Every actor has one or more famous works.
Mention actress Li Lin. Audiences who are familiar with her will easily think of her starring role in "The Woman Who Crossed the River of Men".
When it comes to this drama, the theme song will naturally echo in the minds of the audience:
Clay jars are afraid of ash
Earthen jars are afraid of filming
The pickled cabbage jar is afraid of touching
The oil bottle is afraid of falling
The river always flows eastward
When it encounters a bend, it has to turn
...
Shan Xing, played by Li Lin, has a very rough emotional experience.
In reality, Li Lin was hurt by her ex-husband's lies, and later remarried her second husband, gymnastics champion Li Dashuang.
The two have been together for 10 years now, and there are regrets in their happy marriage.
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Shan Xing is young and beautiful. Young people in the same village like her, including Dabao, the son of the security director.
Dabao is infatuated with mountain apricots, and even talks about "don't marry anyone who is not a mountain apricot".
But Shan Xing fell in love at first sight with Yusheng, a cadre who went to the countryside to help the poor.
Shan Xing's mother once had a bad relationship with a cadre who went to the countryside, and she gave birth to Shan Xing, who was despised by the villagers.
Therefore, the relationship between Shanxing and Yusheng was not favored by the villagers.
Villagers often made irresponsible remarks behind Shan Xing's back, which made it difficult for Yusheng to carry out his work in the village. He had no choice but to leave the countryside and return to the provincial capital.
Yusheng's departure made Shanxing completely disappointed in love.
Shan Xing was forced to marry Dabao under the pressure of public opinion.
After getting married, hardship came.
Her husband Dabao is crazy, and Shan Xing’s days are like years.
In the end, Shan Xing, who did not succumb to fate, escaped from the mountain village that left a psychological shadow on her, and wandered alone in the vast and unfamiliar city.
Li Lin became popular because of her role as the tragic woman Shan Xing, and she also won the Golden Eagle Award Best Actress Award.
In the period since then, most of the roles she has received have been similar tragic heroines.
Li Lin has a calm temperament, superb acting skills, and a unique crying ability. She is called the "Queen of Bitterness" by the audience.
At that time, she would not have thought that four years later, she would meet her first husband Wang Xiaolie while filming.
would never have imagined that Wang Xiaolie would take advantage of her relationship step by step and use lies to cause harm to her.
Because of this relationship, she became a tragic woman like Shan Xing.
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Li Lin was born in Hefei City, Anhui Province in 1971. She loved singing and dancing since she was a child, and she often participated in school performances when she was in school.
After growing up, Li Lin came up with the idea of applying for the Film Academy , and later received support from her family.
In 1990, Li Lin lived up to her family's expectations and successfully passed the Beijing Film Academy's acting department. She became classmates with Huang Lei, Jiang Wu, Wang Jinsong and others.
There are eight boys and eight girls in their class. They thought they would be paired up as four pairs, but they have always been good friends.
html In the 1990s, the mainland TV drama industry began to enter a stage of vigorous development.
During this period, many classic works emerged in China, such as "Desire", " Fengshenbang", "I Love My Family", "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", " Prime Minister Liu Luoguo", "Water Margin", "Yongzheng Dynasty", etc.
When Li Lin was in her sophomore year, she was selected by the director to star in her first film "Operation Mission".
Because the sketches he usually rehearsed at school were different, he often stood in the wrong position and was scolded by the director.
But with the encouragement of my mother, I still persisted.
In her junior year, Li Lin collaborated with Xie Tieli on "Muslim Funeral" and gained a place in the entertainment industry.
After graduating from college, Li Lin has become famous, starring in "The Sky is Red" adapted from Jia Pingwa 's novel, starring alongside Chen Daoming.
Chen Daoming plays the tough-minded man Mantianhong who is crazy about love;
Li Lin plays the role of a peach blossom who marries a eunuch and longs for love.
The two met and fell in love with each other, but they were destined to have no connection.
At the end of the movie, the peach blossom dies and falls away like petals.
A desolate style, a solemn story, a joy and sorrow.
In 1995, Li Lin starred in the TV series "The Woman Who Crossed the River of Men", playing the role of Shan Xing and became popular.
After becoming famous, Li Lin met and fell in love with director Wang Xiaolie while filming the movie "Looking at Charila".
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Wang Xiaolie, who was born in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province in 1961, is 10 years older than Li Lin.
