famous sketch actor Gao Xiumin , 15 years old, from art 2-man transfer , and at the age of 35, she went to the Spring Festival Gala. Her performance has a distinct personality and lifelike personality, and won the warmest applause from the audience by making a real and simple performance.
Gao Xiumin appeared on the Spring Festival Gala 8 times, and was on the same stage with Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei 5 times. has performed sketches such as "Battle", "Put your heart", " New Year's greetings ", " Waterworker ", and other TV series such as "Golden Bay", " Halfway Couple ", and " Liu Laogen ".
has been in the film and television industry for more than 30 years, participated in more than 20 well-known sketches, and has won awards frequently on the Spring Festival Gala stage. His career development has repeatedly set new highs, but he has been controversial in interpersonal relationships.
was once a partner with Zhao Benshan and Fan Ming and was called the "Northeast Iron Triangle". Unexpectedly, he ended up parting ways with Zhao Benshan and completely collapsed. It would be fine if
was not in line with his career partners, but her relationship was also at the forefront of the public opinion.
had a failed marriage. After divorce, she fell in love with a married man He Qingkui . She lived together for 14 years but was happy, and even got the forgiveness of He Qingkui's original wife...
, but her fate was impermanent. When she was 46 years old, she passed away regretfully due to illness, leaving behind her daughter Li Xuan tears and Zhao Benshan's regret. Until she reached the end of her life, she was unable to reconcile with Zhao Benshan.
17 years after Gao Xiumin passed away, what kind of entanglement does her daughter have with Zhao Benshan?
In 1959, Gao Xiumin was born in Jilin, one of the three northeastern provinces of . He grew up in a small place called Siman Township. His parents firmly believe that there are many children and good fortune. Gao Xiumin is the eighth child and is also the youngest child in the family.
In that era of material scarcity, while supporting eight children, he also had to take care of the two elders in the family. You can imagine the burden on his shoulders.
Gao Xiumin knows that it is not easy for her parents and is considerate of her parents. As the youngest in the family, she receives no more love than her brothers and sisters, but she sweats less than them.
She has a tough personality and is very talented in literature and art. Unfortunately, her poor family cannot provide any help to her literary and artistic path.
Fortunately, the embarrassing situation did not cover up the literary light in Gao Xiumin's heart. In that era when she couldn't eat enough and couldn't wear warm clothes, it was Errenzhuan who supported her to continue.
Listen to the song, humming minor , Gao Xiumin, immersed in the world of Errenzhuan, is not afraid of wind and rain or suffering, and his rock-solid belief awakens his unyielding soul.
The harder life is, the more firm Gao Xiumin wants to go on stage to show his strength.
She has been malnourished for a long time and is so skinny that she is skinny and sluggish. Her appearance looks listless. The sparks in her heart have long become a raging flame.
Opportunities must not be lost, no more will come. In addition to being related to strength, success or failure is also crucial to grasping opportunities. Gao Xiumin, who is in a dilemma, is praying for the arrival of opportunities all the time.
974, the local folk duo team recruited new people. Gao Xiumin, who came from the news, had already made full preparations, stood out in the interview, was selected as she wished, and became a folk duo actor. She was only 15 years old that year.
My parents were very happy about this. The Errenzhuan actor is a relatively popular profession in the three northeastern provinces. Gao Xiumin has a job, which can not only reduce the burden on his parents, but also rely on performance salaries to subsidize his family income.
She is not only a filial and motivated girl, but her private team has limited resources. The small county town cannot accommodate her big dreams. She wants to step onto a higher and bigger stage.
For this reason, she has been working hard on stage and working hard on performance and singing skills.
Work hard in February and March, and you will see results in July and August. Gao Xiumin has developed good skills. Unconsciously, she became the best duo player in the group.
Gao Xiumin knew it was time for her to leave. She had outstanding singing skills and her strength was obvious to all. With her ideal changes, she could easily get into a formal literary and artistic group.
is very full of reality and skinny. Gao Xiumin, as an adult, took the literary and artistic group exams many times, performed well, performed impeccably, but the ending was not satisfactory.
has no other reason, because Gao Xiumin's family is in a difficult situation, and has long-term malnutrition, resulting in pale face and thin skin, and her image does not meet the actor recruitment standards.
Gao Xiumin was like a bolt from the blue, his wish was lost, and his years of hard work wasted, and he felt that his life had lost its direction, and he didn't know where to go...
Fortunately, "It's a blessing to lose the horse". The leader of the art troupe is a talented person. He couldn't bear to see Gao Xiumin in a slump. After hesitating, he still comforted him: "Xiumin, I see you are talented, and when you get fatter in the future, you are coming to sign up."
