When it comes to left-behind children, we all know that parents go out to work in order to live and have to leave their children in their hometown to be taken care of by their grandparents. These children whose parents are not around are called left-behind children.
mention Jet Li 's daughter, people think of his two daughters born to his wife Lizhi , one is named Jane and the other is Jada .
In fact, he and his ex-wife Huang Qiuyan have two daughters, the eldest daughter Li Si and the youngest daughter Li Taimi .
But if it is said that Li Lianjie's eldest daughter Li Si is a left-behind child, most people find it inconceivable. In fact, Li Si and his younger sister Li Taimi lived with their grandmother when they were children, and they are truly left-behind children.
That's strange, Li Lianjie is an international kung fu superstar, and Li Si's mother Huang Qiuyan was also a famous martial arts actor.
Li Si, who was born in such a family, should have good living conditions, and will become a celebrity like other rich daughters in the future. Why are she and her sister left-behind children?
In 1963, Li Lianjie was born in an ordinary working family in Beijing. When he was two years old, his father died of illness. His mother, Zhang Fenglan, had to take care of five children and support two elderly people in the family. One can imagine how heavy the burden on the mother is.
Li Lianjie liked martial arts when he was a child. He has good physical fitness and excellent performance in sports in school. At the age of 8, he was attracted by martial arts coach Wu Bin and asked him to join the Beijing Shichahai Wushu School.
Seeing the hardships of the mother at home,Jet Li has worked very hard in training in the martial arts school. In the past few years, he has won many awards and championships in martial arts performances and competitions. He also won the "Outstanding Performance Award" in the national martial arts competition.
But he is not proud of his good results. On the contrary, he improves himself more assiduously, so that he will get more prize money, not because of greed, but because his family is too poor, The whole family was still waiting for him to take the money and go home for dinner.
In 1981, director Zhang Xinyan planned to shoot the kung fu film " Shaolin Temple". There was no suitable actor for the role of the protagonist Jue Yuan. Finally, I saw the five-time national martial arts champion Jet Li, both in appearance and in appearance. The skill is very suitable, so I decided to let him play the leading role.
In 1982, the movie "Shaolin Temple" was officially released, and the box office reached more than 100 million yuan for a movie ticket. Gods and idols, it is said that there were several sacks of courtship letters received by his family at that time.
But when the film was made, the wonderful fight scenes were real, unlike the current stars who rely on special effects and stand-ins. When he was injured in the filming, there was always a girl who took good care of him. This girl is His senior sister Huang Qiuyan.
Girls' Generation's Huang Qiuyan also came out of Tingting, jade and water, and the stills at that time did not have a beautiful face, but you can still see that Huang Qiuyan is beautiful and generous.
Senior sister's concern and love for him are seen by everyone. When he was studying in the martial arts school, Huang Qiuyan saw that Jet Li was often hungry, so he often brought him back to his home for dinner.
Her parents scold her that she should not bring her male classmates to the house, she told her parents: "It's too difficult for my younger brother to be at home. It's not easy for his mother to pull five children by herself, so please be considerate of his situation."
The hazy love unfolded between two people like this. Jet Li, a kung fu boy, plunged into the gentle village where his senior sister cared for him, but he always regarded this relationship as a relationship between siblings.
The prosperous Jet Li in "Shaolin Temple" wanted to break up with Huang Qiuyan, but he was afraid that the outside world would call him ungrateful, and then starred in the movie " Shaolin Boy", he took a lot of effort to introduce the senior sister to be the heroine.
One is In order to make up for what I owe to my senior sister, I want to tell my senior sister at the right time that the relationship between two people is family not love. In response, I thought that my younger brother also loves himself in his heart, and is more kind to him.
Jet Li's leg was broken while filming " North and South Shaolin", Huang Qiuyan was very distressed, and was in the hospital Serving him like a wife, this time, Li Lianjie was completely moved, and he decided to turn his family into love to marry her.
In June 1987, Jet Li took Huang Qiuyan to get a marriage certificate. They were both starring actors in the filming, but they didn't get paid much. In addition, Jet Li's family conditions were too poor at the time. The two of them didn't have a drink or a wedding when they got married. The new house was a small room of more than ten square meters in the home.
