"Although Zhu Yongting gave birth to a son for me, I will never divorce you."
In 1995, Alan Tam came home with his newborn son and saw his wife Yang Jiewei said.
At this time, the deal was settled, and Yang Jiewei could only agree to him, but she didn't know that her soft-heartedness made her husband even more wanton.
As Alan Tam's first wife, Yang Jiewei followed him from poverty to wealth. Because of him, she concealed the news of her marriage and even had no children for many years.
But after she became famous by accompanying her husband, her husband gave birth to a child with 19-year-old Zhu Yongting, and she was forced to be trapped in this love triangle.
And since Alan Tam recognized his illegitimate son as his ancestor, why did he refuse to divorce his first wife? When will he be willing to let her go? What is the current situation of Yang Jiewei, who escaped into Buddhism due to despair?
If Yang Jiewei could look back at her marriage with Alan Tam, she would find that her and Alan Tam's ending was already doomed.
Alan Tam was born in Hong Kong in 1950. There were 5 sisters in his family. As the only son, he had high hopes from his family since he was a child.
His father Tan Jiangbai was a football player. Under the influence, Alan Tam became very interested in football when he was a child.
If he were not suitable for this path, I am afraid that the " Tan Zhang Zhenghe " in the late 1980s would no longer exist, and there would be one more young football player in the sports world.
After realizing that he had no talent for sports, Alan Tam was so free and easy that he gave up football and fell in love with music.
At that time, he had not officially engaged in the singing industry. He was just a courier with a monthly salary of 220 Hong Kong dollars. However, his life did not waste his dreams. He delivered letters during the day and loved singing in nightclubs at night.
sang a lot, and he also recognized a group of like-minded people who loved music. In 1968, he formed a band with Chen Baixiang and others and started his own music path.
Unfortunately, this band disbanded shortly after it existed, and Alan Tam's music dream collapsed.
But he did not give up his dream directly. Instead, he formed the " Wenner Band " again five years later and welcomed the joining of Zhong Zhentao .
This time, his fortune seemed to turn around. The band was chosen by Polydor to sign a contract, and his music dream also had a new beginning. The story between him and Yang Jiewei also kicked off this year.
Yang Jiewei comes from a superior family and has outstanding abilities. She is a makeup consultant for a company, and her performance has always been among the best among her colleagues.
The two met in a nightclub. At this time, Alan Tam was still a young singer with an average salary, but he had grown a year earlier. Zhang's handsome face.
After getting acquainted with each other, Yang Jiewei was attracted by Alan Tam's gentle personality and outstanding appearance, and the other party was also moved by her gentle personality and outstanding abilities, and the two slowly came together.
In order to better support Alan Tam's work, Yang Jiewei gave up her job and concentrated on becoming the woman behind the successful man.
She learned stage design and costume design for her lover, and Alan Tam shone more and more under her package. Even though the band later disbanded, his popularity remained unaffected.
It can be said that in the years when Alan Tam became popular, half of the credit must be attributed to her.
Alan Tam also understood Yang Jiewei's dedication, and the two got married in Las Vegas in 1981. It's just that that era was not very tolerant of artists, so the two did not make public the news of being together.
During this period, Alan Tam's career also entered a period of rapid development. He successively released albums such as "Can't Forget You", " Belated Spring ", " Love in the Mist ", and also starred in the movie " If I "It's Real ", and collaborated with Teresa Teng on "Lover·Goddess", and her career is booming.
At the same time, Leslie Cheung also became popular with " wind continues to blow ". From then on, Alan Tam and Leslie Cheung's songs began to compete openly and secretly in the music world, and in the late 1980s, the "Tan and Zhang Struggle for Hegemony" was formed.
However, the relationship between Alan Tam and Leslie Cheung is not as tit-for-tat as music. The two have always been good friends. Later, in order not to continue to fight, they stopped participating in music programs and this came to an end.
At this time, Yang Jiewei was filled with love for her husband. She quietly hid behind Alan Tam, silently happy for her husband's development.
Seeing that Alan Tam's career was stable and he and his wife had been married for longer and longer, his parents began to naturally urge them to get married and have children.
Considering that Alan Tam's career was at a critical period at this time, Yang Jiewei did not want to affect her husband's development, so she withstood the pressure and did not agree.
During this period, she also became pregnant several times, but each time she chose to give up the child. As the number of times increased, it became increasingly difficult for Yang Jiewei's body to conceive.
Although she felt uncomfortable that she could not become a mother, she silently acknowledged the consequences when she thought of her husband. However, Yang Jiewei never thought that her husband would betray the marriage because of their children.
When Yang Jiewei's father passed away in 1993, her mother asked that his name be included in the obituary. She originally wanted to refuse, but her mother's words stopped her: " You have been hiding behind him for so long, don't you want to Is there a status? ”
At this time, Yang Jiewei has been secretly married to Alan Tam for 12 years, and the two have been together for almost 20 years.
After being silent for a long time, Yang Jiewei finally agreed with her mother's decision. As a result, her marriage to Alan Tam came into everyone's sight. Many people questioned why Alan Tam hid the marriage.
And Yang Jiewei stood up again. She took the initiative to express that she wanted to hide her marriage and show her virtuousness to the fullest, but her sincerity was not cherished by her husband.
