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Teacher Wu Zhihong wrote a best-selling book called "Why Home Hurts" . This book has been regarded by countless people as the "Healing Book" of native families.
is alive, everyone will inevitably get some harm. Of all the injuries, those from family members are often the most painful.
The Japanese movie "Non-stop" tells such a story: Fifteen years ago, the eldest son of Mr. and Mrs. Yokoyama, Junpei, died because of a drowning rescue. After that, the Hengshan family gradually formed a tradition. Every year on the anniversary of Chunping's death, children from other places must rush home to reunite with the elderly to commemorate Chunping's death. This year, Chunping's death day came again, and the second son returned home with his wife and children. Unexpectedly, the originally peaceful life resurrected...
This movie is a masterpiece of Japanese film master Hirokazu Ede . The theme of the film is related to death. However, death does not mean crying, but turning into a kind of faintness. Sorrow. The film depicts the taste of life in ordinary trivia, allowing us to experience the taste of life in detail.
said that "Non-stop" is the most satisfactory work so far. The film won the Best Picture Award at the Mataburata International Film Festival and the Best Director Award at the 3rd Asian Film Awards. After watching this movie, many people were deeply inspired and began to seriously reflect on the problems of their native family and gradually let go of the past.
01 Family reunion: under the illusion of harmony, there are endless pains hidden
The beginning of the film is the end of summer. Chunping saw it on his death day, and many took his wife and children from the city to their hometown. Many of
at this time were in middle age, and they had just been laid off and were in an embarrassing situation. His wife, Yukari, was a widow before and brought a boy. Many and his wife support each other, live together, and rarely contact their family. This time I returned to my hometown, but I was forced to feel helpless. The reason is that his relationship with his father has been bad.
Hengshan’s father is a retired doctor and his mother is a housewife. Since the eldest son Chunping passed away, his father has placed all his hopes on a lot of people, hoping that he can inherit his father's work and become a doctor who saves the wounded. However, many of them are rebellious and do not want their lives to be manipulated by their fathers. Eventually, he became a painting restorer.
This year, many returned home with wives and children. As soon as he entered the house, he went straight to the kitchen. After living in this home for more than 20 years, he knew that his mother must be busy in the kitchen at this time.
Sure enough, my mother was preparing lunch in the kitchen. For this family reunion lunch, my mother also bought expensive sushi. The smell in the kitchen is warm and touching, and the story begins. There is no major event in the
movie. The life of the Hengshan family seems to be harmonious, but in fact, the trivial details are full of contradictions. In this family, there are deep barriers between father and son, father and mother, and they often fight each other. In the
film, eating, walking, eating, sleeping, the quiet details, the plump characters, the condensed dialogue, and the reproduction of real life everywhere, making people feel cordial and emotional, even with tears after watching. Z4z
02 The awkwardness of despotism: hope that the son will become a dragon, and become the biggest gap between father and son
father is a famous doctor in the local area, he is upright and kind, and has a stubborn temper. What likes to do most is to hide in his cabin to study medical books.
Mother often criticizes his father in public, making his father very shameless. The father was upright and could not speak very much. At the first meal, the father said in public that it is very difficult for the widow with the child to remarry. As soon as this remark came out, everyone was shocked, and Yukari looked embarrassed.
You must know that Yukari herself is a widow, and she remarried many with her children. In order to resolve the embarrassment, Yukari had to laugh at herself.
's father has always looked down upon a lot in his heart. He feels that learning to paint is not a proper job. However, he really likes his stepson Hoshi. There is a detail in the
movie. Not only did his father secretly give Hou Si pocket money, he also wooed Hou Si secretly and said that he hoped he could become a firstDoctors. The scene of grandpa
drawing grandson together happened to be bumped into by many. Many solemnly warned his father that Hou Si's ideal is to be a piano tuner, and don't force Hou Si to do things he doesn't want to do! After being taught by his son on the spot, the father walked away in a desperate manner. Why did the father of
win over Houji? In fact, it's sad to think about it. The eldest son of died young, and the second son had no intention of inheriting the family business. His father felt very disappointed. saw the smart and lovely Ho Sihou. His father saw hope in this teenager. He hoped that Ho Sihou could be a doctor in the family business. Because of this, he couldn't help but win over Si Hou. Although the father in the movie
is Japanese, there are many Chinese fathers in him. Think about it, are many of our fathers very strong, forcing us to act according to his wishes? Z4z Chunping was killed by the sea, so his father never went to the seaside. But at the end of the story, the three generations of father, Liang Duo and Hou Si went for a walk together. This is because at this time the relationship between the father and Miao Duo has eased. The father understands that he must respect his son’s life choices. The son also understands his father’s hard work. The two generations unknowingly resolved their savings. Long-standing contradiction. With my heart knot opened, I can go for a walk on the beach together. The waves are rolling, the sea can take away all the sadness in the world. At this time, his father was relieved of the fact that Chunping passed away. Not long after his father passed away, a lot of them had an epiphany. In fact, his father had many unfulfilled wishes in his life. After realizing this, he finally forgave his father. mother is the first protagonist of the film. The death of Chunping dealt a great blow to his mother. The child who was rescued by Chunping was named Liangxiong. His mother had always hoped that Liang Xiong would be a talented person. Unexpectedly, fifteen years later, he had become a very mediocre person. This made his mother deeply worthless for Chunping. Every year on Chunping's death day, his mother