In 1988, Jet Li decided to go to the United States to develop. Huang Qiuyan resigned from the invitations of the two crews of "The Thirteenth Girl" and " Journey to the West", and followed him to the United States with a big belly.
After coming to the United States, the two of them took a loan to buy a house in Los Angeles to settle down. At that time, Jet Li wanted to open a martial arts gym, but because of the high cost of various aspects, the eldest daughter Li Si was born this year, so he had to give up.
in 1989,Jet Li was invited by a Hong Kong director to come to Hong Kong to shoot the movie " Dragon in the End of the World ". Because life in the United States is relatively difficult, Huang Qiuyan encouraged Jet Li to go to Hong Kong to make a movie. At this time, Li Sigang was one year old and his sister was still in his mother's belly.
What Huang Qiuyan did not expect was that Jet Li's filming of "Dragon in the End of the World" directly brought the marriage of the two to an end.
The other two leading roles in the movie "Dragon in the End of the World" with Jet Li, one is and Stephen Chow , and the other is Lee Chi. The first time I saw Li Zhi, Jet Li was astonished. Li Zhi was really beautiful.
Li Zhi was born in Shanghai in 1961. His parents were opera artists . When he was three years old, his parents divorced due to emotional discord. Li Zhi was a beautiful girl when he was a child.
After the divorce, her father has been missing, and Lizhi was raised by her grandmother. When she was 20 years old, her father came home and brought her to Hong Kong.
Li Zhi at this time, with splendid eyebrows and phoenix eyes, a goose-oval face with a small cherry mouth and white skin like milk, and a proud devil's measurements, is a stunner in the eyes of thousands of men,
At that time, Li Zhi wanted to develop into the entertainment industry, but because she was a foreigner, her sweet and crisp girly voice was particularly easy to distinguish among those Hong Kong women's deep and rustling tones, and was rejected and discriminated against by many Hong Kong female artists .
Lizhi felt that it would not last long to seek development based on appearance alone, and then went to the United States to study for a few years. In 1986, she returned to Hong Kong and participated in the contest of Miss Asia and won the championship.
At that time, the media said that Lizhi was the rarest beauty in half a century, and the talented Ni Kuang described it like this: "If Lizhi can't choose Asian sister,There must be ghosts in here, so I will set fire to the TV station..."
In 1991, at a charity party, " gambling king " invested 300,000 to ask Lizhi to dance with him, because this time he and "Gambler King" shared Wu, the scandal between the two has been reported by the media.
There are rumors that Lizhi will become the "fifth concubine wife", and then the second wife and the fourth wife jointly issued a killing order against Lizhi. , it was the gambling king who pleaded for mercy and let Lizhi go, but Lizhi never admitted these rumors. The understanding and charming charm made Jet Li swear in public:
"I used to think that I love my wife. Since I met Lizhi, I love her. I can die for her without fame or fortune..."
In 1990, Huang Qiuyan gave birth to her second daughter, Li Taimi. At this time, she found out about the love between Li Lianjie and Li Zhi, which made her sad and angry. The responsibility of the family, but it was impossible to restore his heart, and the two went through divorce procedures this year.
In 1991, Huang Qiuyan returned to Beijing with her 1-year-old daughter and 3-year-old Li Si. Divorce with Jet Li, the two children were awarded to the father, and the house in Los Angeles was given to Huang Qiuyan.
On the day of leaving Beijing, Huang Qiuyan and her mother-in-law Zhang Fenglan hugged and cried. After the divorce, Huang Qiuyan still kept calling her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law couldn't stop her son's determination to divorce.
3-year-old Li Si still doesn't understand some things in the adult world, that is, when her parents left home, she hugged her father's The legs cried and told Dad not to leave, but at this time, Jet Li still had a lot of scenes to shoot, a lot of things to do...
After the parents left, Li Si and his sister lived with their grandma,Under the careful care of my grandmother, I quickly walked out of the sadness of parting.
Grandma will comfort her when she misses her parents, and she will come back to accompany her when her parents are done. The innocent child has been looking forward to and imagining that her mother came back from Los Angeles to see her, and then brought her with her. She and her sister went back to the house over there.
