What kind of despair can a 26-year-old girl say lightly after learning that she has cancer? "I seem to be relieved."
What's more, this girl is also a female star with a bright future Xu Ting , why on earth makes this girl regard death as liberation?
Xu Ting was born in Wuhu, Anhui. Her family is not wealthy, it can only be said that it can maintain a living.
But Xu Ting’s parents gave birth to 7 children . A girl born in the 1990s actually had so many children in her family. I don’t know what means Xu Ting’s parents used to avoid the family planning policy.
The ultimate goal of this pair of parents who gave birth to 7 children in a row was to give birth to a son. Xu Ting ranked third. Later, she had 3 younger sisters before she gave birth to the younger brother in the family.
After the birth of their son, Xu Ting's parents were finally satisfied. They doted on their son and treated the other six daughters as tools.
In order to make their son's life better, Xu Ting's parents gave away their two daughters. The other daughters washed vegetables, did housework, and went to farm to pick tea leaves.
Xu Ting grew up in such a neglected family. She lacked love since childhood and matured prematurely. After the college entrance examination, she was the only child in her family to go to college.
But Xu Ting's parents felt that it was useless for a girl to go to school and read so many books. The money at home should be left for her younger brother to study, and they wanted Xu Ting to go to work directly.
Xu Ting certainly didn't want to give up the opportunity to go to higher school. She begged her parents to let her continue going to school, promising that she would work-study to earn tuition fees and would be filial to them in the future.
Xu Ting's parents finally reluctantly agreed. They heard that their daughter could earn money through work-study studies. Not only did they not give her a cent for living expenses, they also called Xu Ting from time to time to ask for money.
Only when she calls to ask for money, her parents will be gentle with Xu Ting. Xu Ting, who has been neglected for a long time, is made happy by her parents' kind words.
She lived frugally and gave all the money she earned from her part-time job to her family. Later, Xu Ting's father started a business, but after it failed, he owed a large amount of debt.
Xu Ting's father began to cry to Xu Ting. asked Xu Ting to drop out of school to earn money to help him pay off his debts. Xu Ting heard her father talking to her gently, as if she was the only person her father could rely on, and the balance in her heart immediately tilted. .
Just like that, Xu Ting came to Beijing alone with 300 yuan. She slept in a dark and humid basement and ate one meal without another. But even so, the kind-hearted Xu Ting was still worried about her father in her hometown.
In fact, Xu Ting is very talented in acting. When she was in her first year of college, she was spotted by the film crew who came to the school to recruit people, and she played the role of Huo Jianhua 's maid. Xu Ting was also introduced by her teacher to be an advertising model.
Because of her sweet appearance and her daring attitude, everyone thinks that Xu Ting will have a bright future in the entertainment industry after graduation.
But Xu Ting chose to drop out of school under the guidance of her father. After arriving in Beijing, Xu Ting started looking for a job non-stop, participating in various model competitions, beauty pageants, etc.
Because she has no education or experience, Xu Ting can only shuttle from theater to theater to play small roles. She is exposed to ice water in winter and exposed to the sun in summer. As long as she can make money, Xu Ting will do it.
Xu Ting has outstanding appearance and is willing to endure hardships. She often goes home early in the morning and wakes up before dawn. She also appears on the sets of several dramas at the same time. Xu Ting finally got the approval of the director.
She began to gradually receive roles with lines, and her money began to become more abundant. However, she was still so dedicated that she acted in all the roles by herself and saved money by not having to be a stand-in.
Xu Ting, who is self-conscious, is also very generous to her friends and family. When she first received a role in a scene with lines, she invited her friends to have dinner together, and she saved all the money she earned to pay home.
