's hit drama "The Sea of Stars" last year, the painstaking image of Fang Lanfei, the mother of 's male protagonist Fang Hengzhi, left a deep impression on the audience. The acting skills of
, , Tian Niu, , are also full of praise.
The second wife is so vivid, but it is Tian Niu's true character.
Tian Niu "married" a wealthy Indonesian businessman named Ye Conghao when she was young, but only after completing the formalities in Las Vegas did she find out that she was Ye Conghao's third wife.
Later, she divorced her daughter and met the self-righteous "true son of heaven",000 Ziliang. As a result, the marriage lasted only four years.
Two rough marriage experiences made Tian Niu unable to trust men anymore.
She is now 64 years old and still alone.
Tian Niu's marital disappointment cannot be denied that there is an element of misconduct. But the fundamental reason is that her views on men and love are too naive and naive and irrational.
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958, Tian Niu was born into an artistic family. Her father was a pianist and her sister was an actress.
From a wealthy family, and the youngest in the family, Tian Niu grew up under the spoiled care of her parents and sisters.
She has outstanding looks since she was a child, and has been liked and kind by too many people. This also resulted in her very naive and shallow cognition of the world.
Tian Niu was born with the blood of art flowing in her body, and she can perform on stage at the age of five.
Tian Ni went to Hong Kong to film. Tian Niu listened to her sister's description of the film and television industry, and was very longing for the life of the crew, and often went to visit the class.
htmlAt the age of 116, the beautiful and outstanding Tian Niu was photographed by director Song Cunshou and became the heroine of the movie "Precocious". After
's debut on the big screen, Tian Niu has won the favor of major directors and is invited to a certain crew from time to time to make a cameo role.
In 1977, the first film adaptation of " Heroes of the Condor Heroes " was under preparation, and Tian Niu became the " Huang Rong " cast by Mr.
The following year, she partnered with the famous Taiwanese actor Qin Han to star in "Titi Diary", and won the Taiwan Golden Horse Award for Best Actress in one fell swoop.
At this time, Tian Niu was only twenty years old.
Becoming a Golden Horse Actress at the age of 20 means that she has stood on the top of a mountain that many actresses can't reach in their entire lives.
During this period, Tian Niu almost tasted the best things in the world: a wealthy family, the love of people around her, a beautiful face, a man's love, a priceless youth...
She has never experienced hardships and setbacks, and she has never experienced Fa forms a comprehensive understanding of the world, in a word: easy to be naive.
Tian Niu had a never ending love during this period, that is, with her first love Zhong Zhentao.
Coincidentally, many years later, both of them have reached middle age. She and Zhong Zhentao are still playing a couple in the same TV series " who pity the world's loving mother's heart ".
At that time, Tian Niu was too young, this love may be vague and ignorant to her.
As she grows older, her thoughts become practical, and she hopes to find a handsome and rich ideal partner as her marriage object.
At that time, Tian Niu's career was in a period of glory. If she could work hard and improve her career at this time, her future would be unknowable.
But people tend not to cherish things that are easy to get.
When she was young, Tian Niu believed that her career was not as important as marriage. It was the right way for a woman to find a good backer, and then to have a good husband and a child.
is exactly the same thought, almost hurt her.
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In 1984, by chance, Tian Niu met Ye Conghao, a rich man from , Indonesia .
The first time she saw this man, Tian Niu decided that she was the ideal marriage partner in her mind: handsome and handsome, sitting on billions of wealth.
Ye Conghao was also attracted by Tian Niu's beauty and pursued her fiercely.
Although the rich boy's way of pursuing beautiful women is still so cliché, Tian Niu still falls into it.
At that time, her head was full of perfect longing for the life of a wealthy wife in the future. When Ye Conghao, who had only known each other for two months, proposed to her, Tian Niu agreed immediately.
But Ye Conghao did not take her back to her hometown in Indonesia to get the certificate, but went to Las Vegas in the United States to go through the marriage procedures.
Tian Niu was not suspicious at first, but received a call from a friend.
The friend anxiously advised her to come back quickly, because she had learned through some channel that Ye Conghao had a wife and daughter in Indonesia.
Tian Niu questioned Ye Conghao about this, but of course the other party denied it.
At this time, Mother Ye stood up and said that this was because someone was jealous of the Ye family's wealth, so they spread rumors and caused trouble.
