As a TV series from a female perspective, "Come on!" "Mom" mainly shows the anxiety and struggles of mothers, and the fathers in the play seem to be ignored.
But this is normal. As a TV series, it is impossible to cover everything.
took a closer look and found that the four fathers in the story happened to be four different types.
People like Feng Daocheng were full of calculations from the beginning. It would be better if he was really capable, but this guy has great ambitions and little talent. Zhu Luxi spent all his assets, and he was completely defeated.
What's terrible is that after going bankrupt, he never thought about taking responsibility. Not only did he leave, he also put all the blame on Zhu Luxi.
Next is Lawyer Li. He and Su Qing are husband and wife and business partners. They were supposed to have an ideal marriage, but when they reached middle age, they could not resist external temptations and betrayed the family.
Although he tried hard to save it later, once marriage was broken, it could never go back to the past.
Many people don't like Yang Shuo, thinking that Yang Shuo is a scumbag who abandoned his wife and son.
I can't refute such an evaluation, but I don't completely agree with it. The two separated back then. Of course, it was because they didn't love each other deeply enough, but there were also various objective reasons. However, since he learned that he had a child, he was also trying to be a good parent. Good father.
It’s just that what is missed is destined to be missed. It is reasonable for him to return to China alone and leave alone.
In comparison, I like Gu Zhiyong better. Compared with other fathers, he does not make much money and is very ordinary in the circle of fathers. However, in Gu Zhiyong, what we see is the most normal appearance of an ordinary husband.
(Of course, as a loser who only earns 3,000 yuan a month, I really can’t imagine that Gu Zhiyong, who earns over 10,000 yuan a month, would be so frustrated.)
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To a certain extent, Gu Zhiyong and Qin Wei are the most ordinary couple in the drama.
They come from a small place and do not have a prominent family background. Their parents are just ordinary farmers. They can find a job in the city. Although there is no way to achieve a class leap, for Gu Zhiyong, he can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month. Salary is all he can do.
However, if you want to gain a foothold in this city and completely change the fate of your children, this alone is not enough.
In order to give her children a better life, Qin Wei registered her children's household registration in someone else's name and wore a mask all day long to play the role of a rich wife. This was just to integrate into the mother circle of "Little Water Drop" kindergarten, find out more information, and give Children strive for more opportunities.
(Many people don’t like Qin Wei and think she is too fake, but for those at the bottom like us, how can we not seize an opportunity to change our children’s lives? Most of us , while complaining about Qin Wei, we put on various masks for ourselves. However, in most cases, we will not hurt others for our own selfish interests like Qin Wei)
in order not to expose our own family. The real situation is that Qin Wei never lets Gu Zhiyong participate in kindergarten activities.
It would be better if Gu Zhiyong was the kind of heartless person, but he loves his daughter very much. We can all imagine how big this psychological gap is with our toes.
Although Gu Zhiyong is not as enthusiastic as Qin Wei when it comes to educating children, as a father, he will still feel uncomfortable if he cannot give his children a better life.
In order to make more money, he worked part-time and overtime, but he was not recognized by his wife. It was very distressing to carry forward with such a heavy burden.
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Whether it was out of her own inner vanity or for the sake of her children, Qin Wei really tried her best so that her children could go to a good primary school.
There are all kinds of scheming in the mother circle, but they also made a series of mistakes to buy a house in a school district.
As an adult, I can understand Qin Wei's anxiety, but I really can't understand the fact that Qin Wei borrowed an online loan to pay the down payment, and I don't know what kind of brain circuit Qin Wei has to make such a stupid decision. .
Although Gu Zhiyong doesn't make much money (compared to Yang Shuo and Lawyer Li), he has always been the backing of his family when their family may be harmed.
For most men in this world, if their wife does such a thing, even if they don't get angry and get divorced, a big quarrel between the couple is definitely inevitable.
But Gu Zhiyong not only did not blame his wife, but also stood firmly behind her.
It is true that this matter was finally resolved thanks to the fair judgment of the court and the help of Zhou Nannan and Su Qing, but people's abilities vary, and Gu Zhiyong is already amazing for being able to do this.
