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In 2007, the famous director Yang Dechang died suddenly of colon cancer. That year, his son was only 7 years old. At this time, his ex-wife Cai Ming expressed this emotion: "I knew his life was so short. , I am willing to divorce him sooner and let him enjoy his life.”...
Cai Qin also has a few words of self-blame It’s helpless, because in the ten years from 1985 to 1995, they were the real couple. To put it bluntly, Yang Dechang had an infidelity during his marriage with Cai Qin. Speaking of Cai Qin and Yang Dechang’s marriage, it’s really special.
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Of course, the special thing is not because they are all stars, but the platonic marriage made by her husband! Yang Dechang was born in Shanghai. When he was 1 year old, he followed his father to live in Taiwan. When he was a child, he was influenced by his elder brother and became interested in comics. When he grew up watching movies with his father, he had his own knowledge of movies.
So I was anxious to go abroad to see when I had not finished my studies, In 1970, Yang Dechang went to the United States to study electrical engineering at Florida State University . After graduating with a master's degree, he went to to study film course at the University of Southern California in 1974.After graduation, Yang Dechang went to as a computer engineer at the University of Washington in Seattle to engage in computer software design and worked there for 7 years. It is because he and Cai Qin have intersections in this circle. Tsai Chin’s debut song is very popular, "Just like your tenderness", after sang " read you ", " new love " and other songs have been all the rage, " after the velvet song ".
In 1984, Yang Dechang met Cai Qin during the filming of "Green Plum and Bamboo Horse". At that time Cai Qin was the heroine of the play for a while, and Yang Dechang was the director of the play for a while They both developed a good impression of each other. After establishing the relationship, the two people talked for several years. Then when Cai Qin was 28 years old, she felt that she was not too young, so she had a showdown with Yang Dechang
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What about this Yang Dechang? He is very talented in art. This is why he attracted Cai Qin. However, he seems to have his own doubts about whether to get married. At that time, Cai Qin asked him to leave the answer on whether he was married or not in the answering machine. Yang Dechang finally said six. One word: "How do you tell me to say?"
The discerning man just doesn’t want to get married when he sees this man, but he doesn’t want to let go.The last two got married in 1985, but before that, he told Tsai Chin, "Our love is pure. I want to try a platonic love, so that this relationship will not be mixed with any impurities." Because I don’t want to be constrained, I just want our business to develop very well. Let’s work hard together to devote our energy to art.”...
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sounds very tall, doesn't it? But to put it bluntly, it means only marriage or not love. At that time, Cai Qin felt that she couldn't find such a pure director in the world, right? In this way, the two people’s asexual life lasted for ten years, and when he was still intoxicated in 's platonic love , one day Yang Dechang told himself that he was going to divorce, because he had fallen in love with someone else. A pianist named Peng Kaili
It was also at this time that Cai Qin knew that he had been "lied". What kind of platonic love is simply because the other party doesn’t love him enough. After the divorce, Cai Qin suffered from depression and lost 15 pounds, while Yang Dechang marryed Peng Kaili openly and welcomed their son in 2000...
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Now it seems that Cai Qin has been pitted by a scumbag for a lifetime, and Yang Dechang instantly became the winner of life, but this is not over yet. Yang Dechang’s happy life seems to have just taken off, but in fact, his life counts down. It started. In 2007, he died suddenly due to colitis. Facing the trend of his ex-husband,Tsai Qin is not complaining or talking cold words, but loves him, and loves him. If I knew that he had so much time left, then I should have let go and let him be happy...
I have to say that life is impermanent. Unfortunately, Cai Qin does not understand that if her husband has not "occupied" herself for ten years in the name of deception, if the other party has not derailed the marriage and committed so many bad things, he might not leave. It’s so early, I can only say that karma is unhappy at all
Really, if you are together, you should cherish each other and don’t hurt each other. If you don’t love, leave decently, speculation will be overdrawn. It's your own blessing, so Tsai Qin's life, do you want to do it again?
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