This attitude of dedication to the family made Xu Ting feel a new kind of happiness. In her eyes, her parents finally gave her a little of the love they had given to her younger brother, and she finally appeared in their eyes. . What kind of despair can a 26-year-old girl say lightly after learning that she has cancer? "I seem to be relieved." What's more, this girl is also a female star with a bright future Xu Ting , why on earth makes this girl regard death as liberation? Xu Ting was born in Wuhu, Anhui. Her family is not wealthy, it can only be said that it can maintain a living. But Xu Ting’s parents gave birth to 7 children . A girl born in the 1990s actually had so many children in her family. I don’t know what means Xu Ting’s parents used to avoid the family planning policy. The ultimate goal of this pair of parents who gave birth to 7 children in a row was to give birth to a son. Xu Ting ranked third. Later, she had 3 younger sisters before she gave birth to the younger brother in the family. After the birth of their son, Xu Ting's parents were finally satisfied. They doted on their son and treated the other six daughters as tools. In order to make their son's life better, Xu Ting's parents gave away their two daughters. The other daughters washed vegetables, did housework, and went to farm to pick tea leaves. Xu Ting grew up in such a neglected family. She lacked love since childhood and matured prematurely. After the college entrance examination, she was the only child in her family to go to college. But Xu Ting's parents felt that it was useless for a girl to go to school and read so many books. The money at home should be left for her younger brother to study, and they wanted Xu Ting to go to work directly. Xu Ting certainly didn't want to give up the opportunity to go to higher school. She begged her parents to let her continue going to school, promising that she would work-study to earn tuition fees and would be filial to them in the future. Xu Ting's parents finally reluctantly agreed. They heard that their daughter could earn money through work-study studies. Not only did they not give her a cent for living expenses, they also called Xu Ting from time to time to ask for money. Only when she calls to ask for money, her parents will be gentle with Xu Ting. Xu Ting, who has been neglected for a long time, is made happy by her parents' kind words. She lived frugally and gave all the money she earned from her part-time job to her family. Later, Xu Ting's father started a business, but after it failed, he owed a large amount of debt. Xu Ting's father began to cry to Xu Ting. asked Xu Ting to drop out of school to earn money to help him pay off his debts. Xu Ting heard her father talking to her gently, as if she was the only person her father could rely on, and the balance in her heart immediately tilted. . Just like that, Xu Ting came to Beijing alone with 300 yuan. She slept in a dark and humid basement and ate one meal without another. But even so, the kind-hearted Xu Ting was still worried about her father in her hometown. In fact, Xu Ting is very talented in acting. When she was in her first year of college, she was spotted by the film crew who came to the school to recruit people, and she played the role of Huo Jianhua 's maid. Xu Ting was also introduced by her teacher to be an advertising model. Because of her sweet appearance and her daring attitude, everyone thinks that Xu Ting will have a bright future in the entertainment industry after graduation. But Xu Ting chose to drop out of school under the guidance of her father. After arriving in Beijing, Xu Ting started looking for a job non-stop, participating in various model competitions, beauty pageants, etc. Because she has no education or experience, Xu Ting can only shuttle from theater to theater to play small roles. She is exposed to ice water in winter and exposed to the sun in summer. As long as she can make money, Xu Ting will do it. Xu Ting has outstanding appearance and is willing to endure hardships. She often goes home early in the morning and wakes up before dawn. She also appears on the sets of several dramas at the same time. Xu Ting finally got the approval of the director. She began to gradually receive roles with lines, and her money began to become more abundant. However, she was still so dedicated that she acted in all the roles by herself and saved money by not having to be a stand-in. Xu Ting, who is self-conscious, is also very generous to her friends and family. When she first received a role in a scene with lines, she invited her friends to have dinner together, and she saved all the money she earned to pay home. This attitude of dedication to the family made Xu Ting feel a new kind of happiness. In her eyes, her parents finally gave her a little of the love they had given to her younger brother, and she finally appeared in their eyes. . But this silly girl doesn't know that this is just a perfunctory treatment of her daughter by her parents in order to gain