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author丨Luo Facai
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A month ago, most of us who didn’t care about celebrity gossip didn’t know who Zhou Yangqing was.
And a month later, Zhou Yangqing became popular on social networks with his breakup letter to Luo Zhixiang that was comparable to an excellent composition template.
Originally, like countless melon eaters, I thought that Zhou Yangqing was an internet celebrity, at most a very rich internet celebrity.
Until two days ago, she appeared in another Taobao Internet celebrity's live broadcast room and watched a few clips. I was really shocked.
Zhou Yangqing, who appeared in the live broadcast room, speaks standard Mandarin, and there is no artificiality that most Internet celebrities are born or deliberately created. In the
public welfare session, she took the initiative to briefly describe the current difficulties of Pingshan County as an old revolutionary area. The whole process is smooth and natural, introducing the historical background, the geographical causes of poverty, and the improvement of today.
These words are not read according to the manuscript, because every year around the Spring Festival, Zhou Yangqing and his parents go to some old revolutionary areas to visit people in poor counties.
It is said that Zhou Yangqing, a Beijing native, has a very unusual family, and this knowledge is just run through her family education from childhood to adulthood.
After watching the live broadcast, a girl on Douban burst out with emotion:
originally thought she was just an internet celebrity, but now she feels more and more that the gap between her and Luo Zhixiang is heaven and earth.
This kind of praise for Zhou Yangqing has been liked by thousands of people on Douban, and the message is the first.
Going back nine years ago, the situation was diametrically opposite from to .
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Under Zhou Yangqing's social platform, there have been countless cyber violence over the years.
She is not famous, does not have a career that looks tall and has undergone plastic surgery... In the eyes of others, she is bleak standing next to Luo Zhixiang, the Asian dance king who has made countless movies.
At that time, the so-called traditional by fans of was nothing more than a talented woman and equal strength. If it was not an insider, the more low-key and even the purer the look, the better
- Zhou Yangqing does not quite meet these external standards.
Nine years later, after the breakup drama was staged, people re-looked at the couple with the values of today's era, only to find that the spiritual world of the two people is really different.
There was a popular saying a while ago:
If you are comfortable with someone, sometimes it does not mean that this person has the same interests as you. It is very likely that their personality, and emotional intelligence are much higher than yours. is backward compatible with .
Because of love, Zhou Yangqing has always been backward compatible with Luo Zhixiang.
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The educational level of the two people is not only reflected in the breakup copywriting, but also in the daily microblog.
Zhou Yangqing's trumpet once posted a lot of chat records with Luo Zhixiang, and now it seems that they are all too difficult to describe.
A Chinese who does not know how to convert the 12-hour clock and 24-hour clock. After repeatedly asking his girlfriend , he still does not understand. Because I like it, Zhou Yangqing, who was in , just thought he was cute.
Luo Zhixiang can't even calculate addition, subtraction, multiplication and division in the first grade of primary school. Zhou Yangqing also thinks it's nothing, everyone has their own aspirations, and it is good to use their strengths to support themselves.
At that time, Huo Qigang chased Guo Jingjing, learned simplified characters , and learned Mandarin.
Zhou Yangqing and Luo Zhixiang are together, because Luo Zhixiang does not know simplified characters, this Beijing girl changed all the communication software to traditional characters.
Even many of Luo Zhixiang's public relations Weibo are posted on behalf of her, because he can't say any cultural words.
One likes to read books and movies, one likes to hang out in nightclubs or have pool parties with a group of women.
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The understanding of money is also different.
Zhou Yangqing, who has never worried about money since she was a child, is not like some women who have received brand-name bags and jewelry and hid them safely in Luo Zhixiang's mobile phone as a mistress.
On Zhou Yangqing's birthday, Luo Zhixiang asked her what gift she wanted. She said that as long as she could go out with her to play, she would be happier than receiving any expensive gift.
Luo Zhixiang continued to ask Zhou Yangqing, the global limit is limited, you don't want it? There was bragging in the tone.
Zhou Yangqing is inactive: I have no interest in material things.
gave Luo Zhixiang a couple watch worth 7 million for his birthday, Luo Zhixiang excitedly posted it on the Moments.
And an ordinary wallet, Zhou Yangqing has used it for six years as a fashion blogger, and the button is rotten and reluctant to change it, just because it is the same style as Luo Zhixiang.
She wants Luo Zhixiang's loyalty and company. All Luo Zhixiang can give her is money, but she is not short of money at all.