Only two years later, Alan Tam appeared in front of Yang Jiewei with a son.
Yang Jiewei looked at the grinning child, as if she was laughing at all her efforts in this relationship. What was even more ridiculous was that her husband and the biological mother of the illegitimate child, Zhu Yongting, had already known each other.
It is said that the two met in 1991. At that time, Zhu Yongting was young and beautiful, while Alan Tam had a successful career and the charm of a mature man.
Zhu Yongting was obviously a fan of Leslie Cheung, but she still couldn't help but fall in love with Alan Tam, so she started pursuing him.
At this time, Alan Tam also had relationship problems with his wife due to the pressure at home. After half a push, the two came together.
It’s just that Alan Tam still felt guilty about his wife to some extent, so at the beginning of the two of them getting together, he told Zhu Yongting: "I can't marry you, and I will not give up my wife. "
He thought he was It was enough to give his wife a title, but he forgot that he had betrayed their marriage. The most correct thing to do now was to let his wife go.
Zhu Yongting did not refuse, just said: "As long as you let me accompany you, I will be satisfied."
However, the secret relationship between the two was completely exposed in 1995, when Zhu Yongting gave birth to a son for Alan Tam.
At this time, Alan Tam was already 45 years old, and his family was becoming more and more anxious about having children. After enjoying being single, he gradually hoped to have a child at home.
So after the child was born, Alan Tam took the child home without hesitation. He named the child Tan Xiaofeng, and also brought the child to show off in front of his wife.
Only then did Yang Jiewei realize how ridiculous she was. The marriage she was struggling to support was worthless in front of her husband.
Actually, it’s right to think about it. The elders of that era wanted the family to flourish. As the only child in the family, Alan Tam had to bear the responsibility of passing on the family line. It was difficult for him to disobey his parents’ requirements.
So when Yang Jiewei had difficulty in giving birth, the initiative fell into the hands of Alan Tam. Perhaps Zhu Yongting understood this, so she firmly followed Alan Tam and was willing to be a hidden third party.
It turns out that the power of children is too great. Alan Tam's parents have always wanted a grandson, so when Tan Xiaofeng brought him back, the family did some ideological work with Yang Jiewei.
Yang Jiewei wanted to leave directly, but the two had been together for so many years, and their relationship was not so easy to let go of, so she could only acquiesce in the child.
Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei have naturally had feelings for each other after being together for so long. After his wife accepted the child, she said with a moved face: " Don't worry, although I have a son with her, I will never divorce you. "
He also began a 10-year life of "one husband and two wives". Zhu Yongting often went in and out of Alan Tam's home in the name of his son, while his upright wife Yang Jiewei was like an outsider.
It’s just that Alan Tam still remembered the previous agreement, so he didn’t think of announcing this love triangle, but his father passed away in 2006.
finally announced the mother and son Zhu Yongting for the sake of their son Alan Tam. At this time, Tan Xiaofeng was already 10 years old.
As soon as the news came out, many people called Alan Tam a scumbag. He did not deny it, but just said: " Yang Jiewei is my wife and Zhu Yongting is my confidant. I don't want to hurt any of them. "
But he forgot about him This hesitant and hesitant attitude is what hurts the two of them the most.
Yang Jiewei also gave up completely after her husband announced the illegitimate child and Zhu Yongting. It was not until this moment that she realized that she had become a marginalized figure in the family.
After being heartbroken, she finally chose to escape into Buddhism in 2008 and no longer wanted to be entangled in this relationship.
And her withdrawal just gave Zhu Yongting the opportunity to take over. She took her children to frequently gain favor in front of Alan Tam and his mother, and was finally supported by Alan Tam in 2011.
Yang Jiewei was so heartbroken that she concentrated on Buddhism and stopped caring about these things. Back then, she and Alan Tam made a lot of money investing and managing money for him, but now she is too lazy to fight for these properties and has given them all up.
Yang Jiewei followed Alan Tam from poverty to wealth throughout her life, and she was married to him through thick and thin. However, all her efforts were used to make a wedding dress for Zhu Yongting. In the end, she was clearly the real wife but became an outsider. It was really sad.
As for Alan Tam, although he seems affectionate, he can obviously choose not to betray this marriage, or he can completely make a decision between Yang Jiewei and Zhu Yongting.
But he didn't want to hurt anyone, but he didn't know that his bowl of water actually hurt two people at the same time.
Perhaps Yang Jiewei understood this and did not want to continue to be entangled between the two, so she took the initiative to end this abnormal relationship.
Now Yang Jiewei has been in Buddhism for 14 years and has been married for 41 years. Although the marriage has not ended, it is already in name only, and Alan Tam has completely lived a harmonious and happy life with Zhu Yongting and Tan Xiaofeng as a family of three.
Tan Xiaofeng inherited the advantages of his parents. He has been very handsome since he was a child, and his grades have always been very good. He was not only admitted to Oxford University , but also went to Canada to study for graduate school.
After graduation, she also found a good job and got a girlfriend. Zhu Yongting also lived abroad to take care of her son. Alan Tam would visit the two from time to time, and his relationship with Yang Jiewei was completely in the past.
