Dye white and turn it into black, and all the charcoal and wood turn into gray. I miss the people in my room who will never come back if they pass away. ——"Sorrow" Starring Zhu Yilong and Yang En, the new film "Life Events" directed by Liu Jiangjiang has a Taopiao rating of 9.

One dyed white becomes black, all the carbon wood turns gray. I miss the people in my room who will never come back if they pass away. ——"Sorrow"

Starring Zhu Yilong and Yang Enyou, the new film " Events of Life" directed by Liu Jiangjiang, Taopiaoping scored 9.6, and the premiere box office exceeded 40 million. The first film focuses on the funeral industry. The theme describes the joys, sorrows and joys of the undertaker, and shows the stories of life and death. Death is not sad, and life is not sinking. We all live a life of joys and sorrows between life and death.

Mo Sanmei, played by Zhu Yilong, soon after she was released from prison, and two friends started the business left by her father - a mortician. She had a crew cut, wore a fancy shirt, and spoke fluently Wuhan dialect , with a bad attitude, the neighbors always shun him.

The third sister feels very sad: the girlfriend she misses is actually with her buddy, and the two are married. The third sister is even more angry; her father wants to transfer the house he currently lives in to him, and he has made many demands. , in Sanmei's view, it is unnecessary. She and her father always quarrel when they meet, which stems from her father's neglect of her heart when she was a child.

On this day, Sanmei and her partner received another job. They had just cleaned up the deceased. A little girl dressed like Nezha asked angrily: "Don't touch my grandma!" She thought she was a naughty child, but she never thought The little girl actually found where they lived and clamored for her grandmother.

This is Xiaowen, a little girl with weird appearance and bold behavior. She has never met her parents and lives with her grandmother who loves her. After her grandmother passed away, Xiaowen was rejected by her aunt, and her cowardly uncle just wanted to pass it on to his third sister.

Xiaowen came to "Shanghai", a place that was really incompatible with children, but Sanmei and his friends gave Xiaowen a feeling of home that he had never felt at home. At first, Sanmei and Xiaowen were at odds with each other, and neither of them looked down on the other. As we get along slowly, we don't know whether it is Xiaowen who uses a child's perspective to melt the unruly heart of the third sister, or whether it is the prodigal son of the third sister who turns around and finds the meaning of life. In short, this family relationship that goes from strange to hard to let go brings us heart-touching moments. Warmth and touching.

Apart from life and death, everything is trivial

The film uses the perspective of a funeral director to show the various life and death experiences of millions of families. Some little girls died due to long-term illness heart failure , and some did not wake up while sleeping. When you get older, you always have to say goodbye to your loved ones...

Speaking of death, this is a very sensitive topic. We have been avoiding it, as if each of us has a book of our own in our hands, no matter what No matter how careless you are, you will always turn to the last page. Beginning, end, starting point, end point, day and night, four seasons, life will always come to an end...

This reminds me of the " motto " exercise in my own female healing section, which makes people who come to the studio Women imagined entering the "countdown to life". Some of them frowned, some began to twitch as they wrote, and some looked in a daze...

"My child, study hard, mother can't accompany you anymore, I believe you have The ability to live well"

"Husband, take good care of the children"

"Parents, don't be sad, I will repay you in the next life"

"Friends, thank you for the friendship for many years"

Life is a constant experience and farewell, and death is a must for each of us. Through experience, we should learn to cherish the time with the people we love in the limited time, whether it is family, friendship or love.

Healing and redemption, healing the wounds of time

Xiaowen behaved rudely because he had no parental supervision since childhood; Sanmei had a cold appearance because her father was simple and rude since childhood. Two people who lack love unexpectedly walk into each other's lives and illuminate each other's worlds.

When we feel lonely and struggling to walk, there will always be someone, or a career we love, or an unforgettable experience, or a dog or a cat, who can help us when we feel discouraged. See hope, feel the courage to survive in desperate situations, and feel the joy of the moment.

3 Stars, People I Miss

"Every star in the sky is a person who once loved us." When the ashes of Sanmei's father bloomed with fireworks in the night sky, this was the tearful climax of the film, and I couldn't stop crying. Controlled and flowing out, this scene makes us think of the people who once loved us, the loved ones who have left us, and the people who will still leave us in the future.

Some people say: Parents are a wall between us and death. If our parents are alive, there is still a way forward in life; if our parents are gone, there is only a way back in life.

Maybe when our parents were around, we had been complaining, quarreling, and escaping, just like the third sister and his father, who despised each other; but when his father really left, the three-foot-old man burst into tears because he would never see his former self again. Those who beat and scold themselves, because even the sound of scolding them has become a memory.

This is a film that makes us slow down and think about the meaning of the moment.

This is a movie that gives us the opportunity to understand the mortician-the beautician of the dead. There are thousands of professions in the world, and the work is regardless of high or low.

This is a movie worth spending money to watch in the theater. It is the best domestic movie in the first half of this year. It heals the soul in the human touch and fireworks.

[Author of this article]

Xia Xiaoyou, female growth mentor, individual effectiveness coach, psychological counselor, lifelong growth practitioner, likes to read books, like movies, like to follow dramas, like to record in words, like to live a leisurely life, like to communicate with People are chatty, like spring flowers blooming, facing the sea, and look forward to meeting you with the same mind around the corner.