"If a woman cannot get love, she will be a failure in her life." This is Yu Xiuhua's struggle against the misfortune of marriage. As a woman, there is nothing wrong with yearning for love. We sympathize with her experience more than ridicule.
Recently, Yu Xiuhua’s domestic violence incident has caused an uproar on the Internet. Some netizens did not even believe it was true because they only took wedding photos in April this year and showed off their affection on various occasions. How do you say you fall out when you fall out?
Soon, some netizens proved that this incident was true. Netizens said that on July 5th, Yu Xiuhua and Yang Huice accused each other of each other's faults in the live broadcast room, and the scene was full of gunpowder.
html On July 7, some media asked about Yu Xiuhua's situation. Yu Xiuhua replied: She is in good health. I have to go out and hide. If I don't go out, I will be beaten to death. The police intervened afterwards.
Of course, Yu Xiuhua’s remarks were only one-sided. No matter how well-educated both parties were, there was no guarantee that a quarrel would not occur.
Judging from Yu Xiuhua’s previous exchanges with netizens on the Internet, Yu Xiuhua is a straight-tempered person, and a bit petty. As long as netizens make some unpleasant comments, she will always retaliate twice, and they are more unpleasant. To put it bluntly, Yu Xiuhua also Not someone to be trifled with.
Of course, this is not Yu Xiuhua’s fault, because netizens offended her first and deserved to be criticized.
Also on July 7, some media had a conversation with Yang Weice through a third party. Yang Weice made it clear that he did hit Yu Xiuhua, but not as hard as she said. He only slapped her a dozen times and did not choke her. , she didn’t call her son a fool, and she was careful when hitting her, otherwise she wouldn’t be able to post on Weibo.
At the same time, Yang Huice also explained the reason why the two wanted to fight. He said that Yu Xiuhua liked to drink. After drinking, her behavior became rude. She not only scolded his family and daughter, but also used extremely vulgar language. In the end, she He couldn't hold back and wanted to beat her because she said she wanted to find someone else. He also said that he still loves Yu Xiuhua so far, and she wanted to let her go.
In fact, it is also difficult to tell whether Yang Huice's words are true or false, because if both parties have true love, they will not fight over one or two words, let alone make Yu Xiuhua so scared.
Although I personally don’t like Yu Xiuhua, and I don’t like reading her works, but as a woman, it is amazing to have the courage to fight against the misfortune of marriage.
Yu Xiuhua was born in 1976. Her hometown is Zhongxiang, Hubei. She was very unfortunate in the first half of her life. She was born with a miscarriage and lack of oxygen, which eventually led to cerebral palsy and difficulty moving. She also had slurred speech. This was very difficult for a woman who was born with physical disabilities. That is to say, it is basically doomed that life in the future will be more difficult than that of ordinary people.
Sure enough, when she was 19 years old, her parents were afraid that she would have no one to take care of her in her life, so they took it upon themselves to recruit an outsider who was 12 years older than her as their son-in-law.
Unexpectedly, after getting married, her husband felt aggrieved when he saw that Yu Xiuhua could not help him with anything, so he went to other places on the pretext of working, and only came back during the New Year and busy farming. What made Yu Xiuhua even more sad was that she was in the eyes of her husband. There isn't a single pig in there that's worth anything.
What completely disappointed Yu Xiuhua was that her husband asked her to stop the foreman's car because he would not get back the 800 yuan of wages. He said to Yu Xiuhua: "You are a woman and you are disabled. He dare not hit you." She has a high school diploma. Only then did the educated Yu Xiuhua suddenly realize that she was just a tool for her husband. He picked it up when needed and left it aside when not needed. There was no trace of love and compassion in this person. She was simply inferior to outsiders!
In 2009, Yu Xiuhua began to try to use the knowledge he had learned to create. Yu Xiuhua, who had been neglected for a long time, seemed to have found support in life. His imprisoned body suddenly gained strength. No matter how good he was, he just kept writing, "The Cask". ", "A Bag of Wheat", anything close to life is written.
Her hard work paid off. Her collection of poems was finally discovered by "Poetry Magazine" Literature, and she began to reap benefits from it. With the rise of self-media, Yu Xiuhua's collection of poems also began to appear on major platforms.
In 2014, Yu Xiuhua's poem "Crossing Half of China to Sleep with You" exploded on the Internet and was forwarded tens of millions of times. Yu Xiuhua finally reached the peak of her life.
After Yu Xiuhua received a large amount of royalties, the first thing she did was to end this unfortunate marriage as soon as possible.
In 2015, after Yu Xiuhua paid her husband a breakup fee of 150,000 yuan, she finally obtained the divorce certificate as she wished.
I originally thought that after the divorce, my financial situation would improve, and I would be able to find my ideal partner in life. I never thought that happiness would come and go quickly.
Regarding Yu Xiuhua’s second marriage, we will not make too many comments, because marriages in reality are based on feelings and interests. Is it because Yu Xiuhua thinks she is noble after becoming famous, or is it Yang Huice who thinks the two of them have a basic foundation? Not a good match? It's hard to judge, after all, every family has a hard-to-recite scripture.