After hearing this, Gao Xiumin's melancholy slowed down a little. Not being able to get what he wished was a regret, and never giving up was hope.
rehearsals did not stop, and the performance continued. Even if no one was concerned, Gao Xiumin still worked hard silently.
Gao Xiumin did not show his strength in his career, but was favored by God in his relationship.
Men should get married when they are old, and women should get married when they are old. They follow the promises of their parents and follow the words of the matchmaker. 19-year-old Gao Xiumin and the handsome young man Li Yunqi got married.
Shortly after marriage, she gave birth to her daughter Li Xuan. At that time, most married women would give up their careers for their families and choose to be housewives, becoming mothers who take care of their daughters and considerate wives.
Gao Xiumin is different. She is unwilling to be like this. She has lofty ambitions.
Days passed day by day, and his daughter Li Xuan grew up slowly, and Gao Xiumin's figure also changed drastically.
She has become fatter and her luck has improved.
In 1982, Fuyu City Art Troupe recruited new products. After hearing the news, Gao Xiumin, who had experienced many failures, still signed up enthusiastically.
Gao Xiumin's strength is impeccable. The only "disadvantage" is that she is thin. She has a proud height of 168, but her weight is too light, which does not conform to the aesthetic at that time. After gaining weight, Gao Xiumin broke through the siege with his wonderful performance and became a member of the art troupe as he wished.
Gao Xiumin was extremely professional and willing to endure hard work. He went to the countryside to perform many times and soon became a well-known local duo actor.
is affectionately called "Little Guo Lanying" . Guo Lanying is an amazing figure. He is a famous actor and a well-known soprano, and he is also the winner of the first "Golden Record Award" . It is not an exaggeration to say that she is a master in the music industry.
Gao Xiumin can be given the title of "Little Guo Lanying", and her strength and charm are self-evident.
's ability was demonstrated and her strength was recognized. She was not proud. Gao Xiumin knew that the best way to keep honor was not to show off, but to work hard.
In 1986, the low-key and hardworking Gao Xiumin was rated as "National Second-Class Actor" . She was only 27 years old that year.
However, he cannot have both fish and bear's paws. He has achieved success in his career, but he is ashamed of his husband and daughter in his family.
has been performing outside all year round, and he is far away from his family. He occasionally goes home once and can't talk to his husband.
Emotions cannot resonate with each other, long-term lack of communication, and the relationship gradually becomes cold. Gao Xiumin needs someone who truly understands her.
This person is not her husband, but He Qingkui, who has already married and had children.
He Qingkui is 12 years older than Gao Xiumin. He grew up on the Songhua River River. His family is poor and his living by big fish. He was naughty when he was young and his head was very smart.
likes literature, is talented in sketch creation, is good at creating two-person scripts, has written more than a dozen works for CCTV, and won 6 first prizes and 5 second prizes.
Although He Qingkui has achieved brilliant achievements, his experience was extremely bumpy. In his early years, he worked hard in the theater troupe and wanted to make a living by writing scripts and acting as a duo.
Unexpectedly, the troupe went bankrupt and his living standards were greatly reduced. He Qingkui was once in a deep confusion. Fortunately, his wife Zhang Yanru has always been by his side and accompanied him through the difficult years.
With the encouragement of his wife, He Qingkui gradually got out of the haze and began his life of writing scripts while selling vegetables.
The so-called fate is destined. Under the arrangement of fate, Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui met in the vegetable market.
The winter in the northeast is several dozen degrees below zero in the year. Due to the livelihood, He Qingkui had to get up early to sell vegetables. The biting cold wind made him tremble.
It’s a coincidence that Gao Xiumin, who has always been busy on this day, rarely bought vegetables. What’s more coincidental is that she also walked to the vegetable stall of He Qingkui and his wife. The moment when her eyes were facing each other, evoking memories that had been covered for many years.
When Gao Xiumin was 15 years old, the two had already met. He Qingkui was very talented and experienced. He could see Gao Xiumin's extraordinaryness at a glance and wrote a script for her.
Gao Xiumin is very grateful for this and has a good impression of He Qingkui. His fate is unpredictable. He meets again thirteen years later. The 28-year-old Gao Xiumin has become the deputy head of the art troupe, while the 40-year-old He Qingkui has become a hawker who makes a living by selling fish.
He Qingkui felt mixed feelings, and Gao Xiumin felt very uncomfortable. Looking at He Qingkui, who was dressed in rags and his hands were frozen, she decided to do something for him.
pondered for a moment, and she said sincerely: "Brother He, your script is so well written. I want to ask you to write one for us too. I promise you 200 yuan. There is a premiere fee for the performance at the end."
