Recently, "50 Kilometers of Taohuawu" was launched. This variety show has a large number of guests, up to 15 people, including Song Dandan , Shu Qi , Guo Qilin , Zhang Han , Zhou Jie , Mencius , Zhouye , Lai Kuanlin , Peng Chuyue , Lame Yoko , Wang Sulong , Li Xueqin , Su Mang , and 2 artists: Chen Chenchen, StevenOo. There are so many people in
, although they belong to the entertainment industry, but they are not familiar with each other. 15 strangers were invited by the program team to spend 21 days of collective life together. It was as disturbing as living in the same dormitory with strange classmates when they first entered college. The most urgent thing for
at present is to familiarize everyone. So, to integrate into such a group, do the stars have any tips for breaking the ice? As soon as
appeared, Zhang Han, who made netizens feel very sad, said that the key to his ice-breaking trick is "comfort" - you have to make yourself comfortable first, and then others will be comfortable.
Well, good idea , make yourself comfortable first, make the atmosphere relaxed, and then others will feel relaxed and comfortable with it.
It's just that Zhang Han's idea didn't come true. The queen of the sketch at the beginning was too straightforward and directly made the atmosphere embarrassing to the apex, Zhang Han was forced to become an embarrassing material. At the beginning of the
program , 15 actors appeared and entered a room and sat in a circle around the table in the room. The flowers and the souls with their heads raised are already in the sky, and the atmosphere is very delicate.
As the eldest sister, Song Dandan saw that everyone was so unfamiliar, and suggested to introduce themselves to each other. She was worried that others would not know what to say. She also offered a collection of self-introductions: first, what do I do, and then what do I rely on Yes, what has been achieved, and how did it come here in the end.
In the face of strangers, self-introduction is indeed a good way to get to know each other and get closer. In school , teachers often use this method to let students know each other.
just, the other actors seem to be a bit resistant to this approach. After Song Dandan finished speaking, no one took the initiative to introduce themselves. Some looked at each other, then bowed their heads and remained silent. .
Lai Kuanlin revealed his thoughts at the time behind the scenes: I don't think it is possible for a person to say how successful he was or how brilliant he was.
Facing the silent atmosphere, Song Dandan tried hard to mobilize everyone's enthusiasm, encourage everyone to take the initiative, don't feel ashamed, just briefly introduce yourself, but it's useless. In the end, the most effective method of "calling" was adopted to start the self-introduction activity.
Zhang Han, who was sitting in the first place, was unfortunately selected and became the first bird to come out. Then the dialogue that followed made the atmosphere awkward to the extreme.
Awkward dialogue scene:
Zhang Han: "I'm Zhang Han, an actor. Then, all the people here, I have done homework , and then I also know them all. No more."
Song Dandan: "You are What have you played? Are you a famous actor? I really don't know."
Zhang Han: "I have no name."
Song Dandan: "Look, then you are dishonest.You won't come here if you don't have a name, but you still have to introduce yourself. "
Song Dandan is very straightforward, she can say anything and ask any questions. It's just that her straightforwardness makes people less happy. As a qualified sketch actor, I don't know Zhang Han, a young actor who is not in the same line of work, which is understandable. But Saying that you don’t know each other in front of others is a bit too much.
Zhang Han, although young and not so famous to be known by everyone, he knows to do his homework in advance, get to know the group members in advance, and do things for the group life in the next 21 days. Work hard.
And Song Dandan, I'm afraid he didn't do any homework at all, and came to participate in the show.
is alive and can't turn off the show, so he can't avoid social interaction. A bit of a well-known person, a bit of someone who is sorry for who you are. Faced with this kind of person, either ignore it or make yourself comfortable. As long as you are not embarrassed yourself, it is others who are embarrassed.