When the hit drama "Xiao Huanxi" came to an end, it left the audience with plenty of room for discussion and reflection. In the play, Fang Yifan’s family of four belonged to more discussions because their family was three. This family has the best parent-child relationship, and the most humane and pyrotechnic family.
Dad Fangyuan was evaluated as a perfect husband, high EQ, can talk, can handle a grumpy wife, and comforted his son in the youth and rebellious period.
His wife Tong Wenjie is regarded as the most humane "auntie fairy". She treats the child of her deceased sister as her own, responsible and affectionate. Although she always yells at her son 8 degrees high, she can be a little woman, and Husband acts like a baby and can also be the main heroine. When my sister passed away, he picked up his nephew. The in-laws were deceived and sold the house decisively for emergency treatment. They bothered their girlfriend Song Qian. This is the liveliest role in the play.
Son Fang Yifan is optimistic, kind, and generous. He will never be cold when he is there. Although he is skinny and has poor results, he is well received by the audience.
My nephew Lin Leier, sensible is distressing, the most important is the academic hegemony, so even if the Fangyuan family has the weakest economic conditions among the three families, the disturbances continue, but their family supports and encourages each other , Overcoming difficulties together moved many people.
Everyone asked, if you are a mother, choose one of Fang Yifan and Lin Leier, who do you prefer to be a son?
This question, the benevolent may see the benevolent, the wise see the wisdom, but I think if mothers choose to choose, most of them will choose Lin Leier, because In the reality of China's national conditions, who doesn't want his child to be a schoolmaster, obedient and sensible, nothing to worry about, but if he talks about future happiness index, Fang Yifan's happiness index will be higher.
1. The image of Lin Leier represents the expectations of many Chinese mothers’ sons
Lin Leier’s learning ability cannot be ignored He said that the one with the highest IQ among the four children in the play can remember all the flight numbers once at the airport. This is not cleverness, but talent.
He is very self-disciplined in his studies. He took first place in his hometown. He was still the first in Beijing. He is gentle and sensible. He is very planned and self-controlling about his own affairs. Basically, he does not need to worry about parents. Where can I find such a worry-free child?
Although people’s success is vertical and cannot be determined solely by their grades, before the college entrance examination, for many ordinary people, grades determine whether you can enter higher institutions of higher learning and have a bright future. The decisive factor is also a hurdle that seriously affects the parent-child relationship.
The scores maintain and destroy the parent-child relationship. You can find out by searching the news about accompany homework on the Internet. The purpose of accompany homework is not for good test results.
Students with good grades are loved by teachers in school, and even parents with academic masters will be highly regarded. I have seen my son’s Xueba classmate’s mother with my own eyes. As soon as she appeared in the classroom, the other mothers spoke with her in a different tone.
Teaching in university, I can tell my students that grades are not important, ability is important, but that is after the college entrance examination. Before the college entrance examination, as an ordinary mother, my son's scores can stimulate my sensitive nerves from time to time.
Although I don’t require my son to be the first in the exam every time, he must not be too low in his scores. If he can’t enter a university, he doesn’t have a degree. How can ordinary people counterattack?
2. On the future happiness index, Fang Yifan will beat Lin Leier
Fang Yifan will look like a standard student, It is a child who makes his parents a headache. Poor academic performance is his biggest flaw.
He has a lot of ideas and opinions. He thinks that ability is more important than study, so he doesn't want to work hard to study.
I don’t think Fang Yifan’s IQ is very poor, but he doesn’tHow he valued his academic performance, he would not feel ashamed of being the last one in the exam, nor would he be jealous of his cousin and Yingzi. This fully shows that in his heart, there is something more important than grades, so he will not take the initiative to study for his parents. , Unless there is a major change in the home.
He is good at communication, popular and flexible. Because his parents are affectionate and open-minded to him, he feels very safe when he is spoiled and grown up.
Regardless of his poor academic performance, he is very confident, has a wide range of interests, and has a strong psychological endurance. Such a character determines that he clearly knows what he wants and will work hard to achieve what he wants.
He has strong adaptability. Mom and Dad want to sell the house to pay off their debts. He immediately thought that he could use Lei'er's grade advantage to make money for others.
Yingzi ran away from home, and no one else could guess her computer password. He tried it and opened it. In addition to the tacit understanding between him and Yingzi, it also shows that he is very observant and moves his mind quickly.
Fang Yifan like this will have a very high happiness index in the future.
Lin Leier came from a small county due to the influence of the family environment and the early death of her mother. Although she has a very high IQ, she is somewhat nerdy.
Because he is under the fence, he is not confident enough, and he is not generous with people. He is a child who can tolerate and will not reject others.
In the play, Wang Yidi said that he liked her, so he wanted to make up lessons for her. Her mother paid very little supplementary lessons. In fact, he didn't feel comfortable in his heart, but he never showed it.
Tong Wenjie was pregnant and planned to get rid of it. He blamed himself for being unhappy. He felt that she was the burden to his aunt, which caused the baby to be aborted. Even if the mock exam is the first place, he is still depressed, Ji Yang Yang said that he was first in the exam but he behaved like the last one.
He was too heavy on his mind, carrying the wish of his deceased mother, and his mental quality was not good enough, so the college entrance examination did not show his normal level. Only reached the admission line of Tsinghua University, and did not enter the Department of Physics of Xinxinlian.
Such a child is often imperturbable, so his happiness may be weaker than Fang Yifan.
Fang Yifan is pretty good, but his grades are too poor and he is a scumbag. Before the college entrance examination, many parents should choose Lin Lei'er, because the sensible son of the school is more worry-free.
But from the experience of people who have passed, Fang Yifan's happiness index will be higher in the long run. So, if you were a parent, which one would you choose?
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