How long can you focus on one thing?
I've been asking myself this question a lot lately. Maybe he is also lost in the tide of the times, or even about to drown, trying to grab the life-saving straw that can surface.
Losing attention to is already a common scene in this era. I see a metaphor: if reading is like having fun in a swimming pool of ideas, then surfing the Internet is like swimming in the ocean, never seeing the horizon. Sometimes you think you've found an island, but when you swim over it, you're dismayed to find that it's just a wave. Makes you feel more empty, and the only peace of mind is that there are a group of equally lost people around them, who like each other... slowly, like this group of people, has become a person who is drowning in in the era of .
Yeah, how scary. In the dead of night, we think about life, and we are full of energy to say that we will start working hard tomorrow, but within two days, we find that we cannot reach the other side, so our enthusiasm decreases and our mood is slightly lost.
asked again and found that the people around me seemed to be in similar situations to me, so I slowly gave up with peace of mind, decided to re-find the direction of my efforts, and set up a flag, those people who gave up like you, unanimously give you comments, I thought so too, so, your three-minute enthusiasm for has been exchanged for the worthless praise of a group of people who share the same smell of and , and you continue to work like this indirect convulsion silently...
People who are drowning in the era generally have these situations.
The first type: people who cannot master their attention
At work, in the past, the job at hand was given by the boss, and you only need to output knowledge according to the needs of the boss; Today, most of the time, knowledge is obtained from the outside by yourself. At this time, it is important to be able to grasp your own attention to grasp the knowledge from the outside. If you don't have the ability to tame your attention, your thinking and time will be shattered, and your brain will become a tofu brain.
The second type: unable to filter information , find the key person Is this information really supposed to be accepted?
What if several people have different opinions? There are endless online classes, books, and things that you can listen to, read, and do every day. What exactly should you learn?
In front of these, most people either have no idea what to do, or follow the trend. I learn what others learn, and I do what is popular.
But you have really analyzed from yourself, are these really what you need? The development of the
network has made the transmission of information simpler and more convenient, so have our attention and screening abilities kept up with the development of the times?
Judith Harris, a well-known American psychologist, said: "The way the Internet publishes information is like pouring ketchup from a bottle. It used to be too good, but now it's too much"
The third: no Understand the system, people who can't collaborate with strangers online
How many friends in WeChat have you never met?
How did you collaborate?
In an uncertain era with massive influx of information every day, it doesn't matter what the facts are, maybe the key is whether a group of people can work together to solve the problem.
Maybe in the near future, after the big data understands your core strengths, turn on the computer every day, and the program will automatically grab the most suitable tasks and the best rewards in the world and push them to you. You choose tasks and start working according to your own judgment, you have no idea who your employer is and who you are working for. The era of
is developing rapidly, and what we need to do is to make ourselves have basic attention literacy (distinguishing the true and false, participation, cooperation, self-protection awareness) , so that it is not easy to let ourselves fall into all the critics pointed out trap : shallow , gullibility, distraction, alienation addictive
We should master our own "magic of the times" in the trend of the times and become a real "superman" instead of being drowned in the times That kind of people.
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a post-90s generation who is struggling to take root
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I hope to meet you who are active and hardworking.
