The media cherry faction [Toutiao Liyujun] is a special author who provides in-depth interpretations of entertainment hot spots and looks for Liyujun! "Flowers and Boys" returns after 5 years. "Emotional Intelligence Master" Yang Mi's becoming the leader is destined to be a highl

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"Flowers and Boys" returns after a lapse of 5 years. "Emotional Intelligence Master" Yang Mi becoming the leader is destined to be a highlight, but what I didn't expect is that Yang Mi also has a day when his "driving water" is out of balance. In July In the preview of the program broadcast on the 1st, Yang Mi lamented that she did not expect to be "isolated", and Jiao Kuo sat far away from the crowd and secretly wiped his tears.

Later in the conversation, Yang Mi also felt a bit angry, saying frankly that she didn’t expect that the outbreak of conflicts in the team was actually her own problem.

Since the complete process of the conflict erupting was not shown in the program, it is difficult to judge the ins and outs of the dispute. However, as the program was broadcast, it was not difficult to find that while Yang Mi showed high emotional intelligence and high execution ability, "Hua Shao" 4" still has not escaped the old path of conflicts breaking out.

The outbreak of conflicts has been there for a long time.

Since the broadcast of "Hua Shao 4", Yang Mi's execution ability and leadership ability are simply unparalleled. She can be called the leader who can hold the audience the best since the four seasons. In the program broadcast on July 1st, facing the mess left by the barbecue party the night before, Yang Mi bent down to clean up the mess without any unnecessary complaints. When cleaning up the tent, Yang Mi even held an umbrella with one hand and carried it with the other hand. The taller tent goes down the mountain.

Not only that, when faced with the luggage piled up like a hill, Yang Mi did not panic and quickly came up with a solution, dividing the team into two teams, transporting the luggage and packing the tents at the same time.

While having high execution ability, Yang Mi is also considerate. When Zhao Jinmai was pricked on his hand by a stick, he promptly gave a band-aid . When Ding Chengxin wanted to "catch chickens" but was not supported, He said warmly, "I'll play with you."

Although the team atmosphere seems very warm, if you look closely, there are still many contradictory sparks hidden in "Hua Shao 4". In the latest episode of

, Zhang Kaili and Han Dongjun had a disagreement about exchanging driving cars. When Zhang Kaili proposed to take over Han Dongjun's driving at the next stop, Han Dongjun declined Zhang Kaili because he had more precautions in the car at the beginning.

Later, Zhang Kaili still insisted on driving by herself on a relatively gentle road section, while Han Dongjun said that she could alternately drive the second car with Li Sidani and others. After hearing his answer, although Zhang Kaili did not fight anymore, she already He showed displeasure and returned to the lounge without saying a word.

Later, Zhang Kaili also expressed her dissatisfaction with the filming director. She believed that Han Dongjun was worried about driving, so he used "cannot change people in the lead car" to excuse herself. Not only that, Zhang Kaili also refused the director "to come back the next day ( "Communicate with Han Dongjun". Although there was no strong argument, it was not difficult to see Zhang Kaili's incomprehension and anger.

Although Yang Mi has tried her best to take care of and balance the team, in travel programs, close friction and friction are inevitable. From the perspective of Han Dongjun and Zhang Kaili, they each have their own considerations, but they only interact with each other. If you don't fall in love with the other person's magnetic field and are unwilling to communicate further, conflicts are inevitable.

The contradiction is not only caused by the harsh environment

Since the four seasons of "Hua Shao" were broadcast, either they faced language barriers or encountered harsh environments. The recording period of "Hua Shao 4" coincided with the rainy season, and the theme was still “Camping season” is simply difficult.

Due to the influence of the environment, the team members’ expectations and enjoyment of the journey were greatly reduced. Liu Mintao suffered from insomnia for three consecutive days due to sleeping environment problems. In order to take care of Liu Mintao’s emotions, Yang Mi, the team leader, successively proposed to let him go Liu Mintao and Zhao Jinmai exchanged bedrooms and rented a separate tent for Liu Mintao. Unexpectedly, in the face of everyone's concern, Liu Mintao started to blame himself, saying that he should not have caused trouble to everyone by telling everyone about his poor sleep.

In order to do something for everyone, and so that he could go down the mountain to relax and relieve his mood, Liu Mintao proposed to drive Zhang Kaili down the mountain to buy ingredients for everyone's dinner, but he was still stopped by Han Dongjun on the grounds of "uneasy".

In order to express his determination to go down the mountain, Liu Mintao even quickly sat in the driver's seat, but he was "intercepted" by Han Dongjun and Yang Mi who rushed over. Liu Mintao, who originally proposed to go down the mountain, immediately decided not to go. It is not difficult to see that she displeasure.

The conflicts between Liu Mintao and Yang Mi also broke out in the follow-up program. In the trailer on July 1, Liu Mintao fell into self-blame for accidentally hitting Zhang Kaili's beach buggy . Yang Mi warmly comforted her not to be afraid of giving. When others cause trouble, Liu Mintao responded to Yang Mi with the same words: "You have already caused me trouble."

This scene has been very common in the several seasons of "Flowers and Boys" that have been broadcast. The "Flower Science" derived from this program is more like a friction between members of different ages and different personalities during the journey. The "group drama" of communication.

Even the warmest first season has many intriguing classic scenes. As the most highly rated leader in "Hua Shao", Zhang Han was also disliked by the members because he was worried about safety issues, Liu Tao Others once refused to ride in the car driven by Zhang Han.

After Li Fei'er lost her bag, even if Zhang Han went through the trash cans one by one to help her find it, at the end of the trip, Li Fei'er still said that she was "very helpless inside" and worked very hard to cater to others.

Members of different ages and different personalities are arranged to embark on a strange journey together as soon as they meet. No matter how careful they are, they are still inevitably touched and ignited by their different personalities and different living habits. This is also the story of "Flowers and Boys" One of the reasons for frequent conflicts over the past few seasons.

Although Yang Mi has been praised for her high emotional intelligence since the broadcast of "Hua Shao 4", but in the process of getting along, a person's high emotional intelligence and execution ability are far from enough, more is needed Communication, understanding and integration among members. Whether it is Zhang Kaili or Liu Mintao, their starting points are good, they both hope to contribute to this journey, and they both hope to be the person who takes care of the team. However, the continuous preferential treatment and different ways of doing things have caused conflicts to accumulate little by little.

This article is written by the author as a special author of "Toutiao Entertainment". Come to Toutiao to watch entertainment. It is a bit informative and in-depth~