would invite Liangxiong to be a guest at home, because his conscience is disturbed. Compared with the pain of losing a child deep in the bone marrow, the relationship between mother and father is more delicate. In the film, there is a scene: When working, the mother accidentally hums a tune, which everyone finds very strange, because her mother rarely hums. When everyone asked about the reason, the mother slowly said a story that made her father extremely embarrassed. One night in a year, my mother followed her husband out, only to find that the husband was going to tryst his lover. Watching her husband singing and dancing with other women from a distance, her mother's heart was cut. She memorized the tune, and then walked away silently. In the middle of the night, when my father came home, my mother pretended to be okay. But that piece of music stayed in her heart. When her husband cheated, it was a secret pain in the mother's heart. It was only after many years that she told her family the truth for the first time, which shows how bitter her heart is. Faced with his father's betrayal, his mother chose to forbear. This requires great courage and responsibility. Once she understands the mother's heart, it is not difficult to understand why she always finds fault with her father. The relationship between mother and many is not harmonious. When many weren't married, the mother had been urging the marriage hard. However, after waiting for a lot of Yuka to go home, she was not satisfied with her daughter-in-law. However, dissatisfied means dissatisfied, and my mother still cares about many families. She will prepare new toothbrushes for her son's family in advance, and give her kimono to Yuka. The image of the mother's knife mouth tofu heart is on the paper. Conflicts between relatives are mostly trivial matters. Before you know it, stumbling is a lifetime. A day in the Hengshan family is actually the epitome of an ordinary person's life. Everyone's life is sweet with bitterness, smile with tears. 03 Endure pain: husband cheating is a secret pain point in her heart
04 Facing family affection: love and hate, it is difficult to give up
Forty-year-old was unemployed, and his newlyweds were widows. No matter how they looked, many of them were personal losers.
In fact, many are also victims of native families. My elder brother is too good and is the pride of my parents. In contrast, many are mediocre. Many have lived under the shadow of their brother since they were young, and they are very inferior.
These years, he has neverFa takes one's life squarely.
In the eyes of his father, many are ignorant people. When my father asked a lot about his work, he would always say "Can I make a living?" Behind this question, there was deep discrimination. Whenever this happens, Miao Duo will replied unceremoniously: "Thanks to you, at least I can afford a family with oil bottles." The old-fashioned and ridiculed father of
hurt a lot. , So that he has a strong sense of panic about going home for many years. At the end of the
story, both parents have died. Many took their wives and children to the outskirts to visit their mother's grave. Before my mother died, many accompanied her mother to visit the grave for her brother. On the way home, my mother told the story of Yellow Butterfly. This time, when many mothers visited the grave, they couldn't help telling the story of the yellow butterfly to their daughter. In the dark, there is a kind of inheritance continuing... When
parents are alive, many always want to escape from their parents' home. When both his parents died, he found out that he was sorry for his parents.
The greatest sorrow in the world is that the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop; A few years later, Liang Duo and his wife had their own daughter. Only then did he realize the difficulties of being a parent. His heart was full of guilt for his parents.
05 Native family: There is hurt and warmth. Only by moving forward can you gain and grow.
At the end of the story, many said to themselves: "When you think of your mother, you may cry or laugh." Life is like this, only to experience great sadness. Only then can you learn to reflect on life and cherish the present. The inspiration for
"Non-Stop Walking" comes from the daily communication with Hirokazu Kee's mother before her death.
At that time, my mother was in hospital. It is Zhi Yuhe who often goes to the hospital as an escort. Mother and son cherish the time spent together. Every day, mother will recall the past on the sick bed. During the communication with his mother, it was Hirokazu Ee who began to reflect on his life seriously.
soon his mother passed away. The period before his mother's death gave Shiede Hirohe a lot of enlightenment, and it also made him feel that if he didn't sort out this period, his life would not be able to move on.
In the movie, there is a sense of alienation between many and their parents. In reality, the relationship between Yu Ke and his parents is the same. The authoritarian patriarch's style and the pursuit of percussive education are all his personal experiences.
Actually, this is a typical Eastern expression of emotion. In life, many people have had the experience of being mocked and suppressed by their parents. This kind of suppression can make children feel inferior, and can make them act aggressively. In mid-April last year, the juvenile jump on the Lupu Bridge in Shanghai was the best proof. The mother's impulse caused the son to commit suicide. How many human tragedies are caused by mutual harm between relatives.
back to the movie. Through decades of wind and rain in the Hengshan family, we have seen the changes in society and the ups and downs of life. In the film, there is an impressive sentence: life is constantly lost, and time will eventually lead us to find an outlet for understanding. savoring these words carefully, it brings us a lot of spiritual power!
"Non-stop" is a movie about a native family. The native family is the first stop for everyone in this world. Parents are the first people we come into contact with. It is family love that teaches us how to love. Although relatives hurt each other, it is more about supporting each other and warming each other. In terms of family relationships, we must learn to tolerate and cherish each other.
Everyone is looking forward to having a perfect life, but after middle age, we suddenly realize: turns out that there is no perfect life at all, and everyone is walking before being injured. can only be worthy of his life if he keeps walking. What the
movie "The Pace Does Not Stop" wants to express is such a profound and calm life insight. When we are hurt in our native family, the movie will bring us confidence and courage.