In 1978, Wang Xiaolie was admitted to the photography department of Beijing Film Academy and became classmates with Zhang Yimou and Gu Changwei. After graduating from
, Wang Xiaolie was assigned to Emei Film Studio as a photographer.
In 1998, Wang Xiaolie became a director for the first time, filming the movie "Looking at Charila", so he and Li Lin had a mutual affection.
Wang Xiaolie is a person who knows how to be romantic. On Valentine's Day in 2000, he appeared in front of Li Lin holding a bouquet of roses.
At that time, Li Lin was filming in Nanjing, and Wang Xiaolie's sudden appearance surprised her.
The two have been dating for several years and have never gotten married.
Wang Xiaolie took the initiative to propose marriage, and Li Lin said that when she wanted to have children, she would naturally get married.
Li Lin refused several times, and Wang Xiaolie never took the initiative to mention marriage again.
After SARS, Li Lin felt that she and Wang Xiaolie were dependent on each other.
Since he was old enough and had no reason to bother, he approached Wang Xiaolie and proposed marriage.
In November 2003, Li Lin and Wang Xiaolie only invited their parents to attend, prepared a large table of dishes at their home, and held a simple wedding banquet.
After getting married, the two planned to go abroad for their honeymoon and enjoy the wonderful time together. But at this time, they also received the script of " Fan Mansion Courtyard ".
After Wang Xiaolie read the script, he didn’t want to miss this good show, so he canceled his travel plans, took his new wife Li Lin with him, and went directly to the set.
The play is directed by Wang Xiaolie and Li Lin plays the role of the young lady of the Fan family.
In front of the stage, the two of them cooperated tacitly; off the stage of
, the two of them were chatting with each other.
After a short sweet period, life finally became dull.
Wang Xiaolie hopes that Li Lin will have a baby, but Li Lin doesn't want to drag down her career because of having a baby.
At that time, Li Lin was on the show, and her friend Nursery wished her an early child.
Her parents also wanted to give birth to their grandson as soon as possible, and advised Li Lin to be more generous when things happened and not to quarrel with Wang Xiaolie.
But life is your own, and no matter how much outsiders try to persuade you, they don’t know the difficulties.
Li Lin and Wang Xiaolie had conflicts over the birth of a child, and quarrels were inevitable.
After the quarrel, neither of the two people with stronger personalities was willing to admit defeat.
In fact, in the three years after getting married, Li Lin mainly relied on filming to support her family.
In addition to acting, Li Lin is also good at writing. She has published essay collections "Knowing Women by Scent" and "Women Over Flowers".
Jiang Wu once praised: "She is a famous pen writer in our class."
Later, Wang Xiaolie also devoted himself to his work, and the two started a married life of spending less time together and more separation.
Over time, due to the lack of basic communication, mutual suspicions developed.
Li Lin was rumored to have an affair with an actor while filming;
As a director, Wang Xiaolie was naturally surrounded by actresses.
Under mutual distrust, the relationship between the two began to crack.
04
In 2005, Li Lin and Wang Xiaolie bought a villa in Huilongguan.
Li Lin paid 80% of the house payment and negotiated with Wang Xiaolie to write the names of two people on the house book.
At that time, Li Lin was busy filming and had no time to go through the relevant procedures.
Wang Xiaolie only wrote his own name in the house book because the process was too troublesome.
Originally this was nothing. If the relationship between the couple is stable, it doesn’t matter whose name is written in the house book.
However, since the relationship crisis broke out between the two, the issue of property ownership and distribution has been put on the table.
It was only then that Li Lin discovered that there was only Wang Xiaolie's name on the house book.
Wang Xiaolie's lies made Li Lin feel angry.
In 2006, the two sold the villa after breaking up.
Since the house is the common property of the couple, Wang Xiaolie asked for half of the house payment.
Li Lin was filled with anger and had a dispute with Wang Xiaolie.
Li Lin never expected that Wang Xiaolie would slap her in the face.
This slap was loud and clear, making Li Lin wake up.
She suppressed her anger and went through the divorce procedures with Wang Xiaolie.
The best way to let go of a relationship and forget someone is to end endless disputes.
Let it go, forget it, and everything will be relieved.
In the one or two years after the divorce, Li Lin has not been rumored to be in a relationship.
In 2009, some netizens reported that at a lavender manor in the suburbs of Beijing, they met Li Lin and a man who looked very similar to Li Xiaoshuang while playing together.
