The couple of Wang Ziwen and Wu Yongen in "Pumping Heart" fell in love at first sight, and it got hot very quickly. They sprinkled sugar crazily along the way, and won countless fans. The sweetness is overwhelming, and they are full of cp feeling. It can be said that these two pe

"Thumping Heartbeat" Wang Ziwen Wu Yongen, this pair fell in love at first sight, and it got hot very quickly. They sprinkled sugar like crazy along the way, gaining countless fans, with overwhelming sweetness and a full sense of cp. It can be said that these two people are sweet from beginning to end. A pair of fairy lovers at the end.

Wang Ziwen has an outstanding appearance, is very individual, and is very independent. He does things not to please others, but to please himself. Still very appreciated. When Wu Yongen faced Wang Ziwen, the "rose with thorns," he acted neither humble nor arrogant, but was generous and generous, and won the woman's trust with his sincerity. Netizens said that the two of them are very compatible in every aspect and hope that they will be very happy together.

Qian Zhongshu once said, "There are only two kinds of people in the world. For example, if you get a bunch of grapes, one kind will pick the best ones and eat them first, and the other kind will save the best ones for last." As usual, the first type of person should be optimistic, because every time he eats one, he is eating the best of the remaining grapes. The second type of person should be pessimistic, because every time he eats one, he is eating the worst of the remaining grapes. , but the fact is just the opposite. There is hope for the second type of person, but only memories for the first type of person. "

In fact, in real life, especially in marriage and love relationships, everyone wants to start showing their best self. To each other, we all seem to be like a bunch of grapes, not the person eating the grapes, and you want to be eaten first? Or eat the bad ones first? You see, two people are often full of each other's curiosity and desire to explore, and then slowly expose each other's shortcomings in the process of getting along, and then conflicts, quarrels, and even breakups or divorces begin, so women must make themselves like a Mysterious.

If he can do the following three things, it must be the bunch of grapes that gives him hope and he can do it well. You are a book that men can never finish, and you are always attractive. First, don’t make glass, make a diamond. The most common mistake women make is to overshare, to reveal their true feelings in front of men, to reveal their inner feelings without reservation, regardless of whether they are right or wrong, big or small, and to talk about their past emotional experiences. All these will be revealed to the other person, like a piece of glass, but they don’t know you. Unintentional bad habits and wrong performances leave the other party with a sense of flaw, which also covers up your advantages and makes him mistakenly think that all your qualities are bad. This leads to the emergence of the psychological broom effect. Once he has this cognitive bias towards you, you will become boring and unmysterious.

Therefore, women must learn to make a diamond. Each side is independent and full of charm and value. Only in this way can you attract him and nourish this relationship. For example, be less jealous and act coquettishly more, because being jealous shows how much you love him, while acting like a coquettish person reflects how much you understand him. For another example, replace inspection with care. No one likes the suffocating feeling of being monitored, but everyone likes the sense of self-worth that comes from being cared for.

How important is it to satisfy a man’s sense of self-worth? Men have five major values: being understood, being trusted, being supported, being recognized, and being respected. As the saying goes, women should look good to those who please themselves, and men should look good to those who please themselves. Women will dress up for the boys they like, but what boys need more is a sense of accomplishment and learning to play ball from childhood. These hobbies can encourage and support him in his career. If you can appreciate his big and small With a sense of accomplishment, he will feel more favored and valued. If he can feel the meaning of his existence with you and his sense of value is satisfied, then the sense of security and belonging in this relationship will more importantly encourage him to appreciate you.

Finally, I would like to share a sentence with you. This is the core of diamonds. Learn to give a slap to the scrawled life, have a sense of ritual, and be versatile. A person's appearance will affect the inner level, so in a girl's life. It is often said that love is the spice of life, but it is not a necessity. You might as well tidy up the room, add a bouquet of flowers to the bedroom, exercise more, listen to music before going to bed, read for half an hour, and stay up less late. Don't look at these simple things, they are actually changing your own image. The inner level will also become richer.When you learn to give yourself a sense of ritual, your own charm will also improve. These small habits will gradually make you independent, confident, and elegant. Women with a rhythm of life are like the saying: If you bloom , butterflies come!