Wen\Jiang Zuo Mei Niang
01.
Because of her ex-girlfriend Chen Lu’s real hammer, she recently announced that she has quit the showbiz.
Today I read the small essay carefully, and it is indeed a superb "tea art". First, let's interpret the meanings of his retreat declaration.
First, she took the initiative to chase me. I was very simple and ignorant at the time. The subtext: I was forced.
Secondly, she is just a dancer, and she can only give me a background on stage. I am a talented musician with great potential. I became really popular later, but she still stayed in the same position. , Subtext: She was not good enough for me, I am a gift to her now.
Third, although she has been with me for eight years, she has spent money for me, and also gave up her personal career, but this is all her voluntary and has nothing to do with me. Subtext: I am very charming, she is willing to break up now, not owe each other.
Fourth, when I say those things that are not popular in the group, I am just addicted to the mouth and have no actual action. Subtext: You have no video evidence, and it doesn't prove how scumbag I am.
fifth,At that time, I proposed to ask each other on Weibo to protect her and "love" (for the sake of popularity, don't many stars do this?)
Sixth, "There will be chaos after the breakup" ( Your circle is very messy. After I broke up, I’m already morally noble.)
We clearly see that in the chat screenshot he released, Chen Lu sent it to He did not reply to his breakup message.
A woman who has been in love with Huo Zun for nine years, a woman who has given up her career and future for him, a woman whose highest goal in life is to marry him and have children, a good wife and a good mother all Nine years, but when I finally broke up, I didn't deserve a reply from him.
She was dumped unclearly, and later learned that he not only empathized with each other, but also made a mess of things.
is tolerable or not? Chen Lu burst into the small universe, and one move would put him to death. Chen Lu also has a long response to Huo Zun’s tea words and tea words, mainly meaning that he also wants to start a new life. Huo Zun once again condemned Huo Zun’s idea of sending her to prison for ten years with 580,000 yuan, and explained it again. The money entanglement between herself and Huo Zun finally admitted that she had been in love with the brain and was naive, thinking that Huo Zun still loved her, but she also emphasized: People change, Huo Zun is changing, and she will not be stupid anymore.
Congratulations to Chen Lu,When a woman is not stupid, she can start to be ruthless. Is Chen Lu cruel enough? Sure enough, but is she too much? Not excessive at all. In love, it is better for a woman to be a little bit wicked than stupid.
02.
Some readers commented: "This is different from Wu Yifan. Wu Yifan is a concubine, and he has chosen someone under the age of 20. This is just a normal breakup! Just get some money if you have the handle."
Other people said: "Women, don't send anything to the public platform to ask for money from men. Men who are ashamed and schizophrenia are equally embarrassed."
I do not agree with the comments of these two readers.
First, is it normal to break up first? unusual.
Because of a normal breakup, for example, the woman had some fault for breaking the bottom line. The man felt that the three views were not in harmony. The breakup was normal. Between Chen Lu and Huo Zun, Chen Lu did not miss anything. On the contrary, She treats Huo Zun very well and has no fault. A relationship is well established. Just because you Huo Zun succeeded, you feel that others can’t match you evenly. You are Chen Shimei. Take responsibility for your breakup.
In other words, even if Chen Lu didn't mention any three million contributions, you should take the initiative to give others far more than this amount.
thought of Zhao Benshan and his wife Ge Shuzhen broke up.Back then, Ge Shuzhen did not dislike Zhao Benshan’s poverty. She married him. She was honest. In more than ten years of marriage, she gave Zhao Benshan the greatest support. Without the wife Ge Shuzhen, there would be no great success in Zhao Benshan’s art. Zhao Benshan is grateful for this.
However, after Zhao Benshan succeeded, he did find it more and more difficult to communicate with Ge Shuzhen, and Ge Shuzhen’s virtuousness was of no use. In the end, he decided to divorce only 100,000 yuan. , But Zhao Benshan left his 250,000 savings, a car and a three-bedroom house under his name to his wife.
Here is not to advertise how righteous Zhao Benshan is, but to say that he knows he is ashamed of his wife, so he has exceeded his needs. And Zhao Benshan also called himself "Second Brother Chen Shimei". He is morally flawed, he admits.
Zhao Benshan is not a hypocrite, because he has a conscience; but what about Huo Zun? Is the girl's 9 years of youth in vain?
Second, just get some money with the handle. Have you got it? No.
Not only did Chen Lu not get the money, she was almost sent to prison by Huo Zun. Is there such a bad boyfriend?
As Chen Lu said, she doesn’t really want money, she just doesn’t want to be broken up. She knows that Huo Zun has only 9 million on hand, so she deliberately said this, the purpose is to make Huo I don’t want to break up. To tell the truth, I believe this kind of brain circuit is that many girls who love their brains sometimes do everything in order not to break up, but what Chen Lu didn’t expect was,Huo Zun actually agreed.