benefits. They only have their son in their hearts. In 2012, opportunity finally favored Xu Ting. She got the role of the second female lead in a movie, and collaborated with Yang Zi and Zhang Yishan to shoot "Dad Comes Home" . In 2013, Xu Ting continued her efforts and participated in the TV series "Here Comes the Little God" starring Liu Yan. In the past, Yang Zi and Xu Ting were photographed closely side by side. Not only did the two play best friends in the drama, but they also had a very good relationship outside of the drama. Now, Yang Zi has become a first-line actress and has several popular TV series. Yang Zi has created many popular characters, and she has always been popular and popular. Her acting skills have also been widely praised, and she has won many prestigious awards. Liu Xing, the naughty egg at home with children, Zhang Yishan, , also became popular in 2016 with the movie " The Sins ". Since then, there have been many film appointments, and to this day, it has become both word-of-mouth and popular. famous actor. The recent popularity of " Meng Hua Lu " starring Liu Yifei and Chen Xiao also allowed Liu Yan to come out of the "Bao Beier's Marriage Incident" that had been trapped for many years. Suddenly more viewers saw it Liu Yan's shining points and resources began to increase. Originally, Xu Ting might have a bright future like them, but unfortunately, fate played a trick on . After started to have roles, Xu Ting worked even harder. She was busy working all year round, often only sleeping a few hours before catching a flight. It stands to reason that Xu Ting's career has reached a small peak, her father's debt has been paid off, and her life should be better, but she has not. Because after seeing Xu Ting start making money, Xu Ting's family stopped working. Her parents and eight sisters and brothers were all supported by Xu Ting. Xu Ting's parents would call their daughter from time to time. They would first say a few casual words of greetings and then ask for money for various reasons. The kind-hearted Xu Ting was moved by her parents' care and gave all her money back home without hesitation. My sister needs a dowry to get married, my brother needs tuition fees to go to school, and my parents need living expenses. Such a huge demand for money was all placed on Xu Ting alone, like a group of blood-sucking insects lying on Xu Ting's back, weighing her down. This is not over yet. In 2016, Xu Ting's parents began to ask for a new house again, and Xu Ting had no choice but to earn money and buy a luxury house to meet her parents' wishes. Xu Ting and her family moved into their new home just three months after the house was renovated. The remaining formaldehyde caused the whole family to suffer from poisoning. Other family members only had a slight cough, but Xu Ting, who had been working hard for a long time, was invaded by the disease due to her low immunity and suffered from lymphoma . After the test results came out, Xu Ting was startled for a moment, but then smiled with relief. She said: "It has been 26 years, and I have never lived for myself."
Because her parents were extremely patriarchal in her childhood, Xu Ting was extremely lacking in love and developed a pleaser personality unconsciously.
There is a saying , "Children who are most neglected in childhood tend to be the most filial when they grow up." This is a sad and helpless thing. When children who are not cared about grow up, in order to get the love of their parents, they often do Will express himself and make up for the lack of love in childhood.
This is also reflected in film and television works. Two popular TV series have featured female characters who grew up in families that favored sons over daughters.
For example, Fan Shengmei in " Ode to Joy " has always been used as a cash machine by his parents, brother and sister-in-law. He paid for his brother to buy a house. He is over 30 years old, and he has to share the house with two college students who have just left the society. .
Due to family neglect since childhood, Fan Shengmei was unable to form good values from childhood. After working, she was squeezed by her family and enjoyed the feeling of being needed by her family. At the same time, she was busy with vanity and money worship, and did not improve herself.
Su Mingyu in " is good " is a successful character in the eyes of outsiders. He has achieved economic freedom through hard work and is called "Mr. Ming" wherever he goes.
However, the lack of family affection makes Su Mingyu always distrustful of relationships. She will extremely long for love, but when love does appear, she is half-believing. Character flaws like
often stay with them for a lifetime. With luck, they may be able to be cured, but the harm that families have caused to their children can never be erased.
After being diagnosed with cancer , Xu Ting expressed that she did not want treatment, but Xu Ting's parents were naturally reluctant to lose her as a cash cow and did not want to spend too much money.
