Children are the biggest weakness of parents in their lives, and they are self-defeating.
Since ancient times, there has been a verse of "children travel thousands of miles to worry about mothers", which vividly shows the concerns between each other. From the moment of pregnancy, parents' hearts are always placed on the child's body, any small move, Will make parents extremely disturbed.
A few days ago, Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing, who participated in variety shows, talked about the pain of many parents in the interview. Qin Hao, who is like a tough guy in everyone's mind, shed tears and said : Children’s social life is not as simple as imagined.
Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing chose a new school for Xiaomi Li. When Xiaomi Li first entered the school, he was a little uncomfortable and was bullied by a little boy in the kindergarten.
When Xiaomin returned home, he said to Yi Nengjing: A little boy squeezed her behind. As a mother, Yi Nengjing happened to see this scene. Xiaomin did not resist at all and did not know how to protect herself.
After Yi Nengjing told Qin Hao of this situation, Qin Hao, who was a slave to her daughter, burst into tears on the spot. Although many netizens said: Qin Hao is really an acting school, tears come just as he says it.
As everyone knows, Qin Hao's tears this time must not come from the show, but from the bottom of his heart. Every parent and mother cannot accept this situation.
Nowadays, children are grown up under the pampering of their parents, and they have more or less small social problems, especially for children who have just gone to kindergarten, they don’t know what kind of socialization they use Ways to get along with children of the same age. Therefore, when cultivating children’s social skills, parents may wish to use the following methods to guide, which will surely achieve a multiplier effect with half the effort.
【Secrets of cultivating a stable social life for children】
1. Cultivate an optimistic personality for children
If you want your children to have their own social circle,Don’t suffer from all kinds of cold violence. From childhood to childhood, you must cultivate your children's optimistic personality. Only optimistic and cheerful can they actively integrate into their own circle, even if they enter kindergartens or primary and secondary schools. Marginalized, optimistic personality, will definitely make them grow up in a healthier posture.
2. Teach children the awareness of sharing
In order for children to have a stable social circle, they must cultivate a certain sense of sharing. Even if there is only one child at home, don’t over-spoil it. Even if it is a toy that you like very much, encourage your child to share it actively. Only in this way can you get more happiness.
The deliberate cultivation of sharing awareness by parents is to lay a solid foundation for the children's future social circle and prevent them from hurting their hearts due to poor social interaction.
3. Encourage children to express their thoughts
For every parent, we must encourage children to express their thoughts bravely since childhood, and encourage them to speak and to be brave. Speaking out of the idea, only children who are brave enough to express themselves can be accepted by their peers. In the process of socializing with children of the same age, even if they cannot be the core, they can communicate well with others.
As a parent, you will certainly not worry like Qin Hao, or even cry bitterly.
4. Cultivate children's self-confidence
If you want children to have a stable social life, as parents, they must have a strong sense of self-confidence from childhood.
The source of self-confidence is not only a harmonious and happy family, but also the guidance of parents, especially when they are growing up, if they encounter any problems, parents’ positive encouragement and correct guidance,It will make them have a certain understanding of things, willing and believing that they are capable of doing it.
Once self-confidence is generated, their social problems can be largely avoided.
5. Give children certain encouragement
In the process of children’s growth, parents must give appropriate encouragement and make children believe in themselves. This is very important. When rooted in children's hearts, it will have a strong guiding force for them.
Although they have just joined the small social circle, they will also have many symptoms of discomfort, but through their confidence in themselves, I believe that they will be able to bravely take the first step, which is also a very critical step. Solve various problems in social interaction.
6. Encourage children to use their own methods to solve problems
When children are young, parents must encourage their children as much as possible, use their own methods to solve problems, and avoid helping children handle everything. Properly, this will only make them lack the ability to think and do it on their own. Once they enter their social circle, these problems will gradually be exposed, which will make them socially restricted and marginalized.
About O'Reilly said: Dreaming family will live a long time, but hard work will have a short life.
Social interaction is inevitable for anyone, even children, but if parents want to make their social interaction more free and autonomous, they must cultivate from the above 6 aspects from childhood to adulthood. Only in this way, they will not be tired of social interaction in their own life circle and can grow up healthily.
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