I think that although Qin Wei disliked Gu Zhiyong for not making much money and complained about Gu Zhiyong, she never filed for divorce, not only because she knew her own worth, but also because she knew what kind of person Gu Zhiyong was.
Maybe this is the truest state of marriage. If you choose a man who makes a lot of money, you may have to worry about it all day long. If you choose a loyal and honest man, you may have financial difficulties. If you choose a total A man who speaks sweet words may be deceived by the illusion of sweetness.
To be honest, if you can live the most ordinary life with peace of mind, Gu Zhiyong is the best husband.
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After the "school district housing incident", Gu Zhiyong also changed.
In the previous story, Gu Zhiyong has always been very Buddhist when it comes to his children going to school. Because of his wife's series of actions, in order to give his daughter a better education, Gu Zhiyong did more part-time jobs. Not only that, in order to save money, Gu Zhiyong turned down the dinner party among colleagues.
In the later story, Gu Zhiyong worked as a branch manager just because he could earn 30% more salary.
After arriving at the branch, Gu Zhiyong was no longer as Buddhist as before. He scrimped on food and clothing every day, worked overtime, and gave all the money he saved to Qin Wei.
Due to too much pressure, Gu Zhiyong suddenly fainted due to malnutrition. By the time Qin Wei learned the news, he was already lying in the hospital.
Hearing that Gu Zhiyong might be suffering from gastric cancer, Qin Wei began to reflect on herself and realized that the root cause was herself, so she began to let go of her obsession and persuaded Gu Zhiyong to go back to work. He also said that as long as the three of them were happy together, nothing else mattered. Gu Yue also vowed to study hard and not let them worry. Gu Zhiyong was moved to tears and he hugged Qin Wei and Gu Yue tightly.
Frankly speaking, in my gut, until this moment, they really seemed like a family.
Perhaps God had mercy, and in the final lottery, Gu Yue, who had the least advantage, was successfully selected.
I only hope that in the story after the end of the drama, Qin Wei can understand what she should protect most in life, and no longer try her best to insist on things that she does not belong to, force herself into a circle that she cannot fit into, and embarrass herself and also Trouble with the family.
After all, being able to have such a good husband as Gu Zhiyong and such a sensible child as Gu Yue is the greatest gift from God.
If she was faced with a mama's boy like Tian Siyang or a scumbag like Feng Daocheng, she might not even be able to cry.
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I once read a sentence on the Internet, saying "A marriage that only talks about money is cold, but a marriage that does not talk about money is stupid."
After all, in the adult world, although money is not everything, it is absolutely impossible to be without money.
When we are in love, what we pursue is the romance of flowers before the moon and under the moon, but after entering into marriage, what we want is real money, rice, oil and salt, three meals a year, food, clothing, housing and transportation. Nothing can be separated from money.
As a friend said, a rich marriage may not necessarily lead to a happy marriage, but a marriage without money is more difficult to be happy. Poor and humble couples suffer from everything, which is just a rough statement.
Although Gu Zhiyong earns our salary for two or three years a year, his annual salary of more than 100,000 yuan is still at the bottom of the city. He still cannot afford a house or a car, just like thousands of ordinary workers. , rushing around for three meals a day.
But what he can give to his wife and children is the most real life of fireworks.
In the circle of fathers, although Gu Zhiyong earns the least money, he gets off work on time and prepares a meal. He can understand his wife's hardships and difficulties, understand his wife's vanity and obsession, tolerate his wife's faults and frustrations, and be able to choose Getting such a good husband was Qin Wei's best investment in the first half of her life.
It's just a pity that in real life, most of us are like Qin Wei -
On one hand, we enjoy the tenderness and consideration of our other half, while on the other hand, we complain about the other half's shortcomings, and on the other hand, we enjoy the rich material life that the other half brings to us. The other side keeps complaining that the other person does not accompany us well...
We always hope that the other person is a perfect person, but forget that there is no absolutely perfect person in this world. Many times, we also do the things we demand of the other person. Less than. Because a truly perfect person will never be harsh on his or her partner.
If we all understood this, there would be fewer divorced couples in the world.
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