On the first day of the release of "My Sister", I turned on my phone and planned to buy a ticket to watch it. However, the moment I chose the movie, I clicked "Eleventh". I don't know if I can withstand the emotional impact of "My Sister".
These days, it seems to be engulfed in the atmosphere of "My Sister", opening various platforms, not "My Sister" clips, or "My Sister" actor roadshow clips. , especially the aunt played by Zhu Yuanyuan, the "listen to thunder in the silent" performance in the play and the indifferent calmness of the outsiders remind me of her role in the movie "Send You A Little Red Flower" I watched in January. Mother. Today, tell myself, go see Zhu Yuanyuan.
However, the story told in the film gave me a deep feeling, which made me look at everything on the screen again, as if it was true. Therefore, I heard whisper a pair of young people sitting behind me, what did they say? If An Ran is allowed to have a second child after birth, An Ziheng asked his sister "Why didn't Mom and Dad give birth to me earlier", that would not be a problem. If An Ziheng could be born into the world as early as possible without any obstacles, An Ran's parents would not be so indifferent to seeing their daughter.
I want to regenerate a son, but he intimidates his daughter to pretend to be disabled; just because An Ran is a girl, I definitely cut off An Ran's ideals. When An Ran’s dream of going to Beijing to study at a medical school was sent because of his parents’ arbitrariness, and after An Ran adopted the method of almost severing ties with the family, the parents almost turned a blind eye to their daughter. “On the deceased’s cell phone, there was only a little boy. "My sister", I want to say, "My Sister" weaves the drama of parental patriarchy to an extreme in pursuit of drama. However, some parents are gender-discriminatory and have nothing to do with the family planning policy.
My grandma gave birth to 8 children in her lifetime,Four men and four women. I was taken home from my grandma to elementary school. Grandma’s 4 daughters are all married, two in Shanghai, one in Deyang, and the other in Xiangfan. Of the four sons of grandma, only the younger uncle jumped in the queue at the Heilongjiang Army Reclamation Farm. The others included my father. I also got married and had children, so I don’t know if my grandmother had patriarchal sons when raising 8 children after my grandfather died prematurely. However, the maids and uncles tell stories when they get together, so I know that the fourth maid is very good at school and it is possible to get into college, but when she graduated from junior high school, she was told that there was no money at home for her to go to high school and college. . The sensible Fourth Lady chose Minhang's Electrical Engineering School. After graduation, she was assigned to the Second Automobile Group in Xiangfan, Hubei, where she settled down until now. After I went home to school, I could meet her as long as the Fourth Lady went back to Shanghai to visit her relatives. Once she was sent to Shanghai to learn the technology of wire-cutting machine tools. In almost 2 months, I heard more than one time that others regretted her on behalf of the Fourth Lady. It's better to go to the mountains and the countryside. This time, there is no chance of going back to the city. The Fourth Lady said that she had nothing to regret. In the Second Automobile Industry, hairtail, apples, pears, etc. were distributed box by box, which is like Shanghai, and you have to pay a ticket to buy a fish. Is the fourth maid telling the truth? Then why does she have to purchase all kinds of purchases every time she returns to Shanghai? From 1.2 yuan a catty of assorted candies to white rabbit toffee, from 7.15 yuan a pair of pigskin leather shoes to woolen sweaters and woolen coats, every time I go back to Xiangfan from Shanghai, my luggage is heavy. Once, I don’t know which maid or uncle said, it would be fine if she was allowed to go to high school at that time. Grandma was angry at that time and counterattacked: Didn't she just jump in the queue and settle down after she went to college? This is also true, but wouldn't there be a chance to return to the city? It can be seen that my grandma's patriarchal thought is quite serious.
What? This incident is not enough to prove that my grandma is patriarchal? When I was young, it seemed that the whole family didn't live far away. My grandma lives with my parents and there is a small back garden in the house, and the window of the third maid’s house faces my back garden. The elderly wake up early. The first thing my grandma does when she wakes up every day is to sneeze, a dozen in a row. The first thing she did every day had to be done in the back garden, which made the third uncle a little annoyed. My dad asked my grandma: Why not sneeze at home? My grandma said that she would wake up her grandson.
My grandson is my younger brother. After I returned to my parents’ home from my grandmother, my grandmother’s balance was seriously leaning toward my younger brother for the care of our two children. How serious is it? The third maid and the fourth maid who went home to visit relatives could not help but say grandma: Your old man is too much. The grandmother, born in the year of Xinhai in 1911, had already driven west of Hexi. As the elder in the family, didn’t wait to see many of the details of my granddaughter’s past. I had forgotten them. The only thing I remember was that after I heard that I was going to take the postgraduate exam, The nose hummed: The little girl reads so many books, all for others, so what to read!
It is my mother who makes me taste the bitterness of patriarchy.
Now, my mother is already a patient, even if "My Sister" reminds me of many sad pasts, I don't have the qualification to find someone to reason. However, my 80-year-old dad is still physically and mentally clear. Not long ago, I asked him: Do you know that my right ear has been injured?
I remember something that happened when I was four or five years old. For some reason, a kid stuck a bamboo stick into my right ear. The blood was immediately dripping and the pain made me stay awake all night. After that, this ear became a siren for my body. Either it became inflamed and pus, or it swelled up and then I would catch a cold and fever...
Listen to my question, dad thought about it, He shook his head and said that he didn't know.
However, compared to the conflict between me and my mother, my dad didn't know that my ear was injured, so it was nothing. Where did the conflict arise? When I was young, it was a bottle of milk that would never belong to me. When I grew up, when I was at a loss, I asked her to help me, but she categorically rejected it... These past events are nothing to mention, just like a colleague who grew up with my grandmother’s parents. As said, "For reason, my mother makes any request to me, as long as I can do it,I will do it. However, it is impossible for me to take my mother's arm and go out for a walk. "_Strong9strong
Based on the movie "My Sister", such as "After the second child is opened, the situation like Enron will probably not reappear", I cannot agree. It is precisely because the second child is opened, the parents of the two-child family are here. When raising children, you can't help being biased, which is probably unavoidable. Therefore, it is very good to have a movie like "My Sister" released at this moment. Strong8strong can remind parents of two-child families to always be vigilant and try their best Avoid being close to the child, because the inadvertent behavior of the parents may cause lifelong harm to the child. Just one example: the child who is neglected, especially the girl, will encounter it after adulthood. First love will choose to marry and escape from the original family. Who can be so lucky? First love is their happiest home!
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