Overnight, people who are not concerned with entertainment gossip should have seen this scolding battle because is 10,000 :
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The incident originated from a music festival during May Day. Naiwan said in the talking session,
"Boys also have many dreams, they want to be players and gamers, but after the age of 18, their dreams are to buy a house and a car." " So I think we have to give our beloved Boys should understand and tolerate , boys should continue to pursue your dreams boldly, girls must be themselves, and everyone should be themselves is the real equality.”
This speech is actually written for Naiwan The "Boy" I've heard before is used as a background introduction;
's lyrics are written for the boys who had their dreams shattered in the process of growing up, so her words are actually quite relevant.
But when this remark fell into the ears of the audience, some people felt inexplicably uncomfortable.
Someone posted Naiwan's talking video on the Internet, and various opinions began to spread -
The public opinion continued to ferment yesterday, until the afternoon, Naiwan suddenly responded on the social platform: "You are really enough. ”, “If you enjoy and , please do so, but I will not back down. Because I did nothing wrong.”
This speech is basically an invalid response, because not only did it fail to explain the cause and effect to everyone, but on the contrary, it made more people angry; It officially turned into a two-sided war.
has seen all the way to the present, netizens opinions are roughly divided into several types. For example, some girls feel offended from Naiwan's point of view:
Boys have the right to pursue their dreams, but what does this have to do with girls' tolerance? Can you stop making so many demands on women ?
And Naiwan's identity is also quite special. Her debut is the result of many female fans who appreciate her and vote for her. So these girls feel the backstab even more: Why did
suddenly stand on the opposite side of women and demand rights and care?
There are quite a few people who support Naiwan, and some of them are mild. For example, in the retweet of Naiwan's response, someone called Qu for her, thinks her meaning has been misunderstood:
She also supports the realization of girls' dreams, why was she suddenly misunderstood and attacked? have a serious illness.
There are still many men, and they understand Naiwan’s speech to reduce pressure for boys. regards girls’ dissatisfaction as excessive punching and is bullying their own group itself.
Even the official blog of Hupu Pedestrian Street came out with a tag to support Naiwan.
Of course, the consequence is that everyone quarrelled again. Some people thought that the official blog of the pedestrian street was too deliberately overbearing, and they were hung up under the skin for a while.
In the evening, many rappers in who have a good relationship with Naiwan also came out to support her: , such as Pakett, made a classic remark to those who mocked Naiwan in : "First take the urine test, and then take the mental illness. hospital".
is also old-fashioned, and forwarded her response saying, "People who are inferior to in will feel that they are weak, and a group of ants can't have the vision of the giant , but instead attack the giant."
All of you above really exemplify what it means to talk too much and make mistakes . Because of some dad-like speeches, girls are even more disgusted by them, and the fire is getting more and more prosperous.
In the middle of the night, also set off another wave of online violence: A girl suffering from cancer sent an opinion against Naiwan on her account.
As a result, this sentence was posted by others. Netizens found out that she was a tumor patient, and there was a fundraising link on the home page. The girl immediately ushered in a wave of abuse from netizens, and many people wished her an early death:
0,000, and in the middle of the night, I typed 30,000 to the girl's fundraising link: "I wish you an early victory over the disease, I do what I should do. Yes, my heart is really right." After
was discovered, she admitted it generously, and wrote: "Come on, you can't put out the light in my eyes, you can't put out the fire in my heart", generally for the expression of wants to retaliate with virtue.
But more people feel that the donation is not appropriate - after all, Naiwan is tantamount to attracting traffic in disguise, but instead makes this amateur girl suffer more attention and harm.
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A speech at a music festival can elicit so many chain reactions, obviously far beyond everyone's imagination.
actually doesn't want to engage in the theory of victim guilt, but the reason why this speech is getting bigger and bigger is that on the one hand it just offends the topic of gender; on the other hand, is indeed because Naiwan's approach is very inappropriate.
