He Xingfu resigned and left Fangyuan Law Firm. "Guan Tao is happy and unhappy" became a hot search topic. It can be seen that it is not only Guan Tao and Xingfu who are reluctant to leave, but also the audience.

He Xingfu resigned and left Fangyuan Law Firm. "Guan Tao's happiness is hard to let go" was on the hot search. It can be seen that it is not only Guan Tao and Xingfu who are reluctant to leave, but also the audience.

Actually, Zhao Liying and Luo Jin are both actors with good CP physiques. In " Happiness Comes to Ten Thousands of Homes ", they do seem to be more suitable than the "official couple", but whether they feel CP is another matter. Well, in terms of plot and character alone, I really can’t compare to them. Maybe I’m too realistic. They are two people from completely different worlds. It’s great to be both a teacher and a friend. Why can’t it be between a man and a woman? Are there any feelings other than love? The screenwriter

also responded, expressing appreciation and love in a general sense.

Most viewers should be able to understand this. Therefore, what everyone is obsessed with is not why He Xingfu is not with Guan Tao, but why He Xingfu has not divorced Wang Qinglai yet?
Seeing now, He Xingfu is not divorced, and he is really a little disappointed.

Many netizens have been clamoring for divorce since they got married in the first episode. I am not that anxious. Although I have despised Wang Qinglai from the beginning, I also understand that He Xingfu needs to grow up and divorce is not as easy as it sounds. Especially when I read the explanation by screenwriter Zhao Dongling , "Whenever you want to criticize others, you have to remember that not everyone in this world has your superior conditions." I felt that it was very well said. I should be more patient, but...

The key is still the process.

When Xingfu left the law firm and returned to Wanjiazhuang, even the audience would be reluctant to leave. What's more, Xingfu herself, who has experienced so many ups and downs with the law firm, sees that everything is on track and a bright future is waving to her. , why bother to go back to the village?

Just recently, there is a drama starring Yang Rong on CCTV that is currently on the air. " Dashan's Daughter " is based on a real person. The heroine Huang Wenxiu, After graduating with a master's degree from Beijing Normal University, gave up her life in a big city. When I got a job opportunity, I returned to my hometown and volunteered to work in the poorest mountain village in Guangxi.

He Xingfu, who has not read many books, may not have such a high ideological consciousness, but after seeing such beautiful scenery attracting so many tourists, it is not surprising that she had the idea of ​​​​returning to the village to start a business.

The key point is that the most fundamental reason why she returned to Wanjiazhuang was to show off her talents after returning to the village, or to save her marriage to Wang Qinglai?

She thinks that I must open an inn. If I can avoid getting divorced, of course it would be best. If I want to get divorced, that's okay. She still thinks that I can never get divorced. If opening an inn doesn't work, I will find another way. Anyway, I must do it. Stay in the village to accompany Qinglai? The focus of

is very important.

The play also shows the ideological struggle before Xingfu returns to the village.

I personally feel that if what is conveyed here is, "Rural people should remember where their roots are after moving to the city, and don't forget to build their own hometowns. The countryside is also a vast world with great potential." Although it is a bit false and empty, it is at least in line with the mainstream. And it can be accepted by the audience. However, what is more prominent in the treatment of the play is not the "big family" of hometown, but the "little family" of the Wang family.

It makes people feel that after going around in a big circle, she has returned to the original point, transformed back into the domesticated good wife and mother, and even faintly conveyed that no matter how hard a woman works for her career, it is better to return to the family, and that women are born to do this. The idea of ​​a child sacrificing herself makes people feel like she came back for a man like Wang Qinglai who is not worthy at all. To put it bluntly, it is "poverty alleviation".

"Since I have decided to marry you, I will consider you to be my husband." "I can return to Wanjiazhuang with you for the sake of my children." I don't ask for a high level of the heroine, but in 40 episodes of the TV series, she has grown 27 Ji, it is really uncomfortable to say such things.

Moreover, in the early stage, the screenwriter tried too hard to highlight the gap between Wang Qinglai and He Xingfu. I can understand some of Wang Qinglai's inferiority complex (understanding does not mean accepting it, it can be said that this is indeed a true portrayal of many men, and I can't stand the machismo) His wife is better than him), but he was too crazy when he was a doorman, and he was a little bit irritating for the sake of irritating people. The screenwriter has made him so hateful, and everyone is ready to wait for their divorce, but the result is another twist. Come back and never leave! Who can stand
?

