"Menghualu" has become popular with a score of 8.7 on Douban. It not only brought back the "fairy sister" Liu Yifei, but also allowed the "sexy goddess" Liu Yan to counterattack. This popular drama, which can be called an inspirational film for women, tells a truth all the time:

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It not only brought back the "fairy sister" Liu Yifei , but also made the "sexy goddess" Liu Yan counterattack.

This hit drama, which can be called an inspirational film for women, tells a truth all the time: people can only rely on themselves in life.

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Song Yinzhang from Jiangnan Leji has beautiful appearance and superb skills, which is unrivaled in Qiantangjiang.

No one knows that this usually cheerful woman has extremely low self-esteem deep down. She dreams of meeting her husband, retiring to the world, and becoming a woman full of fireworks.

It was this extreme desire for love that led her to be seduced by the arty elegance disguised by the "fake wealthy businessman" Song Yinzhang, and he married her without hesitation.

But unexpectedly, not long after their wedding, Song Yinzhang was exposed as a "scumbag". Not only did he steal her savings to pay off his gambling debts, but he also verbally abused her and punched her.

At this moment, Song Yinzhang suddenly realized that he originally wanted to find a "beloved man" to protect him from the wind and rain, but he did not expect that all the wind and rain were caused by the "beloved man".

Everyone wants to be cared for and has someone to hold an umbrella when it rains. But if you are used to relying on others, you are like a small boat in the sea. Once it encounters a violent storm, it is in danger of capsizing in an instant.

A smart woman will not place her hopes on unreliable men.

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Sun Sanniang has a bold personality, but she feels inferior because of her background.

In order to honor her ancestors, she placed all her hopes on her son and always asked him to study hard, just like many mothers today.

When problems arose in her marriage, Sun Sanniang naturally gave up on her ruthless husband.

But she never expected that her son, who was ten months pregnant and had gone through all kinds of hardships to bring him to adulthood, would be a stranger to her. That kind of heart-wrenching pain is impossible to talk about.

Especially her son's words, "Mr. Tao treated me very well, and I would rather have Mrs. Tao as my mother than you" made her feel sad and disheartened.

Compared with Song Yinzhang, Sun Sanniang had no intention of relying on a man, but she did not expect that her own son would not be able to rely on her either.

The seemingly different experiences of the two people actually come from the same reason: they put the hope of changing their lives against the odds in others.

The consequences of doing this will only leave disappointment to yourself and nothing else.

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Zhao Paner, who coexists with beauty and wisdom, initially hoped to change Leji's destiny through others.

She took a fancy to the talent of the down-and-out scholar Ouyang Xu, and spared no effort to help him go to Beijing to take the exam. She also dreamed of becoming the wife of a Jinshi scholar and making a comeback.

But "Mrs. Jinshi" didn't wait, but instead received a notice of divorce.

The heartbroken Zhao Paner also became sober in the world. When she and Gu Qianfan met their true love in adversity, they no longer devoted themselves to each other, nor were they completely dependent on each other. Instead, they moved forward side by side, each enjoying their own glory.

As the saying goes, women should be independent.

If you no longer have the idea of ​​relying on others deep down in your heart, you will have fewer weaknesses that can be exploited and attacked by others.

The sober Zhao Pan'er has always maintained his independence and dignity even though he deeply loves Gu Qianfan. This is what a smart woman should look like.

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As the saying goes, it depends on everyone to run.

Only relying on oneself is a person's ultimate confidence.

Life is full of hardships, and you can only overcome them yourself.

The greatest charm of a person is that when he is in trouble, he has no extravagant hopes or expectations, and relies on his own tenacity and optimism to get out of adversity step by step.