Hello everyone, I am a boxing sister who is a professional movie fan.
I don’t know who you thought of when reading the title. I think today’s protagonist fits this description quite well -
Wu Qili posted a photo of the construction site two days ago. She said that she is currently working seven jobs at the same time. Last week I am still doing decoration at the construction site, and I have to go to class this week. I am working hard to make a living.
As we all know, she gave birth to her child "Little Dragon Girl" with Jackie Chan twenty years ago, but their identities have not been recognized.
Wu Qili hates the outside world's speculation about her financial situation. For example, the reason for their good life is because they spend Jackie Chan money, etc. She has responded blatantly and domineeringly, "Our money is all earned by our own investments. ".
It was previously reported that Jackie Chan had changed his mind about "Little Dragon Girl" and paid 40 million in child support. Wu Qili also dismissed it and said it was false.
Last month she couldn't bear the influence of such remarks and came forward to refute the rumors:
"It took three days and two months to tell me how much money I received, and four days and half a year to tell you that I wouldn't give you a penny." Is this over?
However, Ng Qili has spoken out many times, not only because she wants to break away from her old lover.
Careful people can find that she also repeatedly emphasized another thing in the article: "Children are innocent, I am responsible for my willfulness", "Which parent does not want their children to be respected, please stop hurting innocent people." 's children".
This is to show her kindness to her biological daughter and show her painstaking efforts.
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It stands to reason that mother and daughter should be dependent on each other and have a harmonious relationship when living together, but no, the relationship between Wu Qili and "Little Dragon Girl" Wu Zhuolin is very unbalanced.
In the past two years, Wu Qili has not only made the above warm and emotional speeches, but also has violent and violent speeches from a distance.
For example, on the May 4th Youth Day, Wu Qili posted some inappropriate posts, "Learn English because I understand when you scold me" and "No matter where you go, your hometown will always be your hometown."
Well, I am struggling with my daughter who has gone overseas again.
When her relationship deteriorated and she was getting angry, Wu Qili replied to netizens and said, I have never given birth to a child, and my daughter was not born to me.
In the past twenty years, she has not been able to rise to the top because of her mother and her daughter. She still needs to work hard to survive, but this is not the most important thing to Wu Qili;
She has tried her best to take care of the family but failed to get her daughter's love. The most annoying thing.
Of course, she is miserable, and her daughter is even worse.
Little Dragon Girl, who was born as an "illegitimate child", received no protection from her father or mother, and her life was also miserable.
Their story is not an accident, but a family tragedy destined to be intertwined.
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"Little Dragon Girl" Wu Zhuolin has been in the newspapers for various deviant news in recent years.
For example, going out publicly, or getting a certificate overseas with a foreign lover who is 12 years older than you...
Her movements in the past two years have become a mystery. The last news that impressed everyone was that she had a marriage dispute with her wife— —
The earliest time was in 2019. It was reported on the Internet that Wu Zhuolin had been dumped by Andy.
The reason is that Andy posted a meaningful Instagram post, saying that she left everything to someone and always hoped that she would get better, but this person disappointed her time and time again and she could not see any future. After posting
, she also cleared all the accounts she usually used to show affection.
But after that, Wu Zhuolin and Andy appeared on the street again. The two dyed their hair the same color as a couple and hugged each other, and the rumors automatically dissipated.
Then in 2020, the epidemic came, and the two of them were very embarrassed in life. Wu Qili revealed in an interview that Wu Zhuolin "can't even afford a mask."
At that time, there were rumors about another marriage change between her and Andy, but the details of what happened next are unknown.
At first, the couple went to Canada, hoping to start a new life, but their life was not good.
How bad was life? The two of them were even photographed asking for help from a clerk at a convenience store and eating sandwiches to satisfy their hunger...
Wu Zhuolin, who had never contacted Jackie Chan, was forced to record a video and put it online. ——
This was the first time she introduced herself as "Jackie Chan's daughter", and public opinion was in an uproar.
Then they flew back to China, but the media said they came back to ask for money.
After she came back, her financial situation was still difficult. She stayed in a hotel and had no money to pay the rent, so the landlord reported the case. The police looked through their wallets and luggage and found that Wu Zhuolin only had 20 yuan left on his body.
This may be the first second-generation celebrity who is so miserable that she has to live on the street...