If you agree, you should really cash it out, because 9 million yuan, in my opinion, is not much. If Huo Zun has a conscience, he should take the initiative to tell her so much money. Not after she had said it, she agreed first, and then threatened to send her to jail.
Maybe there is the "successful example" of Wu Xiubo in the front, so many men feel that they can not only consume women's youth in vain, but also don't have to suffer a little loss, and they may even want women to post.
Are all scumbags now evolved so badly? In the past, the rich and spoiled men liked the new and disliked the old, and were greedy for beauty, but in terms of money, they were very generous. Liu Luanxiong has been fortunate to so many women, but he has given enough money to every woman.
now? There was Wu Yifan who used a loophole in the law to trick the little girl into "love". Later, there was Huo Zun who wanted to break up unexplainedly, but he didn't get anything. He wanted to learn from Uncle Wu and planned to send a girl who was infatuated with him to prison.
man, you can change your heart, you can always abandon it, but you can't be without a conscience. Many people say that Chen Lu’s move to expose her privacy is "killing a thousand enemies and self-defeating 800", which just proves that she doesn't really want money.
third,Men are ruined, and women are embarrassed too?
Huo Zun retired from the circle, and he was indeed deeply affected by Chen Lu's exposure. If the man can't be set up, he can continue to play the old-fashioned boy's personality and make money frantically.
Huo Zun is not a big coffee. Many people say that if it were not for Chen Lu's disclosure, many people would not know who Huo Zun was. But he is not a big coffee, he is also considered a small coffee, and he is also the champion of good voice . On a Beijing media website, Huo Zun’s offer for a commercial performance is 700,000 per show, and the endorsement fee is 2.5 million a year.
This is all right, there is no way to make money, Chen Lu did a great job.
Some people say that Chen Lu is also embarrassed? not at all. The person who said Chen Lu was embarrassed was actually a double standard.
In the eyes of these people, no matter what a man treats you, a woman should accept it. In their eyes, this is also a normal breakup, so Chen Lu should not fight back. If it is true love, she should not To expose a man’s privacy, he should leave with dignity.
Otherwise, isn't your girl's own love affairs also known to the world? Are you so afraid of people calling you vicious to your boyfriend? Will anyone ask you for it in the future?
Look, many people still believe that women who are hurt by love and marriage are best kept hidden.Don't let outsiders know, otherwise there will be a sense of shame. It is best for a woman to maintain the virtue of kindness and simplicity at all times, so that a man will love her with such a pitiful posture.
Ha ha.
Chen Lu is a normal relationship, not a junior, not involved in other people's families, is a decent and fair love, there is nothing invisible to the world. What does it matter?
Huo Zun, what are the exposed records? If Huo Zunqing is innocent, without these "nonsense", will he be ruined?
On the contrary, Chen Luqing was innocent and exposed the affair. One did not steal, two did not snatch, and three did not cheat. How could she be embarrassed? Asking for money is also the second best thing to love but not to retreat. It is the deep resentment after being betrayed, and the affirmation of the value of self-paying. Who has lost this?
A woman was let down for no reason, and bullied naked, so why should she be decent and go away gracefully!
03. Mei Niang said
A successful man, if he can’t be the most loyal and loyal girlfriend who walks with him from micro time, he is most gratefulWith the heart to compensate, then this man is really full of moral flaws.
Morality is a barrier before the law. It should be the bottom line to prevent evil from spreading. If a man is immoral to the woman he loves, then don't blame her for turning her face and ruthless.
Regarding Huo Zun's withdrawal from the circle, some readers have always said that Chen Lu does not really love Huo Zun, otherwise he would not cut off other people's money.
Huo Zun’s problem is private morality. It should not be exposed. Huo Zun can sue. Huo Zun is actually very generous. In my opinion, the personal morality of artists is also very important. There is no private morality. An artist, even if virtue is not worthy, he should get out of the circle. Huo Zun’s refusal to prosecute does not mean how magnanimous he is. Wu Xiubo has sued. Is he self-defeating now?
Huo Zun's retreat is just a stopgap measure. His public relations team is thinking long-term. Maybe after two years, he took the opportunity to re-enter the circle!
Here, I still want to praise Chen Lu's "bad". To treat scumbags, the hardest thing for many women to do is "bad".
Isn’t Huo Zun bad? A thief dating in love can consume Chen Lu's youth without knowingly abandoning it, and breaking up unkindly and violently. Why can he be so bad? Women must understand that good things can't be flogged, but bad things can be!
treats his body with his own way,It is the best way to stop others from being bad to you.
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