Anyone who has been following her since the draft period knows that Naiwan likes to stand up and respond to various topics in person, no matter the big or the small.
no one talks about her, everyone thinks this is the normal style of "Kazakh people". In September last year, she publicly complained about her team, saying that everyone's "positions are messed up", which delayed the first recording of variety shows that she attaches great importance to; You first figure out whether you can bear the scolding or shameless."
This year, the major sports brands have caused controversy. She also confronted netizens because of the removal of "puma".
But before these things were fine, was because these topics were either innocuous or in the right position where nothing went wrong.
can't do it again this time -
she responded to once yesterday afternoon with and once in the middle of the night, but did not respond to everyone's questions directly, and she was always venting her incomprehensible emotions. The fans of
Naiwan also realized that something was wrong. Someone persuaded her under the comments, "calm down", say it well, and express her complete thoughts , but she didn't do it.
The reason is very simple, she thinks her own initial expression is not malicious, so everything is fine. But I don't understand that the call-to-action expression of will change in the process of dissemination, and must have limitations of .
In recent years, everyone has begun to feel nostalgic, and miss those living people in the entertainment industry who dare to speak, and like creators who have truly independent ideas.
But what ideas are appropriate to use this influence to express? In fact, there is a standard answer: help the disadvantaged, or call for changes that are beneficial to the general public, such as freedom and respect for different loves... These kinds of voices can not only call on everyone to change for the better, but they will not It is a good way to use influence to injure whose rights and interests by mistake.
is just ten thousand, ignores that the impact of his words on different groups is completely different. It will no longer become a simple lyricism, and will inevitably be torn as a target by the parties involved.
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Actually, I don't want to talk about this topic, because it is difficult for everyone to agree with the people around them, let alone netizens.
But since I wrote it, I don't want to please any group to earn traffic. Let's open our perspective and have a good chat with everyone involved: , such as boys, does have the pressure to buy living materials.
Naiwan's words really hit the hearts of many people, so everyone can't understand that even this kind of words should be opposed - many girls don't want bride price , but need bride price / families that require the man to have a room are also A lot, that's the truth.
I remembered a post I saw before, a boy said to a stray cat, "Can't you afford a house like me?" This post was later interpreted with many meanings, and some people thought he was talking to his girlfriend Yin and Yang weirdness. But I want to believe that the moment when the boy made this emotion was really a lot of pressure and didn't make him think.
So, there is nothing wrong with Naiwan's first half sentence describing the boy's predicament.
The girls who did not agree with Naiwan's speech were not aimed at the first half of the sentence. was entirely because her second half of the call was illogical. Actually it doesn't solve this problem. It's really not that as long as the woman doesn't talk to the man, it's easy. The differences behind it determine the root cause:
Many people probably never thought about it. Some girls can only get these things by starting a family, because they are very good at it. Difficult to be equally based on
. From the inheritance of to the employment environment, these resources are difficult to give to the girls in the family. When they were growing up, it was difficult for them to be treated with all their might by their families, and they were likely to face all kinds of discrimination and differential management after employment.
This is the reason why those who oppose Naiwan say, "We shouldn't put this blame on us" -
is not because of disgust Naiwan does not speak to women, but because boys have dreams, girls also have dreams, Even girls' dreams are more expensive to pursue.
Unfortunately, everyone is addicted to the current quarrel and . At present, most discussions have not touched this field, but they are completely covered up in the quarrel.
Small like conclusion -
Two positions, two sets of thinking. Because both sides of the war are destined to be unable to understand each other, because everyone stands from different perspectives, what you can see and experience is your own difficulty. The world of adults is like this. You feel that your ideas are mature, but because you stay in one perspective, you can't see more and more places. This is the meaning and value of being cautious about everything.
I advise Naiwan and other idols who are eager to express themselves, and talk less about social issues. Otherwise, you are destined to be unable to withstand the aftermath, and you will regret it.