In fact, Huang Qiuyan, who returned to Los Angeles, has been unable to film because of her pregnancy and childbirth in the past few years after marriage. She has no other skills, and it is difficult to find a job because she cannot speak foreign languages. The house was repossessed by the bank after taking out the mortgage.
Seeing that she was about to end up on the streets, an old Chinese woman learned about Huang Qiuyan's experience and expressed her sympathy for her, so she moved to the basement of her home.
In the dark basement, Huang Qiuyan, who was still immersed in pain, either cried or went to the church to pray every day, but it was not the way to go to the church to be often hungry. In the end, she had to find a Chinese restaurant to wash dishes to support her life.
Li Lianjie here is also very busy. After the divorce, he made a 10-year romantic agreement with Lizhi: you won't marry me in ten years, and we will get married.
At that time, Jet Li also set up "Zhengdong Film Company" for his career, and filmed " Zhongnanhai Bodyguard ", " Fang Shiyu " and other films.
But at that time, some movies were not outstanding at the box office, and the company was often unable to make ends meet. Lizhi gave him a lot of motivation and support behind him, and encouraged him:
"You can rest assured as long as you see what is right. If you do it, if you fail, I will support you for the rest of your life." Because of this sentence, Jet Li, who loved her deeply, was even more moved.
Seeing that the company established by Jet Li has difficulties in operation, Li Zhi, who has learned business knowledge in the United States for several years, has achieved fruitful results in financial management in the past few years.
I didn’t expect this investment to fail,He was also overburdened by tens of millions of debts. Seeing this, Jet Li shut down the company, signed a contract with Xiang Huaqiang, and shot six films including "Eternal Dragon Slayer" and " Jingwu Hero" in a row for three years. A salary of 70 million yuan was given to Lizhi to get out of trouble.
After all this, Li Lianjie often takes Li Zhi to the event and prepares for the wedding. He has no time to go home to watch the children.
Li Si, who has grown up slowly while waiting for countless disappointments, often sees reports from his father and Lizhi on TV and some media, and gradually understands some things.
In school, some classmates laughed at her after knowing that her father was Jet Li: Your father doesn't want you anymore, he will marry your stepmother soon.
Sad Li Si went home and asked his grandmother. Grandma didn't know how to answer, so she could only change the subject. She called her mother Huang Qiuyan again and asked her mother and father to come back to accompany her. Her mother could only comfort her with choked sobs:
Be obedient at home, and father will come home to accompany you. Hearing that his mother would come home to accompany him, Li Si hurried to call his father again, but he couldn't get through the phone after two calls. In this cold winter, Li Si's heart for his father is getting colder and colder. Since then, I have hated my father in my heart.
In 1999, Li Si, who was doing homework at home, saw his father come home with a happy face, and told her to take her and her sister to Hong Kong to attend his wedding with Aunt Lizhi.
Li Si didn't even look up at his father, but just answered two words: No! In fact, Li Si had already seen the news in the media that his father was going to hold a wedding with Lizhi. The 10-year contract between the two had come to fruition.
Although this pair of lovers has achieved positive results after 10 years of love running, Jet Li confessed in an interview that he had "no regrets in his life" for marrying Li Zhi, and Li Zhi said that marrying Li Lianjie "was not in vain."
However, some media in Hong Kong still criticize Jet Li for abandoning his wife and daughter.He used the phrase "a thousand ounces of affection do not have a low chest for four taels" to ridicule.
If Jet Li didn't marry Huang Qiuyan, his love with Li Zhi can be said to be a model of love in the entertainment industry.
They have been consistent for decades from their acquaintance to their marriage, and Li Lianjie's billions of properties are all handed over to Lizhi, no matter what occasion they mention his beloved wife Lizhi.
The more this makes people feel that Huang Qiuyan's life is too sad, not to mention how much Li Si hates her father. She has also heard others say how much her mother loved her father and paid too much to her.
But when my parents got married, they didn't even have a wedding or wedding photos. Now my mother is alone in the United States, and it is difficult to live a life of food and clothing. My father and another woman show their affection on the media all day long.
Thinking of this made Li Si's character more withdrawn, even if her father wrote and called her, she would not answer.
