On January 18, 2019, the Deng Jiajia studio suddenly issued an article announcing the divorce of Deng Jiajia and her husband outside the circle. The official announcement is very concise: Deng Jiajia has peacefully broken up with her husband and ended the marriage relationship. Although the ending is regrettable, I am grateful for being with me.
When this divorce copy came out, everyone was shocked: When did Deng Jiajia get married? In fact, on November 19, 2014, Deng Jiajia ended the ten-year love run with her boyfriend and entered the palace of marriage.
At the wedding scene, it was also because the popular actress Lou Yixiao acted as the bridesmaid and the bridegroom’s vows were sincere. Deng Jiajia was moved to tears several times, and it was believed that the pure and pure love of the relationship sweet.
However, the sweetness after marriage did not last long, but within 4 years, a relationship of more than ten years was in the marriage and declared death, why not Embarrassing?
It is said that the reason for the divorce was that Deng Jiajia often went out for filming, and the husband and wife got together little and divorced. Gradually, they had differences and misunderstandings. In the end, they got out of control and broke up.
I have to say that many emotions can survive a long period of love, but cannot withstand the trials of marriage. 10 years of love can be talked about, but 4 years of marriage can't stand it for a minute.
In fact, this is not only the case of Deng Jiajia, Chen He and ex-wife Xu Jing are also the same. The relationship between him and Xu Jing, which began in junior high school, lasted for 10 years, but after only more than a year into their marriage, the relationship came to an abrupt end.
is that the passion in love cannot withstand the heavy trust and test of marriage,It is the reality and trivialities of marriage that have consumed the naive imagination of each other during the love period, we don't know.
The emotional experience of Deng Jiajia and Chen He makes people have to think of a classic saying: Marriage is the tomb of love.
But there is also a truth that says this: To love a woman, the greatest sincerity is to marry her.
humbly thinks that two sentences together are the truth about marriage and love.
That is to say: We have given each other a promise of marriage, then our sincerity to love each other has arrived. If marriage does not become the tomb of love, let us run it together.
Entering marriage does not mean that the relationship is stable and unwavering. On the contrary, when you enter a marriage, your relationship needs to be managed and kept fresh.
Marriage is the starting point of a relationship. Even if the object of falling in love and the object of marriage are the same person, the responsibilities and obligations of marriage will make this relationship a whole new journey.
When we set off on the road, we must be prepared to overcome all difficulties and dangers and reach the end.
Of course, the difficulties on this road are obvious. Therefore, we need to bother to operate.
Parenting children, husband and wife, filial piety to parents-in-law, handling family relations, every bright business, all tests our wisdom.
What's more, there are the hidden reefs under the surging undercurrents. If you don't pay attention, the boats of marriage will run aground on the reefs, making it difficult to move.
Therefore, to manage a marriage and move towards white-headedness, what is needed is the concerted efforts of both parties, consensus, and sufficient wisdom and a strong heart.
If either party loses the chain, the marriage will be unsustainable. Perhaps this is the truth about Deng Jiajia’s divorce!
It is said that Deng Jiajia, who was in a rising career after marriage, still focuses on work and often stays on the crew for several months. According to this situation, she did neglect her contribution to the family.
However, Deng Jiajia is a public figure and has attracted much attention, and all the troubles are in the eyes of the media. And his ex-husband is an outsider, and we have no way of knowing his behavior.
Therefore, people can only speculate on the possible reasons for their divorce from the limited asymmetric information. This is also somewhat unfair to Deng Jiajia, but it can only be so.
Because the final outcome is in front of you, no matter what the truth is, it is not important anymore.
The important thing is that we must learn from our failures and learn from the experience. It is exactly that sentence: to understand other people's stories, and to be alert to one's own life.
Therefore, marriage is not the tomb of love; marriages that do not manage business are.
To love a woman, the greatest sincerity is not just to get married; it is to be willing to go through the storms of marriage with her after marriage, to kill the trivialities of marriage, and to treat They are settled and never give up easily!
.