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There is a deeper level, that is, a person's character and morality, which cannot be seen when the years are quiet, but when setbacks are encountered, they will be magnified a hundred times.
Jay Chou once opposed the "buying chart" trend in Taiwan's record industry.
After Luo Zhixiang was stabbed to the point of pain, he directly stood up to slander Jay Chou, and even praised the message that Jay Chou was a dog.
Zhou Yangqing's upbringing has always been to be himself in the face of gossip, but he should be grateful when he encounters kind people.
She used to be a fat girl, she decided to lose weight and had plastic surgery, she admitted it generously.
After being violent by fans on the Internet for so many years, there is no hostility in my body, and I always look at things on the optimistic side.
An evaluation agency, , once evaluated the quality of in countless online celebrity clothing stores, including Zhou Yangqing's clothing store. After the breakup, people from this evaluation agency took the initiative to stand up and say:
"The evaluation of Luo Zhixiang's girlfriend Zhou Yangqing in the past. I was surprised that she even replied to my clothing store, after all, everyone else just wanted to block me and threaten me with private messages, so I don’t hate her anyway.” In Hongli, only Zhou Yangqing stood up to accept criticism, instead of threatening to delete it.
Even though Luo Zhixiang's derailment and infidelity were discovered in February, she did not tear up her face at the moment, but quietly broke up and quit, not saying that her predecessor was not, she would always be upright.
And Luo Zhixiang secretly satirized Zhou Yangqing as having a facelift on the social platform after the breakup.
He is clearly the one who made the mistake, and the irony of this personal attack is confusing.
Personality has become the last straw that crushes love, and it also makes Zhou Yangqing make up his mind not to give him any face.
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and more.
One is an independent woman with a good education, who can face all kinds of external voices head-on, and always looks at the world with love.
One is a Uranus superstar who attracts fans by his appearance and personality. Apart from sweet words, he has no precipitation. He is addicted to the flowery world and cannot extricate himself. After experiencing setbacks, his first reaction is to slander others.
Spiritually matched, Luo Zhixiang and Zhou Yangqing are too far apart.
Zhou Yangqing's final letter to Luo Zhixiang, in such a state of anger, can still see the skill, there is not a single typo in the text, even the usage of "de", "earth" and "de" are all correct.
This year's Spring Festival 520, Luo Zhixiang, who has been depressed for more than 20 days, wrote a long masterpiece for her, but the writing is very poor. The language is not understandable, and she is also ridiculed for being a QQ space body.
The two have been on and off for many years, and Luo Zhixiang can coax her every time, but this time, after discovering Luo Zhixiang's perennial cheating scam, no matter how low his attitude was, the girl never responded.
She slept until 1 pm on 520, got up and made an appointment with her best friend to go shopping, drink tea, record Douyin, and participated in the Party in the evening, ignoring the small composition in the QQ space, and living happily. After
and Luo Zhixiang were together, Zhou Yangqing once said:
If the person who pays more is called the humble of love, then I am willing to have sex with the humble person.
Zhou Yangqing did pay a lot and tolerated a lot, but in fact she did not live a humble life.
Even though she has been backward compatible with Luo Zhixiang, who has poor spiritual world and moral values for so many years, she has not become a person like him, and she has not fallen with him in the three views.
It was only after she checked Luo Zhixiang's mobile phone that she realized:
Originally, we are not people of the world.
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There is an old saying about chicken soup for the soul:
When people choose a partner, it is easy to be moved by people who are "good to you", even if they have nothing or have bad deeds.
Never take "being good to you" as the only criterion, because this criterion will change. One day when love disappears and he is no longer kind to you, you will lose everything and only get a person who is useless.
Zhou Yangqing did not forgive Luo Zhixiang, and probably understood the truth.
Even if he wrote a small composition without numbers, it could not cover the vast difference in the values and morals of the two people.
There are still people who think that Zhou Yangqing will be soft-hearted, and may not be able to withstand Luo Zhixiang's recovery.
Who knows? Emotions are unpredictable.
But a woman who is not short of money, is educated by elites, and will visit poor households in the old revolutionary base area every year, will she really look back and forgive a boy who has been playing games with girls for ten years and never grows up?
returned to him and continued to bow his head to teach him addition and subtraction within 100 and Chinese, enduring the mental mismatch?
Maybe this time, she doesn't want to be backward compatible anymore.
