He Qingkui is a very outstanding screenwriter in my country. He has always been praised as a "genius screenwriter" by insiders. Although everyone is not familiar with his name, they are definitely familiar with his works.
The famous duo actor, comedy master, national first-class actor Zhao Benshan performed skits such as " Red Sorghum Model Team ", " Yesterday Today Tomorrow ", " Heart Disease " on the Spring Festival Gala, as well as his Later TV series such as " Liu Laogen " and " Holy Water Lakeside " were all created by He Qingkui.
There is also the familiar comedian Gao Xiumin . She collaborated with Zhao Benshan and others on the Spring Festival Gala stage in the sketches such as " Delivering Water Workers " and " Selling Kidnappings ", which are also inseparable from He Qingkui's presence.
With his super creative ability and level, He Qingkui, who has brought many classic works to the Spring Festival Gala stage, has also become popular as sketch actors one after another, including the aforementioned Zhao Benshan and Gao Xiumin.
He himself once said frankly in an interview: "I am actually the man behind Zhao Benshan's success."
Many people don't know that in fact, He Qingkui, Zhao Benshan and Gao Xiumin not only cooperate in their careers, but also have a relationship in private. A valuable relationship.
First of all, the two of them have worked together with Zhao Benshan. They have already regarded each other as their best friends and have always treated each other as brothers.
Then there is Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui and her are not only partners, but also each other's lovers!
Although He Qingkui already had his own family when he was with Gao Xiumin, Gao Xiumin still lived with him for many years without hesitation.
During this period, the two of them have been inseparable from each other. Although He Qingkui has never given Gao Xiumin a status, Gao Xiumin still stays with him unswervingly. Even if she is complained about and criticized by others, she has no regrets.
But who would have thought that after Gao Xiumin's death, He Qingkui immediately turned around and returned to his wife, and lived a happy life with her.
It has been 17 years since Gao Xiumin passed away. After so many years, how is He Qingkui doing when he returns to his wife?
After Gao Xiumin passed away, did Zhao Benshan, who promised at the funeral to support him for the rest of his life, really do it?
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He Qingkui, whose ancestral home is Jining, Shandong, was born in 1947 in a rural family in Fuyu County, Songyuan, Jilin. His parents are both fishermen. Since there are many brothers and sisters in the family, and the economic conditions of his family are not good, his childhood life It was a hard life.
However, although life was hard, their parents did not let their brothers and sisters suffer. They always left them all the delicious and useful things at home, and even saved money to send them to school.
As a result, He Qingkui, who was particularly naughty, did not study hard. He was always absent-minded during class and liked to tear up his own textbooks when he had nothing to do. As a result, his books disappeared less than halfway through each semester.
In addition, he often takes his classmates to play around during recess, climbing trees, digging out bird's nests, catching grasshoppers, he has played all the things that rural children have experienced when they were young.
However, naughty is naughty. He Qingkui, who has been sensible and filial since childhood, rarely lets his parents worry about his life. Not only does he rarely get into trouble, in order to help his parents reduce their pressure, he started to help them go to Songhua River when he was very young. Fishing on the side of .
Later, after graduating from middle school, because he didn't like studying and his family's financial conditions could not support him to continue studying, he gave up studying and went to the countryside to join the labor force like most young people at that time.
Due to malnutrition when he was a child, he looked very thin at that time, so the production team leader asked him to do some easier tasks, such as mowing grass and picking up debris.
Even when cutting grass, He Qingkui found it very strenuous at the time. The heavy sickle seemed to weigh a thousand kilograms to him. Later, when recalling his experience at this time, he said: "I couldn't use my strength, and the sickle swung horizontally." He slapped his chin and had no choice but to give up. "
Seeing that He Qingkui couldn't even do such a simple menial job, the production team leader had no choice but to tell his father about this matter. After hearing this, He Qingkui's father felt that this was not an option. Start looking for another way out for him.
After careful consideration, He Qingkui's father decided to beg the leader of the village troupe to let He Qingkui perform in the troupe. He thought to himself: "My son can't do heavy work, but he can always act on stage, right?"