In 2000, Li Si's grandmother, Zhang Fenglan, died of cancer. Although Li Si, who was only 12 years old, didn't know the future of life, she suddenly lost the grandmother who loved her the most, which made her feel like the sky was falling. Heartbreaking crying.
Jet Li saw that his daughter was so sad, and felt that he owed too much to his two daughters for so many years, so he told Li Si: "When my grandma is buried, I will take you and my sister to live in Hong Kong. Auntie Lizhi is very good and will take good care of her. you and your sister."
Hearing his father's words, Li Si shouted loudly at him: "My sister and I don't want to live with you."
Hearing her daughter yelling at him like this, Jet Li knew that he had not been able to accompany him for so many years Children, the relationship between the father and daughter is estranged, which causes the daughter to hate herself.
Since the daughter is unwilling to be with her, she can only make up for her debt to the child in other ways, so she sent the sisters to a noble school to receive a good education. When the time comes, I will take more time to go back to Beijing to see them.
After marrying Li Zhi, they have two more daughters. Now Jet Li is more busy. He wants to go back to Beijing to see Li Si and his sister. Pull into the room and lock the door,No matter how Dad shouted, he would not open the door.
In 2004, Huang Qiuyan's life in the United States gradually improved. With the help of a friend, he opened a barber shop. Because he couldn't open the shop every day, he couldn't go home to see his daughter for several years.
I suddenly received a call from Jet Li this day. It was the first time the two of them called in 13 years. This time Jet Li called because she wanted her to enlighten her two daughters and reduce her hatred for her father. Huang Qiuyan called Li Si and her sister:
"Baby, when I got married and separated from your father, it was all voluntary. No one forced anyone. You don't understand about the adults, but your father has not It's easy, you have to understand him..."
With his mother's constant guidance, after all, father and daughter are connected by blood, gradually Li Si let go of the hatred in his heart and could communicate peacefully with his father.
In 2005, Huang Qiuyan married a Chinese owner who opened a Chinese restaurant. The owner was very kind to Huang Qiuyan, gentle and considerate. After marriage, the two lived a warm and happy life.
In 2006, 18-year-old Li Si graduated from high school. Li Lianjie sent her and her sister to the United States to study, finally fulfilling her dream of coming to her mother.
The stepfather treats her and her sister as his own, and the two brothers on the stepfather's side also dote on these two unrelated sisters, which makes Li Si feel the warmth of home.
And when my mother remarried, my father, Jet Li, sent a gift of 50,000 yuan in the name of Li Si and his sister. My mother gained happiness, and Li Si's relationship with my father gradually eased. The shadow of the failed marriage to the mother and daughter gradually disappeared.
In 2010, Li Si worked in a cultural company in Los Angeles after graduating from university. The 22-year-old Li Si inherited the genes of his parents and became a beautiful girl.
Such a talented girl,It has become the goal pursued by many handsome guys, but Li Si turns a blind eye to these suitors, and has no idea of falling in love at all.
At that time, my mother thought it was normal for girls in their early twenties not to fall in love, but as time passed, Li Si is now 33 years old, and Huang Qiuyan began to worry about her daughter's marriage a few years ago When I get married, I see my mother always urging me to get married and start a family.
Li Si told his mother that he lived with his sister and grandmother since he was 3 years old. After that, he went to boarding school and sometimes went to his uncle and aunt's house. He saw other people's children holding their parents' hands happily shopping in the park. At that time Especially envious.
At the end of the day, when she found out that her parents had divorced, and she saw the hardships and pains of her mother's life alone, these crises of family and the haze of distrust loomed over Li Si's heart, making her always have an interest in marriage and love. fear.
At this moment, Huang Qiuyan realized that she didn't expect that her failed marriage would have such a great impact on her daughter. At first, she only thought that it was herself who was hurt. The two children have a star father, and the future life will be bright.
Yes, in today's era, divorce is not uncommon. Many parents only think about rediscovering their own love and living happily and without thinking too much about their children's feelings.
Li Si's situation is not unique among many children from single families. For her, the pain of the original family is difficult to heal in her whole life.
It is said that parents are the best teachers for their children. I hope that each of us will treat our marriage well and not let the children pay for the fault of marriage.
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