Everyone has his own unique aura, which is constantly cultivated over the years. Some are dim and weak, while others bloom with light.
Actor Yuan Quan in "The War of the Roses" portrays an inspirational character who returns to the workplace after divorce. His superb performance of one person with thousands of faces adds a lot to the film. Gu Nian's dress in the play has once again become the standard for successful women in the workplace.
Compared with the plot, Yuan Quan’s real-life experience is more admirable.
She loved opera since she was a child, and went to Beijing alone to study Peking Opera when she was 11 years old. During her studies, her interest in acting became more and more intense. Seven years later, she made the decision to change her destiny, gave up the opera stage, and was admitted to the performance department of Shanghai Opera. . In his sophomore year, he starred in "Spring Rhapsody" and won the Golden Rooster Award for his refined temperament.
When her career was at its peak, she made an unexpected decision and switched to the drama stage that she loved so much. At the age of 30, she was selected into the "Chinese Drama Centenary Hall of Fame" together with famous masters such as Lao She, Cao Yu, and she became the youngest actor among them.
Now 40 years old, she has a stable relationship and exciting plots. Both the director and the public are deeply attracted by her extraordinary temperament.
As Peake Phil said in "Aura": ""A strong aura is a person's sense of existence and attraction, and it is her unparalleled aura. ”
Peake Phil is the number one spiritual master in the United States. The aura training courses he promotes have benefited 16 million people around the world. Many people have regained their confidence in his courses.
Know how to love yourself and laugh in the face of suffering. , abundant inside With your heart, you can have a strong aura and create a positive and full life
01, Those who love themselves will be loved by others, and those who help themselves will be helped by heaven.
People who know how to love themselves are more likely to be treated well by life.
A person who is unkempt, slovenly, and just getting along will not be successful in either job hunting or love.
A person who knows how to take care of himself is often easy to win the favor of others. The habit of self-discipline also makes people’s temperament unique.
Peake Phil said in "Aura": "Our thoughts, emotions, The energy form formed by the combination of words, actions, etc. will attract homogeneous people and things. ”
People with the same frequency will always be attracted by people with the same frequency. If you live a very negative life, you will attract some negative energy people, making the original unfortunate life worse.
Musk’s mother Meyer and the first Before Ren’s husband got married, he became She met a man who was extremely unsure of herself and married him without thinking.
She encountered domestic violence a few days after her marriage. In order to cover up her misfortune, she pretended to live a happy life.
After learning from the experience, she decided to change the status quo. Risking her life, she divorced her husband and brought her She left home with three children.
After her divorce, she spent time improving her temperament, both in appearance and content.
Not only were the three children influenced by words and deeds, they each achieved outstanding results. , she herself was still active in modeling and dancing until she was 90 years old Taiwan, the whole life is shining.
Meyer stopped the nightmare in time, and the change in her aura gave her a different life.
Zhang Lan said: "People can't stop loving themselves, and they can't stop cultivating themselves. You can't lose your self-respect, you can't be self-improvement, and you can't deceive yourself.”
If you don’t cherish yourself and look down on yourself, how can the other person respect you?
If you want to be confident, you have to take action , read more, think more, and keep up with powerful actions while changing your mentality, and your life situation will naturally change accordingly.
How you treat yourself will be how life will treat you. Only when you treat yourself well, will life treat you well.
02. The courage to give up is the beginning of a person's strength.
No one is perfect, and no one's life will be smooth sailing. Frustration and pain are often the norm in life.
Peake Phil said in "Aura": "Life is never perfect. If you always look at its rewards from the perspective of frustration, the shortcomings of society will be magnified. , then what you see will be an extremely dark world. ”
Everyone hopes to be in a good mood every day, but trivial things often break their wishes and make them feel confused.
Life is not soft on anyone. Why are some people still able to laugh? It’s not that they have no brains and only know how to have fun. , less trouble than you
. Instead, after thinking about it, you realize that this is what life is like, and try to do things that can change it, instead of getting stuck in emotional internal friction.
Only by actively choosing a growth path can you maintain an optimistic attitude. It is easier to be favored by luck.
