Reporter Li Xiangwen/Comprehensive Report
Mainland actor Huang Lei After marrying his wife Sun Li, they got two daughters, Duoduo, Duomei and a son. In 2014, he took Duoduo to participate in " Where Are We Going, Dad? 2 》, which was welcomed by many audiences. The couple often share their parenting life on Weibo. Unexpectedly, a recent post about a 9-year-old girl getting a perm caused some netizens to question the inappropriateness. Huang Lei posted a post on the 30th to express his support for what his children want to do.
Huang Lei asked his 9-year-old daughter Duomei to have her hair permed, sparking discussion. (Picture/reproduced from Xiaohongshu/Sun Li)
Huang Lei knew that netizens were discussing Duomei’s hair perm, so he shared his opinion: "Most parents nowadays are relatively open-minded. Children have a love for beauty when they were young. Little girls I want to get a perm, buy a beautiful dress, and the little girl said she wants to have her ears pierced. As long as she can bear it, I think it’s okay.” In fact, his eldest daughter Duoduo also had her ears pierced at the age of 13. She had her ears pierced and her hair bleached. At that time, Sun Li also accompanied her daughter to choose the hair color she wanted to dye.
Duoduo bleached her hair and dyed it a special color when she was 13 years old. (Picture/photo taken from Weibo/Duoma 7788)
Huang Lei believes: "It is the nature of children to love beauty and play. We really need to support it. I think beauty and aesthetics are really important." He He shared that the reason for the harmonious family atmosphere is that the relationship between family members is equal. He strongly disagrees with the more traditional and even feudal concept of family, "You and your children are equal. , rather than a situation where you are on top and I am on bottom, you are the dad and I am the baby."
Huang Lei supports his daughters' love for beauty. (Picture/reproduced from Weibo/Huang Lei)
Huang Lei also revealed his views on parenting, hoping that his children’s life can be relaxed and free, “Because he will be subject to a lot of constraints and pressure when he grows up, and it is too precious to be relaxed. "The words were supported by many netizens, "It's great to have such parents", "I'm so lucky to be reborn in his family", "My niece had her hair rolled when she was less than 3 years old, what's wrong, she looks so beautiful", "Parents agree, so why do netizens disagree?"
