"The world owes me a first love", the world owes us a mother like this

"The World Owes Me A First Love" has been well received since it was broadcast. Many people came to see Bailu because she played Xie Xiang, who is acting as her brother in the army, very well in "Army Military Academy".

This time, she once again took the lead in "The World Owes Me a First Love" as the cheerful, passionate and rainbow fart heroine Xing Yun. Just by looking at the name of the play and the name of the person, you know that this play is a sweet love story of a lucky girl.

The play tells the sweet and sour love comedy between the rainbow fart girl Xing Yun played by Bai Lu and the overbearing president Xia Ke played by Xing Zhaolin.

is so popular with netizens, not only because it highly restores the original work, but also because in the whole show, there is a relaxed atmosphere, no revenge, no minor three, and no three The female number two who sees bad things everywhere.

On the contrary, because of the three-view and positive female second, countless netizens have also become fans. In such an impetuous society, how can you not like such a relaxed and positive love story as a flavoring agent? Many people even compare this show with "Dear, Loved" starring Yang Zi and Li Xian.

The sweet and sour love story of men and women makes many people think of the feeling of first love, so this is the name of "owing to first love". But looking at the heroine's character and the relationship between her and her parents, it makes me feel that the world owes us no first love. It owes us such a "mother"!

A mother who loves herself

The male protagonist Xia Ke went to her boyfriend’s house because of the jealous female protagonist Xing Yun. He deliberately looked for faults and said that he was anxious for work information and needed Xing Yun. Send it to him immediately. At this time, Xing Yun wanted to escape because of the excessive enthusiasm of his boyfriend's parents, so he wanted to leave immediately and send the information to him through the words of his boss Xia Ke.

Escaped from her boyfriend’s parents’ "clutch" but plunged herself into real danger, and met a trafficker on the way to the suburbs to send information , The witty heroine escaped a catastrophe, but she sprained her foot and her bag was robbed.

Xia Ke transported Xing home, because he could not enter the house without the key, so he called his mother. At this time, the average family knew that their daughter was going to her boyfriend's house, and they were either worried about waiting for their daughter to come back, or rushed back early. .

Unexpectedly, when she got on the phone, Xing Yun's mother's first words were: "Girl, don't you know what time it is, is your mom sleeping in beauty sleep? "What a "big heart" mother.

But it also reflects the mother's trust in her daughter. She understands that her daughter will not do anything good, and she trusts her daughter's ability to judge and deal with problems.

If you are like Song Qian, Qiao Yingzi’s mother in "Little Joy", dictatorship and restraint the suffocating love, then it will not cultivate kindness like Xing Yun I know how to love my children again.

There are many ways to love. Knowing that you love your mother is the most direct way to teach your children how to accept and love yourself.

An optimistic mother who knows her gratitude

After her daughter was injured and "homeless", the boyfriend who mistakenly thought it was her daughter took her in and took care of her. Xing Yun’s mother prepared a table Meals entertain the future son-in-law and thank him for taking care of his daughter.

In fact, it was the male protagonist Xia Ke who really took in her daughter. Xing Yun only lied because she didn’t want her parents to worry about it, and her boyfriend, in order to help her lie, and because of her little-known cautious thinking, proactively said that it was because They were injured when they climbed together. At this time Father Xing could not sit still, and blamed his daughter's manYou let his daughter do a dangerous exercise.

and the mother Xing immediately rounded up and said: "It’s good for rock climbing! My girl has been at home for more than 20 years. This motor nerve has degenerated into a nucleus. Take her. It's a good thing to go rock climbing!"

This crisis was perfectly avoided under Xing's mother's optimistic and supportive attitude.

In the movie "July and Ansheng", July's mother once said: "No matter which way a girl goes, it will be very hard."

Since everything is hard, why not go optimistically? With a few more optimistic mothers like Xing's mother, the bitterness of the daughters will become sweet!

A mother with a sense of ceremony

I still remember that when Xing’s mother came out, she was blindly decorating the room with balloons, ribbons and candles, including dressing herself up as a "Christmas gift", which was opened by her daughter. The lights were all destroyed, and he fell off the stool.

It turned out that she was to give Father Xing a surprise, this is their anniversary. In Xing Yun's words: "You have so many anniversaries, love anniversary, wedding anniversary, moving anniversary, what anniversary is today?" Mother Xing replied excitedly: "The first anniversary of the Spanish holiday? ! Life must have a sense of ritual, it must be different from the usual days, and completely different from the usual moments.”

Next, Father Xing’s costume appearance is also a highlight. In fact, marriage should be like this. No matter how old, it should be you who are making trouble. I will stay with you, not just you Smiling, I watched.

A mother with a sense of ritual, who can live life into a poem, I can imagine she also deeply Affect her children. A happy marriage for parents is the best "marriage lesson" for children.

They are able to get recognition and love from their parents, and they believe that there is beautiful love in this world. It is worth waiting for and more worth pursuing.

First love is sweet, sour, bitter, and salty, so few can go to the end with first love, so the world owes us what first love , What we should expect is that the people we love now also love themselves.

And the world “owes” our mother, if we have not met in this life, let our children meet such a cheerful and optimistic mother who loves ourselves !

(The picture comes from the Internet)