In the TV series " Come on Mom ", Zhou Nannan was abandoned by her boyfriend after she became pregnant, but she did not. Feeling sorry for herself, she raised the child alone. After her boyfriend became famous, he returned to China to propose marriage and begged her to get back together on the grounds of "giving the child a complete home."
She refused. Returning to her humble and cowardly self, her hard work and tenacity gave her the confidence to be independent and self-reliant, and her temperament also changed accordingly.
Everyone has unsatisfactory life, more than fear of breakup or fear. What scares us more about getting fired is that we don’t have the courage to make a comeback.
But once we bite the bullet and start the journey against the wind, we will become more determined than ever because of our “active choice”. Give seriously. Transform into a butterfly in pain.
Ji Xianlin said in "Ji Xianlin Talks about Life": "Everyone strives for a complete life. However, since ancient times and now, at home and abroad, there has never been a 100% perfect life. So I say, imperfection is life. "
What if I have no success in my career at the age of 30, divorced at the age of 40 and become single, or failed to start a business at the age of 50? As long as you don't give up, the future is in your own hands.
Fan Zeng said: "Always treat life positively. When you are depressed, you are weak. When you have the courage to declare war on fate and control your own destiny, you can become the master of life." ”
Don’t complain about the unfair fate all day long, thinking that everyone owes you, but actively face all the hardships in life, no matter how bad the situation is, you will not regret it if you work hard.
Only in this way can you be calm Face the wind and rain and live your wonderful life .
03. When the heart is bright, everything is bright.
If you want to live a good life, you must have a strong heart. is strong enough to embrace any unknown and uncertainty.
So how can you make your heart stronger?
Method 1: Keep smiling
A confident person will always exude a charming smile, which will inadvertently make you relax your vigilance and control the atmosphere of the whole place.
Carnegie said: "A person with a smile will always be popular."
People who are good at smiling will always be welcomed by people, which will make people unconsciously relax their guard and make strangers feel fond of you. Good impression.
Especially when entering a new career or new relationship, it can quickly shorten the distance between you and make you more popular.
Method 2: Face the fear
If you encounter something, you never dare to face it. You like to hide in your own turtle shell, hoping that things will pass quickly.
Because of this, he becomes more and more timid, not daring to face or fight for anything, and in the end can only hide and feel sorry for himself.
If you really want to change, try the "Stranger Game".
The so-called "Stranger Game" refers to standing among 10 people and accepting the choice of the opposite sex.
Because during the game, you are constantly in contact with strangers, your thinking will become active, and your courage will gradually grow.
Over time, your heart will open up and you will become braver and work hard to get what you want.
Method Three: Deliberately exercise
Everyone has willpower, but some are strong and some are weak. And people with strong willpower can become better and better through their own efforts.
Santiago in "The Old Man and the Sea" encountered a shark while catching marlin . But he did not abandon the ship and escape. Instead, he accepted the reality and relied on his tenacious willpower to fight the shark for three days and three nights and regain the fruits of his victory.
's strong willpower makes Santiago not afraid at all when facing difficulties and has the courage to challenge.
The same is true for us. When facing difficulties, we cannot just retreat, but we must actively find solutions and face challenges bravely.
Regarding how to exercise willpower, Peake Phil gave two key steps:
The first step is to consciously correct and overcome the weaknesses of the will, such as: exaggerating facts, vulgar language, losing temper, self-destruction, etc.
The second step is to confirm the mission, the importance of "correct dreams", that is, to establish the correct goal and the determination to persevere.
Only in this way can we establish strong willpower so that we will not give up easily when we encounter setbacks and difficulties.
Peake Phil said in "Aura": "Whether a person can achieve great things depends on whether he has a positive aura and is willing to accept reality, and actively seek solutions."
Aura is A kind of ability can be cultivated, as long as you dare to face your true self and make progress bit by bit.
If you know how to love yourself, life will be kind to you; if you choose to grow, you will live life with more confidence; if you have a strong heart, you will not be easily knocked down by life.
Only in this way can we clear away the layers of clouds on the road of life, walk confidently and calmly, and have a more exciting life.