He Qingkui doesn't even care about the reward. He has no interest in it for many years. For an author, having a platform to show himself is the greatest comfort.
had almost no hesitation, and seized the opportunity to immediately recommend the script that had been completed to Gao Xiumin "Who Marries Who" and
At that time, almost no one in the troupe was optimistic about this script, and was questioned by the outside world. Even He Qingkui, who had always been confident, was a little arrogant.
Fortunately, Gao Xiumin consistently believed and supported He Qingkui, so he actively rehearsed for this and even took "Who Married Who" to participate in the sketch competition. The result of the
competition slaps everyone in the face. The sketch won the award, He Qingkui was proven and took up the screenwriter's job again.
Gao Xiumin has gained popularity to the next level, and has performed continuously, and has even been invited to star in film and television works.
990, Gao Xiumin and the well-known actor Liu Wei starred in the TV series "Crescent Groove" , playing the role of "Liu Cuiyun" in the play. The TV series
was not very popular, but Gao Xiumin's acting skills were remarkable, showing the simple and elegant Northeast women to the fullest.
Bole met Qianlima, and the outstanding actor met a genius screenwriter. With the help of He Qingkui, Gao Xiumin's future is bright. In order to make himself unrestrained, he simply quit his job from the art troupe and is determined to join forces with He Qingkui to make a breakthrough.
In this way, Gao Xiumin is more busy than before, with more performances, fewer rests, and only a handful of times he goes home.
is far apart from her husband, and the cognitive circle is far from each other. The relationship gradually fades away. Marriage is no longer a safe haven, but instead becomes a bondage to each other.
In order to end the pain, Li Yunqi plans to remain free and unwilling to force the marriage to continue, which is no longer happy.
In 1992, Gao Xiumin and Li Yunqi agreed to divorce, and her daughter was raised by her, and the end of her marriage also became the beginning of her peak career.
Gao Xiumin was not affected by divorce, but was in a positive state of momentum. She was eager to step onto a higher stage, and He Qingkui also became her inseparable right-hand man.
heard that Shenzhen held the "National Sketch Competition", He Qingkui tailored the sketch "Bake" for Gao Xiumin. After many polishing and rehearsals, Gao Xiumin boarded the train to Shenzhen with confidence.
Gao Xiumin has a deep acting foundation, He Qingkui's script arrangement is exquisite, and the powerful joint gold medal is naturally hand-winned.
won the gold medal in sketches, Gao Xiumin won a lot of applause, received a lot of attention, and was even appreciated by CCTV.
In 1994, Gao Xiumin appeared on the Spring Festival Gala for the first time, and won the third prize in the sketch "Password" .
's first debut in the Spring Festival Gala was successful, Gao Xiumin's popularity and resources doubled, and he starred in TV series such as "Golden Bay" and "Yellow Cotton Jacket in Black Soil" .
's popularity has increased significantly, but what made Gao Xiumin reach the peak of his career was the cooperation with Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei.
997 approached the Spring Festival Gala, but Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei were frowning because the sketch " Red Sorghum Model Team " needs to be modified.
needs to pass the review without changing the original exciting content. It is quite difficult. Zhao Benshan has extremely high requirements for the work, and he has found many screenwriters but still failed to meet the requirements.
At the moment of helplessness, the godly man He Qingkui appeared. He easily got the script and won the second prize in the Spring Festival Gala skit competition.
Zhao Benshan knew that He Qingkui was a rare talent, and it was basically impossible to bypass Gao Xiumin and recruit He Qingkui alone.
All He Qingkui's creations are almost all about Gao Xiumin. It is no exaggeration to say that Gao Xiumin is his source of inspiration.
The relationship between the two has always been very subtle, they are mentors, they need each other, and they appreciate each other.
After divorce, Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui pierced the thin paper and upgraded from partner to lover.
Zhao Benshan saw through the relationship between the two at a glance, so he did not take He Qingkui away in the form of "poaching", but instead extended an olive branch of cooperation to Gao Xiumin.
At that time, Zhao Benshan was at his peak, and it was not an exaggeration to say that he was the number one person in Northeast sketches. Gao Xiumin agreed to cooperate with him without hesitation.
In 1998, Gao Xiumin, Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei appeared on the Spring Festival Gala on the same stage for the first time, bringing a lot of laughter to the audience with the sketch "New Year's greetings".
are all the leading sketch actors at that time. With superb acting skills and support from screenwriter He Qingkui, the quality of
works is naturally impeccable. They have cooperated 5 times in 7 years and have successively brought the audience classic works such as "Put your heart", " Car Selling ", " Heart Disease ", and "Water Send Waterworks" . The
program has a good reputation, but I didn’t expect that the cooperation between the three would stop at the 2004 Spring Festival Gala. The truth about the fall of the "Northeast Iron Triangle" is very sad. After
became popular, the three of them often formed a group of commercial performances, and fans were happy to buy it. They could have achieved win-win results, but problems occurred in the distribution of interests.