Under the sophistry of Ye Conghao's family, Tian Niu put aside her doubts for the time being.
However, on the night she finished the marriage formalities, she truly believed that she had really fallen into the trap that Ye Conghao had designed.
Ye Conghao calmly called his wife and daughter in Indonesia in front of her.
When the man on the other side told the truth lightly, Tian Niu understood why Ye Conghao didn't bring herself back to Indonesia for the wedding, because they were not a legal couple.
Although Tian Niu couldn't accept it for a while, the concept of "marrying a chicken follows a chicken, marrying a dog follows a dog" was a deeply ingrained concept. She herself believes that divorced women are failures.
Besides, she was already pregnant at that time, so she had to follow Ye Conghao back to Indonesia in the end.
But next, Tian Niu faces another heavy blow: Ye Conghao has more than one wife.
In Indonesia's Ye family, she can only rank third, and she can't even make a second room.
Moreover, after Ye Conghao married Tian Niu, he strictly guarded her and prevented her from going out at will.
Not only that, but this rich man takes pleasure in torturing women. He said that he prefers to see Tian Niu's tearful appearance, which is very beautiful. In the two months before
's proposal, Ye Conghao disguised himself as suave. But in the year after coming to Indonesia, Tian Niu witnessed the man expose his ugly essence one by one.
She gritted her teeth, determined to get out of here and end this humiliating marriage.
After giving birth to her daughter, Tian Niu planned silently, and finally after relaxing Ye Conghao's vigilance, she took the opportunity to take her daughter home to visit her mother and cut off the contact with the Ye family forever.
Years later, whenever Tian Niu recalled the days in Indonesia, she would feel that it was the nightmare of her life.
And Indonesia has become a land that she will never set foot on again for the rest of her life.
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Tian Niu became a single mother just after giving birth to her daughter Tongtong.
But she is young, beautiful and famous, and many men still throw olive branches to her.
Facing the men's favor, Tian Niu often thinks of those unspeakable hard days in Indonesia.
No matter how tempted he is, he will be severely suppressed by his vigilance towards men.
Although Tian Niu's career is short due to her marriage, the film and television industry has always produced new people, and once she misses the opportunity, she will miss out on her bright future.
When I came back to film, the roles that Tian Niu received were not as good as before, but in order to give her daughter a better life, Tian Niu tried her best to accept more film appointments.
A catastrophe in life often turns into an unforgettable lesson.
After playing this, Tian Niu seems to realize that men are not trustworthy, but her career efforts will not deceive her.
A few years later, Tian Niu has regained her place in the entertainment industry.
In 1989, she was nominated for Best Actress at the Hong Kong Film Awards for "I Love Spaceman".
It was at this stage that Tian Niu met Wan Ziliang while filming the movie "Big Head Boy".
Wan Ziliang is a professional "big brother" in the Hong Kong and Taiwan film industry, and the style of the characters such as the young and the gangster and the gangster is unique in the Chinese film and television circle. After
worked together for the first time, they both left a good impression on each other.
Later, after successive cooperation in many works such as " He is from Jianghu " and "Big Family", the two decided to have a romantic relationship.
At that time, Wan Ziliang was extremely enthusiastic and sincere towards Tian Niu, and once promised: From now on, three people, one life.
means that he will take full responsibility for Tian Niu's mother and daughter.
After the first blow, Ke Tianniu had the psychological shadow of "being bitten by a snake once, but afraid of a rope for ten years".
Facing Wan Ziliang's marriage proposal this time, she became hesitant and cautious, and she also had the idea of testing him in her heart.
However, Wan Ziliang insisted on being good to Tian Niu, and raised and took care of Tongtong as his own daughter.
992, Tian Niu seemed to be moved by this man finally, and most importantly, she wanted her daughter to have a complete family, so she decided to enter the palace of marriage with Wan Ziliang.
The wedding of the two was a sensation in Hong Kong film circles, please go to Run Run Run Run as the witness, and the best men are all male movie stars of today's big shot level: Stephen Chow , Zhang Weijian , Wu Zhenyu , Ren Dahua ......
At that time, this wedding feast also had a very festive name: "A thousand purples and a thousand reds welcome you".
Wan Ziliang worked hard for this, and completely made up for Tian Niu's shortcomings in her previous marriage.
made a solemn promise in front of the world, which can also witness Wan Ziliang's deep affection for Tian Niu.