In January, the screenwriter categorically replied to netizens in the comments that Xingfu would divorce Wang Qinglai and would not remarry. Everyone was looking forward to it, but unexpectedly it has come to this point. Xingfu still seems to have no plans to divorce.

Then another netizen angrily ran to question the screenwriter, and the screenwriter responded again that she did not write that disgusting line.

I thought that she would not write like this, because I have seen her interviews before, and I can see her care for women at the bottom. Her intention is obviously to give the heroine a growth process, but she is not getting divorced now. It means we will never leave in the future.

Unexpectedly, the plot and lines were changed later, which is why it presented such a fragmented situation.

Why?

Probably, the distance between Wang Qinglai and He Xingfu is too realistic: at the beginning, both of them were in the countryside and had never seen the world. Their blind date and marriage depended more on each other's material conditions. At that time, they had not yet The gap was too big. When they entered the city, He Xingfu's character of making progress and refusing to admit defeat was all aroused, while Wang Qinglai's inner laziness was fully exposed, and the gap between the two sides became wider and wider. The screenwriter of

has pointed out potential problems through the mouths of many supporting characters before. For example, before entering the city, the mother-in-law who seemed to be very good to Happiness was privately worried that Happiness would become wild after entering the city. For example, she worked with Wang Qinglai. The doorman obviously doesn't make much money himself, but he still wants his wife to be a housewife at home. She can't make money or gain experience, so naturally she won't have second thoughts in her life.

However, in the current environment where the marriage rate has been declining year after year and the divorce rate has been increasing year after year, it is probably not allowed for the protagonist to directly express it through actual actions.

Because in reality, there are too many men like Wang Qinglai who blame their wives for being too promising when they are not promising themselves.

When you leave home, in society, if you can’t keep up, you just can’t keep up. No one will accommodate you. Why can an incompetent man openly ask a woman to accommodate him when he gets home?

The more incompetent a man is, the more he fears that a woman is capable.

Wang Qinglai is indeed a poor person himself, because such a family environment has determined his upper limit. However, let alone that after entering the city, he did not go all out to catch up with He Xingfu. Even if he really tried hard, he found that he could not catch up. , if he really loves this woman enough that he doesn't want to be separated from her no matter what, then why can't he change his mind and accept the reality that he is not as good as his wife, and that the woman takes charge outside and the man takes over inside?

In the final analysis, it is because what he loves most is his poor self-esteem.

still insists on speaking so grandly and insists on kicking the ball to women.

Under such circumstances, if women do not show "tolerance", if women divorce in order not to be affected by men's speed of drawing swords, then what is the point?

I understand that screenwriters often dance while wearing shackles in their creations. I originally thought that her shackles came from radio and television, but after watching Zheng Xiaolong 's interview, I felt that they might come from the director.

director Zheng Xiaolong also responded to the question of why He Xingfu didn't divorce in an interview. To be honest, the realm is far different from that of the screenwriter. This may itself be a difference in male and female perspectives. In his opinion, Wang Qinglai entered Although Cheng Hou's performance was not as good as expected, he was not evil-minded and did not mess around outside. Why did he want a divorce?

I think if he were a woman, he would never say such a thing.

Wang Qinglai is indeed not a bad person, but can a woman want a divorce only if her husband is evil-minded or cheating?

Discovering that the three views are incompatible, discovering that there is a big gap, or even finding nothing, simply feeling that you are no longer in love, can be the reasons for divorce.

But what Zheng Xiaolong said probably means the above. Otherwise, there would be no such thing as divorce cooling off period . Divorce is extremely difficult.

Zheng Xiaolong also said that He Xingfu did not get along with Guan Tao but continued to be with Wang Qinglai. This was because she had a big plan. She not only wanted to be good to herself, but also wanted to take him with her...

I felt like vomiting even more.

The problem is still the same as mentioned above. He Xingfu can not divorce and can return to the village. The key depends on the reasons why she made these choices.

It's a pity that I don't think He Xingfu has a big picture. I only think that the director's picture is small, so what is presented is that He Xingfu was kidnapped by her family. She returned to the village for her family and not for everyone.

With a family like the Wang family and a man like Wang Qinglai, what on earth is worthy of her giving up life in the city?

It is true that she and Wang Qinglai are still in love with each other, but in 2022, we don’t pay attention to the "one day for a husband and a hundred days of kindness" thing. Why should a woman live 60 points with a man who cannot live up to her expectations? Life, give up your 100% life? Isn’t it okay for

to be uniquely beautiful?

#How infuriating is the plot of "Happiness to Ten Thousand Houses"#