In the yard, a seven or eight-year-old boy was standing in a military posture under the sun. His father had been very strict with him since he was a child. Every time he did something wrong, he would either be dragged out and beaten, or he would stand in a military position.

In the yard, a seven or eight-year-old boy was standing in a military posture under the sun.

's delicate little face was covered with sweat, but he remained motionless.

This little boy is Zhu Yawen .

He was born in a military family, and the man next to him playing with the whip is his father.

His father has been very strict with him since he was a child. Every time he did something wrong, he would either be dragged out and beaten, or he would stand in a military position.

Zhu Yawen had no choice but to stand in a military posture in order not to be beaten.

However, although his father was very strict with him, he never treated him badly in life.

As long as he likes it, his father will buy it for him.

So, while other children were playing with toy cars, he was already riding his mountain bike all over the place.

His father hoped that his son would become a soldier when he grew up, but Zhu Yawen went to study acting instead.

He was admitted to Beijing Film Academy.

When my father found out, he was very angry. He picked up the whip and wanted to give it a whip.

But he was stopped by his mother.

The mother took the father aside and persuaded him: "When your son grows up, he will have his own ideas. Parents cannot always interfere in their children's lives."

The mother persuaded him earnestly, and her mouth went dry after talking for several hours.

Zhu Yawen quietly handed her three large glasses of water.

After the mother drank three glasses of water, the father finally agreed that his son should learn acting.

After Zhu Yawen went to Nortel , he was in the same class as Luo Jin, Liu Yifei , Jiang Yiyan .

Zhu Yawen was very fond of cleanliness when he was in college. His bed was always kept clean.

Even the quilt is folded neatly, and he will know if someone moves a little bit.

Once, a little fat man came to see his roommate.

Seeing that his bed was clean, he sat on it and deflated a corner of the quilt.

Zhu Yawen was very angry when he saw the quilt looked like this when he came back.

No one in the dormitory had ever seen him so angry.

From then on, his bed became a minefield in the dormitory, exploding as soon as he touched it.

Everyone said that he would definitely not have a girlfriend in the future because he loves to be clean.

didn't expect that his girlfriend would fall in love with him who was clean.

Once, Zhu Yawen and Pan Yutong rehearsed together. When

was resting, Pan Yutong wanted to sit on a chair and rest for a while.

Zhu Yawen asked her to wait first.

Then she saw Zhu Yawen take out a tissue from his pocket and carefully wipe the dust on the chair before letting her sit down.

Pan Yutong instantly felt that this person was very nice. She liked boys who loved cleanliness.

Later, the two got together.

Zhu Yawen loves to be clean. Every time the two of them go to eat together, he has to wipe the table with paper towels.

Then let her sit.

Others may think this is too troublesome, but she doesn't think so. She doesn't find it troublesome at all.

actually likes the feeling of being taken care of.

Pan Yutong is a rich girl, and her family is rich in business.

At that time, Zhu Yawen was still a poor boy.

Her parents objected to the two of them being together.

They thought their daughter was so squeamish and didn't want her to endure hardships with him.

So the two didn't get together later. After graduating from

, Zhu Yawen filmed the TV series "Crossing Guandong".

There was a scene on the water. After he returned, he found that his feet hurt a little.

He didn't pay much attention at first, but then the pain became more and more painful as he walked.

He raised his feet and saw that it was the barbs on bamboo that had pierced his flesh.

He spent a lot of effort to pick out the barb .

Although his foot was injured, he still went to shoot the water scene the next day. After

came back, there were several barbs stuck in the soles of his feet. The pain was so painful that he could no longer feel anything.

Fortunately, his suffering was not in vain. "Crossing Guandong" became popular, and so did he.

Later, he met Shen Jiani while filming the TV series " Love in the Vast Land".

Shen Jiani is an athlete, one year older than Zhu Yawen, and looks pure and sweet.

The two play a pair of lovers in the play.

Zhu Yawen feels happy every day when filming with such a beautiful woman.

Shen Jiani likes to run in the morning. She gets up early every day and goes for a run, going around the set again and again.

At first there was only one person in the crew following her.

later turned into several people, and more than a dozen people ran away together.

After Zhu Yawen heard about this, he felt that he could not be left behind and ran with her.

Later, the crew had a party and everyone else was drinking and singing.

Only his eyes were always on Shen Jiani.

I heard that she doesn't like boys who smoke.

He silently put out the cigarette in his hand.

Zhu Yawen liked her a little bit, and he liked her even more when he saw that her home was spotless.

He thought to himself that since they were both clean people, their personalities would definitely get along well with each other.

Later, the two got together.

The two have been together for 4 years, and Zhu Yawen dotes on her very much.

He went to all the places she had gone to, wanting to get to know her better.

After the two got married, Zhu Yawen's career took another step forward.

He filmed "Red Sorghum". He and Zhou Xun had a "fighting scene" in which the two beat and tore each other.

Zhu Yawen was so strong that he almost dislocated Zhou Xun's arm.

Zhu Yawen was a little scared when he saw that her face was pale in pain.

is afraid that others will be hurt because of themselves.

At that time, Shen Jiani happened to come to the crew to stay with him for a few days while filming this movie.

saw a worried look on his face when he came back.

asked and found out that someone else was almost injured because of him.

Shen Jiani kept comforting him that it was okay.

I instantly feel better with my wife by my side.

Later, nothing happened to Zhou Xun, and Zhu Yawen's hanging heart dropped.

After getting married, Shen Jiani gave birth to a daughter.

When his daughter was born, he was not in a hurry to see her.

Instead, he went to hug his wife. He felt sorry for her and was too tired.

After that, he went to see his daughter.

Zhu Yawen looked at his daughter sleeping obediently on the small bed in the room.

is a small one with big eyes.

She didn't sleep, she kept looking at the world curiously with her big eyes open.

When his daughter saw him, she smiled at him.

At that moment, Zhu Yawen felt that his heart was melted by cuteness.

At that time, he did not know that the arrival of his daughter would bring about earth-shaking changes in his family status.

Later, Shen Jiani gave birth to another daughter.

Zhu Yawen became a happy father of two daughters.

After having a child, Shen Jiani stopped filming much.

Because she has to take care of her children.

Zhu Yawen believes that children should grow up freely and should not follow the forms written by their parents.

is no different from filling out a form.

However, if children do something wrong, they still need to be educated.

Every time the child did something wrong, he asked Shen Jiani to teach him a lesson.

In the living room, Shen Jiani lectured her daughter loudly.

Zhu Yawen closed the study door, put on his headphones and started listening to music.

She can teach her child whatever she wants, as long as she doesn't let him hear or see it.

It’s not because he doesn’t love his daughter, it’s because he loves her too much.

I am afraid that my daughter will become soft-hearted and reluctant to blame her if she cries.

Now, Zhu Yawen and Shen Jiani have been married for 9 years, and their relationship has always been very good.

After being together for so long, Zhu Yawen has no scandals and is devoted to his wife.

When he is not filming, he spends time at home with his two daughters and goes grocery shopping with his wife.

He felt very happy with Shen Jiani, and even regretted marrying his wife too late.

has lost so many happy moments.

But they still have a lifetime.

He likes to write poems and lives his life like a poem.