Not long ago, the host Zhu Dan was spit out by netizens again, because his post on the social platform wrote "Mao Da" as "Nuo Da".
Recalling that Zhu Dan, as the host of Zhejiang Satellite TV , has much better hosting skills and business abilities than many hosts.
But nowadays, the career has not improved much, and netizens question their ability even if they are not moving.
And her love life, and her current husband Zhou Yiwei 's "not equal" mode of getting along is often complained of being too humble and losing herself.
A few imperative sentences: "I am giving you a step now. If you don't step down, you won't have this step later." Zhu Dan will never again. I dare not quarrel with him.
made a meal for her on Monday,Zhu Dan is full of happiness, feeling that not many men are rare to cook. She also showed off to her friends that she was fed 60 kilograms of fat during pregnancy.
Zhou Yiwei never gives Zhu Dan any anniversary, including birthday, but Zhu Dan thinks that as long as I give him it.
I drank a cup of milk tea with a female assistant on Monday. When he was hacked by netizens, Zhu Dan was the first to post a long message for her husband.
We all think that in Zhu Dan's world, Zhou Yiwei is the only one of her. This "loving husband" is always showing off her husband.
Because she shows how much she likes Zhou Wei, which is much colder than Zhou Wei. In an interview with
and Luyu , Zhou Zhou made a disdain to comment that Zhu Dan's filming was not his standard filming.
When filming " Gold Lawyer ", Zhou Yiwei also publicly criticized Zhu Dan for acting unprofessional and refused to cooperate with her.
Also in the title speech of " I am an actor ", Zhou Wei did not thank his wife Zhu Dan even more.
Zhu Dan’s "humble tolerance" has repeatedly made us feel sorry for her, but the reason why Zhu Dan became a "humble Dan" is largely due to her native family and the feelings she has experienced.
1. A gloomy childhood, worried about losing "love"
Zhu Dan was born in a village in the East of Shaoxing strong_strong_strong1 in 1981.
Zhu Dan's family is not rich, but the love given to her by her father and mother made her feel the happiest child, but this happiness came with her father suffering from tuberculosis when she was three years old And it was broken.
Because of fear of being infected, Zhu Dan was sent to her grandmother’s house and left the asylum of her parents. She did not live with her mother until her father died when she was five years old.And the hard life began from this.
In order to make a living and repay the medical expenses owed by his father during his death, Zhu Dan's mother worked day and night in the textile factory, but only earned 15 yuan a month, barely supporting the family.
During the stretched days, the mother and daughter squeezed in a few square meters of staff dormitory, eating the cheapest or picked leaves.
In order to save some money, Zhu Dan had to wear a pair of squeezed shoes for a year, until she squeezed her feet out of shape and could not bear the pain, she dared to tell her mother.
My mother remarried when she was nine years old, and her life of poverty has improved slightly. With the arrival of his stepfather, Zhu Dan once again had a complete family and felt the long-lost father's love.
And Zhu Dan has become more sensitive and humble because of this. She does everything carefully for fear of losing this warmth.
Once, because of the cold, her hands were shaking and she could not hold the workbook firmly. The teacher slapped Zhu Dan’s teeth out with a slap, and she did not squeak. The stepfather wanted to find a teacher for theory, but Zhu Dan shook his head. The forbearance of character makes stepfather distressed.
Because childhood is not easy,After going to university, she put in a 200% effort, worked-study, worked hard, and finally entered Zhejiang Satellite TV as she wished to start her hosting career.
2. The marriage of the flash marriage is only because of too strong professionalism
Many times, fate is destined to meet Zhu Dan, where he entered Zhejiang. The protagonist of the marriage- Lin Han .
Whenever I talk about the past with Lin Han, Zhu Dan always feels that the fate is very strange. The two are obviously from Zhejiang Media College and both graduated from TV. But there is no intersection between them. It was not until the appearance of the program " I love to remember lyrics" that as the host and producer, they met and knew each other and fell in love.
In Lin Han’s eyes, Zhu Dan is a really cute girl who often hums small songs by the office, whether on stage or off stage, he can’t help but want it. Take care of her.
And Zhu Dan also thinks that Lin Han, a talented and caring boy, is a person worthy of trust.So in 2005, the "golden boy and jade girl" in the eyes of this pair of people had a flash marriage in less than six months. The relationship from love to marriage was almost done in one go.
After marriage, Zhu Dan and Lin Han are still as sweet as they were before, and they work together in front of and behind the scenes. He takes care of her daily life carefully. She always takes his preferences to heart, decorates the study room he wants, and gives him the mobile phone he likes.
But the good times didn't last long. With Zhu Dan's popularity, Zhu Dan met at the C position in the platform, Lin Han could only sit by himself, and the name Lin Han by others gradually became "Zhu Dan's husband".