Zhao Benshan has the highest prestige and was unsurprisingly the C position in the "Northeast Iron Triangle". Not only did he have the most lines in the sketch, but he also took away the most rewards in commercial performances.
Gao Xiumin had long objections to the uneven distribution, but he had never said it out loud. Fan Wei was more vain and he would give as much as he gave. On the surface, he was calm, but in fact he was a little dissatisfied.
In 2003, Gao Xiumin's hometown held a cultural festival. The leader highly appreciated Zhao Benshan and entrusted Gao Xiumin to invite Zhao Benshan to attend and was willing to pay 20 remuneration.
. Gao Xiumin was extremely proud of his ability to do things for the people in his hometown. He responded without saying a word. Before leaving, he patted his chest and said: "Leader, don't worry, I will cover this matter with me. If I come forward, he will not charge money."
Zhao Benshan arrived as promised. The scene was crowded with people and the performance was wonderful. Listening to the thunderous applause from the audience, the leader was quite satisfied with this, and then took out 200,000 yuan to serve as labor fees for Zhao Benshan.
In Gao Xiumin's opinion, she has a close relationship with Zhao Benshan, and Zhao Benshan is likely not to take the money. What she didn't expect was that Zhao Benshan won 200,000 without saying a word.
Gao Xiumin felt that Zhao Benshan was not kind to do this, which made him feel embarrassed in front of his leader. She was also straightforward, so she chased after him and wanted Zhao Benshan to give her an explanation.
Zhao Benshan was stunned at the time. He thought it was understandable to get the due remuneration after the performance, and then said seriously: "Xiumin, you didn't tell me in advance that you don't want money. If I didn't give it, I wouldn't want it. If I gave it, I would take it."
Gao Xiumin felt full of anger after hearing it. Every time she got angry, she heard that Zhao Benshan also had uneven distribution to Fan Wei, which laid the groundwork for the fall of the "Northeast Iron Triangle".
Zhao Benshan took Fan Wei to Sichuan for commercial performances. The audience was enthusiastic and the performance seats were all present. He performed 7 consecutive shows and won more than 400,000 yuan in performance fees.
Zhao Benshan alone won 420,000 yuan, and only gave Fan Wei 7,000 yuan. Fan Wei chose to be patient, but Gao Xiumin couldn't bear it. As soon as he got up, he asked Zhao Benshan to argue.
"Brother Benshan, what you did is wrong. Fan Wei is your partner. It is not appropriate to give only 7,000."
Zhao Benshan disagreed and retorted: "Girl, it's not right for you to say that. I brought him famous, but I want to make money from me on the other hand? If you want to make money, don't look for me."
After hearing Zhao Benshan's words, Gao Xiumin was extremely disappointed and quickly did a slap in the face of Zhao Benshan.
Gao Xiumin took the initiative to invite Fan Wei to perform together, with a total remuneration of 35,000 yuan. Gao Xiumin was extremely generous and directly gave Fan Wei 15,000 yuan.
is given half of each person, and no one is given a fraction of the money, which immediately formed a sharp contrast. When Zhao Benshan learned about it, he was very unhappy and then reduced contact with Gao Xiumin until he completely collapsed in 2004.
Zhao Benshan is a regular visitor to the Spring Festival Gala. He prepares the sketch "Waterman" for the Spring Festival Gala. The original female partner was the well-known actor Song Dandan ,
Unfortunately, during the rehearsal stage, Song Dandan couldn't come if he had something to do. It was like finding a needle in a haystack when he temporarily found an actress with outstanding acting skills.
In order to ensure the quality of the program, Zhao Benshan had no choice but to ask for help from his former partner Gao Xiumin. In the face of major issues, Gao Xiumin did not care too much and agreed directly.
However, there are many problems during the rehearsal stage, and Zhao Benshan and Gao Xiumin are constantly in conflict.
Gao Xiumin is a righteous person. After the rehearsal, the good sisters who were engaged in commercial performances encountered big trouble. The guest of the commercial performances received had a temporary problem, which led to the performance being unable to continue.
Breach of contract for commercial performances is a taboo. At the least, the reputation collapses, and at the worst, the loss of thousands of families will be lost. In order to make the performance continue, I can only call Gao Xiumin for help.
