's currently airing " Menghualu " is a very popular costume drama, and it is also an inspirational drama for women. It tells the story of three ladies, Zhao Pan'er, Sun Sanniang, and Song Yinzhang, who jointly open a restaurant in Tokyo. It is a story for women. Independence and self-love set a great example.
Among the three of them, perhaps most people would think that Song Yinzhang is the most pitiful one, because he met two scumbags. Although they got rid of them in the end, the trauma in his heart could not be erased.
Zhao Paner was the luckiest one because she met Gu Qianfan. Sun Sanniang later had Du Changfeng, and she was also very happy.
But in my opinion, although Song Yinzhang is pitiful, there is also something hateful about her. Her suffering is all caused by her own lack of heart and lack of self-love, while Sanniang works hard but is abandoned by her ex-husband. Her biological son does not recognize her and wants to recognize someone else. When a woman becomes a mother, her experience is truly miserable.
For a woman, the easiest thing to forget and the least worth remembering are the feelings she has been let down, and the men who have let her down, such as Song Yinzhang. She should have forgotten Zhou She and Shen Ruzhuo in her heart, because Such a man is not worth remembering or lingering on.
This is especially true for Sun Sanniang. After she survived jumping into the river and was rescued by Zhao Paner and Gu Qianfan, she should have completely forgotten about this scumbag.
However, the ex-husband can be forgotten, but the son cannot. The ex-husband can live without contact, but the son cannot be ignored. No matter what wrong things he has done, as a mother, she will still not care about him, and will not ignore him or deny him.
No, as soon as Sanniang’s life got better, his son Fu Zifang came to visit.
Seeing her son appear in front of her unkempt like a little beggar, her heart must have hurt to death. Any hatred or resentment has long since disappeared. After so many years of not seeing her, I am afraid that she misses her son more than she resents her. This It's the mother.
Sanniang took her son into her arms, forgave him and accepted him.
After seeing this, I believe there will be many viewers who will have something to say and will be filled with emotion. Most of those who are already parents will have a better understanding of Sanniang's mood, but those who do not have children may find it difficult to accept the bad betrayal of their children.
A child at such a young age actually dislikes poverty and loves wealth so much that he follows his father into the arms of his stepmother. He also hurts his biological mother by speaking evil words, saying that his stepmother is his mother. This is no longer a simple matter of having breasts and being a mother. This is a treacherous betrayal. To some extent, this child's roots are rotten.
He thought that he could live a good life with his rich stepmother, but he didn't expect that every evil man would have his own misfortune. Her stepmother beat him all day long and did not regard him as her own. Then he thought of Sanniang and traveled thousands of miles to find Sanniang alone. .
As a mother, Sanniang must be very distressed when she sees her son suffering so much. She will not care about her child's fault, but there will always be a thorn in her heart.
For a woman, being hurt by a man will slowly get better, but being betrayed by her own child is not that easy.
Some people may say that children are ignorant and children are ignorant, but three-year-olds are older than seven-year-olds. A truly conscientious child will not do such things or say such things.
Motherhood made Sanniang try to forget this incident and accept her son again. I hope Fu Zifang can realize his mistake and be filial to Sanniang in the future.
But to be honest, Sanniang should still keep an eye on him and not believe too much. A stain is a stain and cannot be erased. Moreover, she should strengthen his ideological education. After all, parents are also responsible for children's mistakes.
Just in time, Sanniang has a free teacher. Du Changfeng has already identified Sanniang. He doesn't mind that Sanniang has married someone and has a son. He said a very heart-warming thing to Sanniang, that is, he will teach Fu Zifang. Treat her like your own child, this sentence should be what Sanniang wants to hear most at this moment.
Sanniang was so pitiful in the first half of her life, so God arranged a Du Changfeng for her. The straightforward and righteous Sun Sanniang deserves happiness, are you right?
