"If you stand with a dog, you are not as valuable as the dog.
Don't talk about becoming an artist first, you first try to become a good dog."
—— Guo Degang
一
In January 2018, Cao Yunjin participated in " Tucao Conference". The program of
was one of the most exciting since the launch of "Tucao Conference".
In the program, Cao Yunjin brought up old things again and scolded his mentor Guo Degang mercilessly, and the atmosphere on the scene was full of climaxes.
When Cao Yunjin vividly imitated the master Guo Degang, "Those who don't understand the situation and advise you to be generous, you should stay away from them, because when lightning strikes them, you will be harmed..."
The audience applauded wildly, Cao Yunjin's professional ability that night Conferred God.
Sitting in the audience, Li Dan was applauding for the wonderful effects of the show, while sweating in his heart.
I didn’t know how to smooth things over when I met Guo Degang in the future.
Who knew that in less than a month, this day of close combat would come.
On the stage of "天天上", Guo Degang and his disciples of Deyun came to give guidance to "new comedy actor" Li DanChizi.
Li Dan was in an unusually tense state that day, but Wang Han, who was not too worried about watching the excitement, organized a Hongmen Banquet.
Wang Han, as the host, sat in the middle.
Guo DegangYu Qian sat on both sides of him. He first asked Li Dan: "Have you invited Teacher Guo to appear on the show?"
Li Dan's attitude was as low as the sewer: "We also invited Teacher Guo, but we should have declined. It means a polite refusal. The reply was: Get lost."
These words made Lao Guo look good. Guo Degang smiled slightly: "This is in line with our style."
Wang Han asked again: "After you complained about the guests, will they be angry?"
Li Dan was busy. Said: "We complained on the stage and apologized to the guests when we got off the stage."
Guo Degang's expression softened a lot: "It is a good thing for me that the audience is happy. At my age, I don't care too much about many things."
A grudge has disappeared, thanks to Li Danneng "pretending to be a grandson" and Guo Degang "loving to be a father".
In the past two years, netizens seem to be particularly repulsive and sensitive to " daddy ".
Once, a brand campaign used ice cubes to test tooth sensitivity. Li Yifeng said casually,
"It is best not to eat ice like this in life, especially girls."
was labeled as a "dad-like statement" ".
Host Zhang Shaogang appeared on the show with Yu Wenwen. When he saw Yu Wenwen chewing chicken legs with his bare hands, Zhang Shaogang sighed loudly, "How can you get married like this!"
is also a "daddy's speech".
's so-called "dad-like", to put it bluntly, means two things: teaching you how to behave and making you obedient.
Guo Degang has a famous saying when leading his apprentices: "Don't talk about becoming an artist first, you first become a good dog."
He asked his apprentices, "As soon as you enter the door, tell yourself that you are not even a human being."
in Deyun As an apprentice in a society, you have to learn the rules when it comes to cleaning, respecting teachers and teaching, and ranking according to seniority.
Guo Degang’s daddy touch is enough. So the question is, does this era still need this kind of “daddy touch”?
二
Song Dandan has been on the hot searches these days.
"Song Dandan is suffocated", "Song Dandan is strong", "Song Dandan has low self-esteem"...
's so-called "Song Dandan was suffocated in the workplace for 9 minutes" video has spread all over the Internet.
This video of " choking " is very simple to say. In the social observation variety show " Fifty Kilometers Taohuawu ", Song Dandan, as the only elder among the guests, proposed to hold a party to allow the new and old members to quickly get to know each other. To break the ice, it is best for everyone to put on a show.
Song Dandan first emphasized that there is no force, and then said that it is best to have a dance together, with everyone participating.
The whole room was silent.
Li Xueqin was the first to object. She thought it was too convoluted and unnecessary.
Song Dandan retorted: "Why are you so lazy?" She slapped Li Xueqin in the face. As a junior, Li Xueqin could no longer talk back, so she "PIA" gave herself a big mouth.
Wang Sulong immediately hugged Li Xueqin's head, as if he was afraid that she would cry on the spot, Song Yanfei rushed to the shelves, Yoko Lame defected on the spot...
The others were waiting, sitting with expressions incomprehensible, talking to each other. There was a small exchange of glances but no comments were expressed, which made the uneasy air in the room even more solemn.
It wasn't until Wang Chuanjun came forward and made it clear that "I will definitely not be able to act" that things made real progress, and Song Dandan finally understood what this group of people were resisting.
What these juniors don’t like is the “mom-like” approach of forcing others to do things based on the starting point of “I am doing it for your own good”.
The only person who is sincere and simple is Wang Chuanjun. He goes straight to the core without beating around the bush. I don’t want what I want, what I am willing to do and what I am unwilling to do. There is no need to act, no need to pretend, and no need to back yourself up.
Me, mine alone, and my opinions are just that.
This is not the first day that Song Dandan became a mother in a variety show.
She cares about everyone's marriage situation, goes everywhere to find matchmakers and maintain fiber. She likes liveliness, loves to watch song and dance shows, and is happy to perform in them herself. She pays attention to the health of the children and provides food and drink for everyone...