Spring Festival Gala sketch has been submitted for review. Gao Xiumin felt that the time was abundant, so he planned to help his good sisters survive the crisis and took a bus to Tonghua overnight.
Unfortunately, as soon as Gao Xiumin left, CCTV notified the program to change. Zhao Benshan was as anxious as an ant on a hot pan, and kept calling Gao Xiumin to come back to review the manuscript.
solved the difficulties of good sisters, but Gao Xiumin caused herself a lot of trouble. The relationship with Zhao Benshan is already subtle.
She went out privately and was late for rehearsals. Zhao Benshan had a lot of opinions about her and had been picking her faults.
Gao Xiumin was dissatisfied with Zhao Benshan's uneven distribution. After being criticized again, she immediately got angry and said angrily: "I am just such a person. Do you like to use it or not, don't pull it."
Zhao Benshan was very angry and did not choose to turn against him directly for the sake of the overall situation. "The Water Delivery" appeared on the Spring Festival Gala as she wished, and the era of "Iron Triangle" on the same stage was completely over. After the iron triangle was dispersed, Zhao Benshan's imperial screenwriter He Qingkui also went high with Gao Xiumin.
Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui have always been inseparable from each other, with deep feelings, and regretted that they were not formal couples after living together for 14 years.
failed to get the marriage certificate . The main reason was that He Qingkui's original wife Zhang Yanru did not agree to the divorce. She knew that she could not keep He Qingkui's heart, so she acquiesced to live together.
Zhang Yanru He Qingkui gave birth to three children. He Qingkui also knew that he owed Zhang Yanru a lot, so he agreed not to divorce.
He lived with Gao Xiumin for 14 years. The two of them walked through the wind and rain together and shared honors. Even if they were not married, they were still happy.
It’s a pity that all happiness stopped in 2005.
In August 2005, He Qingkui suffered major changes in his life and lost his closest relatives and beloved within ten days.
s son He Shucheng unfortunately passed away in a car accident. He was sobbing when the white-haired man sent the black-haired man. What's worse is that before he recovered,
's "love" Gao Xiumin, who had been with him for 14 years, died of a heart attack ten days later at the age of 46.
After Gao Xiumin passed away, Zhao Benshan came to see her off for the last time, and cried in tears at the funeral, shouting loudly: "Old sister, I'm late."
He Qingkui, who lost his son one after another and lost his "love" in a short period of time, cried until he fainted several times. Fan Wei and Zhao Benshan had to help him on the bed.
Zhang Yanru, who also lost her beloved son, did not take grudges and was not happy about the death of her "love rival" Gao Xiumin. Instead, she arranged for her youngest son to come and wear mourning for Gao Xiumin.
, while Gao Xiumin's daughter Li Xuan reacted completely oppositely, with her natural expression at her mother's funeral and did not show any sadness.
has also been criticized by many netizens for being "unfilial". In fact, this is not the case. When a relative just passed away, it was not the saddest time.
The saddest thing is often at a certain moment in the future. When a son wants to be filial but his parents are not here, he wants to see him but can only rely on memories. This is the most painful thing.
In 2022, Gao Xiumin passed away for 17 years. Everything was gone when he died, and his grudges with Zhao Benshan disappeared with the wind.
He Qingkui, who had lived with her for 14 years, had already returned to his wife. Since his eldest son passed away, He Qingkui couldn't bear to have his wife Zhang Yanru running around, so he took her home to live with her.
Zhang Yanru also has a big picture and can understand her husband's 14 years of living together with Gao Xiumin. Now they have a good relationship and their living conditions are extremely stable.
, Li Xuan, the daughter who was once ridiculed as "unfilial" at the funeral, has never forgotten her mother's grace.
During the holidays, my mother insisted on burning incense, and I always cared about my mother and toured nationwide on behalf of my mother. Now Li Xuan is married and has children.
The husband is an unknown male actor, his son is lively and cute, and there is a bit of Gao Xiumin's shadow between his eyebrows and eyes. He passed away too early to watch his grandson grow up. It must be a great regret for Gao Xiumin.
Gao Xiumin is talented in sketches and has brought many wonderful performances to the audience. Her death is a loss to the literary and artistic circles, and it is even more difficult for the audience to calm down.
Now, Zhao Benshan, Fan Wei and He Qingkui have reconciled, but they have not been able to reconcile with Gao Xiumin. This is probably Zhao Benshan's regret. The words "Old sister, I'm late" contain a lot of helplessness and self-blame.
The way to get along with each other is to put your heart in mind. There is no major matter besides life and death. You have to be more open-minded when encountering things, understand more and less conflicts, so that you can live a easier life.