Many people interpret the video of Wu Zhuolin revealing her identity as a signal for her to seek financial support from her biological father.
In fact, there is no need to look at this move with a too philistine perspective. She said in an interview that she has neither hatred nor love for this father, let alone wanting to get anything.
If you really want something, it would be better to say that you want an answer - what happened to
after she was born, why her father didn't want her, and why she was destined to not receive the world's love.
This is the answer that even her mother couldn't give her. She needs this so much.
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Wu Zhuolin, who is in his 20s, ran away from home and tried to commit suicide. He has more than 20 scars on his hands.
Half of this is due to the cold look given to her by the entire society because of her status as an "illegitimate daughter";
and the other half is the haze that has been cast on her by family education, which was brought to her by her mother Wu Qili herself.
In order to avoid the disturbance from the outside world, Wu Zhuolin moved to Shanghai with his mother when he was two years old. His family life was not warm.
Wu Qili would punish her corporally - whip her with a whip, make her stand with a dictionary in front of her, or make her copy "I don't want to sleep" for a night.
These extremely harsh education methods made Wu Qili teased by her relatives as "like a dad";
These methods directly led to Wu Zhuolin's rebellion and fear, and she began to run away from home.
In 2015, Wu Zhuolin asked for help from his school teacher, saying that he was suffering from violence from his mother at home;
Wu Qili was subsequently arrested and officially investigated by the police for abusing her daughter.
In 2017, the classic show reappeared:
Wu Zhuolin committed suicide and called the police twice. The police came to her home to investigate, but Wu Qili denied that there was any conflict between the two, saying that it was just a "general family problem."
The important thing is that this time she also leaked a lot of her daughter's privacy, such as Wu Zhuolin's sexual orientation...
Since then, the relationship between mother and daughter has been so indifferent that they can only rely on the police to maintain it. Contact:
Wu Zhuolin came out, moved out of the house, and lived with his girlfriend Andy. One day, Wu Qili suddenly called the police and said that hundreds of thousands of Hong Kong dollars in property were missing from her home, including two valuable rings and a valuable guitar.
Well, the final investigation result is: Wu Zhuolin went home to pick up something...
The next year, Wu Qili couldn't contact her daughter, so she called the police directly to find someone.
In 2019, she called the police again, saying that her daughter was locked at home, but it turned out that this was not the case...
Later, Wu Zhuolin was interviewed and said that she felt helpless and embarrassed by her mother's behavior. Think she needs to see a psychiatrist.
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Wu Qili can neither teach her daughter nor know how to express her love.
In fact, her family growing up environment was no different from Wu Zhuolin's - a father who never appeared, a dignified mother, an education that often beat and scolded...
So she also brought the haze of her childhood with her. Gave it to her.
Similar to Wu Zhuolin who has never met Jackie Chan, Wu Qili has only met her father twice. She was raised by her mother Zheng Liming .
Zheng Liming has worked hard in the business world for many years and has maintained an extremely iron-clad parenting model for her daughter.
Because she hated her ex-husband, she often said to the young Wu Qili, "Fortunately you are a girl. If you were a boy, I would not want you at all."
Because she was often deceived by men, Zheng Liming desperately tried to interfere with her daughter's love. Wu Qili's two relationships ended due to her mother's interference;
Later, she took a detour and had a child with Jackie Chan, and Zheng Liming did not What kind of comfort was given, but instead he forced her to find Jackie Chan with a kitchen knife. Wu Zhuolin, who was still young at the time, hid in Wu Qili's arms and watched all this.
Wu Qili never had the opportunity to learn the ability to take the next generation seriously, and she habitually applied certain bad habits to her daughter.
So the misfortune of "Little Dragon Girl" Wu Zhuolin is not just due to her father's avoidance.
She is using her own life to bear the price for the countless mistakes of two generations. No one could give her an answer.
This is why people often say that you should think twice about having children. People really underestimate the weight of a new life -
It will bring a financial burden to your current life, but being able to accept this does not mean that you are a good person. Qualifications of parents;
You also need to have the ability to love others, to ensure that this little life will not continue the tragedy that happened to you.
Working hard to make money may guarantee a comfortable life, but it cannot guarantee everything. For example, Wu Qili today, no matter how hard she works to make a living and start a career, she cannot bridge the trust between her loved ones.
I hope that no one will continue to have such regrets.
