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Recently, I have been following the TV series "In the Name of Family". The plot is a bit confusing. The two brothers returned to China, but because they have not seen each other for a long time, Li Jianjian's attitude towards them has changed. Although
is embarrassing on the surface, it can be seen that Li Jianjian still likes the two brothers in his heart, and in the latest notice, Ling Xiao and He Ziqiu confessed to Li Jianjian respectively. From Li Jianjian's reaction passed by
, it can be felt that Li Jianjian still tends to like Ling Xiao, and the final outcome is that Ling Xiao and Li Jianjian get married.
Personally, I think He Ziqiu is more handsome, gentle and considerate than Ling Xiao. Why does Li Jianjian prefer Ling Xiao?
01 The aftermath of love at first sight
Li Jianjian has always liked Ling Xiao.
This starts from childhood. The scene of Li Jianjian and Ling Xiao meeting for the first time, Li Jianjian squatting in front of the house to paint, Ling Xiao moved.
When Li Jianjian saw Ling Xiao through the window, he was already moved.
Ling Xiao was very handsome when he was a child, and he had a high-cold temperament. Since then, Li Jianjian has followed Ling Xiao's ass, taking various initiatives.
love there is love at first sight, although they were still very young at that time, but Li Jianjian's feelings for Ling Xiao have been established since then.
Ling Xiao's first sight of high coldness and mature made Li Jianjian happy, so in all the time since then, Li Jianjian has always regarded Ling Xiao as the male god brother.
Li Jianjian really listens to Ling Xiao's words, and also loves Ling Xiao very much. Li Jianjian's for Ling Xiao's is very precious. He cured Ling Xiao's loneliness when he was a child, even if Ling Xiao was fierce towards her , and no complaints at all.
And the foundation of all these efforts is based on Li Jianjian's love for Ling Xiao.
Love at first sight when I was a child, and two little guesses as a child, childhood sweetheart , this emotion has continued into adulthood.
Ling Xiao took the initiative to fight back when he became an adult. Naturally, he was able to conquer Li Jianjian's heart.
02 He Ziqiu paid too much
There is a strange phenomenon in love, The better you are to a person, the less TA may love you.
This is the case with He Ziqiu and Li Jianjian. Li Jianjian has always regarded He Ziqiu as his elder brother, and he always bullied He Ziqiu from the beginning.
And He Ziqiu doted on Li Jianjian very much, helped her to do laundry, help her to face the crime, all kinds of protection and sacrifice.
After growing up, He Ziqiu gradually found that his feelings towards Li Jianjian had changed. His attitude towards Li Jianjian was that he wanted to give the best to her. For example, after the first reunion, he would give it to Li Jian Jian made a large table of desserts just because Li Jianjian liked them.
When encountering some things, He Ziqiu also thought from Li Jingjing's position.
Even if Li Jianjian didn't speak to him gently enough and hurt him, He Ziqiu still didn't take it to heart, and he still gave to Li Jianjian as always.
A good relationship should be mutual. In terms of family love, He Ziqiu is already the one who pays a lot.
When it came to love, He Ziqiu was still in a state of pursuit and search, trying to give Li Jianjian the best things, moving her and dedicating to her.
But love starts with heartbeat, and liking is the basic color.
And He Ziqiu has paid much more to Li Jianjian than Li Jianjian has paid to him.
Even if they were together, the relationship would not last long because it was always on an unbalanced level.
03 Ling Xiao is relatively more mature and is more able to tease.
He Ziqiu is of course not bad, but compared to Ling Xiao, He Ziqiu is indeed a straight man, he doesn't understand girls' minds, and the love between men and women is a little late.
He Ziqiu and Ling Xiao have also gone through a lot. He Ziqiu is emotionally sensitive, and sometimes he will cry with excitement, just like a child, which makes people feel distressed.
and Lingxiao? Likes to hide all the pain, even if it is misunderstood by others, like his own armor.
From this point of view, Ling Xiao is indeed more mature.
In addition to being mature, Ling Xiao's most attractive point is that can flirt.
's words to Li Jianjian, "I'll marry you." already made Li Jianjian puzzled and at a loss. When
was leaving, he made a cryptic confession to Li Jianjian, and then waited for him to come back and wanted to be together for the rest of his life. After
came back, facing Li Jianjian's embarrassing response, he directly pulled up Li Jianjian's hand and recorded a fingerprint on the door.
Those actions that are cool on the surface, warm in the cold, and straightforward, really make people blush.
In terms of provocative skills, Ling Xiao is more like a mature sportsman, while He Ziqiu is a bit straight.
Summary
In fact, when we watch the drama, from the perspective of God , we will pay more attention to He Ziqiu's emotional changes and the efforts behind it.
But from Li Jianjian's point of view, she doesn't know the truth of some things.
Moreover, Li Jianjian has liked Ling Xiao since he was a child, and has an attitude of pursuing and liking Ling Xiao.
is only 9 years apart, making each other gradually estranged.
Li Jianjian's feelings for Ling Xiao were originally mixed with love, but he was still young and did not understand the meaning.
And Li Jianjian to He Ziqiu, it's just that his brother is so simple, he doesn't dare to go beyond it.
Today's discussion: Do you agree with the love between Li Jianjian and Ling Xiao?
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