Just like that, in Under the arrangement of his father, He Qingkui embarked on the path of art.
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Not long after he entered the village troupe, He Qingkui was arranged to perform the song "Double Lock Mountain" on stage with an actress. Due to the good response, the troupe leader who had a bad impression of him at first also had a bad impression of him. A lot has changed.
After that, He Qingkui stayed in the troupe with peace of mind. In addition to performing on stage, he also created two-person works such as "Two Scorekeepers", which won the support of many audiences.
In 1966, 19-year-old He Qingkui responded to the call to join the army and became an art soldier of the Jilin Military Region Soldier Amateur Performance Team. It was not until three years later that he returned to his hometown to develop.
Because it was in a special period of ten years and the literary and artistic career was stagnant, his development was not particularly good.
Unlike his career development, he gained his love during this period and came together with Zhang Yanru, who was 1 year younger than him.
Zhang Yanru comes from a very good family and is an educated youth. Compared to He Qingkui, her conditions are much better.
But even so, she was attracted by He Qingkui's talent and firmly entered the marriage hall with He Qingkui. After the marriage, He Qingkui gave birth to two sons and a daughter.
In order to let his wife and children live a good life, He Qingkui, whose literary and artistic career was not developing at that time, started his old trade. Every day after work, he went to the Songhua River to fish, and then sold it in the market. This is how he met his later lover Gao Xiumin.
Gao Xiumin, who was 12 years younger than him, was serving as the deputy director of the folk art troupe in Fuyu County at the time. Because He Qingkui often showed his scripts to people in the folk art troupe, hoping that the troupe could perform his works, he gained remuneration.
Once, Gao Xiumin read the script "Who Marries Who" written by him and thought it was very good and left a deep impression on him.
Later, when Gao Xiumin went to the market, she saw him selling fish. After she recognized him, she started chatting with him. They chatted happily and soon became good friends who talked about everything.
Gao Xiumin couldn't bear to see such a talented person like He Qingkui just silent in the busy city. Later, she defied all opinions and performed the script written by He Qingkui on the stage. Unexpectedly, she won the Jilin Provincial Art Festival in one fell swoop. first prize.
He Qingkui, who became famous in one battle, also ushered in the peak period of his career. Not only was he hired by the Cultural Bureau of Dongliao County, Jilin Province as a screenwriter in the drama creation room, but also started his road to popularity.
In 1992, Gao Xiumin participated in the national sketch competition with his sketch "Burden" and won the gold medal in the competition. Gao Xiumin became famous all over the country.
After that, the two of them began a cooperative relationship that lasted for many years. They complemented each other and quickly became popular.
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Under the help and leadership of Gao Xiumin, He Qingkui’s works have also appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, from "Water Delivery Man" to "Selling Kidnappings" to "Yesterday Today Tomorrow", "New Year's Eve" and so on. All classic works have won the love and support of the audience.
He Qingkui, who was recognized for his works, has transformed from a "fish seller" selling fish in the wet market to a well-known "genius screenwriter" in the industry.
As they cooperated more and more, they communicated with each other more and more frequently. He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin also changed from ordinary friends at the beginning to close friends of each other. Later, the two even became "have-nots". A nameless relationship between husband and wife.
At that time, Gao Xiumin had divorced her ex-husband Li Yunqi and lived alone with her daughter Li Xuan, but He Qingkui was different. He did not divorce his wife Zhang Yanru.
But even so, the two of them still lived together regardless of everything, and began a cohabitation life that lasted for more than ten years.
It is worth mentioning that although He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin lived together openly, his wife Zhang Yanru not only did not divorce him, but also acquiesced in this relationship.
In the following more than ten years, He Qingkui enjoyed a sweet life with his lover Gao Xiumin while running their family with his wife, taking good care of both parties.
Unfortunately, this happy life did not last long. With the death of his lover Gao Xiumin, it all came to an end.