To everyone's surprise, the marriage ended after only four short years.
The reason for the divorce between Tian Niu and Wan Ziliang is not clear to the public nowadays, and the parties only vaguely explain that it is because of incompatible personalities.
At that time, some peach-colored tabloids were chasing the wind and publishing some rumors about Wan Ziliang's derailment.
There is also a saying: Wan Ziliang later got tired of acting, went to sea to do business, and lost all his money, so he had a conflict with his wife, Tian Niu.
But what Tian Niu said later in an interview seemed to reveal the truth about the breakdown of the marriage:
"My biggest failure is that I can make everyone in the world happy, except Wan Ziliang." Wan Ziliang's character. Compared with Tian Niu's liveliness and cheerfulness, Wan Ziliang is much quieter and duller.
But marriage requires two people to manage it together. Why did Tian Niu obviously feel that Wan Ziliang was not happy with her? Apparently the two of them had a good relationship at first. What
can vaguely guess is that Tian Niu's anxiety in her marriage also affects the other party.
There are many ups and downs in love, and people will become more and more insecure in intimate relationships.
In her second marriage, Tian Niu wanted to be happy, but what she ushered in was even worse. She completely lost her longing for love.
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In an interview program many years later, Tian Niu admitted that she is not used to having another person around her.
She also needs someone who can talk to her, but she can no longer accept an overly intimate relationship.
After two failed marriages, Tian Niu transferred her life's sustenance to her daughter and career.
In 1999, she played the role of Miao Cuihua in " young hero Fang Shiyu " and officially entered the mainland film and television market.
In this drama, Tian Niu is the mother of Fang Shiyu, the protagonist played by Zhang Weijian. Once
was broadcast, the show became popular on both sides of the Taiwan Strait. Since then, Tian Niu has gained a certain popularity among mainland audiences.
Since "Young Hero Fang Shiyu", she has played many familiar roles in domestic dramas, such as "The Devil" Han Lu in "Fashion Kingdom" and Zhou Taifei in " Legend of Lu Zhen ".
Till now, Tian Niu has been active on the screen.
But she has been single since she was 38 years old. Many people feel pity for her.
Because Tian Niu not only has a sweet appearance, but also has a beautiful heart.
She is very popular in the circle, and when her friends encounter difficulties, she often lends a helping hand.
The people around her also hope that Tian Niu can find a solid and reliable partner who can work together for the rest of her life.
But she has been frustrated repeatedly emotionally and has been completely discouraged. Fortunately, she also has a sensible daughter.
Daughter Zhu Xiaotong later changed her name to Zhu Yufeng, and now her thirties have passed.
Zhu Yufeng can understand very well the hardships of his mother raising him alone over the years.
In her memories, her mother often insisted on filming for her own sake when she was not feeling well.
After becoming an adult, Zhu Yufeng often dressed in a neutral dress and stood beside his favorite mother. What he said moved Tian Niu very much:
"Mother doesn't need a man at all. Because I will stand by my mother's side in the future. , protect her like a man for a lifetime!"
must have been influenced by his original family, and at the same time witnessed his mother's failed marriage experience since he was a child, Zhu Yufeng rejected men, and did not go to find a boyfriend to marry and have children like other girls. the way.
She now runs a restaurant and works part-time as her mother's agent.
In recent years, her daughter has also confessed her sexuality to Tian Niu.
Although Tian Niu felt unacceptable for a while, she also fell into deep self-blame, believing that her failed marriage had affected her children.
Now Tian Niu has gradually accepted everything about her daughter. The mother and daughter are very close, and they often participate in events and parties between celebrities.
Now 35-year-old Zhu Yufeng often takes photos with his favorite stars through his mother's light.
And although Tian Niu herself has entered her old age, she is well maintained, and the amazing beauty of her youth can be clearly seen on her face.
God may be fair, while giving Tian Niu too much halo, it seems that it also deprives her of the happy love in her life.
When she was young, Tian Niu once believed that marriage was the end of a woman's life. She even thought that a divorced woman was a failure.
But she spent most of her life proving that women who are frustrated in marriage can live well in the end.
Because love and marriage are not everything for a woman, the real happiness is to be created by oneself.
Now 64 years old, her biggest worry is her daughter's marriage and love. Her greatest hope is that her daughter can find a lover and be happy.