Isn't this just Our mother?
In our variety show, do we need a mother?
三
Guo Degang lived a hard life when he was young.
In 1995, Guo Degang went to Beidiao and rented an 8-square-meter cabin with nothing but a bed.
I know a person who calls himself CCTV. He went to act for two months and could not get a penny.
He was unwilling to get money, so he still rode his old bicycle to sing opera every day. Later, the bicycle broke down and he missed the last bus, so he walked all night before returning home.
I took off my watch on the way and tried to find a taxi but it was useless.
When he was the poorest, he couldn't pay the rent, so he hid in the house until midnight and went out to buy flour to make paste. Once he had a high fever, he sold the page for 10 yuan and used it to buy medicine.
Young people don’t like to hear these old almanacs.
Young people just want to see Guo Degang make a fortune, Deyun Club become bigger, become popular all the way, live in Dabieye, Versace wear.
But without going through those hard days, how could there be Deyunshe with a valuation of 2 billion?
Where is Song Dandan?
When Song Dandan was playing Tieling memes, Li Xueqin was still a baby.
Song Dandan has not suffered the same hardships as Guo Degang. She comes from a good background. Her mother is an art teacher and her father Song Fan is a children's literature writer.
Song Dandan loves acting, and her goal is also high - the Beijing People's Art Theater Acting Class.
She not only entered the People's Art School but also stayed at the school to teach. In 1990, Song Dandan and Huang Hong's "Superborn Guerrilla " detonated the Spring Festival Gala and became popular all over the country.
In 1999, Song Dandan partnered with and Zhao Benshan , and the Baiyun Heitui CP still makes the elders have endless aftertaste to this day.
In addition to his steady output on the Spring Festival Gala stage, Song Dandan also has national dramas, " I love my family " and "Family with Children". The audiences of these dramas are male and female, and suitable for both young and old.
"I Love My Family" has reached a terrible ratings of 85%.
In terms of career, Song Dandan’s height is almost unreachable by juniors.
Song Dandan's pain point lies in her family. Her marriage to Yingda , and her and Yingda's son Batu, are the places that hurt her all her life.
Yingda got close to screenwriter Liang Huan when she and Song Dandan were filming "I Love My Family".
He was extremely cold towards Song Dandan. Song Dandan, who had always been proud, felt very lonely in her marriage. She also had extramarital relationships with other men.
After signing the divorce agreement, Song Dandan confirmed the affair between Liang Huan and Yingda through a text message.
At this time, Batu was only 7 years old.
Batu needs the warmth of family the most. In those years when her parents cared about her, Yingda and Song Dandan were entangled in a misaligned relationship. After their parents divorced, Yingda ignored Batu. These are all things that Song Dandan regrets very much.
She once said : "The most difficult thing in the world is to be a mother."
Song Dandan's feelings for Batu are quite complicated.
She wants Batu to succeed more than anyone else, and she also pays more attention to Batu's emotions than anyone else. This makes her repeatedly jump around in the mother-son relationship, and Batu is at a loss as to what to do.
Perhaps this is the reason why Song Dandan is keen on being a mother in domestic entertainment. When she sees these junior children, the Batu in her heart will pop out.
New kids, old kids, good kids, lazy kids...
Song Dandan can easily lose control.
Over the years, Batu has not been very famous. Most of the time he plays a supporting role, and now he is a goods anchor.
and his half-brother Ying Rudy will be compared with him;
his other unrelated sister Zhao Ting will also be compared with him...
Song Dandan in "Taohuawu" Li said:
"People's strong inferiority complex will make you very rude."
Batu is Song Dandan's fault and Song Dandan's favorite. Li Xueqin, who conflicts with Song Dandan, is also Song Dandan's favorite child. This is her way of expression.
Song Dandan and Guo Degang are from a generation that pays attention to rules and etiquette, cares about seniority and respectability.
This is the characteristic that their times gave them.
"Father's taste" and "Mom's taste" are corresponding, but they are different.
"Dad style" refers to men who are self-righteous, give guidance to the country, and want to be a teacher.
They think that since they have eaten more salt than you have eaten, you should listen to them.
"Mom" refers to women's sincere words, "I am for your own good, you should do this, you should do that...
What the two have in common is that they both want to force others to do things according to their own ideas.
"Mom-flavor" contains obvious negative connotations such as lack of sexual charm, nosy, making trouble over nothing, no sense of boundaries, and domineering.
Song Dandan may be a mother, but many times, she can communicate and she is willing to apologize. And although she is nagging and always wants to take care of others, you have to admit that she does also bear the heaviest responsibility. With the greatest care.
You said that when everyone sent her away, they were laughing from ear to ear. She was relieved that Song Dandan could leave!
Speaking of Guo Degang, that's even more true.
Everyone should have seen the recent news from Deyun Club, right?
What should we do if we face these ignorant boys who don’t follow the rules?
The official media directly named "Deyun Club" as soon as it came out. It's time for a serious review!
It seems that Guo Degang's "father" is not enough, he needs to be more "father"!