In 2005, Gao Xiumin, whose career was flourishing, suffered a heart attack before starting the filming of the drama "Holy Water Lakeside". Unfortunately, she passed away from this world at the age of 46.
For her sudden death, countless people inside and outside the circle felt sad and reluctant. At her funeral, her best partner Zhao Benshan even burst into tears and cried: "Sister, I'm late." ..."
But the saddest thing was the 58-year-old He Qingkui who had just lost his eldest son at that time.
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A few months before Gao Xiumin's death, He Qingkui's eldest son He Shuchun unfortunately passed away. The 57-year-old He Qingkui, who had white hair and black hair, suddenly seemed to have aged more than ten years.
However, before he could get over the pain of losing his son, he suddenly received the news of the death of his lover Gao Xiumin, and he was even more heartbroken.
When seeing Gao Xiumin's body, He Qingkui kept crying: "How could you leave me alone and leave? We agreed to live together for the rest of our lives."
"Xiumin, you are gone. , what should I do!”
burst into tears, which not only moved everyone present, but also moved all the netizens who knew the news.
Later at Gao Xiumin's funeral, he cried uncontrollably again.
Seeing He Qingkui's grief-stricken appearance at Gao Xiumin's funeral, everyone present was moved. Zhao Benshan, who had worked with him and Gao Xiumin many times, and was their good friend in private, was deeply moved by such a scene. move.
When He Qingkui expressed his willingness to continue writing scripts for him, Zhao Benshan said directly to him: "Brother, let's not talk about this anymore. We won't write anymore. I will support you until you grow old!"
He Qingkui was also moved by Zhao Benshan's words. , when recalling it later on the show, he said with emotion: "It's really enough to have a true friend for a lifetime."
I don't know if it's because of Gao Xiumin's death, or because I can't let go of the original love in my heart. family, Shortly after Gao Xiumin passed away, He Qingkui, who lost his lover, turned around and returned to his wife Zhang Yanru, and lived a stable life with his wife.
Many people complained about this, but He Qingkui did not respond much. Since returning to his family, he has been living his life peacefully.
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In the tenth year after Gao Xiumin's death, which was also the tenth year after He Qingkui returned to his family, his wife also left him when he was 68 years old.
In just ten years, he experienced the pain of losing his son, his lover, and his wife. His experience really makes people feel sad.
After the death of his wife, He Qingkui focused on his career and created many works in succession over the years.
For example, He Qingkui participated in works such as " Liu Laogen 3" and " Country Love 12" launched by Zhao Benshan in recent years.
From this point of view, Zhao Benshan did fulfill his original promise to support He Qingkui for a lifetime, but the way he fulfilled his promise was in a cooperative way.
I don’t know if he was influenced by him. His youngest son He Shucheng also entered the entertainment industry and developed quite well.
He Shucheng is good at acting and creation. Not only has he won awards for many of his film and television works, he has also become a national first-class actor with his many years of hard work. His acting career is no worse than that of his father He Qingkui.
Seeing that his son has developed so well, He Qingkui is not only sincerely happy for him, but now he also regards his son as his pride.
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It has been 17 years since Gao Xiumin passed away, and He Qingkui is 75 years old. For him, the days when he worked and lived with Gao Xiumin have become precious and beautiful memories for him.
He has come out of the grief of the past and has now started a new life of his own.
usually writes scripts, invites a few friends to drink tea, play chess, plant flowers at home, look at works created when he was young, etc. His life is very comfortable.
Although he will often recall some good times in the past, he also knows that there is no turning back in life.
Especially for elderly people like him, they should cherish every minute and every second of themselves and live a good life now. This is the most important thing.
In fact, as a screenwriter, He Qingkui has brought us so many excellent works, and his talent and ability are absolutely beyond words.
As for his love life, which was once criticized by the public when he was young, the success or failure of it all will be left to future generations to judge.
After all, for him, with the departure of his lover Gao Xiumin and his wife Zhang Yanru, the opinions of the outside world are no longer important.
Finally, I hope that this screenwriter and old artist who has created countless classic works can live a good old life and be in good health. Friendly reminder from
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