Li Lin and the mysterious man wore couple hats and had their fingers intertwined throughout the whole process.
According to netizens, they were always intertwined with each other, whispering and whispering to each other from time to time. They looked very intimate.
After the scene was exposed, some netizens said that the man next to Li Lin was not Li Xiaoshuang, but someone else.
Li Xiaoshuang has a twin brother named Li Dashuang. Both brothers are excellent gymnasts and have won world championships.
In the 1994 World Gymnastics Championships, brothers Li Dashuang and Li Xiaoshuang won the men's team championship in gymnastics. Li Dashuang was named one of the top ten athletes in the country twice.
Because they are twins, the brothers are often mistaken for each other. The person who was dating Li Lin was also Li Dashuang.
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In the cultural and sports circles, there are often award ceremonies or newspaper annual meetings, and this is how Li Lin and Li Dashuang met.
Li Dashuang is two years younger than Li Lin. In the early days of her relationship, Li Lin often confused the two brothers who looked almost the same.
Because the two brothers look, sound, and behave the same.
Once, she mistook Li Xiaoshuang for Li Dashuang.
He was drinking tea and she walked over and sat next to him.
During this period, the two of them were flirting with each other, and they were chatting. Then Li Dashuang walked over from the side, patted her on the shoulder and asked: What are you two talking about?
Only then did Li Lin realize that she had made a mistake.
Before Li Dashuang and Li Lin met, they had a failed marriage.
His ex-wife’s name is Shi Xuan. Before the divorce, she was a film and television investor and the head of Li Xiaoshuang’s clothing company.
When and why the two divorced has always been a mystery to the outside world.
Shi Xuan
As early as 2008, Li Lin and Li Dashuang had already established a romantic relationship.
That year, some netizens broke the news that they saw Li Lin and Li Dashuang watching football together at the Beijing Olympics football match, and the two interacted closely during the period.
In November of the same year, Yang Wei and Yang Yun got married. Li Dashuang and Li Lin attended the wedding together.
After the two had been dating for many years, Li Dashuang proposed marriage. Li Lin hesitated and always excused it by saying that she was busy with work.
After getting along for a long time, Li Lin gradually discovered that Li Dashuang was someone worthy of her trust.
When they met their parents for the first time, neither Li Lin nor Li Dashuang felt anything bad. On the contrary, both parents seemed nervous.
Because Li Dashuang’s parents thought Li Lin was a big star, they were quite reserved when they met.
Li Lin's parents also knew that Li Dashuang and Li Xiaoshuang were "champion brothers" and famous gymnasts in the country, so they would deliberately hold their heads up when they first met and spoke.
In 2012, they passed the "check" of their parents, and the "sister-brother love" in the literary and sports world finally came true.
In order to avoid tediousness, the two registered their wedding in a low-key manner in Las Vegas .
After marriage, they respect each other.
Li Dashuang is a TV series fan and often watches TV series in which his wife has acted.
Li Lin is a career-oriented woman who once ignored childbirth for the sake of work.
Today, Li Lin is 51 years old and has reached the age where she can calmly put down her work and rest at home.
After retiring, Li Dashuang has been running his own sporting goods company.
In 2017, he and Li Xiaoshuang opened a sports city in their hometown in Hubei, and named the sports city after Li Xiaoshuang.
It is reported that the sports city has a construction area of 30,000 square meters and an investment of up to 300 million.
Li Lin, whose wife is more valuable than her husband, can be considered a "rich family's wife", right?
Unfortunately, Li Dashuang and Li Lin have been married for 10 years. Although they are happy, they still have no children.
In recent years, Li Lin has released few works. The dynamics on the
social platform have also stayed in 2018.
can't help but sigh, time has changed, youth has passed away, we can only recall her original appearance through the screen.
Conclusion:
After Li Lin experienced a failed marriage, she did not let her bad emotions ferment, but calmed down and cut off the past.
Only by letting go of the past and forgetting old friends can we have a better future.
When Li Lin met Li Dashuang, she had survived the hardships of life and had overcome the ups and downs of life.
Although there are regrets in a happy marriage, how much of life is perfect?
When the moon is waning, it is much more common than when the moon is full.
As Li Lin said on social platforms:
."After passing through the years and walking through myself, even though I am still a little unsatisfied, I still have to say softly to the years: Don't ask for the best, don't hope for better. I am willing to do it. This way, calm and peaceful, just right.”