So Xu Ting's mother threatened her to go to a traditional Chinese medicine doctor. Every day, Xu Ting had more than a dozen thick glass cupping jars stuck on her thin back, and her fingers had to be pricked to bleed.
Such "treatment" not only had no effect, but also made Xu Ting lose more than ten kilograms quickly. The marks on her body from cupping had become bruised, and her condition worsened a lot.
However, Xu Ting’s sister took pictures of her sister’s pain during treatment and posted them on WeChat Moments, under the guise of caring for her sister, but in fact, she was using her sister to gain attention on the blog.
Xu Ting's parents sent her to the hospital, but by then it was too late. Xu Ting's lungs and skin were severely infected, and she also suffered from mild anorexia.
In the end, Xu Ting's life was forever fixed in 2016. The 26-year-old girl passed away with ulcerous wounds all over her body and a busy and tiring life.
After Xu Ting's death, her parents even wanted to squeeze out the last of her value. They wanted their son to take advantage of her sister's popularity to make money in the entertainment industry. After all, in their eyes, Xu Ting made so much money. easy.
And Xu Ting’s second sister even became an Internet celebrity in the name of commemorating her sister, and would take her sister out for a walk from time to time.
We don’t know how they can harm each other as they are both women and victims of the patriarchal concept.
And Xu Ting, a kind-hearted girl, suffered so many unfair treatments, but at the end of her life, she still shined with the brilliance of humanity and donated all her organs.
Perhaps for Xu Ting, there is nothing to miss in this world. Death is a kind of relief. I hope she will live happily in heaven.
Due to family neglect since childhood, Fan Shengmei was unable to form good values from childhood. After working, she was squeezed by her family and enjoyed the feeling of being needed by her family. At the same time, she was busy with vanity and money worship, and did not improve herself.
Su Mingyu in " is good " is a successful character in the eyes of outsiders. He has achieved economic freedom through hard work and is called "Mr. Ming" wherever he goes.
However, the lack of family affection makes Su Mingyu always distrustful of relationships. She will extremely long for love, but when love does appear, she is half-believing. Character flaws like
often stay with them for a lifetime. With luck, they may be able to be cured, but the harm that families have caused to their children can never be erased.
After being diagnosed with cancer , Xu Ting expressed that she did not want treatment, but Xu Ting's parents were naturally reluctant to lose her as a cash cow and did not want to spend too much money.
So Xu Ting's mother threatened her to go to a traditional Chinese medicine doctor. Every day, Xu Ting had more than a dozen thick glass cupping jars stuck on her thin back, and her fingers had to be pricked to bleed.
Such "treatment" not only had no effect, but also made Xu Ting lose more than ten kilograms quickly. The marks on her body from cupping had become bruised, and her condition worsened a lot.
However, Xu Ting’s sister took pictures of her sister’s pain during treatment and posted them on WeChat Moments, under the guise of caring for her sister, but in fact, she was using her sister to gain attention on the blog.
Xu Ting's parents sent her to the hospital, but by then it was too late. Xu Ting's lungs and skin were severely infected, and she also suffered from mild anorexia.
In the end, Xu Ting's life was forever fixed in 2016. The 26-year-old girl passed away with ulcerous wounds all over her body and a busy and tiring life.
After Xu Ting's death, her parents even wanted to squeeze out the last of her value. They wanted their son to take advantage of her sister's popularity to make money in the entertainment industry. After all, in their eyes, Xu Ting made so much money. easy.
And Xu Ting’s second sister even became an Internet celebrity in the name of commemorating her sister, and would take her sister out for a walk from time to time.
We don’t know how they can harm each other as they are both women and victims of the patriarchal concept.
And Xu Ting, a kind-hearted girl, suffered so many unfair treatments, but at the end of her life, she still shined with the brilliance of humanity and donated all her organs.
Perhaps for Xu Ting, there is nothing to miss in this world. Death is a kind of relief. I hope she will live happily in heaven.
