alzheimer's disease diagnosis, his daughter Feng Jizhen collapsed and cried by the river.
But she didn't have much time to be sad, and reality was caught off guard, so she could only race against time:
She took advantage of her own sobering and transferred all her property to her mother's name.
She bought insurance to ensure that her mother had a source of money after she was "crazy".
She asked workers to strengthen the living facilities at home, teach her mother to cook, and prepare everything she could think of.
But even so, fate did not care about her piety, and still let the disease defile her slowly.
Once, Feng Jizhen wore his mother's old veil and rushed out of the night.
It was not until we ran all the way and pushed open the door of our former home that we realized that she was fantasizing about the scene of a family of three dancing.
She once described her home like this: "I am a drop of water, and my mother is a sea, and my father is a whale who can't swim."
After my father left, my mother kept waiting for her. Now, she is going to "quit" early.
But no matter what, when she was awake, she was always waiting for her mother.
(The picture comes from the movie "Mom!", delete if infringement)
How many children can there be? Parents don’t know how many of them are there. It was not until they left that they beat their chests and stamped their feet and regretted them.
Someone once said: "The most regrettable thing in our life is that it is too late to be sensible."
It was not until the moment when they really came, that we suddenly realized that the future is long, and it turns out that it is the biggest lie in the world.
I remembered a news story:
Zhengzhou, Henan Province, a young man canceled his account for his mother.
Looking at the photo in my hand, this strong middle-aged man suddenly felt sad and burst into tears as if no one else was around.
It turns out that my mother has passed away for several months.
. He was reluctant to apply for it because he was afraid that once the account was closed, there would be no trace of his mother coming in the world.The scene of
has spread to the Internet, making countless people's eyes red.
We always think that time is very slow, but we don’t know when the disease and gray hair have found our parents;
We always feel that there is still a chance, but we don’t know that every time we turn around, it may be a farewell forever.
The song " One Meat and One Vegetarian " sang:
"A person who is too young is always unsatisfied and stubbornly unwilling to stop his journey.
Looking at the high sky, walking a long way, forgot to look back, did she cry?"
When we were young, we always wanted to make another move and earn more money. One day, we would stand in front of our mother in a glorious way.
Maybe when the person who has protected us for the rest of our lives will become eternal regrets and debts.
"Parents are a wall between us and the god of death. When our parents are gone, we face the god of death."
Disease, accidents, death... In the world, more and more losses are caught off guard.
We began to be afraid. One day we looked back and found that there was no place for life, only the way back.
As time goes by, my daughter Feng Jizhen gradually forgot everything. When she got sick, she couldn't wear clothes, could not eat, and could not even recognize her mother in front of her.
But even so, her love for her mother never disappeared:
She put a note in her pocket with the words "Follow your mother, you won't make mistakes."
She sang in the nursing home “Only mothers are good” and proudly introduced how outstanding her mother is.
She was full of sincerity and held a pen at the window, wrote down every thought of her mother, and put it in the letter paper.
She said that her mother is afraid of mosquitoes in summer and cold in winter. Remember to snap her fingers three times, which is a secret code for the family to express love.
A quiet afternoon, the mother and daughter sat opposite each other, and Feng Jizhen suddenly called "Mom".
But until her mother replied, "Hey, I am a mother", she smiled and said, "You really look like my mother."
Seeing that the disease was surging, she became weaker and weaker, her mother took her daughter and moved into the nursing home that her daughter had arranged for her.
Looking around, the daughter asked, "Why are you so smart? You know I'm coming here." The scene of
This scene once again made people cry: even if you forget everything, you can't forget the persistence of wanting to take care of your mother.
But they are happy for them: because even though their fate is powerless, at least they accompany each other and have come to the end.
I remembered the two sentences on the poster:
"You don't remember me, but I still love you."
"I don't know you anymore, but I still love you."
Life in the sea of sea, we are like duckweed floating in the world, but no matter how far we float, as long as my mother is there, my heart will have a place to go.
At the end, a group of real Alzheimer's disease patients were added to call their mother.
When asked whether to miss your mother or not, the elderly over a hundred years old couldn't stop being moved. They wiped their tears with their sleeves like a child, and replied helplessly: "I think, of course I think."
Even though many things can't be remembered, my love and longing for my mother has never faded.
There is a collection online: "When will you think of your mother?"
Countless answers hit the heart:
"When you walk alone on the streets of a foreign country."
"When you are bullied at your in-laws' house. "
"When a person collapsed and cried with his child. "
"When I saw my peers talking and laughing with my parents, but I had no chance again."
...
Everyone is not necessarily a parent, but everyone has a mother.
Mother's meals, mom's nagging, mom's wrinkles, mom's figure...
The fine pieces of life are always ignored inadvertently.
But whenever we are alone and deeply trapped in despair, these ordinary pasts can always allow us to gain the power of healing without medicine.
The author Shuimu Ding commented on "Mom! 》:
"As long as I see my 85-year-old mother patting her 65-year-old daughter's hand with her old hand, I can't help crying.
I haven't held my mother's hand in many years, and I miss her very much."
I miss my mother's child, more than one!
We are wandering all our lives and seek happiness in the world.
It is only in the end that the most precious feelings in life are quietly following our mother's pain when we first came to the world.
Whether it is five years old, thirty-five, or sixty-five, when we are confused and helpless, the first thing we think of is mother.
While your parents are alive, spend more time with them. While time is still alive, love them well.
It is very hard to be an adult, but fortunately we still have the opportunity to be a child, lean on our mother's lap, and cry unrestrainedly.