"Strong women and weak men" undoubtedly hit Lin Han's self-esteem. In addition, Zhu Dan, whose career is on the rise, now focuses on work and ignores Lin to some extent. Han's feelings, so the two have maintained their marriage for less than a year.
Six months of flash marriage, one year of flash marriage, someone asked Zhu Dan if you still love it? After the divorce, her answer was: We still love, but it is not suitable to be together again.
Maybe Zhu Dan loved this marriage ardently and devotedly. There is no right or wrong between the two parties, but the fate is over.
3. Talk about marriage and love,Ended in Ju Shao Li Duo
experienced a failed marriage with Lin Han, after Song Ke's appearance still did not change her.
In 2009, on the variety show "Super Leading Singer Contest", Song Ke met Zhu Dan, a girl who looks very good and strong on the surface, and started the pursuit. The two slowly get along Confirmed the relationship in love.
They bought a new house in Los Angeles. They seemed to be preparing to get the certificate. Friends around them were optimistic that they would go on and enter the palace of marriage and felt that they had found the right person.
In the interview show "Very Quiet Distance", Zhu Dan admitted frankly that besides Lin Han, Song Ke really wanted to marry him. Song Ke took care of her in every possible way. Very at ease.
As everyone knows, the ideal is still defeated by the reality. Song Ke and Zhu Dan in different places have no choice but to let go because they are often separated from work and emotionally weak.
The night when Zhu Dan was photographed holding Song Ke out of the restaurant, and then hugged and kissed, it was actually Song Ke's last time helping Zhu Dan celebrate his birthday. He had protected her, so she would have an affectionate move to hug and thank him.
She confessed very frankly that she had been in love with Song Ke, had been in love with each other, and had been married, but separated. This is her saddest part.
Regarding the breakup with Song Ke, Zhu Dan once said in an interview with Li Jing :
, suddenly, very, very suddenly A defense."
"That’s because you lack a sense of security. You will worry about others leaving because of a little thing." Exposing Zhu Dan's inner thoughts.
It is true that the death of her biological father when she was a child made Zhu Dan lack of father’s love for a long time, and naturally less sense of security. So in this relationship, she was afraid of losing, and in the end she had not reacted to it. lost.
For Zhu Dan, the passing of one after another made her almost forget the feeling of love,The man worthy of her humble contribution, entrusted for life, and reliable man has not appeared yet.
4. Meeting true love, humble pay provokes controversy
In 2013, Zhu Dan’s career developed into the field of performing arts 1span 3span _strong 4span 3span _strong_span 3 During the filming, Zhu Dan met his real son- Yiwei .
At the time when he was filming the martial arts scene on Monday, when he saw Zhu Dan, who was always tough, was crying because he could not shoot, he felt that the girl was weak and wanted to protect her and comfort her To encourage her.
It is precisely because of Zhou Wei's heart-warming behavior that Zhu Dan feels that she can truly put down her defenses to be herself and feel safe enough, so she slowly accepted him.
With the in-depth understanding, the two chose to get married after four years of love. After marriage, Zhu Dan gradually faded out of public view.Concentrate on returning to the family and set aside the work of hosting.
But it seems that too much time is spent on feelings. Zhu Dan, who was originally a good professional, has frequently "hosted rollovers" in recent years, which makes people feel that her humbleness is not worth it.
" I'm going to the Spring Festival Gala", Zhu Dan has called Ma Sichun the wrong name twice, "Wang Sichun", " Ma Siheng_span", which is "Ma Sichun"? It took a long time to figure it out.
At a ceremony, Zhu Dan, who was "face-blind", repeatedly confessed Guli Nazha, Dilireba, and put Lin Yun and Zhang Lina. Shouting wrong, the scene is embarrassing to suffocation.
and then Chen Linong was also affected by Zhu Linong’s frequent host mistakes, and Zhu Dan’s frequent host mistakes made it difficult to escape the mistakes of Zhu Linong’s host. Nowadays, I rarely see the party hosted by Zhu Dan.
Some people always say that Zhu Dan lost himself after getting married.It is too centered on Zhou Yiwei, but Zhu Dangan is so sweet that he even urges everyone not to put the "humble" label on her, otherwise many brands are unwilling to cooperate with her.
Because she is too eager for love, too eager for a normal relationship, she wants to get married and want to have children, so she will worry about the departure of others and feel extremely insecure.
Zhu Dan is very satisfied with the current family and life. She was promoted to the second-child mother, and she was photographed on Weibo some time ago with a smile on her face. Full of happiness.
It is said that marriage is like a person drinking water, and he knows whether it is warm or cold.
Perhaps in the eyes of the outside world, Zhu Dan is humble in this relationship; but for Zhu Dan, now she is in the most comfortable position in the relationship, and there is nothing wrong with it. No one can say about feelings, and can't understand it. Only she knows whether Zhu Dan is happy, and it doesn't help to say too much.
wish Zhu Dan will be happy forever~
(Movie Rotten Tomatoes editorial department: p Nuan Nuan).
